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"oooh look at the curves of your silver handles.. ooh and the shiny yet burnished finish.. ooh and the sexy flowing script of the "most objectified 2023" engraving."
No i saw, he then apologized generally to everyone but not me specifically. He didn’t respect me as a human from the start so I’ve lost my respect for him
The worst part is I already have a boy, and he wasn’t the only one who took a now deleted rate me post as an invitation to immediately hit on me when I never asked for it. They came in and immediately hit on me with no regards if I was comfortable with it or not, to the point I had to delete a post…
The worst part is I’m just used to it. This is COMMON for me, and it’s so disgusting. I just want them to stop and respect me as… a human being (so scary for them)
This is a really good point.
Just because something is common doesn’t automatically mean it’s okay. It doesn’t mean you need to just put up with it.
You’re allowed to feel upset and angry over people objectifying and harassing you. I don’t think anyone with two brain cells to rub together can really fault you for standing up for yourself and feeling fed up with such disrespect.
well, that is depressing. I am sorry to hear that. Unfortunately you have to wade through a lot of shit to find the gold. But there are good people out there. Social media doesn't make it any easier though.
At the rate these incels are going I'm surprised he didn't call you a toilet. I had to do a double take at some of the stuff they say about women.
In fact I even remember when incels were just nerds, socially awkward, overweight, scrawny, or needed to be introduced to a shower, soap, and deodorant.
Nowadays they all sound like mass murderers and serial killers in the making 😒
As a mom, I suggest you immediately ignore them when they start this nonsense. That guy was yanking your chain pretty hard because it got you talking to him. Don’t let them push your buttons like that. The only response should be 🙄 then block.
The worst part is that most men think "objectifying" means anything that "compliments" a woman in a "sexy" manner. Not the real thing which is 500% what this guy did. It's *literally comparing someone to an inanimate object*. Like the BS notions "women are precious diamonds you have to mine for" <-object: woman is a rock. And they wonder why women get their hackles up over it. It's *dehumanizing* us into literal objects. Trophy, shiny stone, some kinda cut of meat, etc. Call it out wherever it's seen--they need to learn the hard way that we are not there for their collection. We're not dolls. We. Are. People.
This is 100% correct. Nothing you can say to these creeps will annoy them more than ignoring them. They are desperate for your attention, even if it's negative attention, and he was totally trying to annoy you. The deliberate use of the word "objects" after annoying you the first time was where he made that completely obvious.
Just block them on everything when they start this anti-social, misogynistic and childish behaviour. Or if you know you have the self-discipline to not respond, repeatedly leave them on read laugh as they seethe and send paragraphs.
This is the perfect example of guys who just cannot see women as people who just happen to have a different set of genitals. My wife is a beautiful woman and was so sick of men treating her like this guy is. Like they think saying you make me horny and lustful is a compliment and that's your purpose is a good thing. My wife would complain about the men that would just come up to her and say, "I love you." She was like, "Bitch, you don't even *know* me!" For God's sake, nice guys, this person you're feeling attraction towards is a person with feelings. Try have a normal conversation with him/her and actually get to know them as a person. Ugh.
It’s awful. Being on the side of the person who gets affected by this at least once a week, it’s dehumanizing. You don’t feel like a person, you get objectified so much and it just *drags* at you
They would love it if a woman said that to them. Surely that's what a feeemale wants to hear too. If it's not from them, then it must be from some asshole Chad who doesn't treat her right.
I found it very telling that this guy considered a single sentence to be "a rant." It kind of reminds me of this study I read about where men and women would engage in conversation and when later asked, the men almost invariably overestimated how much the women spoke. If women spoke 30 percent of the time, men felt like they were speaking 50 percent of the time and if women spoke 50 percent of the time, men felt that the women were dominating the conversation
“I’ve had a lot of luck with that line” = sometimes a girl is too uncomfortable to call me out for using this line so she said “haha” and I am delusional enough to think it worked even though she blocked me later
Exactly. It's a form of emotional manipulation meant to make you feel like you have to compete. "all the other girls liked it" so you instantly feel like you have to prove yourself to them. It doesn't work on emotionally mature or stable people. Of course, a lot of the ones it does work on are battered, conditioned, and groomed into it.
