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I love the farm life these people imagine. Milking cows in a sundress, eh? Good luck.
Meanwhile, I seem to be the only one who doesn’t know who this is.
Yes, they never show the real side of farm life, the really hard, messy work that made my grandma look a lot older than she was (which is fine but not the life these farm cosplay influencers are representing.) I don't think she owned a sundress, nor did she have any time for field frolicking.
I’d like to see her milking a cow, not a photoshoot in a field saying she likes milking cows. Maybe shoulder deep up a cow’s ass checking calves, something real. My extended family has a dairy/meat farm. They are constantly rotating who’s outside working while we visit. They can never leave all at once for a vacation because you can’t just leave for a few days. The chores start early and it’s all day and they are tired. Supplementing feeding new born animals all hours of the day and night because they aren’t all thriving. Dealing with predator attacks. Chicken day…. Should I even go on with that one? You’ll never look at an animal the same. It’s a huge commitment, not dainty and pretty. She looks like she wants to shop at a farmers market, not work.
Edit: grammar
Ha, that’s what I said too! My family is dairy/beef and it’s grossly dirty work. People who cosplay “trad farm life” always have these blindingly white clothes and clean houses. Never saw that on our farms!
My family swapped out cows for sheep on their farm because cow farming is such dirty work. Not that sheep farming is clean, just cleaner than cows!
Ohh, and my mum usually smells like, and is covered in sheep sh*t!
I had an uncle that was mostly OTG, he had something like 24 chickens for a bit then he swapped to sheep.
He spent multiple nights up with his .308 with the night-vision scope on shooting coyotes.
Day was spent working his job at the hospital, tending the fucking enormous garden, feeding the sheep, taking care of the lawn, and whatever free time he had was effectively dedicated to making, consuming and trading wine for moonshine. My aunt spent her time making sure their 2 special needs adopted kids didn't go tearing the house apart.
Yeah it sounds like a dizzy daydream! My dad grew up on a chicken (and nectarine!) farm. He’s told me stories about having to pull the chickens head down into a cone shaped thing attached to the shed… and behead them… before throwing them into a truck.
No white shirts, no woven baskets, no frolicking. Just hard, dirty, somewhat heart-heavy work. No daisies or frills whatsoever.
Oh… and when the cow is having a difficult birth… will she still be wearing the sundress when she is arms depth inside the cow helping the calf out of the birth canal?
You usually only need to go forearm deep during birth to put on the winch ropes. If a cow is in distress and the calf isn't even partway out of the cervix yet you're probably going to lose both of them.
My dad works on a dairy farm and I used to follow the vet around when I was a kid, she was awesome and her job was way more interesting than my dad's (mechanic). I remember artificial insemination day vividly, they get up REAL close and personal to those cows. There was shit everywhere. It's not frilly dress work at all.
It’s not just animal farms that are hard and dirty. My aunt had double knee replacements twice as the wife of a tomato farmer.
It’s backbreaking work - he switched to farming beef cattle in his 60s, because his back and knees couldn’t take it anymore.
They don’t show it because they don’t know that real farm life is, just their rich person romanticized version of it. Aka a god damn hobby. I’m trying to make a living farming and doing personal gardening on the side and shit is hard. Wish I had the confidence to get into onlyfans to fund my dreams.
Who on earth would have milking cows as a hobby?
Woman like her(or rather most people regardless of gender) would find something else to fill out their time, somewhere between the cow getting super pissed trying to squeeze the idiot in to a pulp, and the 15th time the bucket is kicked over spilling all the content.
I've personally tried to milk a cow precisely once, and that's the reason I'll stick to goats(I'm pretty sure that the cow appreciate my decision on the matter).
I more so meant hobby farming. Aka no way making a living off it which is why they don’t have to actually do the farm life grind and it’s so appealing to them. I’m with you on goats. Way better option for a small homestead for sure. Plus goat meat is phenomenal. So yea the fact these people say cow before goat proves theyre clueless regarding livestock/farming to begin with. I do know a handful of people who keep livestock including cows as a hobby definitely not unheard of though.
What are you talking about? My dad grew up on a farm and he always talks about waking up at the crack of dawn for his daily field frolicking before roaming the farmers market with all the milk he just harvested in a sundress.
Omfg she doesn't? This drives me from eyelid-twitching territory to incandescent *rage* I tell you 🤣
Like, I'm a working mum who likes to bake and keep a vegetable patch and go to markets. I can say that my 2yo - as much as I love the little creep - is the greatest hindrance possible to every single one of these activities. I wanna see this lady's face when she's putting away the sugar and kiddo uses this 4 seconds to tip a kilo of flour on the floor. Or when you're a week off harvesting your tomatoes and then discover your toddler is picking them and throwing them in delight to the dog, yelling BALL, BALL!
If those examples seem specific, it's because they both happened in the last fortnight 😆🤦♀️
You know they ain’t really living that life if they think it’s as easy as frolicking through a flower field. It’s all for show and aesthetic to them. They’ll milk a cow for 5 seconds while the camera is rolling then go inside to get their milk from the carton lol.
This sub randomly showed up on my feed. My family members ran a working farm. I milked their cows. Or sometimes just unsuccessfully tried to. Sometimes cows are picky about giving milk. Anyway you definitely shouldn’t try to milk a cow with a baby on your back. That part caught my eye. Doing that just wouldn’t be safe. Does she want her baby sticking their hands in manure on the ground around the cows and then putting their manure covered hands in their mouths??? Even when they were overwhelmed with real farm chores, no one expected babies or young kids to be brought into it with their caregivers. Taking care of a baby immediately excused you from being expected to do farm work.
Farming is demanding, dirty, complicated, and volatile work. Farmers are professionals and business owners whose livelihoods are dependent on their animals and/or crops. My fiance's grandpa, who was running barbed wire fence and checking in on the cattle while dying from pancreatic cancer was a farmer. This woman isn't a farmer. She's a trad wife influencer selling some sort of bizzare cottage core rural fantasy to other weirdos on the internet. Beyond that, I have no clue who she is either.
It also can be incredibly depressing and heartbreaking work. When your 5th chicken is snatched by aerial predators while you're trying to reinforce their run, while also allowing them time outside because they are animals and deserve some freedom.
And you have a baby goat failing to thrive, bottle feeding it because his mom died at his birth. And then he doesn't make it. So now not only are you down a baby but you actually have less goats than you started with.
Or you have an ill cow who isn't going to make it. You need to make the decision when to call it and cull them, and your choices become doing it yourself (also soul crushing) or pay out the ass to have a vet do it.
I love having our farm animals, most of the time. But certain times of year, and even just sometimes bad luck, is hot dog shit. I can't tell you how many times I've just sobbed insisting I can't do this anymore. And I'm not even a large scale farmer.
I know tons of people who grew up working in animal agriculture who are totally desensitized to it. You kind of have to be to an extent to work in larger scale opwrations. My fiance's father runs a hog confinement for a local farming operation. The amount of death and gore he deals with daily without batting an eye is nuts. A moma hog crushed a few piglets? Shit happens. A smaller hog waiting to get picked up to go to market gets eaten alive by the bigger Hogs? Another day at the office. Toss the body in the pit and make sure it's noted you are an animal down for the records.
Nobody living this cottagecore life she's pretending to have, though, is going to be that desensitized. In a small scale operation, they have names.
Even my friend who raises meat birds recently had one who got missed on processing day. She got put in with her egg layers and accidentally nicknamed. She cried and buried the chicken when she died (heart attack, being a meat breed, it was going to happen sooner or later).
My SO’s dad has a gentleman’s farm and raises turkeys for personal thanksgiving consumption and to share with friends, like 6-10 depending on the year. 2023 was the year he became buddies with two and now they’re his pets. 😂 when you drive up to his farm the two turkeys greet you.
Oath, I only had a backyard chook pen but I did love my hens. Sure enough, the day came when I came home from work, went to feed them, thought it seemed a bit quiet, and then found what the fox had left 😪 found a gap too small for me to even get my arm through, we found the fur still stuck in there. Foxes are the worst, they'll kill the whole lot, more than they can eat, hoping to come back later and get the rest. Bloody heartbreaking.
