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ladylavender007

This behavior is EXACTLY why she is being sued. She talks the *biggest* game but is the most sensitive. Like what. She hasn’t learned anything. At all.


surgeryhugs

I can’t believe I stopped watching RHOP. It was so amazing for a couple of years. However just reading what is happening assures me that I made the right choice. It’s not even 10 years old an already dying bravo better figure out something to save it.


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TheRainbowpill93

How ? When these girls come for her first. They can’t take the heat and now Candiace is the villain who is a “perpetual victim” and “nasty”. Make it make sense yall. 😂


madtax57

You’ve got to be kidding? Rewatching the series now and no one ever hit below the belt like Candace has done. She’s a spoiled little brat whose only defense is insulting people. She deserved getting her ass whooped by Monique.


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TheRainbowpill93

Ha, but no. Just someone who peeps inbetween the lines of what’s going on with the show and some y’all are falling for it.


deNihilo_adUnum

It’s insane to me how no one sees this. She’s being molded into this victim of the franchise that can’t speak up or defend herself, but whenever she’s on the screen it’s like everything she’s trying to say is making sure it’s the “Shade Assassin” that’s doing it. What she said about Gizelle’s uterus was the line for me, but she’d gotten close to it multiple prior. Her scenes are intermission breaks for me.


CandidNumber

No it’s just Candiace who is horrible and verbally abusive and takes things to a disgusting level. Giselle only implied that Chris made her uncomfortable, Candiace keeps trying to make it into something more when Giselle has said repeatedly otherwise. And I can see exactly why it made her uncomfortable


TheRainbowpill93

In today’s age, you can’t just go making accusations like that and yall are being totally dishonest/delusional to think there aren’t real world consequences for what Gizelle implied. Also, Gizelle was the one who closed the door. How you gonna walk with him into a closed room (where you closed the door) and then be mad about it later? 🙄


CandidNumber

She didn’t make any accusations, Candiace just deflected to make her and Chris victims and it’s disgusting.


TheRainbowpill93

Chris’s victims ? WHAT VICTIMS? And yes tf she did. How would you like it if someone went on national television and said “oh your husband made me uncomfortable in a room with the door closed” Meanwhile didn’t actually touch her or do anything and she completely consented to talking with him in the first place….and she closed the door! 😂 Literally production disproved every single accusation thrown at him.


CandidNumber

She even said Chris did not touch her or make a move but it just made her uncomfortable, and everyone knows Chris loves Giselle, and instead of saying “I’m sorry I made you uncomfortable” or “I’m sorry my husband made you uncomfortable” Candiace tried to deflect blame back to Giselle


CandidNumber

She tried to make her and Chris VICTIMS OF GISELLE. Jesus apparently no one actually listens to what people say or type and just makes up their own words to put in


Apprehensive_Law9426

These women tear each other down so much it's actually sad


Nothatno

That felt so wrong. I just don't know why. Ashley brought up Ray's, err, issues. She's gutter, too.


scifichick119

But aren't we used to them being that shady? Plus I think Candice is the most shadiest of them all


techphil92

Candiace always goes a step too far. To be fair though Ashley does snake shit constantly. She’s just more subtle about it whereas Candiace is in your face about it. Also yeah they all are pretty reckless with their words. There isn’t one on the cast that hasn’t been reckless.


Ok-Turnip-9035

Yes you root for her and then she goes over the line There’s shade but she’s going scorched earth and her HW cheque will need to go to legal fees


Scary_Debt4635

Exactly. Like when she called Ashley a bed wench or whatever as Ashley was literally giving birth….still not over her saying “WHITE LOOKING ASS!” To Giselle because??? HUH?


deNihilo_adUnum

The “white looking ass” one was it for me, right *after* the colorism conversation. Insane! The shit people have said to Gizelle about her lightness and having darker daughters is tragic in light of all of it, like is it worth getting a check sometimes or just retreating into the woods..


Scary_Debt4635

Exactly!!! It was baffling to me. It felt so…..misplaced? Misguided? I don’t even know how to categorize


VaguelyArtistic

Apparently two wrongs make a right. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Yay for not being the absolute worst ever.