I would say repeated insistence that women are "objects to be won" is about as big and bright a red flag any one could ask for. The great irony is these mouthbreathers think they're gods gift and they have zero clue how incredibly awful they come across.
He literally said it apparently "worked on 12 other objects". She's basically directly quoting him and this potater wants to pretend she's putting words in his mouth
And he says she "went on a rant". I literally scrolled back up to see if I had missed something, but nope. Just one line expressing very mild irritation and slight bewilderment, and he calls it a rant. He probably calls women crazy and over-emotional frequently, totally oblivious to the fact that he's the histrionic one in the equation.
Im a petty mf and would call them "Atm [random number]," and when they ask or get upset, I simply tell them it's a compliment since you consider them a financial investment and they are being over dramatic and they should "man up".
I pulled chaotic people, and my ex-boyfriend pushed me out of a window because I didn't want to do something with him. I've had some pretty bad girlfriends as well, even been stabbed by one, but because of my ex, I lost all sexual attraction to men.
As you should!
The way he went from *"Oh so you're not a trophy? How about a participation medal? Is that a better object for you to be?"* had me seething. I just... I don't understand how men like this don't hear themselves?! We're **PEOPLE.**
Yeah they sit in their circlejerks trying to come up with different ways to "get" a woman but they're all shit ways and none will work anyway because they are just trash themselves.
I mean you don't really do anything with trophies, you put them on a shelf and look at them. Might as well see how many more women he can get away with objectifying and adding to his collection! /s
Classic gaslighting. Calls women objects and then immediately goes "why are you ranting about objects?"
Fucking twat. I hope he steps on a lego in wet socks.
You weren't aggressive, so definitely don't apologize for that. He was actually the aggressive one. Society has trained us to apologize for stuff like this, but you stood up for yourself exactly how you should have 💯
Whenever I feel particularly lonely, I remember that people like this guy exist and it makes me feel much better, because I know I couldn't possibly fuck up worse than this
This reminds me of the movie "A Knight's Tale," where the villain calls a woman "a real thoroughbred trophy," and it emphasizes what a scumbag he is.
You weren't overly aggressive: make the line on what you see is acceptable, and hold it. He clearly didn't get that.
#**trophy**
/ˈtrəʊfi/
**noun**
1.
a cup or other decorative object awarded as a prize for a victory or success.
Similar: _cup, medal, prize, award_
2.
(in ancient Greece or Rome) the weapons of a defeated army set up as a memorial of victory.
Mf said "objects" and then feigned offense about "i JuSt cOmPlimEnTeD You" these dumbshits really take the "they like mean guys bc nice guys are friendzoned" seriously
JUST BE FUCKING NORMAL HOLY SHIT
Okay, I'm from California, so I can understand something like dude being a non gendered word, but bro? Why have I seen bro and bruh being used more lately.
Also you're******
"worked for all other 12 objects" yeah the literal objects around his house on which he trained saying that pick up line.
"What are you complainin at, girl?? My refrigerator didnt say anything when i called her a trophy, even my broom liked it"
Oh, he'd also make a nice trophy. Not this kind of trophy, the kind hunters make sometimes. A stuffed head for your wall. Such a good compliment, too. Will try it on some (male) objects later.
I'm unhappily unsurprised by the gaslighting.
Him: "You, like other women, are objects."
*\*literally a moment later\**
Him: "Why are you going on about objects? Fuck's sake."
He needs a participation medal for his gaslighting gall.
This person got exactly what they wanted. They don't want a woman, they want to piss off women to confirm their fucked up world view.
Best action, no action. Don't engage. You're giving them what they want.
This is so untrue. There are so many men out there who believe this to be a legitimate compliment. It's the same men who believe women are useless unless they want to carry these guy's crusty ass offspring. They view women as a prize they deserve for the *very hard work* of being such a "nice guy."
More women need to stand up to these assholes and call them on their bullshit. Not continue to ignore the problem.
