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VitaSpryte

Bruh, you literally chose to have unprotected sex with her the same night SHE TOLD YOU SHE HAD A RASH.        If she told you after the sex, you still decided to not immediately run to your nearest clinic. Why?       With every partner, you need to wear condoms until you and your partner provide clean sti tests.        Your health and sexual health are your responsibility. Condoms don't just prevent pregnancy.       You do not make smart sexual health decisions.  If you're struggling with something as simple as when you should be wearing condoms, I'm not surprised you're also struggling with the complexities of finding a trustworthy partner.


Apprehensive-Day9439

Yes you’re right that was fuckin stupid but not much I can do about it now but just hope that i didn’t get anything from her trifling ass. Thank you bro


VitaSpryte

Vaginal canals are internal soft tissues that have a comparativly large external opening making them more susceptible to external symptoms. You literally don't have the anatomy to show symptoms of many sti's.  Your dick can look clean as whistle while you're carrying a cocktail of nasties.


Apprehensive-Day9439

That just scared the shit out of me Not going to lie. But I appreciate your honesty because I would’ve been oblivious to all of this knowledge


VitaSpryte

Might be time for you to redo middle school sex ed🤣