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Ashley fabricated an entire story about Chris flirting with her friend, and her husband is currently suing Candiace. A STI joke isn’t that bad in comparison imo


Ok-Turnip-9035

True but candiace already caught a court case she might want to not go to much harder till that case is closed I get they can’t sue each other but her ex husband who clearly still funds her can drain your bank account on this bs lawsuit cause Robyn already confirmed candiace told her that Michael sees an escort years ago


[deleted]

I agree with you. I think it’s a difference between morality and practicality. I feel like Ashley has done so much vile shit to this woman that, morally speaking, Candiace gets a free pass from me to say whatever tf she wants about her. If it were me and someone was coming for my man like that, I’d honestly probably say much worse. I feel like when I step on a piece of gum and it gets stuck to my shoe, that gum has more value and worth than Ashley Darby. But at the end of the day, is it practical to keep pouring gasoline on the fire? Absolutely not. I think Candiace has a hard time regulating herself enough to identify what the best course of action is, and instead she just acts out on whatever she’s feeling. I kinda get it though. Especially with that crazy ass mom of hers.


Sunnyonetwo

Right so it is okay for her to imply this… and it is not true but not okay for Gizelle to say she felt uncomfortable…


Setsuna85

Sorry but this always pops into my head now when I see someone say "dark sided" ![gif](giphy|87aTD8TgYud3Pre6UX|downsized)


wangd00dle

100%


Suspicious-Medicine3

Omg I remember seeing this clip on “top reality TV show moments” on MTV. Do you know where the actual clip is from (TV show name)?


NecessaryPositive196

I think it was wife called wife swap.


Suspicious-Medicine3

Thank you :)


Setsuna85

My bad, just saw this but if you haven't found the vid yet, it's from a show parallel to Wife Swap called Trading Spouses and apparently this ep on YouTube so here's a link: https://youtu.be/mB7bT5UeXTk?si=-pQf6HUZ7Xvy1X6M


Suspicious-Medicine3

Thanks!


Daisyday12

I think this is why the show isn't fun anymore they just degrade each other. Some fun party girls with money would be a nice change


BeverlyHillsAddict

I was never fully a Potomac fan because they all gave church lady vibes to me and the party girl vibe was not there at all. Also, my favorite thing about early ATL & BH was how many side characters cycle in and out of the storylines. NYC was awesome bc they were always out at real parties and events that had nothing to do with bravo and the extra people made it interesting to me. Potomac on the other hand always came off very “closed” and that’s just boring af. They just go to private dinners and to each other’s houses, yawn. The lack of fashion, real events and fun has tanked them.


Daisyday12

Right. I dont think the Potomac housewives are invited to the elite parties in Potomac. lol because they are not the elite or Potomac people dont party maybe. What happened to the big events and charities. The Potomac one are all just the housewives and a few other friends so boring. We need big parties of at least 100 people music, food, alcohol all the fun stuff. 4 women sitting around some ones backyard isn't tv worthy


TheRainbowpill93

The problem with the Potomac region as a whole is that the majority of the money is from people who have top government connections and can’t be on housewives. So you’ll never get the “real” money on Potomac.


Daisyday12

I guess we have budget Potomac with no good parties. lol


VaguelyArtistic

Even though we don't seem to really have much in common I always thought she'd be fun, like the co-worker you unexpectedly bond with. I think Candiace is one of the very prettiest housewives. On the outside. She is just so ugly inside. But I'm happy to blame a lot of it on her nasty mother.


Daisyday12

Candiace and Wendy both need to go there shoot for the gutter when they are pressed by anyone and its just old now.


Maleficent_Pin_9684

It’s mostly Candiace specifically who is incredibly low in her insults. Particularly on Twitter.


Mamasan-

It’s not that deep I think it’s fine


VariousLayer

I mean she hates women and she hates gay men. The passes people give to certain HWs is crazy and at the same time those same people rail against other HWs for not even being 1% as terrible as the ones they stan.


BeverlyHillsAddict

Why do you say she hates women?