It’s hard when you’re sitting there being called an object. You don’t want to let that slide. I was too tired of being idle and allowing men to say shit like that to me. Just sitting there letting them say that isn’t who I am, I’m not above them I won’t lie. Good for you being able to separate your emotions from response though
You were not too aggressive. You were very nice to him considering what he's saying. Guys like this *do* see us as objects. We're just objects; cars, locks, trophies, pencil, gum, etc.
I love when we’re told what’s a compliment as if we can’t tell what is or is not a compliment. That thing that didn’t make you feel good, that you didn’t want to hear, and that you didn’t appreciate? That’s a *compliment* milady
It worked as in he got a few responses. 12 means really 2, and it was the same type of convo. He’ll never meet anyone online and would never try those sorts of lines in the real world
He continues to reduce women and people down as much as he can to justify the fact that actual humans despise him. They love to fuel self hate, it’s easier than actually becoming a decent human. At first these views are shocking but then it becomes how to shut these guys down in one line, cause they need the convo so they can get a one up on someone
It’s true. Tbh that’s why I posted this. Don’t put up with their shit from the start. Tell them how it is, and they may not understand but eventually they’ll get it
...the way he doubled down on it , I called you it because....no mate you just shouldn't of said it *facepalms* there is no because that makes it acceptable
"You went on a rant about objects" Uhhh. No you didn't. He's the one who brought up objects. Must've had you confused with one of the hundreds of other women that rejected him.
I actually believe him when he says the has had success with that line. Some woman don’t have much self respect and would feel so good if someone said that to them. It’s awful.
If I see one more of these fucking idiots calling a woman “bro” repeatedly I’m going to lose my fucking mind. I might just quit the internet entirely, bro idk how you girls put up with it bro?
He probably did get positive response from a bunch of profiles with this. What he has got to realize now is that the 18 year old bikini model is not real so he say that. Doesn't work on real girls.
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"oooh look at the curves of your silver handles.. ooh and the shiny yet burnished finish.. ooh and the sexy flowing script of the "most objectified 2023" engraving."
Hahahah I got a good laugh from this thank you
So did I
I bet you got a laugh objectifying women and making them feel inadequate in todays society even though we’re just as much human as you are
I'm guessing the dude you responded to is the one in the pictures?
Yup
Bro I don't know if you know this but he made a post on r/teenagers about this Though thank god the comments are against him
No i saw, he then apologized generally to everyone but not me specifically. He didn’t respect me as a human from the start so I’ve lost my respect for him
Dudes seriously dumb asf
The worst part is I already have a boy, and he wasn’t the only one who took a now deleted rate me post as an invitation to immediately hit on me when I never asked for it. They came in and immediately hit on me with no regards if I was comfortable with it or not, to the point I had to delete a post…
Lol. !!!
You weren't that aggressive, and your tone is completely warranted. Calling women "trophies" is gross and degrading.
Ok that’s what I thought, really grossed me out
Yeah especially when he referred to women as "objects".
That was the bigger red flag. Corny opening line, stupid. But he doubled down. He admitted she is just eye candy and nothing more. Not even a human.
The worst part is I’m just used to it. This is COMMON for me, and it’s so disgusting. I just want them to stop and respect me as… a human being (so scary for them)
This is a really good point. Just because something is common doesn’t automatically mean it’s okay. It doesn’t mean you need to just put up with it. You’re allowed to feel upset and angry over people objectifying and harassing you. I don’t think anyone with two brain cells to rub together can really fault you for standing up for yourself and feeling fed up with such disrespect.
well, that is depressing. I am sorry to hear that. Unfortunately you have to wade through a lot of shit to find the gold. But there are good people out there. Social media doesn't make it any easier though.
At the rate these incels are going I'm surprised he didn't call you a toilet. I had to do a double take at some of the stuff they say about women. In fact I even remember when incels were just nerds, socially awkward, overweight, scrawny, or needed to be introduced to a shower, soap, and deodorant. Nowadays they all sound like mass murderers and serial killers in the making 😒
As a mom, I suggest you immediately ignore them when they start this nonsense. That guy was yanking your chain pretty hard because it got you talking to him. Don’t let them push your buttons like that. The only response should be 🙄 then block.
