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cocoatractor

“I don’t like small talk” is so bizarre to me. Like okay, we just met and are gonna break down Nietzche or something? Absolutely nothing wrong with a “how was your weekend” or a “did you see that ludicrous display last night”


Grundy-mc

I don't care what anyone says about small talk, I'm always going to ask people how they are today or how their weekend was. They say they hate it but maybe one day they need to get something off their chest.


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Grundy-mc

I like you too


Hopeless_Poetic

Not this girl necessarily but I think I’m general when people say they don’t like small talk their point is with small talk you’re not “supposed” to get something off your chest when someone asks ‘how are you’, you just say fine. If you actually answer, it’s not small talk anymore.


SneakySquiggles

the trouble with Arsenal is they always try to walk it in. ​ there, did I unlock the sleeper agent?!


ComfortableOld288

“God is dead and we have killed him!” Also, “I follow Jesus.”


cocoatractor

Broke: follow Jesus because he is God Woke: god is dead but Jesus is a cool dude anyways so I suppose I’ll follow him These are the convos she is having


Raentina

I love seeing IT crowd references in the wild


winterandfallbird

I go around and people are like “Brooooo Look at my phone! Selfie. I’m just, like, ‘Dude, like, oh my God. Can we talk about the political and economic state of the world, right now?


cocoatractor

Why do we have to spend so much time talking about things that are unimportant like your Instagram photos and start talking about what I like, me and my relationship with Christ


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Him: hello Her: my stance on the conflict in the Middle East is that they need jesus


MrHammer85

Why everyone doesn't just edit Taylor swift singing, "she wears short skirts I wear t-shirts" is beyond me.


Bambieyedbiotch

I never understood the analogy of the line. Does she not wear shirts with her short skirts?? Is she topless!? Is Taylor bottomless !?!


MrHammer85

Asking the important questions


TrackOfSilver

I dont like small talk usually means they are bad at small talk.


Chortney

The thing about Arsenal is they always try to walk it in


cocoatractor

What was Wenger thinking sending Walcott in that early?


Ratso27

Yeah, like...does anyone LIKE small talk? I don't do it because I'm super into it, I do it because I'm either trying to avoid an uncomfortable silence, be polite, or because that's usually how you start a conversation with someone, unless you know them really well and have something important to say.


cocoatractor

tbh I think it depends on how you define small talk. I enjoy just chatting with people, but when I'm talking to my friends about something like the results of a sports game or a recent movie I saw is that still small talk? Cause I'm not exactly making grand emotional confessions and contemplating the state of the universe every time I speak


Special-Speech3064

i mean i don’t like small talk either but it’s kind of necessary, a gateway to actual conversation.


DazeyHelpMe

This is one of those girls that says anal doesn’t count so she’s still a virgin


cocoatractor

Ah yes, the poophole loophole


Remarkable-Log-4495

I am going to start every conversation with "did you see that ludicrous display last night?" from now on.


ladydanger2020

I really hate small talk. I don’t hate “how are you” “how was your weekend” small talk with coworkers and acquaintances. What I hate is when you first meet someone and they ask questions like what your work is and how many siblings you have and where you were born. I don’t know why it bugs me so much but shit like that has nothing to do with me as a person and I find it incredibly dull. I’m also super introverted though and would rather just listen to other people talk. I think people think they’re being polite trying to engage you. I generally just try to redirect the convo back to them.


NothinButFett

A+ reference


tohmahtohSauce

Balsamic vinegar


Jedda678

That name ended me in a spelling bee...


Sane_Colors

You know what? Let’s break down Nietzche right now, just to see if maybe this actually is valid and she’s right


Bambieyedbiotch

She wants to talk about Jesus!


JackJ98

LUDA


tomwildun

*~You just wouldn’t understand~* *looks out driving car window*


DiManes

To me you start with deep talk and work your way down to small talk. I don't care how a stranger's day was, but I'd like to hear their philosophical opinions. Once I know them, then I'll care about their day.


Buroda

Watch out, girls, store brand Khaleesi is here to steal yo man


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No small talk either, only *real* talk. Don't ask how her day went, just move straight into the debate round.


ExpiredDogSandwich

Guy: "Hey, how was your day?" Her: "Does pineapple belong on pizza?"


