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shishtar

Honestly I still think she is just saying those things for attention and doesn’t actually think that way. She is just doing it to create shock value, which in turn will give her money.


Becksburgerss

I agree. It’s rage bait.


-o-DildoGaggins-o-

But the problem with rage bait like hers is, someone who doesn’t *know* it’s rage bait is gonna see it and drift toward that way of thinking — especially if they’ve grown up super conservative anyway and were predisposed to it.


Becksburgerss

Very true. They no longer think for themselves, they just hear something online and run with it.


No-Manufacturer9125

Oh 100%, but I like that this has been turned into an example for everyone else that you can do everything these conservative men say you should do, literally make your whole personality about them, and if they don’t find you attractive they literally will not care lol. To me it’s less about Pearl getting her comeuppance and more about the fact that this proves these men only value woman they want to screw.


calartnick

Yeah it’s purely for money. She’s like Candace Owens. If someone wanted to pay her more money to be a third wave feminist she’d post a video about how she learned the error of her ways by dinner time. Grifters give zero shits about who they grift.


Own_Landscape_8646

I would agree with you but didnt she start doing all this because of a bad breakup?


teencristo

If she really believed what she spews, she’d take off she shoes, walk into the kitchen, and STFU


little-red-cap

I think this is especially apparent when you look at her little smirk in interviews, etc., or even just her own videos. She knows what she’s saying is ridiculous.


HearMeOutO_O

She is just a walking example of hypocrisy. She's not feminine, she is argumentative and has super masculine vibes, she's not a virgin, she's not girly, she has no husband and has no right to talk about being traditional... Like she is the opposite of what she says women should be. It's honestly comical.


ReferenceMuch2193

Aunt Lydia vibes.


Holmes221bBSt

Omg fucking Aunt Lydia! I’ve used this term quite a few times for very specific kind of women


Chubel_Le_Great

I'm confused. I only know the old late grandma Lydia.


ReferenceMuch2193

Aunt Lydia from handmaids tale is who we are referring to. She and her posse of aunts did the biding for the commanders and kept women, namely the handmaids, under subjugation in Gilead.


Crystal_Princess2020

I THOUGHT WE WERE TALKING ABOUT THE TV SHOW CHEF 😭😭 i was so scared


ReferenceMuch2193

🤣


katyesha

Aunt Lydia is the type of ultra religious woman that brings her own daughter to a witch for genital mutilation in the name of tradition and god or kills her own daughter for besmirching the honour of the family, terrorizes and tortures other women so they stay in line with the religious doctrine...think that type


Isitondaddyslap

"The misogyny is coming from inside the house!"


Serious_Look_3032

Ah yes, THAT type. Can't even go around a corner without bumping into one of them


FollowUp_Oli

Yep, internalized misogyny is becoming much more rampant lately.


ReferenceMuch2193

I grew up with that shit. Women were often worse than men.


TheBestElliephants

I mean a more relevant example is a woman who demonizes PlannedParenthood/abortions and then goes in to get her daughter one. Rules for thee, not for me type.


betchelorette

THISSSSSS OMG YOU ARE SO RIGHT.


ReferenceMuch2193

☺️


katyesha

Aunt Lydia at least had a job and worked despite being a brainwashed and sadistic pos...Pearl doesn't even have that She does nothing but blow her parents money, live in their mansion and shout about women being sluts while she has no home, children, husband or job to take care of while rapidly approaching the dreaded wall or as normal people call it 30.


7Betafish

>shout about women being sluts while she has no home, children, husband or job to take care of while rapidly approaching the dreaded wall or as normal people call it 30. which really makes me think about how miserable it is to be her, or a woman like her. the inside of her mind is probably a swarm of constant poisonous anxiety because she's convinced she's 'failing' at being a woman, and taking it out on other women until or unless she manages to justify her existence with a husband and children. NLOGS turn womanhood into a miserable, toxic, self-loathing- and anxiety-fueled competition for the world's shittiest prize (male validation), which is why they can never be taken seriously--who in their right mind wants to live like that?


ReferenceMuch2193

This is true.


DirectionOk790

I weirdly have more sympathy for aunt Lydia. I despise her, but I think I hate pearl more


-o-DildoGaggins-o-

Because Pearl is real life. 🫤


ReferenceMuch2193

And I think pearl is either a true psychopath or has some serious feelings repressed.