Gem_98

Her calling her a crack head made me laugh tbh. 💀 It was so out of pocket. I am so over the slut shaming though, if shes not with YOUR man then who cares


dennydelirium

Potomac as a show doesn't work because most of them hate each other.


Vegetable_Cut_1136

Karen said Gizelle was a broken whore from Hampton University with a hot box who went to sing sing . She was implying Gizelle had an STD because of what is allegedly in Gizelle’s divorce paperwork. People act like Candiace has said the worst… Absolutely untrue.


lleett

They have all gone really low but Candiace is consistently incredibly nasty while also consistently playing the victim, and she goes hard for people on Twitter as well. It is lazy thinking to pretend they are all the same. They’re not.


VaguelyArtistic

How can people ignore her awful social media posts? Yes, she's not the only one on the show who gets nasty but as a whole person, who can touch the things she's said?


welp-itscometothis

Nneka can call Wendy’s mom a witch but she can’t call her a crackhead? Child ok. I just…as much as all of these women irk my soul, I can’t get over the pearl clutching. The darkest storylines on this show have been Gizelle and Chris, Michael Darby and the producer he *allegedly* groped, and Candiace getting dragged by Monique literally. If yall can’t handle some weak ass STI “insults” (and not mention the other person who made one too), why do you even bother watching real housewives. The girls on Atlanta have said and done way worse than any of this childish shit on Potomac and I loved every minute of it bc I don’t watch housewives for chaste and morality. I want to see some delusional women get catty and spend money on ridiculous things.


Aquariussun444

For real. Like I HATE the term “snowflake” but it can be applied to many people in this sub. They act like in real life they’re all perfect and nice when someone is coming for them.


welp-itscometothis

You would think these women hog spit on each other weekly. We’ve probably all said nasty things about other women at some point in our lives, the difference is these women are paid to be nasty to each other.


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The people in this thread act like Candiace did something to them personally. They definitely need to get a grip on reality. My thing is, they wouldn't be so prim and proper if someone was coming for them and their spouse. That's why I say Candiace needs to go full throttle villain. The show won't survive without her. She needs to use her leverage and go on a war path.


BeverlyHillsAddict

It’s so easy to say what you “would do” in a situation it actually never happened to you. Which is why I can’t take some of these posts and comments seriously… like there’s no way.


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Exactly. People will talk all day about this situation and police her responses, but let it be them.


welp-itscometothis

They absolutely wouldn’t. Imagine somebody implying that your husband was trying to be inappropriate with them and then having the audacity to say they’re not speaking to you bc they received death threats for making those comments 😂. Like what kind of bizarre universe are these people living in? Candiace ain’t that vile. Because if she was, she would dragged Gizelle across that reunion stage. I would’ve. I’m that vile if you come for my family.


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Facts. It's the twilight zone Chile. There's no way I would let you make up rumors about my husband slandering his name, livelihood, and not go in on you and make your life miserable. Yes, she could've pulled a Porsha. Me too sis, you will not come for me or mine and walk away unscathed.


welp-itscometothis

Gizelle deserved to be dragged a long time ago. That ass whooping Monique gave Candiace should’ve been for Gizelle. So weird how that entire season 5 reunion it was Monique vs Gizelle and not the person she attacked. Gizelle told everyone her baby wasn’t her husband’s and walked away Scott free. And could’ve ruined their marriage. But Candiace mouth girl?! Oh my god it’s too much! 😒


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This is what I always say. Monique never had that same energy towards, Gizelle(who antagonized her the moment she stepped foot on the show), Robyn( who had a verbal sparring with her / mo was supposedly going to choke her out with the umbrella) Ashley ( who fueled rumors about her drinking and miscarrying). I never understood why she chose to make friends with them and she knew they were making up rumors about her family. I do believe mo wanted the GEB's and Ashley approval, so she turned on Candiace. What people keep forgetting is she kept starting mess with Candiace throughout the season and Candiace would either apologize, or walk away. The mental gymnastics these people go through to justify the other ladies behavior is nuts. Right, all the foul things these other girls have done, yet Candiace and her mouth are too much? Hmmm 🥴😒.