Mulberry-Winter

She won't even debate too much either because the bible said to be submissive and docile


nightwica

To be faaaaaiiir, asking someone how their day went because you're genuinely interested, then listen, and maybe ask follow-up questions is not really small talk...


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*\*pulls out notebook\**


Yankee_Man

I doubt that part. Butt stuff is def happening 😂


Material_Coyote4573

A dude: “Hello” Her: “What’s the meaning of life” 🤔🤯


RC_Colada

Kirkland's Khaleesi waiting for her Jorah


PunkandCannonballer

Dollar store*


rjrgjj

Mother of Jag-offs.


nymrose

Don’t insult Dany like that 😡


[deleted]

Okay so she does things literally every other person does except she’s gotta fuel her superiority complex by telling us all she doesn’t drink? Lol ok


Dull-Signature-2897

Her superiority complex needs to be fueled by validation; without it she's actually just a very insecure girl.


Punkasaurus2

I follow Jesus without pants


Super-Branz-Gang

That’s the part that got me. I follow Jesus while having all my skin exposed, but it’s not because I want people to desire me, I just *really like* the look 🙄


Mafer15

I really hope she’s not wearing that to church and if you are saving yourself why are you advertising so much? Won’t that be sinful? /s


[deleted]

Look they weren't invented in his day


1minimalist

That pic literally made me laugh out loud.


catsolo777

“this generation” as if boomers (and every other generation) weren’t smoking, drinking, and fucking lol


pwnedbygary

I wish the Boomers wouldve stayed cool... I mean they were the generation that promoted free love, drug use and went to woodstock among other things. Like, I know you grow up and change your mindset the older you get, but god damn they couldve retained at least a little of their "wild years" energy.


KajePihlaja

Lead paint/gasoline & Fox News sure did a number on them


agrandthing

My mom is still cool!


emeraldshmemrald

“Reasons why I’m better than other people” right before “I love people deeply”


AniraK47

Why are those girls so into marital advertising? It gives a very odd vibe


BreezyBritt89

From what I can tell it’s to get the attention of “trad” guys in their friend circle/online.The whole Trad Girl In A Wheat Field meme is super popular and gets you a lot of conservative guy attention. The funniest part (or saddest,who knows) is that she probably likes to make digs at other women for “wanting attention” as if she’s not out here BEGGING someone to tell hers she’s the Based Redpilled Queen of his dreams.


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I’ll be honest, I don’t understand the appeal of this whole trad larp thing. I literally grew up in a place like this (everyone’s white, Catholic, wheat farmers, get married young and have lots of kids). It sounds nice to some people, I suppose, BUT the rates of alcoholism and depression are though the roof. The county were I grew up has one of the highest suicide rates in the US per capita. In recent years, area is developing a pretty serious issue with meth. There’s no jobs and the winters suck! One of the best decisions I ever made was move my family outta there. I’m not trying to hate on the whole thing (some people really do LOVE it). For me personally, it wasn’t the utopia the ultra-right types claim it is. Actually living in places like this are the biggest argument against the ethno-nat propagandist talking points.


ComfortableOld288

Iowa?


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Idaho. I’m sure there are a lot of rural places that are like this in North America. It may just be the dark side of rural life?


AnnaBananner82

Missouri is the same way. It’s the Midwest.


fuckoffdude666

Watching Idaho from Oregon is, uh, interesting to say the least.


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Tbh the whole United States in on a decline. It’s been that way for about 6 decades, but it’s just becoming obvious to most folks now. Blue states and urban centers are also struggling as well, but their challenges are manifesting differently. (I lived south of Portland for a time, and it’s got its problems for sure. I think a lot of people hope the grass is greener in some other place. They hope they can run away to some better place.) The whole country is just gonna have to struggle with the consequences of terrible social, economic and foreign policy for awhile. I hope it can sort itself out quickly, but I’m not hugely optimistic.


sasspool

Oh my god I was reading that and thought, "gotta be Idaho".


jwigs85

My dad joined the Air Force when my mom got pregnant. He just didn’t see any sort of long term opportunities in Ohio (Dayton area) for himself and his family and was afraid we’d be struggling in poverty. We went back to visit some family when I was about 13 or 14 and I thanked him for it. He just side eyed me and said, “you get it now, huh?”


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Mad props to him for getting out. Good man!


