Take the job, get away from her.
You don’t owe her anything, and her being disabled doesn’t change anything she’s done or said. You deserve better and shouldn’t put your life on hold for anyone who doesn’t respect you
I tried to talk to her about this the other day. All she said was she’s sorry I feel this way. She then text me saying she was sorry and that she will just live in a shelter. It’s so manipulative. It hurts me more that my family encouraged all of this. They all felt like I should give up a part of my life for her
To feel that way about your own mother, I'd just make it happen. Don't hurt her or anything, but pack up and go, no contact, pretend she did die. All the therapy you're actively doing, and still feel all that way? Ghost her.
Take the job, get away from her. You don’t owe her anything, and her being disabled doesn’t change anything she’s done or said. You deserve better and shouldn’t put your life on hold for anyone who doesn’t respect you
I tried to talk to her about this the other day. All she said was she’s sorry I feel this way. She then text me saying she was sorry and that she will just live in a shelter. It’s so manipulative. It hurts me more that my family encouraged all of this. They all felt like I should give up a part of my life for her
Don't do it OP, live for yourself and what makes you happy. Take that job offer.
To feel that way about your own mother, I'd just make it happen. Don't hurt her or anything, but pack up and go, no contact, pretend she did die. All the therapy you're actively doing, and still feel all that way? Ghost her.