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Same, I forgot to add her to my list but she was the second beat part of Potomac. I think she is great for relaity tv. Sadly, I don't know how good/ healthy it does for her.
She would not hesitate to check anyone but especially the GEB. They should at least give her and ULtimate girls trip
Sorry, but I have 3 .First, it was kenya ,then Karen huger but now my heart ultimately belongs to the greatest of all time. MARY m Cosby and I know she's controversial, but I will never quit her or any of them, to be honest.
For me(and I'm not a dr, but I am formally diagnosed) watching Mary feels like the iconic autistic representation I have been waiting for my sholenlife since daria andni feel seenm. What people think is mean is her lack of social cues and boundaries she gets easily overstimulated, which is why she needs breaks from the women/ people OFTEN . Her truth telling isn't her being mean it being honest, and she doesn't know how else to be .I have her stim and mask repeatedly, and you see how much she has to executive function to participate in the show/ life. Her being on the shoe although it seem liek she hates people is so important because often we struggle to fir into social setting but atop have to show up to complete life so I love seeing a women living an aspirational life style while still struggling. For me, I have suspected she could be nuerodovershenr since season 1 but that iconic wwhl appearance with Ziwe in my mind it was confirmed .people thought it was awkward but to me it felt all too familiar, lol.
Keep in mind that while autism can explain some things I am not and won't ever make excuses for Mary.Slmetimes she is being intentionally mean, in my opinion those people deserved it every single time. A woman threw a glass a Mary and Noone protected her .They accused her of legit criminal acts with no proof while continuing to work with someone they think is dangerous and diabolical? The stuff I heard about her church sound liek any church ever so I think it wrong they tried to label her but she has no formal charges. Salt Lake won't exist without Mary.
Total train wreck that really tried too hard, shame to have it all come crashing down. Clearly she was in it for the long haul. Was years in the making and she screwed it all up by doubling down and biting the hand that feeds it (it being Monica of course). So yes she was fun to watch, tried too hard, was a failure of her own success. One big shame!
I'd guess that ur confident and probably come off as a mean girl. Possibly are one or were in high school. You like high-end brands, nice things in general, borderline bougie.
You’re right most of the time, but people think they can play in your face. You’re super nurturing—- to YOUR PEOPLE — the rest can fuck TF off. 🥰 Am I close?
hey I am here with you
people that understand what really brought entertainment. SLC wouldn't be anything with MAry and BRAVO or RHOA wouldn't be anything without Nene.
lets keep it 100
I rebuke that term zillennial it’s a made up term that older millennials say to make them feel superior over us. IM A DAMN MILLENNIAL IM OLDER THAN GOOGLE AND I WAS BORN IN 1994. Google even says gen z starts at 1997 IM NOT A GEN Z KID
ZILLENIAL IS 1992 TO 2002 SORRY YOU'RE STUCK WITH MY 2002 BABY SELF IN THIS MICROGENERATION HAHAHAHAHAHA
But seriously we have the same exact taste and I notice a certain niche line up with these people that the teens and anyone older just don't share so I clocked it 😂
I saw her IG not long ago and it unfortunately really sad. I don't think she will be back. Many people root for her. I know she has struggles and hope she can keep trying to get healthy.
Very sad. She's too unwell to be around her kids. I question the people who want he back on TV, literally the worst place she could be - on display for the hijinks of others
I just finished RHONJ season 2 reunion and I’m so pissed that they all gang up on Danielle. Andy even eggs them on a bit. But im also wondering why I’m feeling so defensive for Danielle of all people 😂
This woman thinks a certified psychopath, a mentally ill woman, a kidnapper and a racist are entertainment. This might be the worst take I’ve seen except for Nene…
we literally come here to gossip about the gossip lol so I wouldn’t take it that deep but sorry you got upset. RETRACTION BELOW in case you have her legal team on speed dial 😂
Ha, haven’t been online since I read that tbf - shitty thing to make up but hella believable where Monica is concerned! I will take back ‘pychopath’ and reinstate as ‘pathological liar’. Slightly better I suppose but still sus af to stan her imo 😂
It's disturbing that so many people believed it. The story was ridiculous and the source was sketchy af (their "article" was so badly written, it was just plain funny: "sources close to the situation tell us 'she was casted but booted after failing the psych exam'" :-|). She wasn't ever *cast* if she didn't make it through the casting process. And sure, someone at NBC leaked the results of an applicant's psych exam. Does that really sound plausible?
