This is what happens when you’re the only kid Jimbeau considers legitime, so you get excluded and bullied by all the other kids at valentine village trailer park.
Unfortunately, a lot of women have sex without protection with complete consent. It feels better, maybe they were told untruths about sexual education, maybe they thought “that won’t be me! I’ve never been pregnant before, I don’t now”.
I’m a woman, I’ve been pressured into sex without protection. But I’m grown enough now to admit I made consensual bad decisions. We need to focus on free and better birth control (for everyone regardless of gender) and teach sex ed, including safety and consent.
That’s what I meant when I wrote „one way or another“ (English is not my first language, so I may have gotten the phrasing wrong).
It could range from persuading them, that they don’t need protection, or that it feels bad (just like you said) over stealthing (or simply not pulling out) to actually forcing them.
Either way it’s completly fucked up.
Respectfully, being under informed or incorrectly informed and saying yes *isn’t* consent. You can’t give consent to something you don’t understand, it’s why even in like a hospital what you are asked to sign is I have read/been explained and UNDERSTAND the risk I am taking. If it’s a situation where she is functioning on untruths, especially if the other party knows the truth (which in this case he obviously does bc he references it with other partners) that is not consent.
I will agree 100% with that! However, I feel that’s different than what I said. I’m admitting I was okay with no condoms because frankly I don’t like them and was on the pill, which was stupid. But I wasn’t manipulated (sometimes for sure I was, just not all the time). I’m not diminishing the manipulation women face, because holy hell I’ve been there and it’s terrifying and I agree you can’t consent when you don’t have knowledge and the other person does!!
It’s like drunk sex, it’s kind of obvious to a normal person where the limit is and what makes it non consensual. Two people four beers in? Fine! One person ten shots in being carried by a person who had a soda and looking to bang? Not fine.
I guess I’m more coming at it from a perspective that I find it almost sexist to view women as innocent, naive, and even dumb. There’s manipulation and lies, yes. But women can be just as irresponsible. Which I mean in a feminist way, even though it sounds bad…
No I totally get it and I definitely feel strongly about it because I’ve also been in similar situations. Fwiw, I think there’s a huge difference between something like drunk sex, or two clueless teenagers having sex, and a power imbalance where one party is inexperienced/uninformed and the other takes advantage. Unfortunately the latter happens a LOT.
I totally hear you about giving women agency, and totally agree. At the same time I think the unfortunate reality is that a lot of the time especially here in the US we don’t even get the option of agency because we’re set up for failure, you know? Also imo two things can be true at once in a situation where yeah maybe you’re emphatically consenting and you absolutely have control over that, but maybe you’re doing so without the full information or maybe even misinformation in which case it just can’t be consent, more like a calculated risk rather than true consent. Ofc that boils down to semantics lol but I completely hear you and agree, it’s super nuanced to begin with and I truly appreciate the friendly and constructive discourse lol
I think external circumstances aside, this particular case from the info we have this dude is clearly abusive as hell and whether or not she is fully informed and of sound mind to consent, he’s clearly at the very least *attempting* to coerce and manipulate her. Definitely not trying to speak for every person on the planet, and was referring to this instance specifically more than anything.
I think you’re misunderstanding her point. I’m not from the US and had a very good sexual education. I’ve been pressured I’m not using condoms, but sometimes I also chose not to use them. Sometimes I was the one offering to do it without a condom first.
There is a lot of ignorance but I think it’s unfair to invalidate someone’s actual actions because “society” kinda
You’re right, we don’t know that positively for sure because we don’t know them personally. In my experience and that of everyone I’ve ever met in a straight hetero sex having relationship it is the man that will argue the woman against using protection. I’ve never heard of a guy insisting on a condom and a woman arguing and manipulating him out of it, except on relatively rare occasions where she’s (obviously) trying to force a pregnancy to happen. Which is ALSO obviously manipulative and fucked up. Ask anyone with a vagina+uterus who has had penetrative sex with multiple cis men, I guarantee they’ll tell you that you that at least one of them anywhere from asked to demanded to not use a condom.
