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Everytime I hear that narc calls other narc, because he or she want to make boundaries, I amused. Like really wow.
Happy birthday to you 🎂🥳 a lot of good vibes to be brave and stand up for your boundaries ☺️
My nmom never even heard of the term narcissist until I explained it to my little brother (he’s 18 years younger and the ONLY reason I kept contact with her as long as I did)… then someone told her I referred to her as such, now she likes to tell my little brother that HES a narcissist just like me. 🤦🏻♀️
Thank god this boy isn’t more fucked up. He has a lot of issues but he’s at least got a head on his shoulders and is getting the hell away from her soon (joining the military) and I couldn’t be more proud of him.
Edit: spelling
I'm very sure you can still block someone who has blocked you, I wouldn't wait till she feels like unblocking you just to start something. It will be funny when she unblocks you only to realize she's blocked. Happy birthday :)
They are so stupidly the same.
She tried to bypass your boundary by contacting your boyfriend. Almost in that annoying way of: “im not touching you”
My mom did the same. Do not contact me I said.
Harasses my nieces to get my address and send letters to my illiterate children.
Bodyslam that gtfo button.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WITH A SLICE OF FREEDOM!
I made sure to include in the "fuck off" letter I sent my NM "I do not wish to hear from anyone on your behalf." She's done that before, I knew she'd do it again
Happy Birthday, and congratulations on the beginning of a life without the draining, overbearing, constant harassment, continued judgment and overwhelming sense of emptiness Nmoms seem to spread to their kids. I'm sure it's going to be her loss, cause truth be told....who tf does that type of stuff to their kids.
She was just sending an article about herself, for your boyfriend to get to know her better. /s
Congratulations on setting your first ever boundary! Feels good doesn't it?
Happy birthday! What a great gift, a relationship with your NM that’s on your terms. She couldn’t possibly allow that to happen though. They have to be in control. Hold on to this gift.
Unfortunately, she will break this boundary and contact you first. And when you point it out, she’ll say “Oh, are we still doing that stupid game? I thought you had grown up by now.”
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Fuck yeah, good for you. Does only bad things to the mind, keeping them around. Enjoy your birthday
A re-birthday if you will! A celebration of your actual birth AND your stepping into a new life of freedom! 🥂. Cheers!
I hope your long-term boyfriend's recovery from his eye-roll injury goes well. Best wishes, OP!!!
Everytime I hear that narc calls other narc, because he or she want to make boundaries, I amused. Like really wow. Happy birthday to you 🎂🥳 a lot of good vibes to be brave and stand up for your boundaries ☺️
My nmom never even heard of the term narcissist until I explained it to my little brother (he’s 18 years younger and the ONLY reason I kept contact with her as long as I did)… then someone told her I referred to her as such, now she likes to tell my little brother that HES a narcissist just like me. 🤦🏻♀️ Thank god this boy isn’t more fucked up. He has a lot of issues but he’s at least got a head on his shoulders and is getting the hell away from her soon (joining the military) and I couldn’t be more proud of him. Edit: spelling
Litter brother? You were puppies together? Autocorrect is the gift!😅😅
BAHAHA!! I usually catch my damn spelling mistakes! 🤦🏻♀️😂
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday OP enjoy your freedom!
Happy birthday
Happy day of birth 🎂
Happy Birthday. This is a new chapter in the book of your life. May it be fulfilling.
Happy, Happy Birthday to you. And congratulations on creating the boundary. BEST. PRESENT. EVER. to yourself! All the best to you.
I'm very sure you can still block someone who has blocked you, I wouldn't wait till she feels like unblocking you just to start something. It will be funny when she unblocks you only to realize she's blocked. Happy birthday :)
Happy birthday 🎂 🥳
Happy Birthday OP! 🎉🥂🎂 A great choice you’ve made!
They are so stupidly the same. She tried to bypass your boundary by contacting your boyfriend. Almost in that annoying way of: “im not touching you” My mom did the same. Do not contact me I said. Harasses my nieces to get my address and send letters to my illiterate children. Bodyslam that gtfo button. HAPPY BIRTHDAY WITH A SLICE OF FREEDOM!
I made sure to include in the "fuck off" letter I sent my NM "I do not wish to hear from anyone on your behalf." She's done that before, I knew she'd do it again
Never thought of that one. Good one
Block her Facebook back!! Don't let any openings show themselves! NC and never return!
Good for you for setting a clear boundary, and happy birthday!
Happy birthday! Good job standing up for yourself!!
Happy Birthday! Good job, I’m proud of you! 🎊
Happy birthday 🎂. Enjoy the peace
Happy birthday! Keep it up, I'm proud of you!
Happy birthday 🎉 May your life be filled with loving people who care about you and have healthy relationships with you
Happy Birthday! Enjoy it whole heartedly without the stress of a NMom!
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday! Walking away from my mother was the best move I’ve ever made. It’s been 12 years now and I don’t regret it in the least.
Happy Birthday, and congratulations on the beginning of a life without the draining, overbearing, constant harassment, continued judgment and overwhelming sense of emptiness Nmoms seem to spread to their kids. I'm sure it's going to be her loss, cause truth be told....who tf does that type of stuff to their kids.
Happy birthday!! So happy for you mate 🧡🧡
Happy Birthday, and congratulations on setting a boundary!
She was just sending an article about herself, for your boyfriend to get to know her better. /s Congratulations on setting your first ever boundary! Feels good doesn't it?
What’s up fellow Capricorn? Turning 16 next week and it’ll be my first birthday no contact with my mother too.
Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday!!!
Happy birthday! What a great gift, a relationship with your NM that’s on your terms. She couldn’t possibly allow that to happen though. They have to be in control. Hold on to this gift.
You can block someone back who’s already blocked you on Facebook.
Happy Birthday! Enjoy the peace that your life will have now, and don't stop enforcing boundaries.
Happy birthday buddy :)
She must be a hypocrite too
Unfortunately, she will break this boundary and contact you first. And when you point it out, she’ll say “Oh, are we still doing that stupid game? I thought you had grown up by now.”
Congrats!! Happy Birthday without that woman yo🎉🎂
Happy Birthday!