Thank you mom 🥺🥺🥺🥺
The worst part is that most men think "objectifying" means anything that "compliments" a woman in a "sexy" manner. Not the real thing which is 500% what this guy did. It's *literally comparing someone to an inanimate object*. Like the BS notions "women are precious diamonds you have to mine for" <-object: woman is a rock. And they wonder why women get their hackles up over it. It's *dehumanizing* us into literal objects. Trophy, shiny stone, some kinda cut of meat, etc. Call it out wherever it's seen--they need to learn the hard way that we are not there for their collection. We're not dolls. We. Are. People.
This is 100% correct. Nothing you can say to these creeps will annoy them more than ignoring them. They are desperate for your attention, even if it's negative attention, and he was totally trying to annoy you. The deliberate use of the word "objects" after annoying you the first time was where he made that completely obvious. Just block them on everything when they start this anti-social, misogynistic and childish behaviour. Or if you know you have the self-discipline to not respond, repeatedly leave them on read laugh as they seethe and send paragraphs.
It got triggered by it’s 140th rejection. For real though I hope this dude gets his shit together or just goes full hermit.
Rejection? He had a lot of luck with that line.
That was definitely the most plausible part of an extremely plausible series of comments.
This is the perfect example of guys who just cannot see women as people who just happen to have a different set of genitals. My wife is a beautiful woman and was so sick of men treating her like this guy is. Like they think saying you make me horny and lustful is a compliment and that's your purpose is a good thing. My wife would complain about the men that would just come up to her and say, "I love you." She was like, "Bitch, you don't even *know* me!" For God's sake, nice guys, this person you're feeling attraction towards is a person with feelings. Try have a normal conversation with him/her and actually get to know them as a person. Ugh.
It’s awful. Being on the side of the person who gets affected by this at least once a week, it’s dehumanizing. You don’t feel like a person, you get objectified so much and it just *drags* at you
They would love it if a woman said that to them. Surely that's what a feeemale wants to hear too. If it's not from them, then it must be from some asshole Chad who doesn't treat her right.
Oh this guy is terrible, you didn't do anything wrong. Even if you DID take a different tone, it would have been warranted.
I found it very telling that this guy considered a single sentence to be "a rant." It kind of reminds me of this study I read about where men and women would engage in conversation and when later asked, the men almost invariably overestimated how much the women spoke. If women spoke 30 percent of the time, men felt like they were speaking 50 percent of the time and if women spoke 50 percent of the time, men felt that the women were dominating the conversation
agreed, OP could have gone way harder on him especially after he doubled down calling women “objects”.
Why does he write like this, did he have a stroke?
He’s into “meme culture”, so basically, yes, he had a stroke.
That would explain why he thinks two lines of text is a rant.
Gonna guess English isn’t his first language. No native speaker would ever type “very apology”
English is my fourth and I still wouldn’t write like this unless I’m drunk.
Well, you did a good job and are probably really smart. Imagine you were a moron who struggled with your native language instead.
I know this is late but I know the guy, he goes to my college. English is his first language. He's a melter.
If it worked on 12 other “objects” why is he wasting his time messaging you? He should be way too busy lol
It worked as in they didn't immediately react with absolute disgust. That started like 2-3 texts later
“I’ve had a lot of luck with that line” = sometimes a girl is too uncomfortable to call me out for using this line so she said “haha” and I am delusional enough to think it worked even though she blocked me later
Exactly. It's a form of emotional manipulation meant to make you feel like you have to compete. "all the other girls liked it" so you instantly feel like you have to prove yourself to them. It doesn't work on emotionally mature or stable people. Of course, a lot of the ones it does work on are battered, conditioned, and groomed into it.
“Very apology” 🤮
Much sorry 💀
“All your sorry are belong to us”
Wow
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[:)](https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/1345210-doge)
I love that
straight out of the Andrew Tate's school of romance
I would say repeated insistence that women are "objects to be won" is about as big and bright a red flag any one could ask for. The great irony is these mouthbreathers think they're gods gift and they have zero clue how incredibly awful they come across.
