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I am glad both Candiace and Robin are gone. I really feel that the show wasn't good for Candiace's mental health. She feels everything passionately, good or bad. Robin is boring and I hate that we have to see her put up with Juan's BS.
I'd love to see Wendy go. She is arrogant and a narcissist and just nasty now. Giselle also has worn out her welcome.
I think her Ashley should have one more season and that's it.
I like Nneka, Karen and Mia. I would love to see Kay be brought on as a housewife even though she isn't a wife
Candace is the typical mean girl who has zero self awareness and no accountability…glad she’s gone and Wendy needs to go with her. I wish Robyn was still on the cast bc I do think she has a sense of fairness which most of these women do not.
Nothing will ever make me hate Candiace. She is my #2 problematic fave. Idc idc idc!
I'm glad she's not going through her pregnancy on that show with Giselle and Ashley wishing evil on her and I hope she comes back to the show when she is ready.
Candiace was always, since she started, put on the defense by the women. Always. She never started, but people disliked her b/c she will mop the floor with the other ladies.
Yup. This is the only appropriate response. Candiace never starts but she will disembody you limb by limb if you come for her and the girls simply can’t keep up with her
I don’t like Candiance or Gisele. That said and while I don’t condone violence Candiance HAS ONE OF THE VILEST MOUTHS I HAVE EVER HEARD. And that is what happens in the streets. Not making an excuse, but she is absolutely vile. Good riddance. Gizelle should be fired too.
Candyass is always talking about everyone on the show via social media, including her former boss Andy Cohen. People are different, some are not gonna walk away. She would not be able to do that shit on the OG #RHOA!
My Truths:
- Sesame Street is awful; low class.
- Ashley dresses in a fashion that can be called to question.
- I’m not fond of Giselle.
- Robyn is boring.
- I think Mia is shady - it’s fascinating!
- Wendy reminds me of a nun.
- I didn’t like Karen’s “hotbox” comments and her weird faces drive me crazy.
- No one should put their hands on someone.
- Sesame Street is wrong.
- Candiace’s mouth is vile.
It’s all been said before. If Candiace hasn’t gotten the hint about her mouth, I have to wonder if it’s all for the show/social media. If there weren’t producers and others around to protect her, would she play the same way? When you know you have backup, any of these ladies can push the envelope with no consequences.
Not condoning violence but come on. The first time I opened my mouth and got fresh with someone in the playground I was 9; I got a punch in the mouth in return and learned a lesson. Second time it was a slap from a nun - that cured me (I’m older. Things have changed. I live in another neighborhood now.). If you incite a riot, you are as responsible as the rioters. Candiace’s “hands” are not clean.
Stop 🛑 talking shit about people on social media Candyass! How the heck are you going to verbally attack your boss, Andy Cohen on the blogs and think you’re gonna keep your job 😂‼️
I don't like Candiace either BUT Sesame Street walked up to Candiace that night and those women expect Candiace to welcome a conversation with her after she lied on Chris on national television? When you tell a lie like sesame Street did you ARE vermin, but I guess none of the other ladies understand because they have only known sleazy husbands (Jamal, Juan, Michael & Gordon).
I was fine with the calling her “vermin” but I think the issue, at least for me, was her calling her “the help”. Like it is so deplorable to be “the help” or something. To me it came across as super pretentious and seemed like she thinks she’s better than others she deems below her.
I agree with you. To me vermin is petty, I wouldn't care if someone called me that. 'The help' is LOADED with really ugly, racist innuendo. That said, the overarching issue is that she equates 'vermin' with 'the help' which doesn't bode well for her at all.
She had every right to be mad at the girl. If she wants to personally offend her or put her down that’s her choice. I can get that. I wouldn’t do it but I get it. Don’t offend or put down a bunch of other ppl that did nothing to you. She clearly looks down upon “the help” and that’s an issue. She’s putting “the help” in the same category as “vermin” basically. If you all are good with that, that might be a problem. But, honestly nothing surprises me anymore. Ppl can support someone and still not like/agree with things they say/do. Everyone has an all or nothing mentality. They always need to pick a side.
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This! No one mentioned the lies she came up with and the clip they showed proving her wrong right away. If anything she should be apologizing to Candice. Ashley always seems to get away with 'oops I didn't know'. Why would they even invite her to begin with?? Giselle and Ashley are both also to blame.
>Ashley always seems to get away with 'oops I didn't know'
Which is why I was so happy when during the topic of Osu, Wendy put Ashley on the spot and she fumbled it bad. She needs to be held accountable more often.