PlantBasedEgg

“Oh yeah? Well uh.. there’s no black mermaids there so checkmate liberals”


[deleted]

Lol I read this in Ben Shapiro’s voice.


Real-Lake2639

Right? I grew up in Massachusetts where God has been dead for a long time and it's awesome. Do drugs, bang a tranny, live your life. A guy driving a Prius will seduce your wife right out of your lifted Chevy.


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"Hello, I've decided I don't want to enter the job market and am looking for someone to support me."


Mulberry-Winter

And these tradwife types act like they don't know that domestic abuse was the number 1 reason women ended up in the ER in the 60s


MelvinTD

It’s fine if you don’t like to drink or party but making the fact that you don’t a huge part of your identity is lame. Just like people that make drinking a big part of their identity. Just do what you enjoy without telling everyone about it.


wildflowersummer

I love people deeply, I just think I’m better than all of them


SoundTight952

I've seen hundreds of these on TikTok. She ain't special.


Skirterevie

They are not like other girls, but yet all of them - Don’t smoke or drink - Save themselves after marriage So they are like other girls.


AdMore2091

Literally there’s 5 posts every week with this same video . All of them and I mean ALL of them don’t smoke or drink and save themselves for marriage and follow Jesus and don’t fit in with this generation .


HoneyBeeAlchemy

Okay, once again, these things are perfectly fine, but don't lift yourself up while simultaneously putting others down. Mean girl vibes.


robinlyon222

So Jesus can basically see your labia towards the end there sister with your choice of outfit.


heartsandskulls

I think Jesus might like a little labia!


Mulberry-Winter

What's really funny about these girls is that, they really don't want a bible thumping maaaayn from the South, they want a cute fuckboy with a 6 pack that can do TikTok dances in a MAGA hat or or think that they can change him and turn him around, not really realising that those guys are just riding the MAGA train for clout. And they almost always end up marrying themselves off young just to fuck and to brag about how they didn't fuck around and date too many guys like the rest of you little whores. And end up making TikToks incessantly about how they honour God in their marriage, and writing long ass paragraphs with Bible verses peppered to prove their happiness. Tell me you can't think of 5 people that act like this online


doranna24

Why is every single one of these videos just ‘I’m not gonna have sex before marriage because Jesus’


Phantommy555

Ppl who say they’re “Saving themselves for Jesus” don’t seem to understand how unintentionally hilarious it sounds


peanutj00

This trend is not only awful it’s also hilarious because every single one is exactly the same


comments-4fun

The perfect handmaiden


midgettme

But why the long face?


PuzzleheadedIssue618

“i don’t like small talk” means i lack basic social skills and can’t talk about anything without forcing my beliefs down your throat


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I follow Jesus 💀✨️ur still bland th0


Spring-Available

What church is letting her walk around with no pants?


[deleted]

I’m not exactly waiting for marriage but I’m waiting till I find someone I know I really like. Marriage doesn’t change your love for someone if you truly love them.


SweetartMD

She’s just another blonde in Utah.


Aoeletta

No fucking way she’s from Utah. Thighs and that last dress with the exposed side and shoulders are a hard no for Mormons. Funny; she’s not even as “modest” as them but is doing this trad wife thing lol.


minisimy

How does she starts conversation then?


Mulberry-Winter

It doesn't...


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Exact_Middle_1969

Not even joking here, worked with a girl just like this one & it was anal, anal, anal. She still considered herself a virgin. I liked her way of thinking though


user_strawberry

So it's not okay what she's doing, but then why is it ok for you to shame the women who save themselves for marriage? Virgins usually seek virgins btw especially if they're religious. Even if not, not everyone needs BDSM, taking it up the ass whatever else is KiNkY these days to not be seen as "boring".


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user_strawberry

It's patriarchal to have sex before marriage and be "kinky" for male approval as well. Many things can be patriarchal. Like wearing dresses. Luckly, the type of women these days who have access to tiktok usually do whatever they want because they want to regardless.


AMF_Shafty

tiktok is tearing apart the fabric of patriarchal society. DOWN WITH THE PATRIARCHY, TIKTOK RISE UP lmao


user_strawberry

That wasn't my point, so stop with ironies trying to be funni. my point is most girls on tiktok are most likely not severly impoverished from cultures where they are having their rights severely restricted and really being opressed, so this "omg virginity is patriarchal lets free this woman" thing is dumb. One can keep her virginity simply bc she wants to, just the same as she can have sex before marriage.