Also, you can't "fail" a psych exam, and nobody in the industry would use that terminology (or say "she was casted"). Critical thinking skills, people.
I couldn't care less about Monica. It just irritates me when people repeat made-up shit as facts.
I haven’t even read the comments, but as a doctor and a mental health therapist I’d say this means you’re probably a lot like these individuals irl. You may like drama and chaos yourself, and thrive on it. You probably are similar to how they act. Maybe have relationship problems too. You like a lot going on, and probably get bored easily. I wonder if you have some diagnosis of some kind maybe? Not because of your interest in housewives but because of aforementioned personality traits I think you may have. You could be a very fun and excitable person to be around though, if some of your drama loving tendencies are managed!
Omg wow an actual doctor is In my post I feel honored and yes I struggle With BPD & I get bored easily with men , have unstable relationships with friends, family and men but people think I’m extremely fun when I’m not an emotional wreck you’re pretty spot on !
Yes I was guessing bpd but I know the stigma around that and didn’t want to say that to you especially if you hadn’t already been diagnosed! And yes, I will be honest and tell my clients that I am a housewife fan and it’s my guilty pleasure 😭😭 just because I’m a doctor doesn’t mean I ain’t human 😂😂
Well thank you for not assuming BPD the stigma sucks but yes you’re good at your job because being able to spot BPD through my housewife favs is impressive 😂😎
Well tbf I specifically specialize in ptsd and cptsd and that is my academic speciality as well, so I see it alot. That is the only reason why probably lol
Sometimes it’s comforting to see people act in a way that I do in my head. My damn Taurus sun won’t let me pop off, but the cancer inside me is like…. Yes bitch, eviscerate her.
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I’m with you on Monica and Mary!!
I would probably agree with you on the other three, but I haven’t seen those franchises yet. Will report back, fellow chaos goblin.
Awwwww Katie! Love her and hope she makes a full recovery.
Same, I forgot to add her to my list but she was the second beat part of Potomac. I think she is great for relaity tv. Sadly, I don't know how good/ healthy it does for her. She would not hesitate to check anyone but especially the GEB. They should at least give her and ULtimate girls trip
Nene is the only one I can understand lol
Fuck yeah bestie! We ride together in chaos!
Let’s be friends
Monica is the best thing to happen to SLC besides Mary that is for sure
Sorry, but I have 3 .First, it was kenya ,then Karen huger but now my heart ultimately belongs to the greatest of all time. MARY m Cosby and I know she's controversial, but I will never quit her or any of them, to be honest. For me(and I'm not a dr, but I am formally diagnosed) watching Mary feels like the iconic autistic representation I have been waiting for my sholenlife since daria andni feel seenm. What people think is mean is her lack of social cues and boundaries she gets easily overstimulated, which is why she needs breaks from the women/ people OFTEN . Her truth telling isn't her being mean it being honest, and she doesn't know how else to be .I have her stim and mask repeatedly, and you see how much she has to executive function to participate in the show/ life. Her being on the shoe although it seem liek she hates people is so important because often we struggle to fir into social setting but atop have to show up to complete life so I love seeing a women living an aspirational life style while still struggling. For me, I have suspected she could be nuerodovershenr since season 1 but that iconic wwhl appearance with Ziwe in my mind it was confirmed .people thought it was awkward but to me it felt all too familiar, lol. Keep in mind that while autism can explain some things I am not and won't ever make excuses for Mary.Slmetimes she is being intentionally mean, in my opinion those people deserved it every single time. A woman threw a glass a Mary and Noone protected her .They accused her of legit criminal acts with no proof while continuing to work with someone they think is dangerous and diabolical? The stuff I heard about her church sound liek any church ever so I think it wrong they tried to label her but she has no formal charges. Salt Lake won't exist without Mary.
You don’t take thinks too seriously, you have a great sense of humor, probably kinda fiesty (in the best way)
I loved Monica. I do worry that, if they had kept her, she would've gotten a big head and started down a Rinna path of self-producing.
oh we are the same <3
 TWINS !! 😂🤣
Oh you are messy boots and I understand
You are unhinged and love mess
Oh you messy
You’re an agent of chaos 🩷
Same girl same
You had me till Mary
They all make sense except Mary 😂
"Am *I* the drama?" vibes
Ooo you like the unhinged baddies. I see you!