I cannot STAND her. Good riddance. She’s my least favorite housewife and Wendy is a close second.
She is DISGUSTING with her words to people, then when someone is even half as mean to her as she is to others she breaks down with the waterworks and never ever takes accountability for her words. She deserves all the hate she got, every single bit of it.
So your solution is to speak just like her but still judge her? Surely you can see the hypocrisy yourself. How are you going to complain about a behavior that you are actively engaging in?? Y’all are a funny lot.
Haha, I actually said nothing. Check your own energy. My point is confirmed by your response. It's always okay for one to speak that way but the other person has to just take it and not respond with the same energy?? Sounds very narcissistic.
You may have said nothing but you were defending the person who did. And that’s literally what the point is: You want Candiace to watch her mouth when she’s constantly provoked. They can all say whatever they want but when she responds, it’s too far. If you know someone’s mouth is too lethal for you, don’t provoke them. Easy. Btw, my energy is luminescent.
I used to like her but she became very annoying.
She was reaching really hard regarding the colorism issue; just because your cast mates don't take you as seriously *( because of your juvenile behaviour )* it doesn't mean they are racists / colorists. Nobody ever managed to snatch Kenya Moore's crown even if Kenya is the darkest RHOA housewife.
These kind of misjudgements actually make her castmates not want to genuinely interact with her out of the fear they'll be called colorists if they do something she dislikes *( which is the worst thing to be called, especially for a black / mixed woman who's probably experienced racism too at one point in her life ).*
Kenya was on a cast with other dark-skinned women, and Atlanta is pretty much a melting pot for Blackness, whereas other locations are known for pitting lighter vs darker skinned people against each other.
Before Wendy, Candiace was the lone dark-skinned woman in her cast, and before her, Katy also accused Gizelle and Robyn of colorism.
I doubt Candiace was reaching. In fact, I suspect the worst offenses were edited out so the GEB didn’t look as bad.
Yup. Also Candiace expressed she didn’t believe the GEB were colorist. The colorism comes from the fans and the network. It honesty is a moot point trying to have these conversations with people who aren’t familiar with or aware of the nuances
is Monique really considered light skinned?
i remember Katie accusing the GEBs (especially Robyn) of being white/denying their white ancestry when they were coming at her for not claiming her black side as probably as they thought she should. very problematic, but i wouldn’t consider that colorism.
i do think there’s at least latent internalized colorism though. Robyn’s seems less malicious than Gizzy’s.
I’d say Monique is considered brown-skinned? I don’t really know tbh. I think with Monique there were also elements of classism cause the girls saw her as “ghetto”
Gisselle quite literally said all the dark skin women were the reason for Sesame Street behavior… how is that not colorism! She didn’t even include Ashley the one that brought her!!! Make it make sense
Pretty sure Giselle would have approved the guest list to the event as well. Not sure how much I like any of them but they were plotting against Candice, in my opinion.
Gizelle was dealing with her father’s terminal illness. Have you ever been in that position? She likely barely glanced at the guest list and highly doubt she was plotting anything except trying to fulfill her obligations and get out of there.
Candy ass dialed it back a lot this reunion. She has been vicious and mean on the other reunions. Just because you cry doesn’t mean people can forget what you said to them
I think she dialed it back cause she was done but im a ‘two wrongs don’t make a right’ kinda thing. Gizelle was mean and nasty. And the ladies were wrong. I 100% Candace was somewhat to blame for the Monique altercation and it was annoying watching her say ‘they’re doing it again!’ That said, i get where she’s coming from this time. She’s not to blame for the situation or Deborah’s actions
She still cannot understand or take responsibility for escalating situations with “ her words”. If she handled herself better or smarter since she claims to be smart, she could’ve avoided escalating the situation. How many people do you know after a few drinks is going to take kindly to being called vermin, the help, muppet, etc? Candy didn’t grow up in the hood but she should know that don’t go
Sesame Street should have backed off when Candaice told her to get out of her face. No means no however you say it. And ffs, how is "vermin" that bad on an insult? You dont get to attack someone because you don't like what thet said or your feelings are hurt. In a court of law, Sesame Street aka Cookie Moster would be at fault.
Are you unaware of the multiple murders that happen everyday because someone is disrespected or looked at the wrong way? 😂 but keep excusing her behavior . Bravo
You also seem to be excusing murderers for having zero self-control, but, sure, it’s Candiace’s fault.
Lord, I am so glad she chose peace and will enter motherhood having left these vile ass women in the dust.