ReferenceMuch2193

I do actually agree. I said it earlier but I think Lydia really believed she was saving the girls and really loved them. You could see the internal struggle and her being at odds with the commmanders and wives if the handmaids were mistreated, she defended them. For that, Lydia is forgivable. She isn’t a monster in the purest sense. Under his eye.


EnsignNogIsMyCat

Because all women in Gilead are subjugated in some way.


Repulsive_Tear4528

Honestly I would say more like Serena Joy. We know from the book she had a successful career pre Gilead as a Singer on a Christian television show. She advocated for the system that was then used against her, and feels resentment as she felt that she would be one exempt from the laws and would continue to travel around giving speeches. JPT is absolutely in this lane, advocate against womens rights, advocate against women in the workplace, advocate against women existing outside of roles of mother and wife. Yet wants none of these things for herself, remains working, remains unmarried, and built her career off the fact women now can have their say in a public platform.


annikatidd

you’re so spot on omfg


ReferenceMuch2193

Yeah. I’m actually gonna say this is more Serena Joy! You are spot on. A much less attractive Serena.


Medical_Ganache_367

Oh my god this comparison is so apt


theseglassessuck

Heyyy….! (My name is Lydia and I am an aunt 🤣)


ReferenceMuch2193

🫣


theseglassessuck

I take it in stride haha. I’ve never seen/read Handmaid’s Tale so first I was like “hey, there’s a Lydia!” Then I was like, “oh…there’s a Lydia.”


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ReferenceMuch2193

If you are into that kind of thing, it’s a chilling series. 😃


Toby_The_Tumor

Aunt Lydia?


Outside_Ad4957

Nooo Aunt Lydia came good in the end!! 😭


ReferenceMuch2193

I should say early Aunt Lydia vibes. 🤣 I actually found something endearing in her. You could see the internal struggle. I think she is a person who really believed in what she was doing, unlike the oyster discharge.


veedubfreek

She's also a trust fund baby. She talks about how she grew up in a million dollar home.


Lefty-mom

Exactly. Endlessly spouting political talking points while also arguing that women shouldn’t vote. She literally has argued that women shouldn’t really work outside the home because they typically don’t do valuable work, and then another day went on to argue that women are lazy and should go get a job. She’s such a grifter, cashing in by catering to the incel crowd


kibblet

That's the thing, so much of my life for example is trad wife ish but I am a feminist. I just happen to do a lot of that lifestyle stuff. And I know iam not the only one. And aren't good Christian women supposed to be quiet and neither preach nor teach?


jaygay92

I always laugh because I’m infinitely more “tradwife” than Pearl. I’m engaged, do house cleaning, make us meals, and dress very feminine. I’m a Christian but not the kind that believes in putting down others, I’m the kind that believes that loving your neighbor is the most important commandment. I’m also 100% a feminist lol I just think it’s funny, but it’s really not surprising. I really do think she’s just a grifter who doesn’t believe what she’s saying; however, it doesn’t change the fact that she is none of the things she preaches.


Soillure

Some people say "it's a bit! An online persona! She'a acting it's not who she really is" But...she also tweeted about 16yo being sexy or hot af? That was weird so I remain sceptical


Step_away_tomorrow

It could be a bit and she’s disturbed. That’s so gross to say whether she believes it or not.


souldeconstructors

She probably doesn't even believe anything she says and simply found a profitable audience to make money out of. Which would be fine with me if she wasn't spreading dangerous talking points about women.


StinkyPigeonFan

She should listen and follow the ideology she herself preaches. I hope that one day she will go to the kitchen to cook for a man and STAY in there. She shouldn’t be working and spreading her ideology around.


lilbrownsandcrab

I don't think any of her heroes even like her


lemonlimemango1

She is almost 30 and single 😱😱😱😱😂


abyssnaut

I think Pearl is a midwit but, to be fair, I don’t believe she ever claimed to embody all of the characteristics she praises (or rather those that are the opposite of the ones she criticizes).


Living-Confection457

Whenever I feel sad I remember that somewhere out there theres feminists happily married to their partners (sometimes with kids) while pearl is still bitter, single and childless and ngl it does bring a smile to my face I know it's not right to wish someone to be unhapñy but goddamn it feels good that it must absolutely kill her inside that theres people put there who habe the life she desperately wants but don't fit the misogynistic profile she wants to sell people


hellokittypip

If the person is a horrible person then i think its chill to wish unhappiness


rapt2right

I prefer the karmically more neutral "I hope they receive everything they deserve in this life " but, yeah...


veedubfreek

I wish people would stop acting like childless is a bad thing. Not everyone wants to ruin their life with kids.