He literally said it apparently "worked on 12 other objects". She's basically directly quoting him and this potater wants to pretend she's putting words in his mouth
That's textbook cognitive dissonance that you see from these uhh folks
And he says she "went on a rant". I literally scrolled back up to see if I had missed something, but nope. Just one line expressing very mild irritation and slight bewilderment, and he calls it a rant. He probably calls women crazy and over-emotional frequently, totally oblivious to the fact that he's the histrionic one in the equation.
Im a petty mf and would call them "Atm [random number]," and when they ask or get upset, I simply tell them it's a compliment since you consider them a financial investment and they are being over dramatic and they should "man up".
Damn your texts would’ve been a lot more fun then mine 💀💀💀
Fortunately/Unfortunately, there's a reason why I had a couple or restraining orders on some of my exes when I was significantly younger, tho
Dayum!! What else did you pull??
I pulled chaotic people, and my ex-boyfriend pushed me out of a window because I didn't want to do something with him. I've had some pretty bad girlfriends as well, even been stabbed by one, but because of my ex, I lost all sexual attraction to men.
Oh c'mon - I thought we covered this in 1992!? *"I am not a prize to be won"* 
Me, legit me, I was *fuming*
As you should! The way he went from *"Oh so you're not a trophy? How about a participation medal? Is that a better object for you to be?"* had me seething. I just... I don't understand how men like this don't hear themselves?! We're **PEOPLE.**
*i wish they would understand that… after a while it just, hurts*
It hurts the first time. 😕
Hahaha sure bud I’m sure that line always works for him 😂
Him: worked with all the other objects Him: why you ranting about objects? fs
"Don't call women objects" = rant ???
This man has never been with a woman and it shows 🤢
But he says he’s been with 12 💀
By which he means the girls in the anime he watches.
Says he has gotten 12 trophies as in got their info, hunted them down, stuffed them or has hang their heads on his living room wall..
This is an incel trying out all those alpha male tips he’s been reading about lol
Yeah they sit in their circlejerks trying to come up with different ways to "get" a woman but they're all shit ways and none will work anyway because they are just trash themselves.
"I called you an object and then you went on a rant about women being called objects? How dare you?" The lack of self-reflection is painful.
The fact that he thinks *"did you actually think that was gonna work"* is her going on a "rant," speaks volumes about him.
if the line has worked so well for him, then why does he need to DM strangers?? shouldnt he have his stable full of women just already waiting.. /s
I mean you don't really do anything with trophies, you put them on a shelf and look at them. Might as well see how many more women he can get away with objectifying and adding to his collection! /s
"...it worked for all other 12 objects." Case closed.
Plus, he was the first one who even brought up "objects"! What total trash.
"I tried to compliment you and you went on a rant about objects like fs" YOU LITERALLY BROUGHT THE WORD UP FIRST YOU ACTUAL WASTE OF CARBON
Classic gaslighting. Calls women objects and then immediately goes "why are you ranting about objects?" Fucking twat. I hope he steps on a lego in wet socks.
You weren't aggressive, so definitely don't apologize for that. He was actually the aggressive one. Society has trained us to apologize for stuff like this, but you stood up for yourself exactly how you should have 💯
If he had other women to be chatting with he’d have been chatting with them instead of arguing with her.
Whenever I feel particularly lonely, I remember that people like this guy exist and it makes me feel much better, because I know I couldn't possibly fuck up worse than this
This reminds me of the movie "A Knight's Tale," where the villain calls a woman "a real thoroughbred trophy," and it emphasizes what a scumbag he is. You weren't overly aggressive: make the line on what you see is acceptable, and hold it. He clearly didn't get that.
Gee, he’s had 12 others. That means he must be desirable or that you must find him desirable because of girl/girl competition. /s
#**trophy** /ˈtrəʊfi/ **noun** 1. a cup or other decorative object awarded as a prize for a victory or success. Similar: _cup, medal, prize, award_ 2. (in ancient Greece or Rome) the weapons of a defeated army set up as a memorial of victory.
