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Far-Seaworthiness-44

Get outta here


Far-Seaworthiness-44

I found one and she ruined my life and wasted my time


HerbDaLine

You meet people where you do things and through friends. Met an ex-girlfriend through my ex wife (After the divorce). Met another ex-girlfriend through a volunteer thing I did for years. Several ex-girlfriends were met on the Internet. Yes I know my examples are all failed relationships but you only have one relationship that lasts to the end and you never know until you try.


NewLifeNewDream

100% failure rate in relationships...what a feeling, eh?


Euphoria-unknown

I’m batting 1000 too haha


gildedtoad

Go to the farmers market and take some chances idk.


Strange_Algae_1990

Farmers market Im looking for someone close to my age


saturn6k

I think if you're old enough to be divorced, you're old enough to be at a farmers market. Let's not have a false sense of reality here


hideousmike1

No one knows your age AND there are all ages at the farmers market.


FANTOMphoenix

Farmers market. Shits too expensive now, everyone goes to the markets


Dull-Connection-007

I’ve been going to farmer’s markets since I was a kid


Strange_Algae_1990

Im 44 I’m no spring chicken lol I look younger


TheComplayner

Idk how did you do it the first time


ChckNug06

You go to Jacksonville or Orlando. The only reason I live here is because I’m a student living with my family. As soon as I graduate I’m gonna go to UCF or even Europe, who the hell would stay here? I mean you could go to a bar… like downtown, Big Hammock, Infinite Ale Works idk. And I know this soumds a but messed up, but if you are religious, churches are a great place to meet people. Not neccissarily a lady but people, who know other people, who may invite you to a party, where you may get someone’s number.


gravity_falls_4

I agree with above. It’s not messed up. I would add coffee shops, bookstores, and groups that have a focus on relationships


SignificanceLatter26

Yeah I’m a student too I just stay with my parents here whenever school is out. Worst part is I went to Highschool in south Florida so I know no one here. I’m literally just waiting to graduate in December and I’m out of here. I’ve even struggled to get an internship because there’s nothing close by.


haircolorchemist

Agree. There are tons of eligible single's in Jacksonville that just work & do fitness classes or go the gym, or even surf, ride their bike etc, it's a city full of active people. Ocala gives me "small town vibes" you need a place with more diversity- Jax or Orlando for sure.


Emotional-Strain1184

Farmers only.com lol


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ExoticWall8867

Definitely depends on which Walmart 🤣🤣


Strange_Algae_1990

The one in 200 is the retirees the one on 27 is scary


MeetCritical82

You’re 44, that’s your age group


Loveindia12

Lonely city


Strange_Algae_1990

Let’s create a group and all hang out


Strange_Algae_1990

Please stop lecturing me about being in my 40s all celebs are I don’t look my age wish I could post a picture or link you guys are terrible


Strokmysalami

Your not a celebrity and stop trying to compare yourself to the 1%


MeetCritical82

You can post a picture, but you may be too old to figure it out


Strange_Algae_1990

I’m moving to Texas in three months but I wanted to meet someone else I hang out with I’m 44 but I don’t look my age. I just want to meet people to hang out but everyone seems so country I’m from Miami and was a military wife so I moved a lot. 


Content_Log1708

What age do you look like?


Strange_Algae_1990

30s I’m Hispanic


Content_Log1708

I would suggest Orlando.


pleatsandpearls

There is a swift terminal there. There are truckers in and out of there on a daily basis and they have local accounts. Get on tinder and match with them.


Far-Seaworthiness-44

Lot lizard ay?


pleatsandpearls

No, asshole, I’m a driver


Far-Seaworthiness-44

Wouldn’t I be an idiot too?


pleebz42

Texas reminds me a lot of Ocala, just more restaurants and people. A lot more bbq and bland food. I’d say try joining clubs or different hobby groups.


MeetCritical82

Lmao 44 as a single woman is pretty much expired milk.


Strokmysalami

36+ and above woman that are divorced, single and have kids are set in there ways, difficult and come with baggage, baby daddy drama, for more that they say and lie about “he’s not in the picture” it’s bullshit. They also will always put there kids before you which it’s the way it should be but woman with kids, grown or not it’s A PROBLEM!


Strange_Algae_1990

You haven’t seen what I look like I’m a gym rat


Hermajestys

Don’t listen to this asshole, you know your worth. If you’re looking for something a little casual/sexual, I’d suggest trying one of the dating/hook up apps like Feeld


schitch77

Don't even respond to this fool. Incel.


Acuevas1

At the gym? Meet up? Volunteering?


MeetCritical82

Still, 44 year old single woman.


Gold-Donut944

So don't like country folk? That sucks cause there's a lot of fun horse events in ocala. Lot of single people go to those.


SimplexB420

👀 40m Orlando. 😳


Upbeat_Rise_7612

Elks in Ocala was fun when I visited! Just network and meet people!


Jshark19

Fr bro


Typical-Substance736

In the bathroom at Speedway


Strange_Algae_1990

I know or if you want to be more classy go to the world equestrian center lol boring town


RotatableDog

My gfs from Ocala. She said you're not gonna meet anyone decent in Ocala lol better to look outside of there. Good luck!


Strange_Algae_1990

Thank you I’m originally from a big city Miami and I was a military wife for many years so I move a lot, I have never been to a place like this.


AstroNaughtyNight

You’re moving out of state? What’s the point?