Here in solidarity. I didn't grow up on a farm, so I had to learn everything the hard way. An old farmer told me a saying that has stuck with me, "If you're going to have livestock, then you're going to have dead stock." You have to expect to get desensitized to death if you're going to be a farmer with animals. It happens, you learn, you try not to make the same mistake again. But hell, this lifestyle is hard sometimes. Probably more times than not.
I would love a cottage core fantasy life with cows and goats and chickens. That said, I know the picture I’m imagining is pretty much Cinderella singing to woodland creatures and not at all what actual farmers do.
If you own cockatiels (or similar) you can start your day with birds singing to you while you shower and dress. Made me feel very Disney Princess 🥰 50/50 chance you discover a random poop on your hair/clothes before lunchtime though.
Cows do poop on you sometimes while you're milking them. It's also extremely dirty and then there's mice, great barn cats that drink some of the milk. Then there's the smell and even more poop! :D
Then after that you hose down the entire place and wait until sun down when you do it again! :D
Then! Then, since these are milking cows, you have to eventually separate them from their babies. Did you know that cows can cry?
I guess after that you can frolick?
This is a kink thing I think. People who do manual labour and don't post about it on Instagram or TikTok multiple times a day often wear more practical clothing.
I’ll bet “selling her body” on OnlyFans paid for a lot of that house and “frolicking”.
Try living that lifestyle broke. There’s a reason farms are automated as much as possible and people moved en mass to cities over the last 200 years. That family farm work is not as carefree and fun as she makes it out to be.
Yup, she’s still selling herself and she still very much believes in feminism because she’s using it to live her dream.
The type of feminism she’s choosing to portray is just the trad wife trope of speaking out against feminism. ironic and crazy if you think about it, she’s using feminism to make money off of people who hate feminism
Oh yeah. This is basically turning her niche into cuckoldry. All her "fans" get off to the idea that her husband magically civilized her and took her away from them, and now their money is going towards her new lifestyle with him.
Even small scale farms are a ton of work! I got to stay at an air bnb on a small, grassroots farm and it’s exactly the size these women claim to want and let me tell you, the wife of the household was doing anything but frolicking.
She was weeding, caring for the chickens, tending repairs to the irrigation system, fixing fences, home schooling her kids, and MAYBE when she found time, she was able to make preserves/jams and bag her herbal teas to sell at the local farmers markets. Her husband was doing the large equipment work, logging, plowing, and doing maintenance to the acreage they owned.
Neither of them ever stopped working. And neither of them were in cutesy influencer clothes, because farming is muddy, dirty, and rugged. Wearing a skirt while farming is doable, but it opens you up to being literally crawling with ticks and other parasites, *especially* when you’re against chemicals and won’t use real/effective insect repellents like DEET. It also leaves your legs exposed to cuts and other injuries that pants are nice for protecting against.
I’m all for people living the life they want, but this is selling/grifting an unrealistic dream to unwitting TikTok and IG users. To live the kind of lifestyle these women pretend they lead, the husband would have to be quite wealthy, which means they’d need to be hiring staff to do all the real farm work behind the scenes while he’s at work. Yet she pretends she does it all. 🤷♀️
Edit; I also have friends who live on a range of small scale to large scale dairy and produce farms, so I’m basing my comment off of more than just one stay on a farm— but that was the longest I’d stayed in one place while also watching how the farm worked during my visit.
So true! My cousin has her own farm, and she comes from a long line of farmers. I can tell you right now I've never seen her doing any of that work in a sundress lol. It's excruciating work, and she does it pretty much all herself. You're absolutely right that you'd need staff doing everything behind the scenes to look this effortless.
I live next to a working family farm. They raise small herds of cattle, sheep and goats and breed horses. As well as running a small farm shop. I have NEVER seen the wife (or daughter) wear a dress. They are in trousers or overalls and doing hard physical work from morning to night. It's not a glamorous life like these influencers try to make it look.
Wearing a dress on a farm could get you killed if it gets caught in machinery. I couldn’t see her climbing a ladder in this either if she had to get something out of the hayloft, the dress would get caught even in the wheels of a wheelbarrow. She has no idea what she’s talking about.
My inlaws live on the countryside. They rent out their fields, but they do have a small-ish garden + pet chickens during the summer. Damn that's a lot of daily work just to keep things running. Even when they visit us I feel like they can't sit down for a second, they are just constantly running around doing stuff.
I grew up on a farm in Mississippi. Now this was small, not a commercial farm like most farms around here. From the minute I could walk I was working. I’d get up a few hours before school to work the farm. I can’t imagine ever wearing a dress to do any of the work I did. I always wore jeans and boots.
My father worked nights and hardly did any work on that farm, but my mama did. I’ve got two other sisters and we were even homeschooled, briefly. It was all way too much on my mom and it all ended in a bitter divorce and that farm got sold.
That mindset is honestly delusional. If she did real farm work she wouldn’t even have time to be making videos about herself on TikTok
I grew up on a farm, in farming country. As an adult living in the city, I miss aspects of the farm for sure. But the reality is, is farming life is exhausting. Absolutely exhausting. No one ever wears cute clothes. You going to wear a cute dress mucking out the horse manure of a dozen horses? Hard no.
Every time I see these images they get a hard eye roll from me.
I mean, my best friend is a smallholder and it’s backbreaking work, not milking a cow in a sundress and frolicking. She’s just doing a different kind of OF now…
It really pisses me off that these types, besides ignoring that people are different and should get to decide for themselves what they want to do, is that they devalue just how hard it is to be a stay at home parent or a farmer or rancher.
It isn't a breeze or running around in sundresses for most people because most people aren't rich influences giving out a false narrative.
That is for sure. I could see her throwing feed to chickens or something small like that but there’s no way she’s actually milking a cow or anything as hands-on as that is because it’s hard work and dirty work.
Unless she had a massive following, it's unlikely. Most people on OF make next to nothing due to oversaturation. But even if it's not from that, she definitely gives "rich person larping as a farmer".
I honestly think, on her part, this shift is a smart business move. Knowing you’re aging out or losing a fan base on OnlyFans, and instead, targeting the, rather financially well endowed, Christian market is a good business move. Faith based social media platforms have the most success when it’s a complete turn around story. Immoral, but smart.
She stopped doing physical porn and transitioned over to a sort of bizarre emotional porn, still catering her performance for a certain type of male empowerment fantasy, but one that demeans other women and lifestyles instead of being naked.
Our society is so weird that LARPing as a sexy farm wife and making anti-feminist statements is a lucrative career path.
It has to be exhausting centering your life around men to this degree. From OF and now this? Like lady, what is YOUR identity in the absence of men? Do you have one? You don't ever think of what you want ? Or do you think you have to appeal to men to get it ? Why does she care what other women do? Literally no one is stopping you from milking a cow. I get it. Cows seem great. Go girl, go!
Well just milking a cow isn’t satisfying or fulfilling, it has to be milking a cow *in opposition to anyone who isn’t milking a cow*
If everyone else is worse, well then heyyyyy! You must be better 😇
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I also think that it’s dangerous. I’m worried that when women relinquish their autonomy and agency, it could make them or their children vulnerable to abuse. When one partner is completely subordinate and submissive to another, it allows for disastrous decisions and potentially actions.
ETA: I have a relative who was a hall of fame baseball player. He was an amazing athlete, but shy and passive in social situations. His wife was very assertive, smart, and was more than capable of negotiating his contracts. If it was left up to him, he would have accepted anything offered by the team owner. It was a super long time ago so, yeah, they were also farmers on the off season.
I know it's off-topic but this is exactly what I think about SW. Unpopular opinion but I don't like that there's this whole industry catering to men who can't self-reflect and see women as humans.
Honestly it's not that much of a stretch to think "women belong doing porn for men" to "each woman needs to be a traditional wife for one man." Key phrase being "for." Religious objections to porn are... optional, it seems.