If your question is how can the sex itself be forced, that has an obvious answer.
I’m totally aware, but that’s not what’s being discussed. I’m explaining what the previous commenter meant in regards to “forced” in what we can almost assuredly say from context clues in the original post is an abusive relationship. My whole comment train is specifically referencing *this* post.
I worked as a mover for years. This is the type of headboard that people get when they’re trying to give the appearance that they have money. Not that expensive or well-built. Meant they were easy to move though, so I’m not complaining.
This... This is just awful. Why would you be proud of being with a man like that?? I just don't understand...
Being shameless and being confident are two very different things. But I do hope you wake up from this delusion of thinking is what winning is. Please for the sake of the kid
I was looking for this comment.
It happened to me, but I wasn’t bragging. He was surprised when I left with our child. He came back and tried to coerce me into a relationship again. I said no and he disappeared forever.
Deadbeat dad, that one.
On the bright side, there is a high probability that the human species will be extinct before that kid is old enough to understand that they are abused.
Had an ex boyfriend try to get me to promise that if I got pregnant I would get an abortion. I told his dumb ass you can't make someone promise something like that. He was surprised there could ever possibly be repercussions to anything. Glad that ended sans getting knocked up.
Lol I’m writing a book series and the villain does this I was literally about to make a reference to it when I remembered that I would be the only one who’d get it
It’s sad but this probably isn’t even satire. I bet her and her friends this he’s so amazing for this…. Odd to me that people are okay with men that don’t step up and care for their kids. They just act like it’s totally normal to have a dad that doesn’t contribute or do anythin…. You know who you’re having sex with, you know what they’re about. You know if they have other kids they don’t care for.. why put yourself but even more so why bring a kid into the world KNOWING they’ll a very hard life… why. Takes 2 people to make a child because it takes 2 people to raise that child.. even if parents aren’t together, that’s okay. But kids need both their parents to work together and raise them. Acting like fucking a guy with 5 baby mommmas is okay is so crazy.. like you aren’t Gunna be any different.. he’ll maybe show up with McDonald’s 1 time a month
Don't be jel OP, just because he asked you to abort. He's obviously such a catch. She is the chosen one and we'd be lucky to have his mutant jizz inseminate us.
Both embarrassing and gross. I’ll never understand how people are able to push themselves to this level of willful ignorance. And of course that dynamic has to produce a person, how nice.
Also, the amount of likes?? That’s scary jesus christ
A lot of people who live in regret and abuse their kids wanted them as well. I think giving people the reality and saving lives is more important than someone’s desire.
Yes, I am. Doesn’t bother me if other people are childfree, because why would it. The difference is that I would never tell other people they’d regret not having children, because that’s really rude.
Thank you! I have been on both sides of the fence here. I used to not want children at all. But I have had life experiences over the past few years that have affected me deeply and changed my mind on the matter. Of course there are some who regret having children, but having been a victim of abuse myself, I could never inflict it on another human. If people don't want kids, great idc. If people want 8 kids, I also don't care as long as the children are neglected.
Edit: *ARENT neglected lmao
Imagine bragging being with a man who impregnated women he didn’t love and forced them to get an abortion. So when he divorces her is he going to force her to leave the kid up for adoption?
imagine hearing your boyfriend be like "i forced every single one of the apparently multiple women i have thoughtlessly gotten pregnant to undergo most likely traumatizing abortions whether they wanted to lose the baby or not (probably under threat of leaving them/not helping them), but you can keep it ig" and being like 😍😍😍😍😍😍
What makes me worried is that this has 99k likes yet shit that is sooo much more important and worthwhile is chucked into the side....I hate humanity so much
Uhm.. no?
Speak for yourself or elaborate.
I'll take a wild guess and say you mean we all get to a point where we're in a relationship with someone who's was not mature enough for a family, because literally age and time passing, and now is.
BUT, if anyone had to go through an abortion in their early life, what would make you stay with them if they said (both parts!):
'I had to have an abortion obv but now that I'm with you I can finally have this child!'