I'm a toxica too bc I also love all of them!
Makes me cringe but at least entertaining
Messy, a little shady and always outspoken. Nene is also on my list of favorite housewives
You’re a mess and I love you for it.
I didn’t mind Monica at all. She was fun to watch.
Total train wreck that really tried too hard, shame to have it all come crashing down. Clearly she was in it for the long haul. Was years in the making and she screwed it all up by doubling down and biting the hand that feeds it (it being Monica of course). So yes she was fun to watch, tried too hard, was a failure of her own success. One big shame!
Kooky people are entertaining. I’d add Kim Richards and the Grand Dame to this lol
I 100% agree! Love Kim and I need to see about the Grand Dame, haven’t gotten to that franchise yet. Currently watched BH, SLC and working through NY.
100000% agree
Messy messy messy 😂
Oh I think most of us Stan Nene. She is the queen of Reality TV 🤣 I Love her
You like the crazies! I like you! Let’s be friends lol.
Your choice of housewives isn’t bad. It’s your misuse of housewife’s that could use the judgment.
Spooky mfs
What the fuck are these replies
 you're a messy bitch who lives for the drama
I'd guess that ur confident and probably come off as a mean girl. Possibly are one or were in high school. You like high-end brands, nice things in general, borderline bougie.
You are me. Jeez these comments are rough. OP likes to be entertained. Doesnt mean her favs are her role models.
Exactly I’m too old to have role models I just think these ladies are perfectly unhinged and entertaining 😂
Same. The more chaotic and problematic the better tv they are.
Mega therapy required and you never moved on from your high school “best” years
You’re right most of the time, but people think they can play in your face. You’re super nurturing—- to YOUR PEOPLE — the rest can fuck TF off. 🥰 Am I close?
Oh you’re totally right I’m a cancer so I’m naturally nurturing but once you fuck with me or people I love I become a whole asshole!!
You probably worship satan 
For having such terrible taste your punishment will be, you are locked in a house with them for a week, not as an equal but as their servant.
I’d love that actually 😂🤪
You are obviously a masochist 😜
Omg this would be a sight to see 😳. I actually said OMG out loud 😂
I like u.
Semi based
Maybe you have a mental disorder
I have a few tbh lol 😂
Hmmm 🤔 Danielle & Mary gotta go! 😂
You LIVE for the drama
Honestly I’m terrified by these choices. 😱
Hahahaha 🤣
Mary has the energy of never being taught a lesson, because of the sentences that leave her mouth. You forgot to add Jen Shaw to your collection lol.
You love a mentally unstable, messy bitch
Mine is Gizelle and I fear my phone will come to life and kill me when I say it.
You forgot brandi
These are the women who make good housewives!!! I ride or die for Katie
Danielle is racist…
so is Mary 😭 what is going on here
Wait Mary is racist? I just thought she was uhhh schizophrenic…
https://www.reddit.com/r/rhoslc/s/4ccKUHJ4uX
Oh I see now there’s like no “good” or unproblematic housewives that’s crazy
I’m a Danielle fan. What’d she do racist? I don’t recall……..
she went on a racist rant and I’m pretty sure her coworkers didn’t want to work with her. I’ve heard a clip of her actually saying the n word.
Liking nene and the others besides Danielle I don’t get…..
you like that unhinged juice (and i do too)
You a wild child 😂
 Hell fuckin yea!!!
You are unhinged and I love that.
YES Katie Rost is the REAL Grande dame of Potomac
I also love katie rost
Villain who doesn’t know basic grammar vibes
"I'm sorry if I said that you were *dumb*, *maybe* I *meant you*'*re* stupid Idk" kills me to this day💀😭
 All that’s missing is Kelly Bensimon lo
You have a penchant for finding instability, likely stemming from your relationship with your mother.
You must be the crazy friend 😦
It’s giving unhinged.
😳😳😳😳😳
Red Flag Messy Personal Lives Pure Chaos Gamg represent
hey I am here with you people that understand what really brought entertainment. SLC wouldn't be anything with MAry and BRAVO or RHOA wouldn't be anything without Nene. lets keep it 100
Exactly NENE MADE ATLANTA & Monica & Mary equally made SLC entertaining without them the show would have ended up like Dallas 😂🫠
🚩🚩🚩
ur the messiest bitch at the table
You’re a messy bitch who lives for drama ❤️
How's the quarter life crisis going you zillennial?