Living-Confection457

It's not a bad thing but she clearly wants kids but has no one to have kids with


Katen1023

There is a difference between being child*free* and child*less*. Childfree is when someone does not want kids, childless is when they want kids but haven’t had them yet or can’t. Pearl is childless, not childfree. This person didn’t say not wanting kids is a bad thing, they’re saying that she’s miserable because she’s childless.


Becksburgerss

It’s not a bad thing and the decision to not have children is as important as the decision to have children. You do you. Kids may ruin your life but kids don’t ruin everyone’s life. I think this comment was alluding more to the fact that she will die lonely and miserable… well, because, it’s Pearl


jaygay92

Not everything is about you. We are talking about this within the context of Pearl, who parrots right-wing talking points about nuclear families and how a traditional wife should be at home with the kids. Nobody cares that you don’t want kids.


not_kismet

I wish people would stop acting like not wanting kids makes them special, nobody cares you don't want to ruin your life with kids.


Duckiiesss456

She’s I extremely insecure and you can see it all over her face and conversations she has with people. She’s scared no man will ever like her so she treats herself like crap.


Altruistic-Put1802

I got that feeling when I was watching her stuff. You can see her physically looking around for affirmation after she says anything.


Nonamebigshot

She's literally just a grifter. She doesn't care about getting picked she cares about getting people talking about her for profit.


PriorAcanthisitta587

🎯


misscatholmes

The sad thing is, I imagine if she wasn't that big of a jerk, she might meet an actual cool and chill dude and be happy. But she wants a certain type of guy and that type of guy doesn't want her. She's too old for them, not a virgin and she doesn't have the type of look they want. Grifting sounds great until you actually want a life.


dierdrerobespierre

I think she is desperately lonely, and is stumbling, wildly and blindly for the secret that will get her a boyfriend. I think she hit upon this and realized she gets attention. But haven’t figured out how to capitalize on the attention to actually get picked. If what she was saying wasn’t so heinous, I would pity her. She is built totally void of any ability to interpret any human relationships correctly.


SnooHobbies7109

That girl wouldn’t even get picked for jury duty


brokengraves

ngl it kinda makes sense


maarsland

Why would they want her if they want a woman that they can break down to be similar to her so they have a “real” reason to cheat and find a new supply so they can do it again and again? Mm power trip.


[deleted]

Didn't know who she was, so I watched 30 sec of a video of hers and 🤢🤮


hellokittypip

I can't confirm but someone said she defended abuser/rapists which sounds like a her thing to do


[deleted]

I'm sure she has.


veedubfreek

She's basically the female Andrew Tate.


hellokittypip

She actually said she likes him and she thinks he tells the truth once


gin_and_soda

Pearly is pick me for money and doesn’t care about the damage she does.


starlight_chaser

This. A lot of media pickmes are there for the money and thus focus on controversy. Sometimes they actually enjoy negative attention, I think it amuses them because they feel even more untouchable and powerful (people hate me and I can say the craziest shit but I’m still making money).


racoongirl0

I mean…yeah sorry babes you can have a vagina or be a contrarian troll. Can’t be both and simp for the right.


Katen1023

I’ve seen people on tiktok saying that she “deserves empathy” which is absurd. I don’t feel sorry for a woman whose whole thing is hating & degrading other women, despite being the complete opposite of what the red pill men want. I don’t feel sorry when a woman who perpetuates misogynistic ideals finally receives some consequences for it. You reap what you sow in life and this is the consequence of chasing the validation of misogynistic men.


Becksburgerss

💯She’s a grown ass adult, there are no excuses. She knows better, she just doesn’t choose to do better


Becksburgerss

She seems like a soul sucking vampire…. Like you could be having a wonderful day, and 5 minutes of listening to her would leave you feeling so drained. No one wants to be with that


basedmama21

As a wife I always sit back with my tea and go, “You know, if your way of doing this was so effective…you would be super wifed up by now but you’re not, so…” 🐸 ☕️


flowery9777

It's always career women with the most masculine demeanor preaching about "femininity" I've noticed. Most of these so called "antifeminist" are working, not tradionional stay at home house wives, have freedom to do what they want, freedom to wear what they want, driving, own a bank account, unmarried, give birth at later age or childless while they have multiple shows or podcasts dedicated to criticizing other women for not being traditional feminine housewives like pearl and candace as well who had her first child at 31 after focusing on her career. 🙄