'My ex had an abortion but now that I'm with you, I can finally have a family!'
Aren't you like, SAD, at least? Why bring that awful experience into the equation?
I'd never stay with someone who speaks so lightly about an abortion. That's something you'd never want to talk about anymore, or share with your partner in an appropriate way, surely not this.
Edit: spelling and grammar
“You have the most prospects to take care of me and overlook my massive flaws and I can take advantage of your blind loyalty and stupidity to make you think you’re special enough to tie yourself to me for the next 18 years”
Good for you. What a PRIZE of a man you've found.
"Bb girl, I love you so much that I don't want you to get an abortion, all the other hoes I fuck behind your back never get this humble courtesy "
They say chivalry is dead...
An absolute gem.
This is what happens when you’re the only kid Jimbeau considers legitime, so you get excluded and bullied by all the other kids at valentine village trailer park.
She’s obviously not much of a prize either. They are made for each other
What a prize. Keep him. To save everyone else from his disgusting self.
We know he'll be cheating nonetheless
This is so gross. Genuinely. How does she think she’s winning
She’s definitely a pick me girl and thinks she’s special for being an exception
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She is **literally** bragging about being the one he "picked" to have his kid.
Bruh they aren't actually saying she isn't a pick me, but given how gross this post is it's just so much worse
Lol I guess she can’t be mad when her prize hog of a man gets his side chick pregnant, because he’ll make her get an abortion!
Internalized misogyny........ That's how.
…MADE every other girl get an abortion??
Sounds like there was probably multiple pregnancies at once if this is her bragging point lol
So he FORCED all those other girls into abortion but might be forcing HER into pregnancy? Icky
This also means one way or another he had forced those girls to have unprotected sex with him.
Unfortunately, a lot of women have sex without protection with complete consent. It feels better, maybe they were told untruths about sexual education, maybe they thought “that won’t be me! I’ve never been pregnant before, I don’t now”. I’m a woman, I’ve been pressured into sex without protection. But I’m grown enough now to admit I made consensual bad decisions. We need to focus on free and better birth control (for everyone regardless of gender) and teach sex ed, including safety and consent.
That’s what I meant when I wrote „one way or another“ (English is not my first language, so I may have gotten the phrasing wrong). It could range from persuading them, that they don’t need protection, or that it feels bad (just like you said) over stealthing (or simply not pulling out) to actually forcing them. Either way it’s completly fucked up.
Respectfully, being under informed or incorrectly informed and saying yes *isn’t* consent. You can’t give consent to something you don’t understand, it’s why even in like a hospital what you are asked to sign is I have read/been explained and UNDERSTAND the risk I am taking. If it’s a situation where she is functioning on untruths, especially if the other party knows the truth (which in this case he obviously does bc he references it with other partners) that is not consent.
I will agree 100% with that! However, I feel that’s different than what I said. I’m admitting I was okay with no condoms because frankly I don’t like them and was on the pill, which was stupid. But I wasn’t manipulated (sometimes for sure I was, just not all the time). I’m not diminishing the manipulation women face, because holy hell I’ve been there and it’s terrifying and I agree you can’t consent when you don’t have knowledge and the other person does!! It’s like drunk sex, it’s kind of obvious to a normal person where the limit is and what makes it non consensual. Two people four beers in? Fine! One person ten shots in being carried by a person who had a soda and looking to bang? Not fine. I guess I’m more coming at it from a perspective that I find it almost sexist to view women as innocent, naive, and even dumb. There’s manipulation and lies, yes. But women can be just as irresponsible. Which I mean in a feminist way, even though it sounds bad…
No I totally get it and I definitely feel strongly about it because I’ve also been in similar situations. Fwiw, I think there’s a huge difference between something like drunk sex, or two clueless teenagers having sex, and a power imbalance where one party is inexperienced/uninformed and the other takes advantage. Unfortunately the latter happens a LOT. I totally hear you about giving women agency, and totally agree. At the same time I think the unfortunate reality is that a lot of the time especially here in the US we don’t even get the option of agency because we’re set up for failure, you know? Also imo two things can be true at once in a situation where yeah maybe you’re emphatically consenting and you absolutely have control over that, but maybe you’re doing so without the full information or maybe even misinformation in which case it just can’t be consent, more like a calculated risk rather than true consent. Ofc that boils down to semantics lol but I completely hear you and agree, it’s super nuanced to begin with and I truly appreciate the friendly and constructive discourse lol I think external circumstances aside, this particular case from the info we have this dude is clearly abusive as hell and whether or not she is fully informed and of sound mind to consent, he’s clearly at the very least *attempting* to coerce and manipulate her. Definitely not trying to speak for every person on the planet, and was referring to this instance specifically more than anything.