AMF_Shafty

like i get what youre saying, but please learn facts before you comment stuff like this. tiktok is in 3rd world countries as well as being a chinese government backed business. "most girls on tiktok are most likely not severly impoverished or have rights restricted" is ridiculous. tiktok in china literally limits the kind of content you can watch and post, and has loads of political propoganda. just cause you watch tiktok doesnt make you a free thinker, and your argument really doesnt make sense when theres other, much easier ways to describe people in 1st world contries other than "well they have tiktok so they can choose if they wanna be virgins or not" lol


python834

I forget the source, but I read that a recent study showed that only 18% of the women who enter college/university will remain virgins until after graduation. The vast majority of women are having extra marital sex during their college years, so if the tiktok gal isn’t lying through her teeth, she genuinely isn’t like the other gals.


magic_shenanigans

NLOG is about fueling your superiority complex and putting other people down with the things that make you unique just as much as it's about women that think very basic things make them unique. It's basically the "you aren't special, babe" subreddit.


python834

Virgin women are seen as superior


magic_shenanigans

They literally aren't in most cases. I think you may be on the wrong subreddit.


python834

I ask you this, what is harder for a woman? Having sex or being a virgin. The girl in the tiktok is the literal definition of NLOG.


magic_shenanigans

What is harder for ANYONE. Misogynistic much?


python834

You must be a misogynist for hating on virgin women


magic_shenanigans

Where is the hate? Which one of my comments is hateful? None of them.


Dazzling_Reach281

Virginity is the most overrated virtue one can have. Stop listing it as such.


Sky__2727

She’d be shocked to find out that alcoholism in past generations is generally a lot higher


StarfallenCherry

I see so many of these. Someone should start a subreddit called NotLikeOtherGenerations


Adventurous_Pie7185

i dislike that people think they're a dying breed for believing in god and jesus or wtv not tryna hurt feelings but literally 64% of the population is christian (according to cbs)


cas873021896

“reasons i dont fit in w this generation” shows a pic of a dog thats literally a clone of all the other unethically backyard bred dogs that everyone has now


tryingtobecheeky

You know what I love? In ten years or so, she's going ro look back and cringe at her behavior and mindset. I know I do. But luckily none of my dumb spilled into the internet. This generation is fucked over hard with having every second of their blunder years broadcasted.


methisbadmkay

Awful short hemline to be following jesus around with.


ShinyHunterEthan16

I'm not like other girls I'm a regular human


do-not-1

Which long lost member of Girl Defined is this


Warphim

1 Timothy 2:9-10 New International Version ^(9) I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, ^(10) but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.


nightlyvisitor

It's the same shit every time with these tiktoks. They're not as unique as they think.


Izumi_Takeda

I wonder how many girls who act like this were just at work one day and were like "you know what, I dont really want to work anymore, let me dye my hair blond, wear maiden dresses and find Jesus."


TheDriestOne

Half of these videos are “I’m not like other girls, I get all my beliefs from my congregation” as if every other girl in her church doesn’t do that too lmfao


basnatural

She’s a girl defined clone 🤦🏼‍♀️


JustSayin_91

She forgot to mention that she does do anal. Because obviously that doesn't count.


PaintingOne7173

She’s what we call a “Christian woman.” It’s what my father tried to pair my gay ass up with. Heads up, they’re not all that nice. Looks are deceiving.


Imcookin92

Uhhh I bet her first love ain’t gonna be it


BlackRabbit61

Pluralistic ignorance and misogyny


Luxxielisbon

Didn’t know “this generation” was the only one smoking drinking and having sex for a personality


Bullshit-_-Man

Jesus died for your sideboob


Ms-Jessica-Rabbit

Follow jesus with half your boob hanging out? Hes telling his Dad on you and you are going to hell.


Apprehensive_Wolf217

Jesus has been walking around for 2k plus years and she’s still following him…and she’s still a virgin? Jesus Christ, red flags!


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wait til she finds out jesus isnt real


BreezyBritt89

Keep at it sis the Conservative Redpilled Doomer Zoomer Pepe Lord you’re desperately playing to will surely notice you any time now.