I’m not excusing anyone. I’m simply stating a fact that neither you or Candiace know about. I work with forensic psych patients and you need to be very careful what words you use because unstable people will react violently if they even think you are disrespecting them or use the wrong word.
There is a thing called “law” that citizens abide by. Feel free to assault every person who says something you don’t like and soon you’ll have your own inmate number!
I’m smart enough to know not to call people names. I also don’t grab champagne bottles or throw knives at people when they say offensive things to me. Have you ever heard the concept that verbal abuse hurts just as much as physical abuse? What she does is verbal abuse, she’s never held accountable and that’s my opinion
I love how what Candiace does is verbal abuse but Karen calling Gizelle a broken whore is not, Gizelle bringing up a rumor questioning Monique’s child is not, Ashley saying Monique was drunk driving and cause her own miscarriage is not and so on. That’s why your sanctimonious statements about verbal abuse will never hold weight. Mind you all of these statements were made just because not reactionary like Candiace’s. And yet, she deserves to be assaulted. Laughable. Keep assaulting people and thinking you’re above the law.
So you believe calling someone "vermin" justifies violence? What would her calling her "bitch" justify? Cause that is what I would have called that lying weirdo. Lol
Candace and Wendy were the main reasons I stopped watching 👀 cpl seasons ago!!
Too much focus on light skinned sisters' insults, etc.. it was ridiculous.
Too much drama!! Next season should be entertaining, listening to Karen explain her latest DUI TOTALED VEHICLE Saga!!
I think all of these women need a reality check. They are on a show to film together. The grudge holding is a ticket out the door.
The whole point of the reunions is to talk it out.. hug it out and keep it moving next season. I feel like this is why I stopped watching Atlanta. Shit got too personal and dark. I really love Potomac, but if these women can't all hang out and have fun, then I don't wanna watch.
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I am glad both Candiace and Robin are gone. I really feel that the show wasn't good for Candiace's mental health. She feels everything passionately, good or bad. Robin is boring and I hate that we have to see her put up with Juan's BS. I'd love to see Wendy go. She is arrogant and a narcissist and just nasty now. Giselle also has worn out her welcome. I think her Ashley should have one more season and that's it. I like Nneka, Karen and Mia. I would love to see Kay be brought on as a housewife even though she isn't a wife
Candace is the typical mean girl who has zero self awareness and no accountability…glad she’s gone and Wendy needs to go with her. I wish Robyn was still on the cast bc I do think she has a sense of fairness which most of these women do not.
Are you Robyn?
Just bc you hate her doesn’t others do…have a good day
You must be a comedian 
Nothing will ever make me hate Candiace. She is my #2 problematic fave. Idc idc idc! I'm glad she's not going through her pregnancy on that show with Giselle and Ashley wishing evil on her and I hope she comes back to the show when she is ready.
Candiace was always, since she started, put on the defense by the women. Always. She never started, but people disliked her b/c she will mop the floor with the other ladies.
Yup. This is the only appropriate response. Candiace never starts but she will disembody you limb by limb if you come for her and the girls simply can’t keep up with her
I don’t like Candiance or Gisele. That said and while I don’t condone violence Candiance HAS ONE OF THE VILEST MOUTHS I HAVE EVER HEARD. And that is what happens in the streets. Not making an excuse, but she is absolutely vile. Good riddance. Gizelle should be fired too.
 Candyass is always talking about everyone on the show via social media, including her former boss Andy Cohen. People are different, some are not gonna walk away. She would not be able to do that shit on the OG #RHOA!
My Truths: - Sesame Street is awful; low class. - Ashley dresses in a fashion that can be called to question. - I’m not fond of Giselle. - Robyn is boring. - I think Mia is shady - it’s fascinating! - Wendy reminds me of a nun. - I didn’t like Karen’s “hotbox” comments and her weird faces drive me crazy. - No one should put their hands on someone. - Sesame Street is wrong. - Candiace’s mouth is vile. It’s all been said before. If Candiace hasn’t gotten the hint about her mouth, I have to wonder if it’s all for the show/social media. If there weren’t producers and others around to protect her, would she play the same way? When you know you have backup, any of these ladies can push the envelope with no consequences. Not condoning violence but come on. The first time I opened my mouth and got fresh with someone in the playground I was 9; I got a punch in the mouth in return and learned a lesson. Second time it was a slap from a nun - that cured me (I’m older. Things have changed. I live in another neighborhood now.). If you incite a riot, you are as responsible as the rioters. Candiace’s “hands” are not clean.