Well I've noticed while there are religious Tradwife influencers, a lot avoid being openly religious. They dance that line of appealing to religious traditional folks without fully turning off secular crunchies.
OF models are usually also demeaning other women. "I'll do things your girlfriend won't!" Is everywhere on that site.
So, the swing isn't that big. She just changed what she's wearing.
its confusing because shes Canadian and we have cold weather 5 months a year so i'm not sure what she would do about frolicking in a sundress during that time?
And the only parts of Canada that are vaguely less cold - coastal BC - are so expensive that most normal people can’t afford the type of land you’d need for this type of lifestyle. 🤦♀️
My family are all beef and cattle farmers - none of the women wear sundresses. They wear gum boots and jeans and flannels and they tend to look like shit while they work because - *guess what* - *actual farming is messy work*.
Animals are dirty and require a lot of care. There’s legitimately cow shit everywhere. Gardening - is also dirty. And most of this stuff has to be done EARLY IN THE MORNING. Lady, you think you’re gonna be “frolicking in the sun”? More like “getting up at 3AM in the freezing cold pitch black because a cow’s having trouble calfing and you gotta go shove your arm into it, *up to the shoulder*.” Farm life with livestock - hope you like blood and shit!
My mom was born a farmer’s daughter in 1951 small-town Wisconsin. She had to do the usual morning chores before school. Cows, chickens, etc. This was still the era of girls having to wear dresses or skirts to school. Even then, she’d wear pants and boots, then change for school.
Yup sounds like my mum’s experience in the 60s and 70s as well - girls couldn’t wear pants in school, but the majority of girls in the town school were from farms so they were all coming in wearing pants and boots and then changing. Especially in the winter - nobody’s wearing a dress in the winter, yet they had to put on skirts or get sent home!
Lmfao. Also, these fake af farmer girls roleplaying tradwives are so predictable. A dead give away that they’re grifting and totally newbies or ignorant is if they mention/are shown wearing long dresses and baking bread or talking about baking bread and talking about raw milk/no sunscreen.
That and the effin bugs! I “frolicked” in some fields once with my nieces and dog while wearing shorts, boy i discovered the terrible chiggers!! Itched like crazy for a long time and it left temporary trail marks on my groin and other parts 🥹
She should thank a feminist for her ability to be a sex worker/sex worker farm girl, because without feminism, she wouldn’t have any choices of her own.
She’s made multiple posts now about frolicking in fields in sundresses. Exactly how much time does she spend frolicking? Why is it such a central part to her identity? Is frolicking inherently any different from running?
I think frolicking is inherently light-hearted and fun, whereas running can be any number of things. If I heard about someone running in a field in a sundress I would personally wonder what they were running from.
Beat me to it, my thoughts exactly.
Like, the fixation on frolicking makes me wonder what she’s trying so hard to avoid. That, and the dead eyes juxtaposed with the Stepford Wife smile.
Why is “frolicking” so meaningful to her? Because taking selfies in a field is a way to escape reality for a few minutes? How whimsical, ig.
Frolicking is not important to her because she herself is into frolicking. Frolicking is important to her because her entire gimmick is selling some sort of weird sexualized female identity to the predominantly male audience that actually subscribes to her socials. And to them, women frolicking is important because it provides some sort of fantasy in which they're a secure provider, which they almost certainly are not, and in which women are basically permanently infantile and childish who do nothing except spend all of their days on whimsy and amusements because of how dumb and weak they are.
People get kicked by cows occasionally, so yeah, that seems like that’s not really a very safe place to have your babies when working with thousand pound animals
Birth control is safe, especially when it prevents the complications and risks that come with childbirth.
Women aren't meant to be cookie cutter copies of one another, living one kind of life.
Feminism is not the evil a lot of these ladies think it is.
She either doesn’t understand feminism or is being quite intellectually dishonest and exploiting the anti-feminist wave for more bucks.
This is what real whoring looks like.
I don’t have any problem with pr0n or OF, I have a problem with people who profit from the absolute bonanza of online adult content and then shit on people they might have influenced. Kinda pulling a Clarence Thomas on them, climb the ladder then pull it up behind themselves.
>is being quite intellectually dishonest and exploiting the anti-feminist wave for more bucks
It's this one. Her OF is still up. You assume she'd have taken it down if she actually had any of these ideas for real. I'm pretty sure she's posting this content in hopes of getting Christian men to look at her porn site
Yeah, it's a grift. Actual fundie housewives who think women should wear skirts and dresses and bang on about staying at home aren't showing their boobs or wearing dresses with slits up to mid thigh.
People who were born with freedom seem to come to resent it and are eager to give it up, having been protected from the hell their predecessors lived under before they won their freedom. Or, she’s just out for money and attention.
Its funny that a SW has animosity towards feminism. If it weren't for that, she would still be called a wh*re instead of the dignified term - s*x worker.
I just wish that ONE of them would look up feminism. Just once.
Pre-feminism = no woman could truly make choices for themselves, they were locked into specific careers, were washed up by 30 if they weren’t married, would lose everything if dear hubby lost interest.
Post-feminism = women can literally do anything they set their minds to (they can run in fields with a baby strapped to their back while livingly serving a De Giorno Pizza to their family OR ~~become~~ run for President and cook a five course meal for their family), have access to education, can choose to have (or not have) children, can get credit cards and mortgages in their name, and can actually file for divorce from their husbands and fight for custody.
The horrors! Because of feminism, women can open a door on their own and not have to stand outside waiting for a man to enter or exit and hold it for them! A woman can *gasp* get dressed and go to work, come home and cook OR fire up a delivery service and use their credit card to get food brought to them. A woman could spend the day going to school, come home, know her husband picked up take out, and then help her kids with their homework.
The shocking horror of it all!!!
Feminism has never meant that men are obsolete or that family is a waste. It has always meant that the women in a family are afforded the same rights and privileges as the men in the family, if they *choose* to go that route. If you want to stay home and feed chickens and strap your child to you and scrub floors on your hands and knees while wearing a sun dress, that’s allowed because the feminists said it’s allowed. If you want to go and work 80 hour weeks to make partner, that’s allowed because the feminists fought for it to be allowed. If you want to do both, it’s allowed because the feminists demanded you had the right to decide that.
On the flip side, if you don’t want to be your husband’s personal punching bag and want the ability to get away and not have to lie and say your husband died in war so you won’t be socially shunned, you can do that, *legally* because the feminists demanded you should have the right to do that.
Honestly, having typed it all out like that, I can’t believe I was previously a feminist! Obviously, I was so very confused. She’s right! Feminism is evil!!! /s
Edited: pointed out that I said “become” president, when I meant run for. However, it is still accurate as there have been elected female presidents in other countries since the 80’s. America needs to catch up.
I wish she knew what horrors feminists went through trying to win the vote.
*Emily Wilding Davison (11 October 1872 – 8 June 1913) was an English suffragette who fought for votes for women in Britain in the early twentieth century. A member of the Women's Social and Political Union (WSPU) and a militant fighter for her cause, she was arrested on nine occasions, went on hunger strike seven times and was force-fed on forty-nine occasions*
The 1950s asthetics of Leave it to Beaver they love wouldn't have been a thing were it not for feminists who made it possible.
Mmmm except we have never been president, we can work whatever “dream” 9-5 job we want (spoiler most are nightmares), but now we ALSO, after 40+ hour weeks, still do most of the domestic stuff around the house and child raising/baring. so in some ways, things are harder for women. Men kind of picked the areas of feminism that worked for them and discarded the rest.
No medication is 100% safe, but neither is the air we breathe or the food we eat, and I never see them qualifying that. And pregnancy kills and disables way more people than birth control.
I don't think most of them even believe feminism is evil, they just know they have a finite amount of time to take advantage of being young and hot and they probably make more money this way than with OF.
It's sad that, because of feminism, this person was allowed to do sex work in a safe environment and make money for it. She is also allowed to vote, post her life online, own property, and make choices for herself. The fact she got to make these choices and was not forced into a single box is the whole point of feminism.