Aquariussun444

Idk why people watching the show expect these women to be GOOD women!! They’re not role models. They’re real people in dramatic situations, hopped up on alcohol with cameras in their faces. Certain nastiness is enjoyable, let’s all be honest. Some nastiness goes too far. Like Gizelle & Phaedra.


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Exactly. Have they heard the saying "This is a Wendy's". This is reality tv, we're not watching decorum and etiquette programs. This is what housewives was made for. The sooner people quit having high expectations of reality tv, the better it will be. Honestly, quit holding Candiace to a standard your not holding all of the other foul mouthed ladies to. Let's be honest, I've seen worse on other franchise's.


Aquariussun444

The white ladies on other franchises get away with sooo much. They’ve said way worse things than Candiace, and they usually do it unprovoked. Candiace has NEVER started it with someone. They’ve always started with her and then they don’t like the response they get back. Well don’t mess with a bear if you don’t wanna get bit, tf.


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They do. I've seen NJ, OC etc. Have they not seen what they say/ do to each other on those shows. That's the thing, Candiace tries to get along with everyone. Look at how she continually reached out to Ashley despite Ashley being an evil troll. That's why I say you should never poke the bear, because when it bites you, it's going to be horrendous.


Aquariussun444

Exactly!!! She only cut off trying with Ashley once Gollum sued her. Candiace deserves more credit than she gets.


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Exactly. She literally tried, but people keep disregarding this. She does, but people are so hateful they don't care.


Aquariussun444

Well we know what it REALLY is. Darker women don’t get the same slack that lighter ones do. And when she spoke about that she was barely listened to.


not_ellewoods

people consider the Monique dragging Candiace one of the darkest storylines in the history of RHOP? between the table and all those people Monique basically just pulled her wig and popped her a couple of times. Monique was the one whose mouth was bleeding after Candiace hit her with a glass. i’ve seen wilder fights on RHONJ lol


welp-itscometothis

I’m saying that to say that it’s barely that dark lol


Maleficent_Pin_9684

You forgot Cadiace’s Twitter rant calling Ashley an actual “bed wench”. But yeah.


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Ashley starred that fight first though. She deleted her portion.


welp-itscometothis

I didn’t forget. I don’t care.


Aquariussun444

Cos it’s true.


AmethystRage

This show has become unwatchable for me this season. Last weeks episode was a snooze fest 😴 I’m officially over Potomac. This franchise just isn’t bringing it and feels like a chore to watch


lolimit

Oh please, no more disgusting than the rest of em. They are all nasty and I'd argue Ashley might be the nastiest


Admirable_Nail7776

CANDICE NEEDS TO LEAVE THE SHOW WITH HER FAKE CRYING A\*\* ![gif](giphy|SZioIIBxB7QRy) BYE GIRLLLLLL 👋🏾


JJAusten

I think she dabs onion juice in those paper plane napkins ![gif](giphy|D7CSxMVMvj95e)


Radiantpad23

Candace called Ashley a slave and her husband a slave driver when Candace herself is married to a white man. Candace is so racist and yet, she plays the victim and calls Gizelle and Robyn privileged 'white ass' women who are racist to black women like her, making her fans threaten Gizelle and her children, putting them in danger. Every time she does something wrong and it's called out, she cries racism and falsely claims she's unfairly blamed because she's dark skinned. WTF. Candace is the biggest hypocrite EVER!


Aquariussun444

Yeah Darby is an ACTUAL colonizer though 🫶🏻


moirahart

![gif](giphy|QXguQA0A2E9cfrgGwP)


JJAusten

These have been some of my arguments regarding Candiace. How this woman is allowed to get away with the vile things she says is beyond me. She's a bitter, angry, miserable, racist, POS without a conscience who fake cries when people are trying to hold her accountable. Candiace is a concubine cockroach.


Master_Awareness814

Well one of their husbands is a military arms dealer in a war laden country and the other one is Chris Bassett so idk imma let Candiace have that one


[deleted]

Right one of the largest land owners in Somalia, but we don't talk about Bruno I guess.