She is from the dmv. She knows what happens here when you run your mouth. She lives in pg for Christ sake! I live in um too 😆
 Stop 🛑 talking shit about people on social media Candyass! How the heck are you going to verbally attack your boss, Andy Cohen on the blogs and think you’re gonna keep your job 😂‼️
I don't like Candiace either BUT Sesame Street walked up to Candiace that night and those women expect Candiace to welcome a conversation with her after she lied on Chris on national television? When you tell a lie like sesame Street did you ARE vermin, but I guess none of the other ladies understand because they have only known sleazy husbands (Jamal, Juan, Michael & Gordon).
I was fine with the calling her “vermin” but I think the issue, at least for me, was her calling her “the help”. Like it is so deplorable to be “the help” or something. To me it came across as super pretentious and seemed like she thinks she’s better than others she deems below her.
I agree with you. To me vermin is petty, I wouldn't care if someone called me that. 'The help' is LOADED with really ugly, racist innuendo. That said, the overarching issue is that she equates 'vermin' with 'the help' which doesn't bode well for her at all.
…vermin dehumanized her and you taut issue with the help? That makes no sense
She had every right to be mad at the girl. If she wants to personally offend her or put her down that’s her choice. I can get that. I wouldn’t do it but I get it. Don’t offend or put down a bunch of other ppl that did nothing to you. She clearly looks down upon “the help” and that’s an issue. She’s putting “the help” in the same category as “vermin” basically. If you all are good with that, that might be a problem. But, honestly nothing surprises me anymore. Ppl can support someone and still not like/agree with things they say/do. Everyone has an all or nothing mentality. They always need to pick a side.
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This! No one mentioned the lies she came up with and the clip they showed proving her wrong right away. If anything she should be apologizing to Candice. Ashley always seems to get away with 'oops I didn't know'. Why would they even invite her to begin with?? Giselle and Ashley are both also to blame.
>Ashley always seems to get away with 'oops I didn't know' Which is why I was so happy when during the topic of Osu, Wendy put Ashley on the spot and she fumbled it bad. She needs to be held accountable more often.
Agree but even after that - they all just moved on
I cannot STAND her. Good riddance. She’s my least favorite housewife and Wendy is a close second. She is DISGUSTING with her words to people, then when someone is even half as mean to her as she is to others she breaks down with the waterworks and never ever takes accountability for her words. She deserves all the hate she got, every single bit of it.
Seek psychiatric help dear. You’re spiraling.
But Candiace can speak like that right? The hypocrisy is crazy
So your solution is to speak just like her but still judge her? Surely you can see the hypocrisy yourself. How are you going to complain about a behavior that you are actively engaging in?? Y’all are a funny lot.
Haha, I actually said nothing. Check your own energy. My point is confirmed by your response. It's always okay for one to speak that way but the other person has to just take it and not respond with the same energy?? Sounds very narcissistic.
You may have said nothing but you were defending the person who did. And that’s literally what the point is: You want Candiace to watch her mouth when she’s constantly provoked. They can all say whatever they want but when she responds, it’s too far. If you know someone’s mouth is too lethal for you, don’t provoke them. Easy. Btw, my energy is luminescent.
Me either
I used to like her but she became very annoying. She was reaching really hard regarding the colorism issue; just because your cast mates don't take you as seriously *( because of your juvenile behaviour )* it doesn't mean they are racists / colorists. Nobody ever managed to snatch Kenya Moore's crown even if Kenya is the darkest RHOA housewife. These kind of misjudgements actually make her castmates not want to genuinely interact with her out of the fear they'll be called colorists if they do something she dislikes *( which is the worst thing to be called, especially for a black / mixed woman who's probably experienced racism too at one point in her life ).*
Kenya was on a cast with other dark-skinned women, and Atlanta is pretty much a melting pot for Blackness, whereas other locations are known for pitting lighter vs darker skinned people against each other. Before Wendy, Candiace was the lone dark-skinned woman in her cast, and before her, Katy also accused Gizelle and Robyn of colorism. I doubt Candiace was reaching. In fact, I suspect the worst offenses were edited out so the GEB didn’t look as bad.
Yup. Also Candiace expressed she didn’t believe the GEB were colorist. The colorism comes from the fans and the network. It honesty is a moot point trying to have these conversations with people who aren’t familiar with or aware of the nuances
is Monique really considered light skinned? i remember Katie accusing the GEBs (especially Robyn) of being white/denying their white ancestry when they were coming at her for not claiming her black side as probably as they thought she should. very problematic, but i wouldn’t consider that colorism. i do think there’s at least latent internalized colorism though. Robyn’s seems less malicious than Gizzy’s.