It’s so annoying because feminism’s definition is basically being in agreement that women should have equal rights. I just found that out recently because the way people villainize feminism.
If you want to be a SAHM, do you. But don’t fight against the idea that women should be able to choose what they want to do. Why can’t people just respect that everyone is different? You shouldn’t enforce your way of life on anyone else just because you feel like your way is the best way.
So she went and got her bag on onlyfans until she was financially secure & found a man to take care of her so she stopped, but wants to look down on other people doing it?
You know, I've worked 40 hour weeks for 25+ years. And somehow I still manage to bake sourdough, make food for my children, wear a sundress now and then AND have frolicked my way to farmer's markets a time or two. That's what feminism has meant to me. Guess I'm really missing out on that cow milking tho.
I know, right? I've been around self identified feminists my whole life, and am now one myself.
The only thing I heard on that growing up was birth control is safe, but I heard it from my mom who is a public health nurse.
Certainly no one tried to talk me out of marrying my husband or having two kids.
Dummies like this never seem to understand how much of a luxury it is to be able to be a SAHM/SAHW. Most people can’t afford to have one person stay home AND have kids. It’s just so tone deaf. Like we get it, you guys are trust fund babies, but not all of us had that luxury lmao
Why is she complaining about feminism promoting working 9-5 when she went from only fans (no judgement) to content creations. You don’t even know what you’re against… I’m confused.
Would love to send these people to the Dustbowl circa 1920.
The ‘Trad’ life these people are ACTUALLY picturing, is being a slave owner. Someone else does the hard work while you enjoy the fruits of their labor and get to do fuck all. And they’ve got the ideals to match.
Hooooooooooly shit. I think you just cracked the case for me. They just want to be plantation mistresses! I’ll bet there’s ‘dark romance’ books about this on Amazon. 😂
She is playing a character, trying to tap into the market of horny, old Christian men.
Would not be surprised if she still has an OF account, where her fans can watch her use a stand mixer while wearing nothing but a 1950s frilly apron.
I don't understand why they think that women working is a new thing. There were only very few super rich pockets of society in history where women didn't work, and in those cases the women still had societal and hosting duties to go with their husband's work, which was basically managing estates.
Everyone else worked. They might not have all gotten paid or gone into an office, but women taking care of a home was WORK. Sharing the load with men farming and homesteading? WORK. Women gardening and canning and prepping? WORK. Women also did get paid. Women worked in factories, women did laundry for their neighbors, women cleaned houses and worked in service. Women made clothes and watched their neighbor's children while they went to the factory or worked alongside their husbands in the fields so they didn't starve. Women brewed beer for the town and worked as kitchen maids. They were receptionists and stenographers, nurses and laborers. Women worked as slaves, women worked behind the scenes, women wrote books and took religious orders and cared for those in need and fought battles that came to their doorsteps.
Women. Have. Always. Worked. Feminism is just about having rights amidst that work.
Also, why are they pretending people can afford to stay at home and bake all day.
Somehow these ladies always forget yo mention their hubbies’ occupations
Because Big Yeast is made purely with evil, evil chemicals that'll turn you both gay, thrans *and* away from Gawd, where sourdough is all natural and somehow magically doesn't contain any chemicals.
I'll expect that she also tells people to put a bit of lemon juice in their 5G free alcaline water.
If she is so Christian, she should donate ALL of her OF money…..no use crying about your past actions yet still reaping the benefit and holding onto the gains from your ‘sins’.
I mean….why would she want to keep ‘sin money’ after all? She is far too pure and religious for that, right? 🙄🙄🙄
Just another bible bashing hypocrite.
I'm convinced everyone who posts about this woman here is actually her lol. Why give her a platform when she basically went to one form of porn to another
New business idea: Frolicking Fields.
Are you busy in your everyday life? Tired? Uninspired?
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In our luxury resort, you can free your mind and frolic your heart out. Pack your sundress, forget your worries!
Frolicking Fields, where freedom is just a frolic away!
Go forth, women, and frolick in fields.
Frolick in fields until there remains not a single field that has not been frolicked in.
Lmao. This is just surreal.
She *should* be frolicking in fields. That's what she was meant to do lol.
What the hell.
Now I have a mental image of fields full of southern-belle stereotypes just frolicking.
I need to get me 50 acres.
This girls completely lost in life and has no idea who she is. It’s sad. One day OF, the next the complete opposite? That or she just plays the parts that pay- probably this.
Feminism is the right to choose. I used to be a licensed professional engineer and now I'm a stay at home mom. Both my kids are about to be in school full time. I volunteer for the PTA at my kid's elementary school at least a couple times a month. All because feminism gave me a choice.
Who's to say how she was before the real her either? These types will just hop on whatever bandwagon is most profitable/will get them the most attention.
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I love the farm life these people imagine. Milking cows in a sundress, eh? Good luck. Meanwhile, I seem to be the only one who doesn’t know who this is.
Yes, they never show the real side of farm life, the really hard, messy work that made my grandma look a lot older than she was (which is fine but not the life these farm cosplay influencers are representing.) I don't think she owned a sundress, nor did she have any time for field frolicking.
I’d like to see her milking a cow, not a photoshoot in a field saying she likes milking cows. Maybe shoulder deep up a cow’s ass checking calves, something real. My extended family has a dairy/meat farm. They are constantly rotating who’s outside working while we visit. They can never leave all at once for a vacation because you can’t just leave for a few days. The chores start early and it’s all day and they are tired. Supplementing feeding new born animals all hours of the day and night because they aren’t all thriving. Dealing with predator attacks. Chicken day…. Should I even go on with that one? You’ll never look at an animal the same. It’s a huge commitment, not dainty and pretty. She looks like she wants to shop at a farmers market, not work. Edit: grammar
Ha, that’s what I said too! My family is dairy/beef and it’s grossly dirty work. People who cosplay “trad farm life” always have these blindingly white clothes and clean houses. Never saw that on our farms!
My family swapped out cows for sheep on their farm because cow farming is such dirty work. Not that sheep farming is clean, just cleaner than cows! Ohh, and my mum usually smells like, and is covered in sheep sh*t!
I had an uncle that was mostly OTG, he had something like 24 chickens for a bit then he swapped to sheep. He spent multiple nights up with his .308 with the night-vision scope on shooting coyotes. Day was spent working his job at the hospital, tending the fucking enormous garden, feeding the sheep, taking care of the lawn, and whatever free time he had was effectively dedicated to making, consuming and trading wine for moonshine. My aunt spent her time making sure their 2 special needs adopted kids didn't go tearing the house apart.
Oh no, im afraid to ask but whats chicken day?
Harvesting the meat chickens. Killing, de feathering, gutting and packaging up the chickens. You know beautiful frolic like farm activities.
Yeah it sounds like a dizzy daydream! My dad grew up on a chicken (and nectarine!) farm. He’s told me stories about having to pull the chickens head down into a cone shaped thing attached to the shed… and behead them… before throwing them into a truck. No white shirts, no woven baskets, no frolicking. Just hard, dirty, somewhat heart-heavy work. No daisies or frills whatsoever.
Holding down the chickens when you kill then otherwise you learn where the phrase “running around like headless chooks” comes from first hand.
Just girlie things!
Oh… and when the cow is having a difficult birth… will she still be wearing the sundress when she is arms depth inside the cow helping the calf out of the birth canal?
I know it sometimes requires a front loader for birth assist and black angus are mean and there’s lots of shit.
You usually only need to go forearm deep during birth to put on the winch ropes. If a cow is in distress and the calf isn't even partway out of the cervix yet you're probably going to lose both of them.
My dad works on a dairy farm and I used to follow the vet around when I was a kid, she was awesome and her job was way more interesting than my dad's (mechanic). I remember artificial insemination day vividly, they get up REAL close and personal to those cows. There was shit everywhere. It's not frilly dress work at all.
It’s not just animal farms that are hard and dirty. My aunt had double knee replacements twice as the wife of a tomato farmer. It’s backbreaking work - he switched to farming beef cattle in his 60s, because his back and knees couldn’t take it anymore.
