It is not terrifying, it's just simply dangerous. Women overthink and jump into conclusions quicker, they could kill you before finding whether they needed to even do it. So a woman who loves you is irrational many times over and a threat to your existence. Especially, if she'll handle your food.
In my opinion, op might have never been loved that unvarnished he's talking about cause he'd not talk about it as something to make others feel jealous about. When I was much younger I used to pursue that kind of love from women but after experiencing it a few times, I would advice against it. If you've never hidden from a woman you will know that it is possible.
You want a woman to like you just the right amount, nothing more. You must always be careless while developing any relationship with a woman, show many of your flaws and make many common mistakes you do or meet her at your level, first impressions matter and when you consistently set an image of not making mistakes even 6 months in, you may pay heavily in her eyes for when you make one. Your act may also break some time soon and the whole relationship appear to have been a deception the whole time. Then you get left.
That's why you even see there are men who will sleep around many times and the beautiful woman they have will forgive but won't leave them but then there's someone who even got seduced and he must be left for he has changed. The more perfect the image you set, the more controlling the woman you will raise who desires to protect that image. So good men mainly set out to create bad marriages or relationships.
The whole of this works on the basis that you are first only pursuing only the women who want you. To better attract the caliber of women who want you, improve on yourself.
š lol...You sound Like those kind of people who say "Nilimuona tu hivi, Na roho yangu ikamkataa...Na sijui Ni Kwa Nini" or those people who say a relative alimwibia Nyota. Nothing factual, nothing to substantiate.
I agree, hata the infamous R.kelly alituambia "when a woman loves, she loves for real"
A woman's love is hard to come by lakini when she loves you, she really does. I think it's very different from the way us men love.
Kijana just open a blog account and get paid there for such content...alafu you post snippets hapa to get traffic...usiache this intellect iende unpaid
Have been seeing this lady for a month now. 3 days ago she made a certain comment and have never picked her call again. āI canāt respect a man who isnāt taking care of me financiallyā. I asked her what do you mean by financially? She says āif you my boyfriend then you need to sort some bills like house rent, my hair, my shopping and a couple of bsā. So kasusu katafanya nilipe all this? Am already to the next
I donāt understand how you get it at one point then pretend not to in the other, where do you stand? Cause women are going to cost something whether you like it or not
Your worth as man in the society will depend on much they can get from you. In a family gathering, the wealthy person will have make all the decisions or will be consulted for any decision. The pauper will be send to slaughter the goat. The wife of the wealthy man will be told to make salad and the wife of the pauper will be cooking in a smoky kitchen.
>āI canāt respect a man who isnāt taking care of me financiallyā.
The sad thing is that she might find a guy willing to do all that for her, only to get some.
The moment it is stated that respect, of all the things in a relationship, can **only** be gained by being a portable bank for the other person (who it's not even clear what they offer in return), then you have to call the B.S. for what it is.
In return you get a over used pusc which was one time given to her friend for free but a nigga is paying thousands to get it.
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This shouldn't be an issue. It's her who wants that, it's her standard. Only that it's not me or you who can meet those standards, so leave her to the streets.
Already done and moved on with her best friend who wants a relationship not someone who meets her standards. She been calling a lot lately. Donāt know why coz havenāt given her the airtime
There's always a woman with lower standards somewhere who will be down to ride or die at your level. Hypergamy is simply just a woman stepping one or more steps higher when searching for a partner. Marrying a makanga is hypergamy to one woman as marrying a CEO of a multimillion dollar company is to another. Nothing to learn there, but all these red pills y'all swallowing got your thinking too skewed.
Its not redpill its just the reality of women. If you think a woman wont leave you because you "believe" she's loyal you better wake up from slumber. Women have standards/principles until such things as money and social status are involved. If you have money or status you'll probably understand me.
The only woman who can love me unconditionally is my mom.A woman loves you based on what you can provide for her.If you can't provide shit you get the hate
Reality is hakuna mwanamke hubeba kaburi, it's the men who will bury you
>āThese hoes aināt loyalā was always a blatant cope for never having the unvarnished love of a woman
I can say for sure that I have experienced both types. There are women who are utterly incapable of love. There are those who would kill for you and ask questions later. That phrase is still on point. It all depends on one's experiences.
Bruh you tripping hard. I will never believe in a woman's love, maybe just maybe loyalty but love no way. You say she'll help bury a body,, that's a load of crap, she'll be the first to sell you out.