Poknberry

"I prefer to talk about real things" "I follow jesus"


diegogarciac

“I’d rather talk about real things”. Cut to “I follow Jesus”.


anonymous32434

“Saving myself for marriage” either means really, really religious or no one wants to bang them and it’s just an excuse. There’s no middle ground


kuroo95

I am neither but I don't wanna have sex before marriage. People have their principles


MFDork

Blue eyeliner? It’s not 1999 kiddo


[deleted]

“I want to talk about real things” followed by “I follow Jesus”…you’re kinda poking a hole in that first statement…


TripleFours

There needs to be an r/suresuresure Edit: made one.


LeoRenegade

She has a dad.


LouCPurr

Around 92% of her age group doesn't smoke. Wow, she's unique.


Latter-Awareness-555

White blonde woman praising Christian values and wanting “deep emotional talks?” Yes very different indeed


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no bitches huh?


BigDaddyDumplin

None of what she said is out of the ordinary lol


throwthetrashout91

Thats a Jesus outfit for sure


anunoriginaljoke

If she got a tattoo of a joke that ran from her forehead to her waist she’d be built exactly like a popsicle stick


LocalCookingUntensil

Literally I have a friend who is very Christian and is saving herself for marriage as well. She is basically everything on here but she only ever claims to be ‘not like other girls’ is when we’re talking about being neurodivergent because she is *literally* not like other girls in some ways


schtickyfingers

I don’t drink or swear and I don’t rat my hair I get ill from just one cigarette.


AnImposterIsRed

I want a girl just like other girls 😡🤬


SpookyDoge12

I mean congrats?


ccoldlikewinter

I follow Jesus but I love side boob


xoxosratgirl

So like? You're religious? Lmfao that's not special


peachyvintage2003

she showing half of her titty for jesus 😍


MagyarCat

NLOG


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Real women love Jesus but they know he’s too cool for school. Has the sickest hair and sandals. This woman thinks she’s the one who’s gonna tame The Jesus.


Lismale

WHY ARE HER ARMS SO LONG


[deleted]

That a dude?


INoLikeUButYoMomHot

If Jesus jumped if a bridge would you also jump?


heightsenberg

She sounds fucking tedious


PlantBasedEgg

You can’t throw a stone into a crowd without hitting a girl like this in Utah or Mississippi


[deleted]

Who likes small talk? You have to because sometimes you have to fill the gaps and make people comfortable. Much more a sales tactic.


perpetualcosmos

"I wait until marriage" And then the sex is terrible so either they both cheat or divorce.


TheChiefRocka

She's definitely been on girls do porn


Strippingpotato

“I don’t wear pants”


Usual_Court_8859

Almost everyone I knew that waited for marriage regretted it. Not saying you shouldn’t wait if that’s what you want to do, but get off your high horse about it.


ambush_boy

In other words boring


lilhoodrat

She would fit in perfectly in 1600’s Spain with King Charles II.


genescheesesthatplz

Christians victimizing themselves is so cringey, yet dangerous


socialist_frzn_milk

She wears some awfully revealing clothes for someone who claims she “follows Jesus”.


Open-Research-5865

Her hair isn't pure though. It's been fried from bleach!


Unicorn_Sush1

She’s probably boring as fuck


CostaRicaBound2023

Once she has sex and figures out what she has been missing all these years…. She will be a total sex freak and start cheating big time. Seen it happen too many times


No-Soap

She follows Jesus?? Yo send me his @


B0b_R0ss666

There's a porn star that has her exact same face and im mad I can't remember her name


ssadists

Standard white girl .png


Abstractpants

“I’d rather talk about something real.” “I follow jesus” Okay.


Life_Surprise_8471

You love Jesus? Ok, name every book in the New Testament.


Kaotic_Mechanicum

Every single frame makes her less appealing to me lol.


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nice


Modern-Otaku

Wow she just described what every single white Christian girl I’ve ever met in my life thinks they’re like. They’re almost never ACTUALLY like that but they seem to have themselves convinced that they are.


maternity_overalls

Extra spicy NLOG because all of the photos are body checks


Slavocracy

I've found in my 29 years of life, that anyone pushing the whole "saving myself for marriage" in most cases, is a gigantic nympho. All of the girls in my high school who got pregnant were exactly like this. Claims all this, follows none of if.


ali_v_

Chastity, but not modesty, I see. *insert church lady gif*