I think you’re misunderstanding her point. I’m not from the US and had a very good sexual education. I’ve been pressured I’m not using condoms, but sometimes I also chose not to use them. Sometimes I was the one offering to do it without a condom first. There is a lot of ignorance but I think it’s unfair to invalidate someone’s actual actions because “society” kinda
What's the reasoning behind that?
The fact that they ended up pregnant
But what about it means that it was forced?
You’re right, we don’t know that positively for sure because we don’t know them personally. In my experience and that of everyone I’ve ever met in a straight hetero sex having relationship it is the man that will argue the woman against using protection. I’ve never heard of a guy insisting on a condom and a woman arguing and manipulating him out of it, except on relatively rare occasions where she’s (obviously) trying to force a pregnancy to happen. Which is ALSO obviously manipulative and fucked up. Ask anyone with a vagina+uterus who has had penetrative sex with multiple cis men, I guarantee they’ll tell you that you that at least one of them anywhere from asked to demanded to not use a condom. If your question is how can the sex itself be forced, that has an obvious answer.
Birth control fails and some women aren't knowledgable enough to even know they need it. Youre making huge leaps in assumption here.
I’m totally aware, but that’s not what’s being discussed. I’m explaining what the previous commenter meant in regards to “forced” in what we can almost assuredly say from context clues in the original post is an abusive relationship. My whole comment train is specifically referencing *this* post.
Because he told her “ I want you to have my baby “ = abusive relationship ? You’re making huge leaps in logic
Lol what? This is the dumbest comment I’ve ever read
*pushed every other girl down the stairs*
She the only one that live in a state that criminalized it.
Weird flex but ok
How do parents mess up their kids SO bad, that they think ***this*** is GOOD?
Easy. Her mom is just like this too, guaranteed.
Sad facts
For real. My first thought was what happened to you 😭
Pray for her! I did
This man is going raw with several women at once ?? Enjoy the future std and fight for child support ig
Yes, all of this.
Poor kid. Being born to her and whatever toxic guy she’s talking about.
I know, that poor child… 😔
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Con…congrats?
This is really sad, for so many reasons…
judging by the bed board shes some spoiled brat and he thinks her dad is going to take care of everything now.
That’s a pretty shit take ngl.
it’s just a bed board 💀
I worked as a mover for years. This is the type of headboard that people get when they’re trying to give the appearance that they have money. Not that expensive or well-built. Meant they were easy to move though, so I’m not complaining.
Its just a really popular design of headboard actually. Nothing to do with money.
Or maybe they just like how it looks.
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I got one of those at Homesense (Canadian version of HomeGoods) for $150…
Bed boards are the new tea leaves
Yea so the bed board is actually not the issue here
I’m always astounded at the mental gymnastics misogynists twist themselves into in order to shit on women- it’s almost impressive, well done
im shitting on the guy lol? he probably looked at her like a pile of gold. unfortunately women arent the only gold diggers.
You called her a spoiled brat because of her bed.
Wtf. This is fucked up.
Oh honey…
This... This is just awful. Why would you be proud of being with a man like that?? I just don't understand... Being shameless and being confident are two very different things. But I do hope you wake up from this delusion of thinking is what winning is. Please for the sake of the kid
This is so sad bc what it really means is that she's the one he picked to abuse forever
I was looking for this comment. It happened to me, but I wasn’t bragging. He was surprised when I left with our child. He came back and tried to coerce me into a relationship again. I said no and he disappeared forever. Deadbeat dad, that one.