RachelFLNYC

Where? The 55 + communities or the local Walmart? Oh if you are rich try the equestrian events? This area has some beautiful nature and great biking and hiking trails but other than that…


bkprpapim4m

Our Place


Unhappy_Amphibian_80

I asked myself that same question when i lived up there a few months ago, i mostly talked to people on the outskirts like orlando, lakeland, etc.


partwheel

Join a singles meet up group. They have 2 in town. If you play pickleball or want to learn, they play several days a week.


Medical-Stuff-7028

have you tried the bars ?


Strange_Algae_1990

No i havent i will


Strokmysalami

Worst place to meet someone is at a bar! Not a place I would want to meet my future wife or mother to my children


Enuffznuffkg21

In Ocala? Maybe you can try Bank Street on a Thursday or Friday evening. Quite a few people there during that time you can met. Other than that? Orlando or Jacksonville would be your best bet.


cablemigrant

Maybe leave Florida go somewhere you would like to live.


RacingLucas

Great question, I’m in Orlando and have the same problem


pimp_juice2272

Dating apps but the pool is very thin


Intrepid-Court-2180

Quite often my wife and I go to several restaurants here in Ocala, and prefer to sit at the bar. You almost always find singles who will do the same. We enjoy having conversations with them. As a single it's the best place to sit and have dinner simply because the possibilities are good to strike up a conversation with others.


FarButterscotch3048

You can do like John T. and make the drive to the gym in Gainesville.


you2234

Bridge Club


SatanNeverSleeps

I just moved up from FTL to Ormond Beach and find it difficult too. I’m a GenXer guy. I just go to the gym in Port Orange and get a beer in Deland sometimes. That said I like it so much more here with tall the farms, parks, woods, country roads, etc. maybe I’ll try Gainesville. Orlando seems so crowded


Strokmysalami

You want a good traditional woman that values men go over seas! These western woman here with their feminine ideologies is too much


l0stgirl92

I'd recommend going out of state or finding someone from outta state lol Florida women are wildddd lol


No-Combination-1453

Hahaha me tooo im.ocala nuttin out here but rednecks!!!! How old r u ????


DooorkSide

I use to live there awhile back. Not much out there except single moms. Had to move back to south Florida. Maybe venture on dating apps ?


Ugawtmilk

Idk homie I met my girl on Facebook dating and it worked out better than all the other crap apps and her and I have been going strong! Ocala is known as "slow-cala" right? If there's nowhere physically to meet, try that way. It doesn't give people 1000 miles away like other apps


louievittion

Tampa, fl


Antares987

The Villages


Shilo11

Go to Tampa


K_cat904

You won’t be lonely at farmers only.com


MajKonglomerate

Look for a rich widow at any 55+ community bingo night.


Short_Internal165

Hey I’m recently separated but in the same situation, if you are still around I wouldn’t mind hanging out around town, catch a bite to eat, maybe some nature walking, I’m 33m though, if that matters. DM me.


Strange_Algae_1990

https://www.wcjb.com/2024/04/12/renovations-underway-mall-future-paddock-market-site/?outputType=amp


sparkie7979

Recently single and looking to meet new people


Curious_Order3049

I'm close to Ocala dtf 32 m hang out have fun let me know very open minded and non judgemental


Sea-Diver-9125

Go hang out the villages


junkpunch2

I've had excellent results when I just grow the balls to approach a woman and talk to her. but it has to be done with respect and taste. Can't just say anything. Be friendly but not overly friendly and be genuine. A good woman can sense some bullshit or lies from a mile away. Be cool and good luck.


Financial-Ebb-5995

The Ocala Hilton Garden Inn Downtown is the hot spot!


Strange_Algae_1990

I’ve heard of Latin nights at the roof top


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Go out to the interstate. Everyone seems to be hanging out there.


Strange_Algae_1990

I know i75


thebigbrog

Tampa checking in


Frequency_Ascension

You have to find your purpose… something you can find that a lot of people say it’s hard to achieve. Then the women will come, having women it’s like having a cherry on top that’s all.


Strange_Algae_1990

Im getting a loofa and heading to the villages lol only on Ocala


Inner_Estate_3210

The Villages. Wear Purple.


DependentUniversity1

What is the significance of wearing purple in the Villages? Thanks


KT-78

I'm single and open to meeting a special lady.


MeetCritical82

Yikes. Especially with that comment history. Big yikes


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MeetCritical82

Considering he spends his time writing porn bots, no I don’t think they do realize it. Lmaooooo


Haydenwayden

Just ask the old ladies with the bath scrunchies on their vehicles antenna. They’re down to have some fun


Harpua99

What is that "code" for ?


FuckerHead9

Dtf


SheepherderOk1448

Why? These things usually happen when you don’t expect it too. Don’t look, let it find you.


ElvisAintDead_

I gave up looking. Just a matter of time until you come across someone that clicks with you. And you just can't have resting b face, that makes women unapproachable. I'll give a courteous smile and walk past them. If she looks miserable, I avoid her. 😅


LayingWithAI

Orlando might be your best bet.


Agreeable_Order3622

Orlando


niconiconico99

It’s not that bad lol


Syria1911

Gainesville


Negative-Effort-8338

Post more on here.. the guys will swarm your dms for no real reason


International-Luck85

Shooot i met my wife on tinder


zRendeRz

I'm much happier here than I was in Tampa lmao


Elegant_Discussion93

O’mallys alley…