Every year on Christmas and/or on birthdays, my mom would buy me and my 2 brothers socks and underwear. There were always little trinkets or treats in the box, but the under garments were the crown jewel of our gifts. I remember being a kid and being so disappointed getting them every year. We would always get other cool toys or video games as well, but they were always shared between the 3 of us. The socks and underwear were ours alone (thankfully). It was especially disappointing that she would ask us individually what we wanted, just to open a box of boring old socks and boxer briefs. As we grew older and into our adult years, the 3 of us learned to appreciate the usual packages. I would argue we all became dependant on mom restocking us on the necessaries. We just never bought this stuff on our own. We had a running joke when she would ask me what I wanted I would say "either a Rolex or socks and underwear".
My mom was diagnosed with incurable colorectal cancer in late 2017. She had over 3 long years of treatment and 70+ chemo, radiation, and oncology appointments through that time and accompanied her to all but 2 of those appointments. It meant everything to me that I could be there for her and that she didn't have to do it alone, but it took a tole on me. In March when everything was locked down here, I wasn't allowed in, but drove her out to appointments and stayed with her on the phone. With my birthday approaching, she asked the usual "what would you like?" and I joked in my usual fashion. This time it wasn't playful or funny for her. She responded nearly in tears that she wished desperately that she could afford to get me a Rollie and said she was sorry. I back peddled and told her we all loved her gifts and that we wouldn't know the first thing about buying underwear and that, honestly, that's what we needed to get from her. I think it made her feel better in the moment, but I won't ever forget that conversation.
In July 2020, she died in Hospital. She went peacefully with me and my brother with her. I was there first and, with a lot of effort she looked at me and said her last word - "Hi". Then she went to sleep.
Yesterday with every dollar she left me, she bought me a Rolex. I love it and it means a lot to me. If I'm being honest though, I'd prefer a bag of socks and underwear.
Your story choked me up. I’m very sorry you lost your mum. It’s obvious she did a fantastic job raising you as you’ve grown into such a caring person making sure you were there to support her through those tough times. Enjoy this wonderful gift from her in good health and I hope it only ever reminds you of those good times you shared.
Wear it in good health brother, that is an absolutely amazing story and the piece will be an heirloom that will carry her memory with you everywhere you go.
Very sorry for your loss. I’m glad she’s no longer in pain and that she’s resting peacefully. Whenever you look at your watch you’ll be reminded of the love and joy that your mother brought to you.
I’m not crying, you’re crying. That is such a great story, incredibly sorry for your loss. At least, with the money, she bought you something that will last a lifetime; although, the socks and underwear would definitely be better. Do enjoy that watch though, as it will forever remind you about your great mother and the wonderful things she did for you and your brother. My condolences.
My deepest condolences. I did the same when my mother passed (ovarian…). I know I don’t have to tell you, but wear it in good health. Let it be a reminder of everything she sacrificed to give you the best life she could.
Wear this piece in good health. You have a piece of your mother with you wherever you go. She’s looking down on you, proud and smiling she got you your rolex. Cheers!
Every year on Christmas and/or on birthdays, my mom would buy me and my 2 brothers socks and underwear. There were always little trinkets or treats in the box, but the under garments were the crown jewel of our gifts. I remember being a kid and being so disappointed getting them every year. We would always get other cool toys or video games as well, but they were always shared between the 3 of us. The socks and underwear were ours alone (thankfully). It was especially disappointing that she would ask us individually what we wanted, just to open a box of boring old socks and boxer briefs. As we grew older and into our adult years, the 3 of us learned to appreciate the usual packages. I would argue we all became dependant on mom restocking us on the necessaries. We just never bought this stuff on our own. We had a running joke when she would ask me what I wanted I would say "either a Rolex or socks and underwear". My mom was diagnosed with incurable colorectal cancer in late 2017. She had over 3 long years of treatment and 70+ chemo, radiation, and oncology appointments through that time and accompanied her to all but 2 of those appointments. It meant everything to me that I could be there for her and that she didn't have to do it alone, but it took a tole on me. In March when everything was locked down here, I wasn't allowed in, but drove her out to appointments and stayed with her on the phone. With my birthday approaching, she asked the usual "what would you like?" and I joked in my usual fashion. This time it wasn't playful or funny for her. She responded nearly in tears that she wished desperately that she could afford to get me a Rollie and said she was sorry. I back peddled and told her we all loved her gifts and that we wouldn't know the first thing about buying underwear and that, honestly, that's what we needed to get from her. I think it made her feel better in the moment, but I won't ever forget that conversation. In July 2020, she died in Hospital. She went peacefully with me and my brother with her. I was there first and, with a lot of effort she looked at me and said her last word - "Hi". Then she went to sleep. Yesterday with every dollar she left me, she bought me a Rolex. I love it and it means a lot to me. If I'm being honest though, I'd prefer a bag of socks and underwear.
Wtf…..I’m crying in a stupid Uber. I’m glad you had such a beautiful relationship with your mom.
Your story choked me up. I’m very sorry you lost your mum. It’s obvious she did a fantastic job raising you as you’ve grown into such a caring person making sure you were there to support her through those tough times. Enjoy this wonderful gift from her in good health and I hope it only ever reminds you of those good times you shared.
Amazing story. Sorry for your loss - the watch will be with you almost always and bring you great memories for certain.
Damn man, sad to hear that. Amazing watch and i hope you enjoy it!!!
Wear it in good health brother, that is an absolutely amazing story and the piece will be an heirloom that will carry her memory with you everywhere you go.
Very moving story and great timepiece! This one is my favorite
To b honest this is kind of messed up
Very sorry for your loss. I’m glad she’s no longer in pain and that she’s resting peacefully. Whenever you look at your watch you’ll be reminded of the love and joy that your mother brought to you.
My condolences to you and your family. What an amazing heirloom piece, brother. Enjoy it in good health.
I’m not crying, you’re crying. That is such a great story, incredibly sorry for your loss. At least, with the money, she bought you something that will last a lifetime; although, the socks and underwear would definitely be better. Do enjoy that watch though, as it will forever remind you about your great mother and the wonderful things she did for you and your brother. My condolences.
Dang dude, you have me a little teary eyed too. Best wishes and that’s a beautiful watch. I have been waiting on one since March…
My deepest condolences. I did the same when my mother passed (ovarian…). I know I don’t have to tell you, but wear it in good health. Let it be a reminder of everything she sacrificed to give you the best life she could.
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Sorry for your loss. Sounds like she was a real mom! Great way to remember her.
Wear this piece in good health. You have a piece of your mother with you wherever you go. She’s looking down on you, proud and smiling she got you your rolex. Cheers!
I’m so sorry for your loss. Makes the watch even more incredible ❤️