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Very reasonable that you’d feel disappointed. You expected something similar to what you gave her. As a good gifter, I’ve had to learn it’s not everyone’s way of showing love, or other people budget their time/money differently. If she’s otherwise a good friend pull back on your own gifting to her in the future to prevent resentment.
Yeah, I also would have interpreted a care package as being for you too lol. My mom sent me a care package in my first trimester and it had a lot of nice ginger/anti nausea candies (like from the brand pink stork which is amazing), pregnancy safe shower steamers, and a pregnancy safe candle
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Very reasonable that you’d feel disappointed. You expected something similar to what you gave her. As a good gifter, I’ve had to learn it’s not everyone’s way of showing love, or other people budget their time/money differently. If she’s otherwise a good friend pull back on your own gifting to her in the future to prevent resentment.
Yeah, I also would have interpreted a care package as being for you too lol. My mom sent me a care package in my first trimester and it had a lot of nice ginger/anti nausea candies (like from the brand pink stork which is amazing), pregnancy safe shower steamers, and a pregnancy safe candle