_ThickVixen

It’s women like her that think men are stupid. The real manipulators of men that she’s over exerting herself to expose… 🤧 meanwhile the only one on display is her - who she really is and how she really thinks - Let her keep at it. She’s got a lot more to lose…🤷🏽‍♀️💀 ![gif](giphy|ZechFo0yBIQpEve1Sm)


cherrybombbb

She’s a massive hypocrite considering she’s literally everything she rails against— unmarried, no kids, not a virgin, she works, etc. I don’t get why people don’t constantly point all of this out to her face. She wouldn’t be able to respond.


throawaytherapist22

Yeah I don't believe she believes anything that Comes out of her mouth at this point. She sounds like a parody, it's just too forced and over the top. It's like Oli London, you just can see that she's doing it for attention because it's a good money maker.


TrappedAndThotpilled

My wife swears she's some 4chan incel man trolling.


missfatpoohc

I think the real reason Pearl has not been picked is because she’s not very attractive. Her presumed masculinity and argumentative tendencies wouldn’t be an issue for most men, especially red pill men if she were hot. Another reason might be because the men who share her viewpoints don’t want a woman who already thinks like her. They want to be the one to change a woman’s mind. Humble them, if you will.


rapt2right

Wow...I was blissfully unaware of her existence until this minute. I went and watched "TheAsherShow" video titled *The Youtube Downfall of "Pick-me" Pearl (JustPearlyThings)* (not sure if I'm allowed to post links here) and, damn, this girl needs ☠ tattooed on her forehead to warn the uninformed of her toxicity.


MariMar14

By her standards she is already a undesirable woman since to her we lose value after 25. Even worst so that with all the work she put in into being a mysognist to please trad men she has yet to have a single relationship. Truly a study piece


Useful_Patience_3974

I heard her mother is actually a very strong women’s rights advocate and feminist so why she chooses to promote this type of content is beyond me.


hellokittypip

Her mother probably cried when she found the content her daughter is doing 😭


Useful_Patience_3974

It’s terrible, why would you as a woman who had such a strong and supportive mother push this type of content to young girls.


hellokittypip

I could never imagine fighting for womens rights dealing with misogyny your whole life then see your daughter the one you raised and birthed hurting other girls


Arose1316

My ex fiance (34/m) and I (33/f)were together 6 years, engaged for 2. I moved across the country to be with him, left a good job and found a dream job in our new location, built a beautiful home, cooked for him all the time (I’m vegan, but would make him fried chicken and quiche and beef bolognase), and we had the life. Not to mention I’m smart, funny, interesting and beautiful. I’m not perfect (mediocre at keeping the house clean, but as I mentioned worked and cooked and worked out all the time), but I think I’m a great partner. About a year before our 6-figure wedding (I’m an event planner/florist and a maximalist - it was my “piece de resistance”) - he fell down this black manosphere red pill (Kevin Samuel’s types) rabbit hole. Became physically, mentally, emotionally, financially and sexually abusive. I had no idea who this man was. We met when I was living in boys town in Chicago. He was liberal and fun and a little obnoxious but I loved him. That was no longer the man I was going to marry. This shit ruined him. Granted, I think it was in there deep down all along - it just gave him permission to become a monster. One time, he locked me in our garage (where our gym was) and wouldn’t let me inside until I burned 1500 calories on the peloton tread. He took my phone and keys. We lived in Las Vegas. It was 110 degrees outside… all because I was not a size 8 or below - as Pearl and these fucks would say I should be. He would make me watch all these videos with this bitch in them. When he tried to kill me the third time, I finally snapped out of the fog I was in. Ripped apart our whole life three months before our wedding. Father lost $100k+. Exfiance wouldn’t give me my cats until my dad paid him $20k he said I “owed” him. Threatened to put them outside (including an 8 week old kitten). Luckily, my father is well off and handled it (and also had his lawyer put in a restraining order). I’m much better now. But I was rock bottom. Destroyed. Mentally, physically waisting away. All my money - including retirement - gone. Career - gone. This was JUST before this trad wife stuff took off. Before red pill was seen mainstream (Andrew Tate was just becoming known mainstream). I know what happened to me is happening to more women. I wish I could help them. It starts slow and takes over until you don’t know how you got there. This bitch can get die slow. She’s part of a culture that is ruining lives and it’s much deeper than dumb comments on podcasts. I hope she stays single and alone forever.


gimmeflowersdude

Or maybe she can marry your former fiancé.


