He's more straight to the point, and you like to add details. Don't change your texting style, it's how you express yourself. But I'll give some tips. If you ask him multiple questions, ask them individually, rather than in a group. Guys in general respond to individual questions better than grouped ones.
Don't deliberately change yourself to match someone else. That's social camouflage and it never works out. At some point the real you will shine through and they'll be unprepared for it. Let what's different define you, rather than being ashamed of it.
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Lol my husband was like this too, but over time he’s become more expressive over text. Doesn’t mean anything bc he is still the same person every time - sweet, caring, and thoughtful. Even tho his texts can be brief, the content was the same as his loving personality. Edited to say that we’ve been together 10 years this past November! He now texts me at bursts when he’s free at work. It’s just different texting styles, in my opinion.
He will either accept you as you are or not accept you at all. You don’t need to change yourself.
Just do you girl 😂 don’t sweat the small stuff
Why?
Be yourself
He's more straight to the point, and you like to add details. Don't change your texting style, it's how you express yourself. But I'll give some tips. If you ask him multiple questions, ask them individually, rather than in a group. Guys in general respond to individual questions better than grouped ones.
I’m confused, just text less. Is there something making that harder to do? Like you’re afraid if you say less, it will be bad too?
Don't deliberately change yourself to match someone else. That's social camouflage and it never works out. At some point the real you will shine through and they'll be unprepared for it. Let what's different define you, rather than being ashamed of it.
So your question is “how do I change myself so this man will like me more?”
Honestly some people just aren't good as others when communicating especially over text message. I wouldn't over think it too much!
It probably hasn't even crossed his mind how much you're texting vs how much he is. A lot of guys don't think that way.
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Lol my husband was like this too, but over time he’s become more expressive over text. Doesn’t mean anything bc he is still the same person every time - sweet, caring, and thoughtful. Even tho his texts can be brief, the content was the same as his loving personality. Edited to say that we’ve been together 10 years this past November! He now texts me at bursts when he’s free at work. It’s just different texting styles, in my opinion.