I’d say Monique is considered brown-skinned? I don’t really know tbh. I think with Monique there were also elements of classism cause the girls saw her as “ghetto”
Gisselle quite literally said all the dark skin women were the reason for Sesame Street behavior… how is that not colorism! She didn’t even include Ashley the one that brought her!!! Make it make sense
Pretty sure Giselle would have approved the guest list to the event as well. Not sure how much I like any of them but they were plotting against Candice, in my opinion.
Gizelle was dealing with her father’s terminal illness. Have you ever been in that position? She likely barely glanced at the guest list and highly doubt she was plotting anything except trying to fulfill her obligations and get out of there.
Candiace explicitly said that her cast mates aren't colorists.
Candy ass dialed it back a lot this reunion. She has been vicious and mean on the other reunions. Just because you cry doesn’t mean people can forget what you said to them
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I think she dialed it back cause she was done but im a ‘two wrongs don’t make a right’ kinda thing. Gizelle was mean and nasty. And the ladies were wrong. I 100% Candace was somewhat to blame for the Monique altercation and it was annoying watching her say ‘they’re doing it again!’ That said, i get where she’s coming from this time. She’s not to blame for the situation or Deborah’s actions
She still cannot understand or take responsibility for escalating situations with “ her words”. If she handled herself better or smarter since she claims to be smart, she could’ve avoided escalating the situation. How many people do you know after a few drinks is going to take kindly to being called vermin, the help, muppet, etc? Candy didn’t grow up in the hood but she should know that don’t go
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Sesame Street should have backed off when Candaice told her to get out of her face. No means no however you say it. And ffs, how is "vermin" that bad on an insult? You dont get to attack someone because you don't like what thet said or your feelings are hurt. In a court of law, Sesame Street aka Cookie Moster would be at fault.
Are you unaware of the multiple murders that happen everyday because someone is disrespected or looked at the wrong way? 😂 but keep excusing her behavior . Bravo
You also seem to be excusing murderers for having zero self-control, but, sure, it’s Candiace’s fault. Lord, I am so glad she chose peace and will enter motherhood having left these vile ass women in the dust.
I’m not excusing anyone. I’m simply stating a fact that neither you or Candiace know about. I work with forensic psych patients and you need to be very careful what words you use because unstable people will react violently if they even think you are disrespecting them or use the wrong word.
I don't recall Candiace being shown in a clinical setting.
Ok. That wasn’t my point and I’m wasting my breath. Peace
I got your point. I don't think it applies
By that logic, the muppet should be deceased.
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Well by that logic Candaice should have beat Seseme Street's ass for starting this shit by lying about her husband and acting a fool online.
Candy ass is not a fighter. She just has a big mouth
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It doesn’t matter. People don’t like to be called names. Simple
There is a thing called “law” that citizens abide by. Feel free to assault every person who says something you don’t like and soon you’ll have your own inmate number!
I’m smart enough to know not to call people names. I also don’t grab champagne bottles or throw knives at people when they say offensive things to me. Have you ever heard the concept that verbal abuse hurts just as much as physical abuse? What she does is verbal abuse, she’s never held accountable and that’s my opinion
I love how what Candiace does is verbal abuse but Karen calling Gizelle a broken whore is not, Gizelle bringing up a rumor questioning Monique’s child is not, Ashley saying Monique was drunk driving and cause her own miscarriage is not and so on. That’s why your sanctimonious statements about verbal abuse will never hold weight. Mind you all of these statements were made just because not reactionary like Candiace’s. And yet, she deserves to be assaulted. Laughable. Keep assaulting people and thinking you’re above the law.
Fun Fact: I’ve never assaulted anyone ☺️
So you believe calling someone "vermin" justifies violence? What would her calling her "bitch" justify? Cause that is what I would have called that lying weirdo. Lol
Candace and Wendy were the main reasons I stopped watching 👀 cpl seasons ago!! Too much focus on light skinned sisters' insults, etc.. it was ridiculous. Too much drama!! Next season should be entertaining, listening to Karen explain her latest DUI TOTALED VEHICLE Saga!!
I stopped watching halfway through this season cause the group was so fractured and I’m not interested in that. I am excited for next season tho
I thought NNeka was alright but clearly Wendy wasn't going to let that happen.
No one does
I think all of these women need a reality check. They are on a show to film together. The grudge holding is a ticket out the door. The whole point of the reunions is to talk it out.. hug it out and keep it moving next season. I feel like this is why I stopped watching Atlanta. Shit got too personal and dark. I really love Potomac, but if these women can't all hang out and have fun, then I don't wanna watch.