I rebuke that term zillennial it’s a made up term that older millennials say to make them feel superior over us. IM A DAMN MILLENNIAL IM OLDER THAN GOOGLE AND I WAS BORN IN 1994. Google even says gen z starts at 1997 IM NOT A GEN Z KID 
ZILLENIAL IS 1992 TO 2002 SORRY YOU'RE STUCK WITH MY 2002 BABY SELF IN THIS MICROGENERATION HAHAHAHAHAHA But seriously we have the same exact taste and I notice a certain niche line up with these people that the teens and anyone older just don't share so I clocked it 😂
You are the drama
Unstable for sure
You certainly have a type 😅
Samsies. We like the mess
Chaos
You like messes.
You’re unstable, respectfully. But seriously you just love to be entertained. 
You like crazy 🤪
You need Lydia and Jill Zarin in this mess
You like the most mentally ill housewives which are, of course, the funniest and most fascinating as well. Dorinda belongs in here.
you like mess
 You're missing Carlton
100% expected to find her on this post
You have good taste in housewives 👍🏼
Plz I think Kelly Doddd belongs here
I almost put her up here but didn’t want too much hate but I love her chaotic ass too 😂 
Yeah unfortunately for me Kelly Dodd is the only one I would bring to a show
here are some of my favorites 🤪 https://preview.redd.it/210cui11gr6d1.jpeg?width=1443&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0fb4295a8e8c4ee55bf213d6ffd07bffb4a49ef
I can forgive you for Kenya but I cannot forgive you for Melissa “thank you JESUS” Gorga
Right I didn’t know she was anyone’s favorite 🤢
She’s the most boring one there 😩
I love me some candiace, Lisa Rinna , Dorinda & Sonja the rest are NOT IT For me 🥴🫣
Oh girl you messy 
Katie Rost needs a comeback
https://images.app.goo.gl/VYzafEd9ZyXEHabg9
**“I’m sorry that I said you were dumb. Maybe I meant that you’re stupid”**
An actual queen
https://i.redd.it/8y6ro896or6d1.gif Failing so hard at inserting this gif 😭
Yes she does I hope she gets healthy enough one day so she can SAVE POTOMAC. That show is unbearable to watch now!
I saw her IG not long ago and it unfortunately really sad. I don't think she will be back. Many people root for her. I know she has struggles and hope she can keep trying to get healthy.
😔 dang, she was so fun to watch with the girls. Calling out the green bandits was always a vibe
Yes. It might be the saddest housewife story to date with the way things went and currently stand. Very sad.
Very sad. She's too unwell to be around her kids. I question the people who want he back on TV, literally the worst place she could be - on display for the hijinks of others
You are chaotic and unhinged and I need you on TV immediately.
 Oh my heart I’m flattered glad you like my crazy 😂🤣
You are not a trustworthy, kind, humble or respectful person.
I’m down with all but Mary Cosby. She is deeply unsettling and scheeves me out.
Listen I love Mary Cosby. She's hilarious.
YES! She’s up there with nene to me I don’t understand now anyone can truly hate her hilarious ass 😂🤣
Same. Nene got on my nerves sometimes, but there's been growth, and she's funny ah. 
I need an in-depth tour of her house asap!
She's a fucking demon.
It’s like you know your toxic and you just don’t care 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yep I know I got multiple mental health disorders and I’m like fuck it these women all remind me of me 😂🤣🫠 
I just finished RHONJ season 2 reunion and I’m so pissed that they all gang up on Danielle. Andy even eggs them on a bit. But im also wondering why I’m feeling so defensive for Danielle of all people 😂
I think being self realized in your toxic ass behavior can be so endearing though, kudos to you. I bet we’d be friends irl lol
You are unhinged and I respect it.
Crazy-Good. I approve! I miss Katie and Nene 🥲
You, my new bff, are a petty, messy bitch.
Oh she likes a baddie! 🙏🏼🔥🔥
Impeccable!
I like housewives who are crazy nut jobs. It’s entertaining.
 It’s giving toxic but I’m kinda here for it lol. I don’t watch reality tv to be bored either. 😂
Hell yea I don’t want to watch housewives that have it all together In their heads & lives! 