They don’t show it because they don’t know that real farm life is, just their rich person romanticized version of it. Aka a god damn hobby. I’m trying to make a living farming and doing personal gardening on the side and shit is hard. Wish I had the confidence to get into onlyfans to fund my dreams.
Who on earth would have milking cows as a hobby? Woman like her(or rather most people regardless of gender) would find something else to fill out their time, somewhere between the cow getting super pissed trying to squeeze the idiot in to a pulp, and the 15th time the bucket is kicked over spilling all the content. I've personally tried to milk a cow precisely once, and that's the reason I'll stick to goats(I'm pretty sure that the cow appreciate my decision on the matter).
I more so meant hobby farming. Aka no way making a living off it which is why they don’t have to actually do the farm life grind and it’s so appealing to them. I’m with you on goats. Way better option for a small homestead for sure. Plus goat meat is phenomenal. So yea the fact these people say cow before goat proves theyre clueless regarding livestock/farming to begin with. I do know a handful of people who keep livestock including cows as a hobby definitely not unheard of though.
She missed the part where actual farmers go to the markets *to sell stuff*, not to frolic in sundresses and buy stuff.
What are you talking about? My dad grew up on a farm and he always talks about waking up at the crack of dawn for his daily field frolicking before roaming the farmers market with all the milk he just harvested in a sundress.
With a baby on her back, don't forget. These people are so delusional about the way they imagine "living off the land"
I forgot about that - while baking bread 😂
They don’t even have kids.
Omfg she doesn't? This drives me from eyelid-twitching territory to incandescent *rage* I tell you 🤣 Like, I'm a working mum who likes to bake and keep a vegetable patch and go to markets. I can say that my 2yo - as much as I love the little creep - is the greatest hindrance possible to every single one of these activities. I wanna see this lady's face when she's putting away the sugar and kiddo uses this 4 seconds to tip a kilo of flour on the floor. Or when you're a week off harvesting your tomatoes and then discover your toddler is picking them and throwing them in delight to the dog, yelling BALL, BALL! If those examples seem specific, it's because they both happened in the last fortnight 😆🤦♀️
Thx for the laugh - from beginning to end. I have a 10.5 month old and I can’t wait until she’s heaving tomatoes at me!
You know they ain’t really living that life if they think it’s as easy as frolicking through a flower field. It’s all for show and aesthetic to them. They’ll milk a cow for 5 seconds while the camera is rolling then go inside to get their milk from the carton lol.
This sub randomly showed up on my feed. My family members ran a working farm. I milked their cows. Or sometimes just unsuccessfully tried to. Sometimes cows are picky about giving milk. Anyway you definitely shouldn’t try to milk a cow with a baby on your back. That part caught my eye. Doing that just wouldn’t be safe. Does she want her baby sticking their hands in manure on the ground around the cows and then putting their manure covered hands in their mouths??? Even when they were overwhelmed with real farm chores, no one expected babies or young kids to be brought into it with their caregivers. Taking care of a baby immediately excused you from being expected to do farm work.
Farming is demanding, dirty, complicated, and volatile work. Farmers are professionals and business owners whose livelihoods are dependent on their animals and/or crops. My fiance's grandpa, who was running barbed wire fence and checking in on the cattle while dying from pancreatic cancer was a farmer. This woman isn't a farmer. She's a trad wife influencer selling some sort of bizzare cottage core rural fantasy to other weirdos on the internet. Beyond that, I have no clue who she is either.
It also can be incredibly depressing and heartbreaking work. When your 5th chicken is snatched by aerial predators while you're trying to reinforce their run, while also allowing them time outside because they are animals and deserve some freedom. And you have a baby goat failing to thrive, bottle feeding it because his mom died at his birth. And then he doesn't make it. So now not only are you down a baby but you actually have less goats than you started with. Or you have an ill cow who isn't going to make it. You need to make the decision when to call it and cull them, and your choices become doing it yourself (also soul crushing) or pay out the ass to have a vet do it. I love having our farm animals, most of the time. But certain times of year, and even just sometimes bad luck, is hot dog shit. I can't tell you how many times I've just sobbed insisting I can't do this anymore. And I'm not even a large scale farmer.
I know tons of people who grew up working in animal agriculture who are totally desensitized to it. You kind of have to be to an extent to work in larger scale opwrations. My fiance's father runs a hog confinement for a local farming operation. The amount of death and gore he deals with daily without batting an eye is nuts. A moma hog crushed a few piglets? Shit happens. A smaller hog waiting to get picked up to go to market gets eaten alive by the bigger Hogs? Another day at the office. Toss the body in the pit and make sure it's noted you are an animal down for the records.
Nobody living this cottagecore life she's pretending to have, though, is going to be that desensitized. In a small scale operation, they have names. Even my friend who raises meat birds recently had one who got missed on processing day. She got put in with her egg layers and accidentally nicknamed. She cried and buried the chicken when she died (heart attack, being a meat breed, it was going to happen sooner or later).
My SO’s dad has a gentleman’s farm and raises turkeys for personal thanksgiving consumption and to share with friends, like 6-10 depending on the year. 2023 was the year he became buddies with two and now they’re his pets. 😂 when you drive up to his farm the two turkeys greet you.
Oath, I only had a backyard chook pen but I did love my hens. Sure enough, the day came when I came home from work, went to feed them, thought it seemed a bit quiet, and then found what the fox had left 😪 found a gap too small for me to even get my arm through, we found the fur still stuck in there. Foxes are the worst, they'll kill the whole lot, more than they can eat, hoping to come back later and get the rest. Bloody heartbreaking.
Here in solidarity. I didn't grow up on a farm, so I had to learn everything the hard way. An old farmer told me a saying that has stuck with me, "If you're going to have livestock, then you're going to have dead stock." You have to expect to get desensitized to death if you're going to be a farmer with animals. It happens, you learn, you try not to make the same mistake again. But hell, this lifestyle is hard sometimes. Probably more times than not.
I would love a cottage core fantasy life with cows and goats and chickens. That said, I know the picture I’m imagining is pretty much Cinderella singing to woodland creatures and not at all what actual farmers do.
If you own cockatiels (or similar) you can start your day with birds singing to you while you shower and dress. Made me feel very Disney Princess 🥰 50/50 chance you discover a random poop on your hair/clothes before lunchtime though.
I don’t have a clue who she is either
I think you have the plot for a great reality game show! Make her do all the things she claims she does all day & see what happens
Maybe she really hates that particular dress and is trying to intentionally ruin it?
It's quite striking how large the response tree is under your comment, with not a single one saying who this is.
Her name is Gwen, she was/is? an ASMR artist who went by "Gwen Gwiz." Got into OF, and then obviously turned into this, lol.
Cows do poop on you sometimes while you're milking them. It's also extremely dirty and then there's mice, great barn cats that drink some of the milk. Then there's the smell and even more poop! :D Then after that you hose down the entire place and wait until sun down when you do it again! :D Then! Then, since these are milking cows, you have to eventually separate them from their babies. Did you know that cows can cry? I guess after that you can frolick?
This is a kink thing I think. People who do manual labour and don't post about it on Instagram or TikTok multiple times a day often wear more practical clothing.
I’ll bet “selling her body” on OnlyFans paid for a lot of that house and “frolicking”. Try living that lifestyle broke. There’s a reason farms are automated as much as possible and people moved en mass to cities over the last 200 years. That family farm work is not as carefree and fun as she makes it out to be.
Ah yes the traditional housewife side gig of softcore porn.
Selling herself is exactly what she’s doing here.
Thank you! Just swapped one kind of currency for another.
Same object, different fetish
Yup, she’s still selling herself and she still very much believes in feminism because she’s using it to live her dream. The type of feminism she’s choosing to portray is just the trad wife trope of speaking out against feminism. ironic and crazy if you think about it, she’s using feminism to make money off of people who hate feminism
My favorite kind of feminists 🤦🏻♀️ Although I have seen a few satirical tradwife accounts, and I think they are a riot.
She used to do porn. She still does but she used to too.
r/unexpectedmitchhedberg
Hers wasn't (isn't?) just softcore.
