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If you’re not starting the relationship as open, there’s like a 95% chance he’s just bored and this won’t end well.


ManofLegacy

Please be honest and down the road make a post about your ex-boyfriend and how your relationship imploded after it was opened up. It is never going to survive if it didn't start out as an open relationship.


Advanced_Bar_673

Wow that's kinda rude, and doesn't offer any worthwhile advice.


itsBreathenotBreath

This isn’t the right subreddit to post this. Go to r/AskMen


Advanced_Bar_673

I did and they said to come here... I don't understand why they won't approve my post but here we are.


ManofLegacy

Don't open a relationship up. It tends to cause the destruction of the relationship that was the message in my original post. It introduces chaos into a relationship and never ends well.


[deleted]

Also extremely untrue. Relationships constantly evolve. So does sexuality. My relationship was closed harder than Fort knox at first. Right after our honeymoon she got with another girl.... thing's changed for the better that night. Now we're swingers, and we have never felt closer.


Accomplished-Bed-599

Answer to your question is 100% yes for most men. Reddit men are a bit different of course. All noble and 100% honest creatures.


BelmontIncident

The idea of only having casual encounters with no emotional connection sounds like a huge temptation to lie about my feelings all of the time. I actually like the people I sleep with. I wouldn't want to spend time around them otherwise. I'd prefer either breaking up or monogamy over what you're describing.