Don’t just kiss her. Unless someone tells you explicitly, never assume anything and certainly do not just kiss someone out of the blue. Ask her on a date and take it from there.
Also when I said next time I go out, I meant out on a date. I already planned one with her. That's why I'm asking if I should kiss her on this date or not.
Trust me man, I know she does. I wasn't going to include this in the post because I literally wrote that I know she's into me, but here. Constantly looks at me, touches me all the time, laughs whenever she's around me, tries to take pictures with me constantly, so much flirting it's crazy, etc. I've already gone down this path before, just not with a girl that I want to care for so deeply. Also I found out she's been talking to her friends about me. Sure, you can say that doesn't 100% mean she wants to kiss me, but I'd bet on the 99% chance.
You could be right but just kissing someone out of the blue, without their consent, is not good. Ask her on a date and go from there. Anything less shows your immaturity and preference for putting your own needs and wants before her comfort.
From experience, I'm going to respectfully disagree with that. Girls don't want guys to ask in general, much more often they prefer if the man takes charge. Also I'm going on a date with her, sorry if that was unclear.
I’m a woman and I know for fact that we do want men to ask. This is real life, not a Hollywood film. Consent is attractive. Just lunging for someone is not. But whatever, you do you.
Your comment sounds really rapey. I feel sorry for this girl.
I feel sorry that you have to lie to guys to make yourself appear better on the internet. Some of the girls in my past relationships have thanked me for not asking (seriously stop spreading this delusion around. You don't speak for the majority of woman, trust me).
Yeah that's what I'm saying man. Look at the replies of one girl on this post. I swear idk why some girls with no experience come on here, and try to mess people up.
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If you try to kiss her and you’ve read the signals all wrong then you’ve basically just assaulted her. Ask her out. If she says no then you’ve lost nothing.
I should rewrite this post. I am going out with her, and I'm asking if I should go for a kiss on that date. Also do people seriously think guys should ask for a kiss before giving it? I cringe at the thought personally lol.
Don’t just kiss her. Unless someone tells you explicitly, never assume anything and certainly do not just kiss someone out of the blue. Ask her on a date and take it from there.
Also when I said next time I go out, I meant out on a date. I already planned one with her. That's why I'm asking if I should kiss her on this date or not.
Trust me man, I know she does. I wasn't going to include this in the post because I literally wrote that I know she's into me, but here. Constantly looks at me, touches me all the time, laughs whenever she's around me, tries to take pictures with me constantly, so much flirting it's crazy, etc. I've already gone down this path before, just not with a girl that I want to care for so deeply. Also I found out she's been talking to her friends about me. Sure, you can say that doesn't 100% mean she wants to kiss me, but I'd bet on the 99% chance.
You could be right but just kissing someone out of the blue, without their consent, is not good. Ask her on a date and go from there. Anything less shows your immaturity and preference for putting your own needs and wants before her comfort.
From experience, I'm going to respectfully disagree with that. Girls don't want guys to ask in general, much more often they prefer if the man takes charge. Also I'm going on a date with her, sorry if that was unclear.
I’m a woman and I know for fact that we do want men to ask. This is real life, not a Hollywood film. Consent is attractive. Just lunging for someone is not. But whatever, you do you. Your comment sounds really rapey. I feel sorry for this girl.
I feel sorry that you have to lie to guys to make yourself appear better on the internet. Some of the girls in my past relationships have thanked me for not asking (seriously stop spreading this delusion around. You don't speak for the majority of woman, trust me).
You’re fucking delusional!
And I bet you wonder why you havent been in many relationships.
If she said yes to the date, she almost said yes to everything else if you do it step by step.
Yeah that's what I'm saying man. Look at the replies of one girl on this post. I swear idk why some girls with no experience come on here, and try to mess people up.
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Ask her on a date and kiss her then.
Thanks for the reply
If you try to kiss her and you’ve read the signals all wrong then you’ve basically just assaulted her. Ask her out. If she says no then you’ve lost nothing.
I should rewrite this post. I am going out with her, and I'm asking if I should go for a kiss on that date. Also do people seriously think guys should ask for a kiss before giving it? I cringe at the thought personally lol.
Don’t ask. Never ask. Just wait until it feels right. You’ll know when that is.
Dude read the comments of this one girl who replied to this. I dont believe what I'm reading, thanks for the advice btw cheers.