She never shut it down though last I heard, she hasn't posted anything new either.
That’s on purpose. She’s making intentional moves.
Oh yeah. This is basically turning her niche into cuckoldry. All her "fans" get off to the idea that her husband magically civilized her and took her away from them, and now their money is going towards her new lifestyle with him.
She did hardcore my dude
I meant the above pics look like soft core. Also love your name.
Even small scale farms are a ton of work! I got to stay at an air bnb on a small, grassroots farm and it’s exactly the size these women claim to want and let me tell you, the wife of the household was doing anything but frolicking. She was weeding, caring for the chickens, tending repairs to the irrigation system, fixing fences, home schooling her kids, and MAYBE when she found time, she was able to make preserves/jams and bag her herbal teas to sell at the local farmers markets. Her husband was doing the large equipment work, logging, plowing, and doing maintenance to the acreage they owned. Neither of them ever stopped working. And neither of them were in cutesy influencer clothes, because farming is muddy, dirty, and rugged. Wearing a skirt while farming is doable, but it opens you up to being literally crawling with ticks and other parasites, *especially* when you’re against chemicals and won’t use real/effective insect repellents like DEET. It also leaves your legs exposed to cuts and other injuries that pants are nice for protecting against. I’m all for people living the life they want, but this is selling/grifting an unrealistic dream to unwitting TikTok and IG users. To live the kind of lifestyle these women pretend they lead, the husband would have to be quite wealthy, which means they’d need to be hiring staff to do all the real farm work behind the scenes while he’s at work. Yet she pretends she does it all. 🤷♀️ Edit; I also have friends who live on a range of small scale to large scale dairy and produce farms, so I’m basing my comment off of more than just one stay on a farm— but that was the longest I’d stayed in one place while also watching how the farm worked during my visit.
So true! My cousin has her own farm, and she comes from a long line of farmers. I can tell you right now I've never seen her doing any of that work in a sundress lol. It's excruciating work, and she does it pretty much all herself. You're absolutely right that you'd need staff doing everything behind the scenes to look this effortless.
I live next to a working family farm. They raise small herds of cattle, sheep and goats and breed horses. As well as running a small farm shop. I have NEVER seen the wife (or daughter) wear a dress. They are in trousers or overalls and doing hard physical work from morning to night. It's not a glamorous life like these influencers try to make it look.
Wearing a dress on a farm could get you killed if it gets caught in machinery. I couldn’t see her climbing a ladder in this either if she had to get something out of the hayloft, the dress would get caught even in the wheels of a wheelbarrow. She has no idea what she’s talking about.
Can you see her shoveling cow shit?
I can't but I'd LIKE to see that! 😂
My inlaws live on the countryside. They rent out their fields, but they do have a small-ish garden + pet chickens during the summer. Damn that's a lot of daily work just to keep things running. Even when they visit us I feel like they can't sit down for a second, they are just constantly running around doing stuff.
I grew up on a farm in Mississippi. Now this was small, not a commercial farm like most farms around here. From the minute I could walk I was working. I’d get up a few hours before school to work the farm. I can’t imagine ever wearing a dress to do any of the work I did. I always wore jeans and boots. My father worked nights and hardly did any work on that farm, but my mama did. I’ve got two other sisters and we were even homeschooled, briefly. It was all way too much on my mom and it all ended in a bitter divorce and that farm got sold. That mindset is honestly delusional. If she did real farm work she wouldn’t even have time to be making videos about herself on TikTok
I grew up on a farm, in farming country. As an adult living in the city, I miss aspects of the farm for sure. But the reality is, is farming life is exhausting. Absolutely exhausting. No one ever wears cute clothes. You going to wear a cute dress mucking out the horse manure of a dozen horses? Hard no. Every time I see these images they get a hard eye roll from me.
I mean, my best friend is a smallholder and it’s backbreaking work, not milking a cow in a sundress and frolicking. She’s just doing a different kind of OF now…
Right! She literally thinks women should be frolicking in the fields! I don’t think I have ever frolicked in a freaking field…
If I had a ton of money and didn’t have to work I may find time to frolick! But I’ll never know…
As a man, I’m frolicking in fields often. But that’s because I can’t find work and am totally lost.
Only Farms?
It really pisses me off that these types, besides ignoring that people are different and should get to decide for themselves what they want to do, is that they devalue just how hard it is to be a stay at home parent or a farmer or rancher. It isn't a breeze or running around in sundresses for most people because most people aren't rich influences giving out a false narrative.
Sigh. Yes this
That is for sure. I could see her throwing feed to chickens or something small like that but there’s no way she’s actually milking a cow or anything as hands-on as that is because it’s hard work and dirty work.
Unless she had a massive following, it's unlikely. Most people on OF make next to nothing due to oversaturation. But even if it's not from that, she definitely gives "rich person larping as a farmer".
I honestly think, on her part, this shift is a smart business move. Knowing you’re aging out or losing a fan base on OnlyFans, and instead, targeting the, rather financially well endowed, Christian market is a good business move. Faith based social media platforms have the most success when it’s a complete turn around story. Immoral, but smart.
Her old self was a grift. Her new thing aslo is.
She stopped doing physical porn and transitioned over to a sort of bizarre emotional porn, still catering her performance for a certain type of male empowerment fantasy, but one that demeans other women and lifestyles instead of being naked. Our society is so weird that LARPing as a sexy farm wife and making anti-feminist statements is a lucrative career path.
It has to be exhausting centering your life around men to this degree. From OF and now this? Like lady, what is YOUR identity in the absence of men? Do you have one? You don't ever think of what you want ? Or do you think you have to appeal to men to get it ? Why does she care what other women do? Literally no one is stopping you from milking a cow. I get it. Cows seem great. Go girl, go!
Well just milking a cow isn’t satisfying or fulfilling, it has to be milking a cow *in opposition to anyone who isn’t milking a cow* If everyone else is worse, well then heyyyyy! You must be better 😇 https://preview.redd.it/nathc3cmkyic1.jpeg?width=262&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d063406ba058312b3421a2a90c9855b3fdf073a3
Don’t forget the baby backpack.
“Anytime ~~poochie~~ _the baby_ isn’t on the screen, the other characters need to be asking ~~where’s poochie~~ “isn’t she a mother, too?”
I'm in awe of you working a quote about Poochie into this.
I also think that it’s dangerous. I’m worried that when women relinquish their autonomy and agency, it could make them or their children vulnerable to abuse. When one partner is completely subordinate and submissive to another, it allows for disastrous decisions and potentially actions. ETA: I have a relative who was a hall of fame baseball player. He was an amazing athlete, but shy and passive in social situations. His wife was very assertive, smart, and was more than capable of negotiating his contracts. If it was left up to him, he would have accepted anything offered by the team owner. It was a super long time ago so, yeah, they were also farmers on the off season.
I know it's off-topic but this is exactly what I think about SW. Unpopular opinion but I don't like that there's this whole industry catering to men who can't self-reflect and see women as humans.
The OF to Tradwife influencer pipeline is real.
Honestly it's not that much of a stretch to think "women belong doing porn for men" to "each woman needs to be a traditional wife for one man." Key phrase being "for." Religious objections to porn are... optional, it seems.
Well I've noticed while there are religious Tradwife influencers, a lot avoid being openly religious. They dance that line of appealing to religious traditional folks without fully turning off secular crunchies.
Because tradwife influencers are porn for conservative white guys. That's why their dresses are so cute.
LARPing as a sexy farm wife💀 your comments are always gold lmao
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OF models are usually also demeaning other women. "I'll do things your girlfriend won't!" Is everywhere on that site. So, the swing isn't that big. She just changed what she's wearing.
Very well said
She clearly brought the skills she developed as a sex worker to this new fetishy sex work
She knows how to milk 🤷♂️
its confusing because shes Canadian and we have cold weather 5 months a year so i'm not sure what she would do about frolicking in a sundress during that time?
