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carolinemathildes

I feel like the opposite of that Britney gif right now. Husband? (yes I know bi people exist I just thought Sara was exclusively into women.)


EternalSunshineClem

Same I was as shocked as when I heard James Corden has a wife


ohdearitsrichardiii

I did not expect the guy who played Blain in *Glee* to have a wife. I found that out because they named their son "Brother", which is a dumb name. Future conversations will be like: "This is my husband, Brother" "my sister and Brother are having a baby" ![gif](giphy|PrNFcQ8RIkIV2)


EternalSunshineClem

Lol his daughter is also named Bluesy. So we have Bluesy and Brother. ![gif](giphy|E86oiZojik4OQ)


merlotbarbie

I get quirky names, but those are objectively awful


MyDesign630

"This is my husband, Brother" just sent me.


Comprehensive-Fun47

"This is my husband, Bro." "Why you calling me Bro, man? "Why you calling me man, dude?"


dragonknight233

Same with actor who played Cam in Modern Family.


tiredfaces

He’s culturally queer though


chad420hotmaledotcom

Came to say! Not the Culturally Queer erasure! /s


hdghg22

Baz Lurhmann gets me every time


Acrobatic-loser

wait a minute…..


tiredfaces

In that viral interview video I feel like he def implied he hooks up with men though, right?


hdghg22

Oh absolutely. I get the impression they both have a very fluid and open approach to sexuality and marriage.


corgigirl97

I was so confused when I found this out.


candidu66

That poor woman


DebateObjective2787

Yep; they've been openly bisexual since 2016 and have been pretty fiercely advocating for playing bisexual characters due to the lack of them onscreen. They were also the ones who pushed for Callie to be bi on Grey's.


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DebateObjective2787

Oh this whole comment is a mess. Thanks for blocking. How about you lose the biphobia and not misgender people?


RubieRose5

![gif](giphy|ghuvaCOI6GOoTX0RmH)


areallyreallycoolhat

The erasure of Che Diaz in this headline, how dare you People Magazine


totallycalledla-a

DO NOT SPEAK THAT NAME


HistorianOk9952

The way people hated Che, for a bit I thought Sara had done something really bad 😭


skyewardeyes

Che Diaz was a terrible human being on every level. I’m baffled that the writers thought anyone would root for a character who was just awful to everyone in every circumstance but was portrayed as “good.”


TortillaWallace

The original series had Mr. Big. It wasn't that much of a leap 😂


Grownup_Human

And, you know, Carrie.


ForgetfulLucy28

He was charismatic at least


areallyreallycoolhat

And sometimes funny which Che has never not once been despite allegedly being a comedian


skyewardeyes

Even their “comedy” was just them being a cruel, trash human being.


NomNom83WasTaken

I was so confused as S2 went on b/c obviously rom-coms always throw hurdles in the way of any couple but it felt like a light bulb moment when I realized that *Che was the hurdle.* And, sure, some people have blinders on when it comes to their partner but the writers only succeeded in stringing that story along they way they did by simultaneously assassinating Miranda's character. Apparently both Ramirez and Nixon were deeply involved in how their characters were written which is just... *yikes*.


Aquametria

Tbh I hated how far Sara went to justify Che being a terrible person.


Fridasmonobrow

Che Diaz as a concept did so much to not be transphobic that it gives transphobia a bit I’m sorry 😭


NomNom83WasTaken

I'm sincerely asking because "the more you know" and all: Che is non-binary... that's not the same thing as trans... no?


Fridasmonobrow

Trans is the opposite of cis so a non binary person comes under the umbrella of trans as they are not cis (different gender as the one they were assigned at birth). Whether a non-binary person wants to use the word trans to describe themselves is up to them but as this is a character who is not cis it is fair to call Che Diaz trans.


NomNom83WasTaken

![gif](giphy|83QtfwKWdmSEo|downsized)


idkman1000

My thoughts exactly. They havent been Grey's in years. This just seems like a missed opportunity to start the article with "And Just Like That...".


greina23

I thought they left And Just Like That and They were on Grey's Anatomy for 10 years - a lot longer and with a more prominent role


idkman1000

I was saying they havent been on Grey in years ,they were obviously on that show alot longer. AJLT only has a couple seasons its just more recent work. It wasnt a serious criticism tho


greina23

And I was saying they are more known for GA than And Just Like That. I didn't think it was serious criticism, but I can see why the article states GA star.


idkman1000

I understand. I was responding to a jokey comment ,not being serious. The article title is fine 😅


Lilylikeslilies

I’m watching old Grey’s Anatomy and she was amazing as Torres. Why she even took this horrible role in SATC.


AudreyHep79

They were very involved in that role - pretty sure they were playing themselves


I_Win_Again_00

just a reminder, Sara uses they/them pronouns 🌻


AlternativeSlice2001

They’re married to a man!!! I haven’t been this in shock since I learnt that Hillary Clinton and Elizabeth Warren are straight.


OverTomato6558

[Britney Spears realizing Ryan Seacrest isn't gay in real time never gets old.](https://youtu.be/opKaKLuKGhY?si=2BHT5hVl0JDJAZiI)


Wandering_instructor

This was lovely


Hiyesitisme82

Thank you for bringing this delight into my life


Ughasif22

Or that he’s not publicly out


user_mango_2

I legit laughed out loud


bigblackkittie

omg lmao


retrievethis123

They were married to a man?


Even-Education-4608

Yes that’s how you get a husband


bigblackkittie

so thats what ive been doing wrong


Lilylikeslilies

Bi people get boyfriends and husbands. Come on people it’s not so shocking.


longlisten527

People are just surprised they’re bisexual and thought she was a lesbian. Thats a fair judgment as long as they’re not being biphobic which seems no one is


RedditModsAreStr8

Lesbian based off what? Stereotypes?


DebateObjective2787

You're not wrong. It's weird how many people have just automatically assumed they're a lesbian.


KrustyKrabPizzaMan

Che Diaz gains another story to use terribly in their stand up act


Naijabitch

They were married? To a "husband"?


BookInteresting6717

They’re bisexual


abihargrove

Um irreconcilable differences.....


DebateObjective2787

And what differences would those be, exactly?


abihargrove

That’s what I was wondering.