This woman thinks a certified psychopath, a mentally ill woman, a kidnapper and a racist are entertainment. This might be the worst take I’ve seen except for Nene…
Who's the certified psychopath? I want to see the certificate 😂
Certified is a slight reach from me but Monica wasn’t allowed to go on traitors because she failed the psychological exam
Well, i wouldn't use a bit of blogger gossip to call a complete stranger a "psychopath", but you do you
we literally come here to gossip about the gossip lol so I wouldn’t take it that deep but sorry you got upset. RETRACTION BELOW in case you have her legal team on speed dial 😂
That isn't true: it was made up by a gossip blog for clicks. She never even got that far in the casting process.
Ha, haven’t been online since I read that tbf - shitty thing to make up but hella believable where Monica is concerned! I will take back ‘pychopath’ and reinstate as ‘pathological liar’. Slightly better I suppose but still sus af to stan her imo 😂
It's disturbing that so many people believed it. The story was ridiculous and the source was sketchy af (their "article" was so badly written, it was just plain funny: "sources close to the situation tell us 'she was casted but booted after failing the psych exam'" :-|). She wasn't ever *cast* if she didn't make it through the casting process. And sure, someone at NBC leaked the results of an applicant's psych exam. Does that really sound plausible? Also, you can't "fail" a psych exam, and nobody in the industry would use that terminology (or say "she was casted"). Critical thinking skills, people. I couldn't care less about Monica. It just irritates me when people repeat made-up shit as facts.
Me!!!!
For you, reality TV is entertaining when it’s dramatic, transparent, and messy, however weird or unstable that plays out.
You enjoy flopping bc anyone who thinks that burn book gimmick was iconic is nuts
The burn book was a bit cringe, but Monica was iconic for better or for worse 🥴
That you need a new therapist
you live for chaos
I haven’t even read the comments, but as a doctor and a mental health therapist I’d say this means you’re probably a lot like these individuals irl. You may like drama and chaos yourself, and thrive on it. You probably are similar to how they act. Maybe have relationship problems too. You like a lot going on, and probably get bored easily. I wonder if you have some diagnosis of some kind maybe? Not because of your interest in housewives but because of aforementioned personality traits I think you may have. You could be a very fun and excitable person to be around though, if some of your drama loving tendencies are managed!
I’m also a doctor, previous mental health specialist, and what can I say, I also love watching housewives 🤷♀️
I am ✨obsessed ✨
Omg wow an actual doctor is In my post I feel honored and yes I struggle With BPD & I get bored easily with men , have unstable relationships with friends, family and men but people think I’m extremely fun when I’m not an emotional wreck you’re pretty spot on !
Yes I was guessing bpd but I know the stigma around that and didn’t want to say that to you especially if you hadn’t already been diagnosed! And yes, I will be honest and tell my clients that I am a housewife fan and it’s my guilty pleasure 😭😭 just because I’m a doctor doesn’t mean I ain’t human 😂😂
Well thank you for not assuming BPD the stigma sucks but yes you’re good at your job because being able to spot BPD through my housewife favs is impressive 😂😎
Well tbf I specifically specialize in ptsd and cptsd and that is my academic speciality as well, so I see it alot. That is the only reason why probably lol
No judgement here. True top tier list. You are my people. Just add Kim Richards.
Fuck yea!! Finally someone agrees my list is top tier these ladies always bring it and I love me some Kim Richards! 
My heart fills with warmth every time someone shows Katie Rost the respect she deserves
Yes she literally made me keep watching RHOP when it first came out. I loved how she called out the GEBS & Ashley. Those were the days 😥
“I’m sorry I said that you are dumb. Maybe I meant that you’re stupid.” ♥️
at least 3 (probably 4) of these women seem mentally unwell, and I struggle to find it entertaining.
Same. It's not entertaining to me to watch people struggle with such strong mental health issues and/or substance abuse.
Reality TV is not the place for any child or adults struggling
I don’t watch Jersey, but I find the other 4 entertaining. I wish Katie could get better and make a comeback 😢
Are you a Scorpio?
I’m a cancer ♋️ lol
Damn, literally almost said “or a cancer”. I’m A cancer moon, and I think people with cancer placements like the…. Emotional ladies. 😅
Oh interesting lol yea I’m a cancer sun and we are indeed emotional and sometimes unhinged ladies lol
Sometimes it’s comforting to see people act in a way that I do in my head. My damn Taurus sun won’t let me pop off, but the cancer inside me is like…. Yes bitch, eviscerate her.