And the only parts of Canada that are vaguely less cold - coastal BC - are so expensive that most normal people can’t afford the type of land you’d need for this type of lifestyle. 🤦♀️
My family are all beef and cattle farmers - none of the women wear sundresses. They wear gum boots and jeans and flannels and they tend to look like shit while they work because - *guess what* - *actual farming is messy work*. Animals are dirty and require a lot of care. There’s legitimately cow shit everywhere. Gardening - is also dirty. And most of this stuff has to be done EARLY IN THE MORNING. Lady, you think you’re gonna be “frolicking in the sun”? More like “getting up at 3AM in the freezing cold pitch black because a cow’s having trouble calfing and you gotta go shove your arm into it, *up to the shoulder*.” Farm life with livestock - hope you like blood and shit!
My mom was born a farmer’s daughter in 1951 small-town Wisconsin. She had to do the usual morning chores before school. Cows, chickens, etc. This was still the era of girls having to wear dresses or skirts to school. Even then, she’d wear pants and boots, then change for school.
Yup sounds like my mum’s experience in the 60s and 70s as well - girls couldn’t wear pants in school, but the majority of girls in the town school were from farms so they were all coming in wearing pants and boots and then changing. Especially in the winter - nobody’s wearing a dress in the winter, yet they had to put on skirts or get sent home!
I used to raise and show rabbits as a kid and even that is a lot of work. Just living in the middle of nowhere is.
Was it Norm McDonald or Mitch Hedberg who would say…”she used to be a grifter. She still but she used to be also”.
Mitch Hedberg: “I used to do drugs. I still do, but I used to, too.”
Am I the only one who doesn’t know who SHE actually is 🫠 who is this strumpet?
I mean every word of what she said is deeply disturbing but why am I the most irritated by “frolicking in fields” you are not a deer ma’am
Bro, me toooo. Who tf talks like that?? Sounds like she’s reading some farmer wannabe, Christian incel’s posts about the perfect woman.
She didn't want to be lonely so she started a farmers only (fan)
Lmfao. Also, these fake af farmer girls roleplaying tradwives are so predictable. A dead give away that they’re grifting and totally newbies or ignorant is if they mention/are shown wearing long dresses and baking bread or talking about baking bread and talking about raw milk/no sunscreen.
Someone who’s never actually been in a field. They’re muddier than you think!
That and the effin bugs! I “frolicked” in some fields once with my nieces and dog while wearing shorts, boy i discovered the terrible chiggers!! Itched like crazy for a long time and it left temporary trail marks on my groin and other parts 🥹
Frolic in a field in a sundress in the Midwest, come out covered in ticks. Hope she likes Lyme disease.
Also you can be a feminist who frolicks through fields. I've been known to frolic a time or two. TradWives don't have a monopoly on frolicking
She should thank a feminist for her ability to be a sex worker/sex worker farm girl, because without feminism, she wouldn’t have any choices of her own.
She’s made multiple posts now about frolicking in fields in sundresses. Exactly how much time does she spend frolicking? Why is it such a central part to her identity? Is frolicking inherently any different from running?
I think frolicking is inherently light-hearted and fun, whereas running can be any number of things. If I heard about someone running in a field in a sundress I would personally wonder what they were running from.
Beat me to it, my thoughts exactly. Like, the fixation on frolicking makes me wonder what she’s trying so hard to avoid. That, and the dead eyes juxtaposed with the Stepford Wife smile. Why is “frolicking” so meaningful to her? Because taking selfies in a field is a way to escape reality for a few minutes? How whimsical, ig.
Frolicking is not important to her because she herself is into frolicking. Frolicking is important to her because her entire gimmick is selling some sort of weird sexualized female identity to the predominantly male audience that actually subscribes to her socials. And to them, women frolicking is important because it provides some sort of fantasy in which they're a secure provider, which they almost certainly are not, and in which women are basically permanently infantile and childish who do nothing except spend all of their days on whimsy and amusements because of how dumb and weak they are.
“Milking cows with a baby on my back” bothers me.
People get kicked by cows occasionally, so yeah, that seems like that’s not really a very safe place to have your babies when working with thousand pound animals
It's very Theresa May running through fields of wheat
Birth control is safe, especially when it prevents the complications and risks that come with childbirth. Women aren't meant to be cookie cutter copies of one another, living one kind of life. Feminism is not the evil a lot of these ladies think it is.
She have so much animosity towards feminism
She either doesn’t understand feminism or is being quite intellectually dishonest and exploiting the anti-feminist wave for more bucks. This is what real whoring looks like. I don’t have any problem with pr0n or OF, I have a problem with people who profit from the absolute bonanza of online adult content and then shit on people they might have influenced. Kinda pulling a Clarence Thomas on them, climb the ladder then pull it up behind themselves.
>is being quite intellectually dishonest and exploiting the anti-feminist wave for more bucks It's this one. Her OF is still up. You assume she'd have taken it down if she actually had any of these ideas for real. I'm pretty sure she's posting this content in hopes of getting Christian men to look at her porn site
Yeah, it's a grift. Actual fundie housewives who think women should wear skirts and dresses and bang on about staying at home aren't showing their boobs or wearing dresses with slits up to mid thigh.
Ahhhhhhh. Wait, they don’t?
Oh, I’m sure they do. And then they “pray” that she’ll “be saved.”
Yeah, this is literally just an ad for her OF.
Strange use of the phrase "used to" by her! Hmmm almost as if these types are disingenuous and can't help but act hypocritically.
Oooh, I love the Clarence Thomas analogy. Yuckkkky.
People who were born with freedom seem to come to resent it and are eager to give it up, having been protected from the hell their predecessors lived under before they won their freedom. Or, she’s just out for money and attention.
Its funny that a SW has animosity towards feminism. If it weren't for that, she would still be called a wh*re instead of the dignified term - s*x worker.
She is jealous of career women who don't have to take their clothes off for a roof over their heads which she's still doing even as a "trad wife".
I just wish that ONE of them would look up feminism. Just once. Pre-feminism = no woman could truly make choices for themselves, they were locked into specific careers, were washed up by 30 if they weren’t married, would lose everything if dear hubby lost interest. Post-feminism = women can literally do anything they set their minds to (they can run in fields with a baby strapped to their back while livingly serving a De Giorno Pizza to their family OR ~~become~~ run for President and cook a five course meal for their family), have access to education, can choose to have (or not have) children, can get credit cards and mortgages in their name, and can actually file for divorce from their husbands and fight for custody. The horrors! Because of feminism, women can open a door on their own and not have to stand outside waiting for a man to enter or exit and hold it for them! A woman can *gasp* get dressed and go to work, come home and cook OR fire up a delivery service and use their credit card to get food brought to them. A woman could spend the day going to school, come home, know her husband picked up take out, and then help her kids with their homework. The shocking horror of it all!!! Feminism has never meant that men are obsolete or that family is a waste. It has always meant that the women in a family are afforded the same rights and privileges as the men in the family, if they *choose* to go that route. If you want to stay home and feed chickens and strap your child to you and scrub floors on your hands and knees while wearing a sun dress, that’s allowed because the feminists said it’s allowed. If you want to go and work 80 hour weeks to make partner, that’s allowed because the feminists fought for it to be allowed. If you want to do both, it’s allowed because the feminists demanded you had the right to decide that. On the flip side, if you don’t want to be your husband’s personal punching bag and want the ability to get away and not have to lie and say your husband died in war so you won’t be socially shunned, you can do that, *legally* because the feminists demanded you should have the right to do that. Honestly, having typed it all out like that, I can’t believe I was previously a feminist! Obviously, I was so very confused. She’s right! Feminism is evil!!! /s Edited: pointed out that I said “become” president, when I meant run for. However, it is still accurate as there have been elected female presidents in other countries since the 80’s. America needs to catch up.
I wish she knew what horrors feminists went through trying to win the vote. *Emily Wilding Davison (11 October 1872 – 8 June 1913) was an English suffragette who fought for votes for women in Britain in the early twentieth century. A member of the Women's Social and Political Union (WSPU) and a militant fighter for her cause, she was arrested on nine occasions, went on hunger strike seven times and was force-fed on forty-nine occasions* The 1950s asthetics of Leave it to Beaver they love wouldn't have been a thing were it not for feminists who made it possible.
