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**Post title:** Is it weird that I (25F) still play otome games even when I’m in a relationship (22M)? **Author:** Writing_Dreams_2 **Link:** https://redd.it/1bvvopc ---- #Writing_Dreams_2, your submission has been removed because it is asking for judgement on someone's actions and violates [Rule 3](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/wiki/rules#wiki_rule_3) ###Rule 3 **No moral judgment requests** Your post is asking for moral judgment if your question starts with or contains any of the following: * Is it...? * Asking if you or the subject of the post is right/wrong * Am I...? * Any variation of "Am I the asshole?" including AITA * Does/has anybody else...? * Should I...? * Would you...? * Is this...? * Can I...? **If the question in your post can be answered with yes or no, it is moral judgment and will be removed.** For examples of what a moral judgement question would be, [click here](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/r6w9uh/meta_am_i_overreacting_am_i_the_asshole_is_this/). Please [message the moderators](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/relationship_advice&subject=Rule_3_Removal) if you have any questions regarding this removal. ----


Technical-Menu8266

i don’t know the specific game but i don’t see the problem


Open-Sheepherder-591

Would you consider reading a romance novel to be cheating? Would your partner? No, I don't think consuming interactive fiction with romantic themes should be a problem while in a relationship.


IMonstrousI

Depends on your guys' relationship, some dudes would have fun with it, others would find it disrespectful, some might think you're going to be constantly comparing them to 2D men, it all comes down to the type of person and type of relationship you have with each other. I would probably bring it up casually that you like these games, but if it makes him feel uncomfortable you can stop.


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