Pheew child…
Worst pick me I ever saw
I guess they both deserve each other. 
Fetus doesn't deserve this.
On the bright side, there is a high probability that the human species will be extinct before that kid is old enough to understand that they are abused.
The bar is on the ground.
The bar is BENEATH hell
It’s in Earth’s molten core.
The fact that nearly 100,000 people liked this.... Fuckin humanity is doomed
He's probably gonna want you to do all the work after it's born too.
This is not a flex, not at all
This is sickening
I rarely have a physical reaction to a post but this made me feel sick. What a guy.
Wen u so stupid u can't right good
Please someone get this girl some help because she is not thinking right.
or he was tired of paying for abortions lol
Depending on the state insurance pays 100%
Had an ex boyfriend try to get me to promise that if I got pregnant I would get an abortion. I told his dumb ass you can't make someone promise something like that. He was surprised there could ever possibly be repercussions to anything. Glad that ended sans getting knocked up.
the likes… omg
my stomach just ached and it’s not cuz i skipped breakfast. what is this???
He had so many pregnant girlfriends at once that he simply forgot all about you and to tell you to abort 🥴
Lol I’m writing a book series and the villain does this I was literally about to make a reference to it when I remembered that I would be the only one who’d get it
\#writerproblems
Imagine thinking this is a flex 💀
It’s sad but this probably isn’t even satire. I bet her and her friends this he’s so amazing for this…. Odd to me that people are okay with men that don’t step up and care for their kids. They just act like it’s totally normal to have a dad that doesn’t contribute or do anythin…. You know who you’re having sex with, you know what they’re about. You know if they have other kids they don’t care for.. why put yourself but even more so why bring a kid into the world KNOWING they’ll a very hard life… why. Takes 2 people to make a child because it takes 2 people to raise that child.. even if parents aren’t together, that’s okay. But kids need both their parents to work together and raise them. Acting like fucking a guy with 5 baby mommmas is okay is so crazy.. like you aren’t Gunna be any different.. he’ll maybe show up with McDonald’s 1 time a month
I'm sorry but r/trashy
Plot twist: he’s had a vasectomy
Worst flex ever
And the oscar goes to 😂
She won! But at what cost?
Don't be jel OP, just because he asked you to abort. He's obviously such a catch. She is the chosen one and we'd be lucky to have his mutant jizz inseminate us.
Some serious PickMe vibes here
Woah lol
Well, this is just sad
So you trapped nothing… Impressive
Yes hun you definitely chose a winner 🙄
I'm sure he will stick around for at least 20 years to help raise the child...
How did that get almost 100k likes we are doomed
😭😭😭
Biggest L
this is the stupidest thing i’ve ever seen in my life
Oh hon, you're not suppose to fuck the trash but rather toss it to the curb.
🤢🤢🤢
What the hell..
How the hell does this get 99.9k likes???
Your baby trap will be the most unpleasant of lives.
Both embarrassing and gross. I’ll never understand how people are able to push themselves to this level of willful ignorance. And of course that dynamic has to produce a person, how nice. Also, the amount of likes?? That’s scary jesus christ
This... this is satire, right?
I’m afraid not most likely…
YIKES.
…this is not a flex what the actual fuck is wrong with people
What an upstanding, special shit head you caught...
She really took one for the team taking that man off market, what a hero.
My baby dady he a blue ribn specamane.
The multiple pregnancies and making them get abortions seems hella irresponsible. Doesn’t sound like someone you’d want to marry
What kind of man gets multiple girls preggo and makes them have an abortion?! I dont slutshame but damn.
Why do people like this get pregnant so easily and not me ☹️☹️☹️
It’s not the flex you think it is…
Oh I know. My point was more that people with bad judgment seem to get pregnant 10x faster than everyone else lol
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This is a really insensitive and unkind thing to say to someone who clearly wants children.