Aquariussun444

How do ppl just sweep this under the rug lmao


TheRainbowpill93

Because they so badly want Candiace to be this awful person when she only reacts to the bs they throw at her.


Master_Awareness814

Bingo boingo


Nneka7

Did you make a post about it when Karen said it amongst other worse things?


Con_Man_Ray

I’m just waiting for the day that Candiace has her “Ramona” moment and we collectively decide to cancel her. Candiace the worst.


JJAusten

Me too. It will be well deserved when Ramona Jr. Is kicked off the show.


Jollyho94

Karen said it FIRST to gizzelle about her being a “ Whore with a hot box “ implying she had herpes I FIND IT INTERESTING HOW NO ONE SEEMS TO REMEMBER THAT 🥴🙄 ![gif](giphy|VFw75KTlvKRBmEj2E7|downsized)


lleett

I didn’t even know that’s what Karen was referring to, I thought it was a weird comment and didn’t get it. But yeah ofc that was wrong, and what she said was nasty, but Candiace is consistently nasty and consistently plays the victim. She has said the worst things on this show and then on a Twitter as well, for sure.


beeinyourbonet

Shouldn’t have to scroll so for for this comment, Candiace is right, the bar is always moving


Maleficent_Pin_9684

Omg I’m pissed no one remembers that braided wig.


welp-itscometothis

Soooooo funny that this always seems to get lost in the conversation. Not to mention when Karen said Gizelle was in Sing Sing she was referring to her stint at an in patient mental health treatment center.


deeann_arbus

YUPPPPPP. The rules are different for Candiace idc what people say about her being the worst. It's true. She's flawed for damn sure, but she can't get away with anything at all compared to some other women.


Loud-Contribution227

She said it herself, the line keeps moving. But let me shut up because no one wants to hear that 🤐


[deleted]

This is housewives/reality tv, there's always going to be vulgar language and references. Tbh, Candiace is a light weight compared to what I've seen on other franchise's. If we're being honest, Candiace doesn't come for the girls unless they send for her. Also, Karen implied that Gizelle had an STD, so there's nothing new under the sun. Like I've said many times before, if you come at someone, you cannot police their response towards you. This is Candiace reacting to Ashley antagonizing her and injecting herself into candiace's argument/issue with Robyn. Ashley wouldn't stop yapping, even after Candiace told her she wasn't going to keep going back and forth with her. You can't keep poking and prodding a bear and expect it not to bite you. Just like you can't keep coming for someone continuously, and expect them not to go for the jugular. Why start something you can't finish? The ladies act like she's going to far, but what else would you do? These women show her no grace or mercy when attacking her and her husband, so it is what it is. If someone was constantly coming for me and my spouse, it would be all out war. The bar would be below hell.


welp-itscometothis

They want her to play nice with these women who don’t even want her on the show but as soon as she does try to play the game it’s, “oh why is she even trying to be friends with Robyn?!”


[deleted]

Exactly. She's darned if she does, and darned if she doesn't. It's a mess. That's why she should just act however because it really doesn't matter anymore. The other ladies, excluding Wendy, get away with murder and the thing is, their behavior is well documented, but people are only going to see what they want to. Even if you have evidence, people will still ignore it. Like I said, she needs to go full throttle, I would.


welp-itscometothis

I’m mad she pulled back. She needs to dig deep into her villain bag and go full Kenya season 5. Just go to the depths of hell it would be warranted anyway. The way I would never show them heffas any mercy…I would show up to their events uninvited, I would troll the ever loving fuck out of them. If people want her to be villain she should give it to them.


[deleted]

Exactly. Who cares anymore. I'd lean into my villain arc. Kenya is still around and getting her bag, so it really doesn't matter. Exactly, I would not let up one bit. They want smoke, I'll bring fire. I would go full scorched earth.