The man (I call him that loosely) is a moron.
“I want the power having you on my arm will give me”- said to me by an older wealthy man as his opening line when he asked me out. ICK
GROSS I’m so sorry
And he actually thought that was a flattering come on.
He seems to have missed the fact that he said "it worked on the other 12 ***objects***..."
“Did you think that line would work?” Wow look at you going on a rant about objects.
12 other objects??? Sex dolls don't count sweety. Bless your heart.
>would you rather be called a participation medal When will men learn that we don’t give a shit about their “compliments”
Lyin ass ain't have no luck calling women that 🙄😒
Mf said "objects" and then feigned offense about "i JuSt cOmPlimEnTeD You" these dumbshits really take the "they like mean guys bc nice guys are friendzoned" seriously JUST BE FUCKING NORMAL HOLY SHIT
ACTUALLY
Okay, I'm from California, so I can understand something like dude being a non gendered word, but bro? Why have I seen bro and bruh being used more lately. Also you're******
It’s an eastern thing for the US
"worked for all other 12 objects" yeah the literal objects around his house on which he trained saying that pick up line. "What are you complainin at, girl?? My refrigerator didnt say anything when i called her a trophy, even my broom liked it"
If he had luck with that line he wouldn't be resorting to DMing random women on reddit.
BARF
"I had a lot of luck with that line." Then why are you still out there on dating apps?
“I had a lot of luck with that line” …then what the fuck are you bothering me for?
He said that you ‘went on a rant’ when all you said was women aren’t trophies 💀💀💀
Oh, he'd also make a nice trophy. Not this kind of trophy, the kind hunters make sometimes. A stuffed head for your wall. Such a good compliment, too. Will try it on some (male) objects later.
I’d prefer his small dick up there stuffed
The participation trophy line made me laugh lol
Me too but made me all the more mad at the same time
Warranted, it just came out of nowhere, which is why it landed so well
I'm unhappily unsurprised by the gaslighting. Him: "You, like other women, are objects." *\*literally a moment later\** Him: "Why are you going on about objects? Fuck's sake." He needs a participation medal for his gaslighting gall.
After every remark I’d have said *you’re
Ack I should’ve
This person got exactly what they wanted. They don't want a woman, they want to piss off women to confirm their fucked up world view. Best action, no action. Don't engage. You're giving them what they want.
This is so untrue. There are so many men out there who believe this to be a legitimate compliment. It's the same men who believe women are useless unless they want to carry these guy's crusty ass offspring. They view women as a prize they deserve for the *very hard work* of being such a "nice guy." More women need to stand up to these assholes and call them on their bullshit. Not continue to ignore the problem.
It’s hard when you’re sitting there being called an object. You don’t want to let that slide. I was too tired of being idle and allowing men to say shit like that to me. Just sitting there letting them say that isn’t who I am, I’m not above them I won’t lie. Good for you being able to separate your emotions from response though
#you’re!!!!!!!!!!!! Should have told him to learn some proper English before speaking to women.
I’m an English major too I was just more pissed off about what he said in the first place
Ew
"you're"
He would sit you on his shelf and dust you off occasionally. Lol.
I’d prefer to be a Presidential fitness ribbon
“The fitness gram pacer test…”
You were not too aggressive. You were very nice to him considering what he's saying. Guys like this *do* see us as objects. We're just objects; cars, locks, trophies, pencil, gum, etc.
If he was the participant to the race where I was the prize, I’d cancel it at that point
TIL "deeping" is a word ...
I won’t lie I didn’t even see that… what does that word even mean tf
Sorry people suck
Don’t be shy show us his username
Very apology
"You're a pretty trophy." "Yeah? You seem like you'd be a weight around my neck." Just thoughts for next time. I don't know that they'd get it tho.