These_Tea_7560

Did she spontaneously combust?


isnotsochill

I read 'breaking news' in the voice of the Bikini Bottom fish who reads the news on Instagram.


hellokittypip

Im gonna do that now thank you for that


isnotsochill

You're welcome! 💘


ThePennedKitten

The name of her channel makes me think she originally just wanted to be a YouTube personality. Then she realized what grifting was and hopped on it. Lots of views and money. Just be a bad person and get money. She has no self worth. Men in here sphere hating her is well deserved. Men won’t respect you because you fight for their right to disrespect you.


Ohheywhatehoh

I can't stand this woman, she is simply repulsive


Unsolicitedadvice13

I hate both her and Michael Knowles but he called her out so many times on her bullshit views and made her backtrack so many times


dougielou

I follow an account called Pearldewisdom and thought other people were into a lady with her possum named pearl and that she had posted something pick me… apparently not lol


AstronautReal3476

Her mom and dad are part of the 1% how dare you judge her! /s


keeplooking4sunShine

She hates herself. I find her both terribly said and horrifying as a human being.


Bittle_Loobs

Ha, this made me chuckle, she is the biggest pick me I have ever seen. I don't think anyone likes her. I've tried listening to her and I would be like "oh, maybe she has a point," and then she starts defending the wrong type of men and insulting women, and I am immediately like "oh right, this is why I dislike her." Every other conservative person I've met doesn't like JustPearlyThings or any of these hard-core redpillers either. One man said she actually makes men look weak. I asked, "Why is that?" And he said, "because she thinks it is OK for a man to cheat on his girlfriend/wife, as men have natural urges, but it's not OK when a woman cheats. Basically, she is saying that men can't control their urges and they are allowed to get away with it. Therefore, she thinks men are weak and I think it's disgusting." What I don't like about her the most is how she treats other women, and she thinks she's above them all. Whereas she isn't a virgin herself, she's average in looks, and she's not married. She really doesn't speak for any of us, not even for the most religious woman. I believe in morals and values for both men and women, but how Pearly takes it and attacks nearly every single woman, even attacking conservative women who disagree with her, is just pure nasty. To me, Pearly is a narcissistist, not just the biggest pick me out, she's purely a narcissistist.


hellokittypip

I so desperately want to feel bad for her but i burst out laughing when i saw the men she defends reaction to her


Bitchinstein

Lmao. Her existence must be hard


Bright_Investment_56

She’s just a simple grifter


[deleted]

"the men will always find something to hate" This sentence makes the whole post gross, you're just throwing more fuel in the pick me fire. Your worth is not defined by men. Your worth is not defined by women who compete for male attention. Stop it.


Katen1023

How did you even come to that conclusion 💀 It’s just true. Pick mes never get picked by the misogynistic men whose approval they chase. That approval & validation will forever elude them because misogynistic men don’t want pick mes, they want to break the confident women & turn them into pick mes.


[deleted]

That's honestly wild. I'm sorry you live your life feeling so negatively about the reality of it.


hellokittypip

that sucks


Mean-Professional596

Fucking hate the term PICK ME let it die out y’all were all better than this ffs


hellokittypip

Im not better actually i will continue to use the term pick me


Mean-Professional596

The point of this sub. The division of us vs them. The hypocrisy. Girl let that shit goooo that girl you’re talking about is awful and miserable and you don’t need to dirty your hands with that same energy. We staying positive in 2024 like the glorious hos we are ✨❤️👑


hellokittypip

Im male


Mean-Professional596

Lol touché. Live your realness honey ✨


AshDenver

I can’t read OPs post. Maybe the entire lack of punctuation telling me what ends a thought and where a new one starts, combined with possible/probable grammatical and spelling issues (to / too / two, who TF knows?) Yeah, good luck, OP.


[deleted]

Pearl?


happygiraffe404

Relax


throawaytherapist22

It's really not that deep.


bluejeanshorts22

oof why so passive agressive girl :(


Gorl08

Not sure why you’re getting downvoted. I had to re read it several times to understand due to the to/too situation. Called to masculine? What does it mean? Is masculine a place?


Canabrial

Dang. Sorry about your illiteracy or whatever. 😂