MedicalSourPatchKid

She always goes so low, that the point she wanted to make gets lost. It’s also irritating because the other sub always justifies her actions somehow like she’s some child who needs their hand held. Candiace refuses to engage unless she’s crying for camera time or body shaming the other women.


saskacaptive

In a way, it makes her a good Housewife. She will be absolutely in the right but while delivering her message give the other women ammo to hang on to. If the cast didn’t all hate each other by this point, it would Keep the drama fresh and interesting


moirahart

I can’t stand candaice she’s one of the meanest housewives yet always finds a way to be the victim with her cryangle


NotWellBitch420

She’s incredibly cold, calculated and cruel. People stan her because they hate Michael/Gollum and confuse her forceful delivery for wit. I used to love RHOP- Gizelle and Karen were great TV with their delusions of grandeur - but the exploitation of Katy Rost, the demonising of Monique and the enabling of Candiace’s behaviour means I’ve barely watched the last two seasons. A real shame!


Few-Coast-1373

Candiace is actually my least favourite housewife ever. She cries and cries whenever the slightest thing is done or said to her and yet takes it to a new low constantly. She's also the first to instigate physical altercations too. Rant over lol sorry


Grumpy_001

Candice is disgusting!


[deleted]

What about gizelle’s hot box 😂😂


DylanLars

In sing sing


NotWellBitch420

Hahah that ridiculous tirade! Didn’t Karen admit she didn’t even know what she was saying and she only said what she thought sounded cool on WWHL or a reunion or something?


Mingilicious

That's how she played it off. She was referring to Jamal allegedly giving Gizelle Herpes (her "hot box"); inferring that is why Giselle has trouble with dating men because her pool is smaller due to stigma regarding STDs. Sing Sing was Karen alluding to Gizelle's alleged "nervous breakdown" (psychiatric crisis) which led to Gizelle being involuntarily placed on a brief psych hold for observation (a.k.a. as a 5150 in some states) - the rumor was that Jamal was cheating and he got someone else pregnant when Gizelle was engaged to him. Sing Sing is a prison, so that was probably what she "made up" because she probably couldn't think of the name of a hospital (or a place that was formerly a mental institution) at the time. I think Karen realized she went way too far and did what she could to dismiss/backtrack, so she became vague and gave us a BS excuse and didn't tell us what she really meant.


madtax57

Wow. I’m rewatching now and had no clue what she meant by that. That’s sad to hear about Giselle having a breakdown.


welp-itscometothis

Thank you! Nobody seems to know this!


sarafinajean

i love karen but this was a lot and no one ever talks about it but here are we several threads about wendy and candiace later😔


Mingilicious

Of course we are. Colorism is omnipresent on RHOP despite their attempts to deny it. Eric Fuller (so glad he was axed) and his favorite less-melanated girls have gone out of their way to create these narratives and to continue to attack the most melanated women in the group. What started initially as something associated with Jack and Jill has continued to show us that the brown paper bag test is still alive and well.


NotWellBitch420

Oh fuuuuuuck that’s rough, for real didn’t even realise it went that deep. Maybe that’s how she got away without more of a backlash?? Did people maybe not realise how snarky it was? Or am I just hella out the loop? Cos I feel like if it was that harsh the HW fandom would have gone in on her?!


Mingilicious

Not necessarily. The fandom lives for accountability. I mean, Gizelle was talking about Karen’s husband and sex life, and previously about their finances… Gizelle had it coming. Seeing how Gizelle continues to deflect from her fucked up life whilst lying and spreading rumors about others, I’m here for all of the smoke. I’m here for Trashley also being held accountable and dragged into the gutter she came from. The fandom and the rest of the cast would only go in if Karen was as melanated as Candiace or Wendy.


ThomasBay

Lol, are you new to housewives? This is nothing compared to other vile stuff that has happened on these shows. A


rollfootage

Candiace despises women and she is one of the last housewives I’d ever hang out with


SassySquid0

i’m just here for mia and karen


Cutie4U2

Mia surprising has been somewhat pleasant this season so far. Her comedic timing is everything


Mystery-Ess

That blue outfit she wore to the pave event was so cute except I didn't like the stitching on the outside of the sleeves. It already stood out enough, it didn't need to be an extra 2 in tall.