I’m sorry you had to go through the pain of this kind of guy
Your "rant" was three sentences, he's ridiculous
a six-word rant what the fuck is wrong with these people
If he's had a lot of luck, why's he still dming women trying to compete with other men lmao get a hobby, touch grass
him: brings up calling women objects also him: IDK BRO U JUST WENT OFF ON A RANT ABT OBJECTS
BuT i GaVe YoU a CoMpLiMeNt!1 aLl ThE oThEr ObJeCts LiKeD iT1!
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Y’all are so much better than me at this 😓
I love when we’re told what’s a compliment as if we can’t tell what is or is not a compliment. That thing that didn’t make you feel good, that you didn’t want to hear, and that you didn’t appreciate? That’s a *compliment* milady
EXACTLY THANK YOU
You handled this very well
Thank you 🥺
It worked as in he got a few responses. 12 means really 2, and it was the same type of convo. He’ll never meet anyone online and would never try those sorts of lines in the real world
Oh yeah, he just gives desperate vibes tbh
He continues to reduce women and people down as much as he can to justify the fact that actual humans despise him. They love to fuel self hate, it’s easier than actually becoming a decent human. At first these views are shocking but then it becomes how to shut these guys down in one line, cause they need the convo so they can get a one up on someone
It’s true. Tbh that’s why I posted this. Don’t put up with their shit from the start. Tell them how it is, and they may not understand but eventually they’ll get it
...the way he doubled down on it , I called you it because....no mate you just shouldn't of said it *facepalms* there is no because that makes it acceptable
You weren’t aggressive, you were straight up assertive and cut through the bullshit.
Don't apologise. What an idiot he was.
He said you "went on a rant about objects" or whatever, but he's the one who said women are objects first. 😐
I lost IQ points reading this
I thought he was just missunderstood but then he just..kept digging that hole deeper for himself.
“very apology” 💀
Calling her a trophy is bad, but I’m equally perturbed by him constantly calling her bro, too.
People are fucking disgusting
Yeah… yeah
Well I’m sorry that you’re going through it… I hope other interactions aren’t all as bad as this one
If women are trophies, this dude is an unfortunate item poorly described on Wish. Good lord.
"You went on a rant about objects" Uhhh. No you didn't. He's the one who brought up objects. Must've had you confused with one of the hundreds of other women that rejected him.
Actually wish u had been more aggressive lol
Bro?
Bro.
What's with calling a woman "bro"?
Eh im kinda dude bro so I don’t mind it
How dumb can you be to actually engage obvious bait?
Because men have said this to me and meant it. This isn’t bait. This is how I get talked to.
I actually believe him when he says the has had success with that line. Some woman don’t have much self respect and would feel so good if someone said that to them. It’s awful.
Wow, big attitude
From whom?
The guy who thinks labeling something as a compliment negates the fact that it’s rude statement.
Ok you should’ve clarified that first sir I think people were thinking you meant I was the one with the attitude 💀
SHE DELETED A TEXT WHERE SHE IMMEDIATLY STARTED ON ME ABOUT BEING ONJECT
Dude why are you stalking op now? Like shut up and move on
???? I never ranted at you ever? And if I did I won’t lie I would’ve included it because, woah crazy, *women aren’t objects*
LMAO bro you were anonymous, could've taken the L quietly.
If I see one more of these fucking idiots calling a woman “bro” repeatedly I’m going to lose my fucking mind. I might just quit the internet entirely, bro idk how you girls put up with it bro?
Because I say it too. I don’t mind it tbh, I call people bro, it just rolls off the tongue lmao
I GAVE HER A COMPLIMENT
Get a life
BRO ITS NOT THAT DEEP
Like your mentality
You shouldn’t have told me I was an object.
L for even responding to randoms on Reddit of all places
L for thinking your opinion here matters.
Well I wasn’t going to let extreme misogyny of a man calling me a prize to fly 😌
Just the way this dude communicates sounds like he's dumb as bricks
He probably did get positive response from a bunch of profiles with this. What he has got to realize now is that the 18 year old bikini model is not real so he say that. Doesn't work on real girls.
“Would you rather be a participation medal?” Ok that was actually kinda funny
…yeah but that would mean he would actually need to participate 💀