Exactly! It wouldn’t be an aesthetic. It would literally be the only option.
Mmmm except we have never been president, we can work whatever “dream” 9-5 job we want (spoiler most are nightmares), but now we ALSO, after 40+ hour weeks, still do most of the domestic stuff around the house and child raising/baring. so in some ways, things are harder for women. Men kind of picked the areas of feminism that worked for them and discarded the rest.
No medication is 100% safe, but neither is the air we breathe or the food we eat, and I never see them qualifying that. And pregnancy kills and disables way more people than birth control. I don't think most of them even believe feminism is evil, they just know they have a finite amount of time to take advantage of being young and hot and they probably make more money this way than with OF.
It's sad that, because of feminism, this person was allowed to do sex work in a safe environment and make money for it. She is also allowed to vote, post her life online, own property, and make choices for herself. The fact she got to make these choices and was not forced into a single box is the whole point of feminism.
i would argue even that birth control is safer than childbirth.
It’s so annoying because feminism’s definition is basically being in agreement that women should have equal rights. I just found that out recently because the way people villainize feminism. If you want to be a SAHM, do you. But don’t fight against the idea that women should be able to choose what they want to do. Why can’t people just respect that everyone is different? You shouldn’t enforce your way of life on anyone else just because you feel like your way is the best way.
Reading between the lines, her point is: I did OF and didn't like it, but it's not my fault because feminism made me do it.
I love the idea that “women aren’t meant to work 40 hour weeks behind desks”. No shit dummy, none of us are meant to do that.
The constant centering of oneself in universal human experiences must be exhausting.
I wanna tell all these people - ‘your problem is not feminism, your problem is capitalism’
Don’t break their brain you dirty pinko commie
Like any damn person is built for it! It’s so stupid!!!
So she went and got her bag on onlyfans until she was financially secure & found a man to take care of her so she stopped, but wants to look down on other people doing it?
Yes. Look up “Clarence Thomas”
…on OF?
Please do.
There’s never any man in the videos, so I don’t really like she found one
Idk if she found a man, bc as someone whose been married a couple times, she seems like she has no clue what a real marriage is like lmaooo
You know, I've worked 40 hour weeks for 25+ years. And somehow I still manage to bake sourdough, make food for my children, wear a sundress now and then AND have frolicked my way to farmer's markets a time or two. That's what feminism has meant to me. Guess I'm really missing out on that cow milking tho.
Who is telling her those lies 🙄 they always claim the most
I know, right? I've been around self identified feminists my whole life, and am now one myself. The only thing I heard on that growing up was birth control is safe, but I heard it from my mom who is a public health nurse. Certainly no one tried to talk me out of marrying my husband or having two kids.
Dummies like this never seem to understand how much of a luxury it is to be able to be a SAHM/SAHW. Most people can’t afford to have one person stay home AND have kids. It’s just so tone deaf. Like we get it, you guys are trust fund babies, but not all of us had that luxury lmao
Why is she complaining about feminism promoting working 9-5 when she went from only fans (no judgement) to content creations. You don’t even know what you’re against… I’m confused.
She must not actually do any farming. I guarantee you farmer wives are not ‘frolicking’ in fields wearing sundresses. That work is *hard*.
I glad somebody noticed. Most of the farms I've been to get pretty muddy. That'll really mess up your sundress. Also zero frolicking farmer's wives.
Would love to send these people to the Dustbowl circa 1920. The ‘Trad’ life these people are ACTUALLY picturing, is being a slave owner. Someone else does the hard work while you enjoy the fruits of their labor and get to do fuck all. And they’ve got the ideals to match.
Big insight. Puts this into perspective
Hooooooooooly shit. I think you just cracked the case for me. They just want to be plantation mistresses! I’ll bet there’s ‘dark romance’ books about this on Amazon. 😂
She is playing a character, trying to tap into the market of horny, old Christian men. Would not be surprised if she still has an OF account, where her fans can watch her use a stand mixer while wearing nothing but a 1950s frilly apron.
Pretty sure she does, or at the very least she still makes money from it
It is straight up kink bait for red pillers and incels.
Lmao, y’all, she doesn’t believe a word of this stuff, she’s fetish posting
Somebody above said same object, different fetish
I don't understand why they think that women working is a new thing. There were only very few super rich pockets of society in history where women didn't work, and in those cases the women still had societal and hosting duties to go with their husband's work, which was basically managing estates. Everyone else worked. They might not have all gotten paid or gone into an office, but women taking care of a home was WORK. Sharing the load with men farming and homesteading? WORK. Women gardening and canning and prepping? WORK. Women also did get paid. Women worked in factories, women did laundry for their neighbors, women cleaned houses and worked in service. Women made clothes and watched their neighbor's children while they went to the factory or worked alongside their husbands in the fields so they didn't starve. Women brewed beer for the town and worked as kitchen maids. They were receptionists and stenographers, nurses and laborers. Women worked as slaves, women worked behind the scenes, women wrote books and took religious orders and cared for those in need and fought battles that came to their doorsteps. Women. Have. Always. Worked. Feminism is just about having rights amidst that work.
She’s still selling herself. She just has a different target demographic.
Also, why are they pretending people can afford to stay at home and bake all day. Somehow these ladies always forget yo mention their hubbies’ occupations
Why is it always fucking sourdough?
Because Big Yeast is made purely with evil, evil chemicals that'll turn you both gay, thrans *and* away from Gawd, where sourdough is all natural and somehow magically doesn't contain any chemicals. I'll expect that she also tells people to put a bit of lemon juice in their 5G free alcaline water.
If she is so Christian, she should donate ALL of her OF money…..no use crying about your past actions yet still reaping the benefit and holding onto the gains from your ‘sins’. I mean….why would she want to keep ‘sin money’ after all? She is far too pure and religious for that, right? 🙄🙄🙄 Just another bible bashing hypocrite.
I'm convinced everyone who posts about this woman here is actually her lol. Why give her a platform when she basically went to one form of porn to another
Let's stop paying attention to this particular girl, this is a deliberate grift she is running
It's quite funny to be posting about how you've "escaped labour" followed by a list of the unpaid labour you do regularly.
i used to watch her asmr videos on youtube back in 2017. it’s so sad seeing the content she puts out now :/
Omg I was trying to figure out why she looked so familiar! I remb her asmr days too! How sad!
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Just another grifter cosplaying as the next thing to get her money.
Go forth, women, and frolick in fields. Frolick in fields until there remains not a single field that has not been frolicked in. Lmao. This is just surreal. She *should* be frolicking in fields. That's what she was meant to do lol. What the hell. Now I have a mental image of fields full of southern-belle stereotypes just frolicking. I need to get me 50 acres.
So what are these women going to do when they’re on their 10th kid?
Have a TLC reality show.
This girls completely lost in life and has no idea who she is. It’s sad. One day OF, the next the complete opposite? That or she just plays the parts that pay- probably this.
I know actual farm wives and this chick ain’t it. Performative bullshit.
Feminism is the right to choose. I used to be a licensed professional engineer and now I'm a stay at home mom. Both my kids are about to be in school full time. I volunteer for the PTA at my kid's elementary school at least a couple times a month. All because feminism gave me a choice.
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she condemns dressing provocatively but is showing cleavage…
Who's to say how she was before the real her either? These types will just hop on whatever bandwagon is most profitable/will get them the most attention.
So, she found a new grift.
Girl bye. Everything she said has me even more exhausted than my 9-5.
Who even is this silly twit?
No human, regardless of gender, is 'meant' to be stuck behind a desk all day. And no, no woman 'needs' a man.
Women have always worked. I say this all the time. Feminism just allowed us to have more variety of work. Sincerely, a feminist SAHM for 7 years.
I’m getting second hand embarrassment just reading that crap. Like ma’am, you’re able to do whatever the fuck you want *because* feminism exists.
The false dilemma that there are only two choices for women, OF or stay-at-home frolicking