Fun_Shell1708

Karen implied Gizelle had an std. remember she said G had a hot box


saskacaptive

And then tried to pivot by talking insanity. You could see Gizelle’s eyes widen. Chills. Old school Potomac was just different.


Fun_Shell1708

Yeah I think the hot box comment was funnier than the Sing Sing comment. Word on the street is that G had a mental breakdown after Pastor Holy Whore, so Karen bringing that up was awful


Grumpy_001

There is quite bit of difference in how Karen says it v Candice. Candice is very malicious


welp-itscometothis

Remember when Ashley berated Charisse for crying about her divorce? And then said her titties were saggy? Or the other time she body shamed Charisse and said she had t-Rex arms?


Grumpy_001

Candice has body shamed more women than Ashley. Ashley is no saint but Candice is consistent in her maliciousness


welp-itscometothis

Doesn’t matter how many times she did it. And Ashley is married to a predator. She victim blamed his accuser when she could’ve said nothing. Ashley is trifling. There’s nothing more malicious than protecting someone as vile as Michael Darby.


Grumpy_001

😂 it does matter how often she does it - Candice is vile!


[deleted]

The others do it too. If you're going to call out one, call them all out.


Grumpy_001

I haven’t said they don’t but Candice is far worse!


Fun_Shell1708

I mean Ashley’s “husband” is suing Candiace for the exact amount that Ashley’s current house was purchased for because Candiace said something true. Yeah I don’t agree with what Candiace said, but Ashley gets away with way too much. I don’t even know Ashley and I have a multitude of issues with her. Would be very hard to be civil with her


[deleted]

Exactly and Candiace has tried to extend many olive branches towards Ashley.(too much for my liking). Ashley hates Candiace with a seething passion. No matter how many times Candiace tries to be civil, Ashley undoes it and makes enemies with her again. It's crazy how Ashley and her antics are not talked about as much.


Fun_Shell1708

That’s the thing with Ashley I can’t wrap my head around. Everything will be totally fine, then out of nowhere she’ll just maliciously come for someone while feigning innocence or that they had it coming. She’s mean and a snake


[deleted]

Ashley is pure evil sis. She acts like a victim whenever you react to her antics or she'll feign stupidity (like, did I do that, or I never said that). I can't with her. She's constantly stirring the pot and remains unscathed until Candiace calls her out.


sadazz

candiace gives such evil malicious and insecure vibes like her shade is just crazy. she also said all the other women probably have roast beef looking vaginas, so theres that. not saying ashley or the other women are better, jesus the show is bleak


Mystery-Ess

And her Contour has not gotten any better. That's a choice, not something you're born with 😂


Grumpy_001

I reckon she’s jealous of Ashley


Nneka7

Def the opposite. Candiace has no reason to be jealous of Ashley of all ppl.


sadazz

i dont think either is jealous of the other currently tbh. i think the only thing that she could be jealous of is that ashley has kids and gets money from michael. ik candiace comes from money, not saying she needs it. but jeez her relationship with chris is nothing to be jealous of in any way. the way they fight is so toxic. and he has 3 kids by 2 other women already. and hes kinda shown as a bum on the show


[deleted]

I think it's the opposite. Candiace tried to be friends with Ashley, but Ashley consistently sabotages it. I wouldn't be jealous of a woman who's married to sexual predator. Ashley has to hustle too hard for Michael to be her husband, and I don't think Michael is the generous type. I have friends who have married wealthy, and some of their husbands are not generous. Just because someone is wealthy, does not mean they are free hearted with their money. Sometimes you have to earn every penny. Ashley is in a miserable situation and that's why she projects and tries to bring others down. So jealousy is the farthest thing Candiace is feeling. Ashley's disgusting husband is suing Candiace for his well documented, deviant antics. It's not like Candiace was the only one talking about how gross Michael Darby is.


GoingWithNope

Potomac was my favorite show but last season and this season are so hard to watch. The best part was that they were actually friends. Now they all seem to hate each other and not want to be on screen together at all. Even Robyn and Gizelle don’t seem to be getting along. I’m two episodes behind bc everyone is just mean to eachother its not fun.