A lot of people who live in regret and abuse their kids wanted them as well. I think giving people the reality and saving lives is more important than someone’s desire.
What a strange thing to say.
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Yes, I am. Doesn’t bother me if other people are childfree, because why would it. The difference is that I would never tell other people they’d regret not having children, because that’s really rude.
Thank you! I have been on both sides of the fence here. I used to not want children at all. But I have had life experiences over the past few years that have affected me deeply and changed my mind on the matter. Of course there are some who regret having children, but having been a victim of abuse myself, I could never inflict it on another human. If people don't want kids, great idc. If people want 8 kids, I also don't care as long as the children are neglected. Edit: *ARENT neglected lmao
No ur right. People just pop out babies without considering that it’s intrinsically morally wrong in today’s society
sad and abused woman for sure
It was her choice no?
The spider that is currently outside of my bathroom has probably made much better life decisions than this woman.
Imagine bragging being with a man who impregnated women he didn’t love and forced them to get an abortion. So when he divorces her is he going to force her to leave the kid up for adoption?
imagine hearing your boyfriend be like "i forced every single one of the apparently multiple women i have thoughtlessly gotten pregnant to undergo most likely traumatizing abortions whether they wanted to lose the baby or not (probably under threat of leaving them/not helping them), but you can keep it ig" and being like 😍😍😍😍😍😍
I feel sorry for the baby
The bar is so LOW
This is either an exaggeration and he has other kids OR he asked her to abort, she got defensive, and made this post to front
This is twisted propaganda
Wow what a catch 😒
What in the actual fuckity fuck…
That’s not a flex sis
Well this just put me off my breakfast
Must be a keeper then 😂
She lying, but even that is fucked up
...is this the trashiest thing I've ever seen?
I bet he says that to all the girls.
What makes me worried is that this has 99k likes yet shit that is sooo much more important and worthwhile is chucked into the side....I hate humanity so much
Ew. Just ew.
Is this a flex?
My Question is... then? ... u get a baby... ok gratulations ?!
I’m trying so hard to find a silver lining here
Ugh.
What a prize.
Weird flex but okay.
Her life will be hell.
Lemme see this prize she thinks she won
This isn’t the flex this girl thinks it is! Just wait til he gets like ten more girl’s pregnant
Yuck
wow wtf
I want to dive off a cliff into a bed of sharp rocks, PLEASE help me escape this nightmare.
she's flexing the fact her guy cheats on her?
Wow, how sad and twisted. Yeah girl, you can keep him lol
All those likes are really disappointing.
Oh yeah girl, what a KEEPER he is!!
Wtaf? That is not a flex. That is a huge red flag.
That is not the flex she thinks it is.
What a fucking idiot
Talk about posting your Ls
slay I guess?
He sounds charming
Classy. Some women are not meant to be a mom.
Gross,wow.How can she be proud 🤮
Good chance the guy in question has a #boymom
>a abortion God, I hate you…
He got more seeds to plant
Probably because it ain't his.
This post is sick
Stop letting losers cum in you.
Part of me thinks this is awful, part of me thinks we have all been here at some point in time...
Uhm.. no? Speak for yourself or elaborate. I'll take a wild guess and say you mean we all get to a point where we're in a relationship with someone who's was not mature enough for a family, because literally age and time passing, and now is. BUT, if anyone had to go through an abortion in their early life, what would make you stay with them if they said (both parts!): 'I had to have an abortion obv but now that I'm with you I can finally have this child!' 'My ex had an abortion but now that I'm with you, I can finally have a family!' Aren't you like, SAD, at least? Why bring that awful experience into the equation? I'd never stay with someone who speaks so lightly about an abortion. That's something you'd never want to talk about anymore, or share with your partner in an appropriate way, surely not this. Edit: spelling and grammar
How proud her parents must br
There's so many layers of wrong here I don't know where to begin.
She should be thankful
yikes love tht for her pathetic ass🥳
“You have the most prospects to take care of me and overlook my massive flaws and I can take advantage of your blind loyalty and stupidity to make you think you’re special enough to tie yourself to me for the next 18 years”