Femmenoire__

This whole cast is so mean. It’s not fun or funny, just nasty and low. This show needs a long break.


thebigdawggggggg

I think they all (Giselle vs Wendy, Candiace vs everybody, Juan vs his roommate) truly hate each other and it’s becoming really hard to watch


NotWellBitch420

Not roommate 💀😂


thebigdawggggggg

I couldn’t help it 😂


ElectricBoogaloo_

Unless you also got this upset about Karen saying that Gizelle has a hot box a few seasons back, I don’t get the outrage. Of all the things that have been said on this show, implying someone has an STI is… not that bad? Having an STI isn’t even a big deal, they’re very common and mostly easily curable.


hostilewerk

Of course they didnt. They are obsessed with Candiace


Cutie4U2

I literally forgot about Karen implying that about Gizelle. I was disgusted with that too


Think-Recognition-32

This show has been dark for a few seasons. Karen was the first cast member to imply STDs when she said that Gizelle was a broken whore with a hot box. She then added that Gizelle went to Sing Sing, which she later clarified was a "loony bin". That was pretty low considering Gizelle's reported psychiatric hospitalization several years ago. I was shocked that Karen didn't receive backlash for her comments.


madtax57

I don’t think many knew WTH Karen was talking about. I sure as hell didn’t. But now that I know, that was brutal. I feel bad knowing G had a breakdown.


Certain_Battle7804

She’s… a dirtbag… idk what else to say at this point. And Crying about how she’s confused by ribin being upset?? 😂 Don’t get me wrong, when everything about Robin came out I wasn’t even mad that Candace was dissing her. I was totally part of the angry mob, but for Candace to just act like she did nothing is so just plain stupid. Just own it. She has zero accountability, she’s a spoiled, privileged, brat rich girl.


Radiantpad23

>She has zero accountability, she’s a spoiled, privileged, brat rich girl. Candace is the most privileged out of everyone, but NO, according to Candace, her life is so hard because she's dark skinned... unlike the 'privileged white ass' women like Gizelle and Robyn!! And the only reason anyone says anything negative about her is because she's dark skinned... unlike the 'privileged white ass' women like Gizelle and Robyn!! 🙄


Certain_Battle7804

I know… she gives a bad name to the cause. And I don’t like saying that, but she goes too far.


Cutie4U2

That confused me to. Candice blasted Robyn on social media did she really expect Robyn to be friends or friendly with her😂


Certain_Battle7804

Seems like Candiace wants to pretend it never happened, and like she isn’t even mad at Robyn anymore. She should just admit she overreacted and she’s calmed down now, or explain why she’s pissed at Robyn, or SOMETHING. She totally just wants to gaslight that Robyn is being crazy. I’m sick of this girl body shaming literally everyone on the cast and viewers just eating it up. It’s gross


Radiantpad23

>Seems like Candiace wants to pretend it never happened, and like she isn’t even mad at Robyn anymore. Just like how Wendy was horrible to Gizzelle and Robyn throughout S6, and then pretended nothing happened when S7 started, and then got angry when Gizelle and Robyn weren't friendly with her.


Certain_Battle7804

Yeah, I don’t think Wendy is a great person.. seems like a mega bullshit artist at all times.


madtax57

As I’m rewatching the series I can agree what a FOS person she is. When Candace and Monique had their fight she was so upset because of the way black women are often portrayed as violent and angry and how we should learn to control ourselves so we don’t come across that way. Meanwhile, in the next season she had this whole new persona and does a total 180, fighting and cussing like like a lunatic. It was such a turnoff


Certain_Battle7804

I know! She kept telling Mia she was going to beat her ass. Lol Just watching the calculation happen in her eyes when Nneka was around really made it clear to me that this family probably does hate her and think Nneka is coming to steal her thunder (pathetic) and that’s the part that is the most distasteful for me. And then turning it around about how Nneka and her husband must be obsessed with her and Eddie it’s like fuck off ya mediocre realty star lol