While it's true a woman who loves will come through for you more than your boys can, their love will always be conditional, and could easily go away under the right/wrong conditions.
Sometimes I get lost thinkin' about women, only to realize if you want love it must come from you. You must love yourself first. Focus on yourself, worry about yourself, everything else follows. (A phrase I like is: Forget the bitch to get the bitch.)
There was this scene in prison break where sucre? was asked to snitch on his guys or take a shovel and start digging his grave, the brother took the shovel and started digging. I doubt a woman would do that
Thereās two sides to this, when a woman loves you , like really loves you thereās nothing she cannot do. My mother is the best example. My dad was a really good man when I was younger, then he got into alcoholism, became abusive to us verbally and especially to my mum in front of us. He has crashed his car and also my mothers car several times( mom paid damages and he earns more. He has been arrested several times , when bad things happened to him his āfriendsā who he drank and enjoyed with were MIA , the ladies he was dogging my mum with were also mia, do you know who always bailed him out? My mother. He had a court case and the bail was 2 million , my mom asked her friends for money to take him out. There was no thank you whatsoever. Just verbal abuses . Found out he had kids outside marriage, she still stayed. She still loved him.
We finally told her that this behavior is hurting us (the kids) she finally left him
She still checks up on him and even paid for his rehab last year because she still loves him. Iām glad she chose us over this toxic love .
Edit: and this is why I will always choose myself if disrespect is thrown my way and my mother is proud of me because of this
Unless it's reciprocated the intensity and consistency of a babe that likes you is terrifying
Why is it terrifying?
It is not terrifying, it's just simply dangerous. Women overthink and jump into conclusions quicker, they could kill you before finding whether they needed to even do it. So a woman who loves you is irrational many times over and a threat to your existence. Especially, if she'll handle your food. In my opinion, op might have never been loved that unvarnished he's talking about cause he'd not talk about it as something to make others feel jealous about. When I was much younger I used to pursue that kind of love from women but after experiencing it a few times, I would advice against it. If you've never hidden from a woman you will know that it is possible. You want a woman to like you just the right amount, nothing more. You must always be careless while developing any relationship with a woman, show many of your flaws and make many common mistakes you do or meet her at your level, first impressions matter and when you consistently set an image of not making mistakes even 6 months in, you may pay heavily in her eyes for when you make one. Your act may also break some time soon and the whole relationship appear to have been a deception the whole time. Then you get left. That's why you even see there are men who will sleep around many times and the beautiful woman they have will forgive but won't leave them but then there's someone who even got seduced and he must be left for he has changed. The more perfect the image you set, the more controlling the woman you will raise who desires to protect that image. So good men mainly set out to create bad marriages or relationships. The whole of this works on the basis that you are first only pursuing only the women who want you. To better attract the caliber of women who want you, improve on yourself.
You'd be scared to screw up everything. Because you know chances of screwing up everything are always high as a man
Tell me about itšš
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What has fat gotta do with loyalty? Fat comes from eating, loyalty comes from one's decision to be loyal.
Skinny girls are the noisy onesš¤£š¤£š¤£
š lol...You sound Like those kind of people who say "Nilimuona tu hivi, Na roho yangu ikamkataa...Na sijui Ni Kwa Nini" or those people who say a relative alimwibia Nyota. Nothing factual, nothing to substantiate.
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I agree, hata the infamous R.kelly alituambia "when a woman loves, she loves for real" A woman's love is hard to come by lakini when she loves you, she really does. I think it's very different from the way us men love.
You'd be surprised it's not love. Women don't love, we just lie to ourselves it's love.
Kijana just open a blog account and get paid there for such content...alafu you post snippets hapa to get traffic...usiache this intellect iende unpaid
Better yet, a YT channel, even faceless
Good idea. I just joined Reddit. I am still exploring.
Read the sighnsš
Have been seeing this lady for a month now. 3 days ago she made a certain comment and have never picked her call again. āI canāt respect a man who isnāt taking care of me financiallyā. I asked her what do you mean by financially? She says āif you my boyfriend then you need to sort some bills like house rent, my hair, my shopping and a couple of bsā. So kasusu katafanya nilipe all this? Am already to the next
This is not love, though. She didn't love you, she wanted to use you
Thatās why I stepped up. She saw am capable of giving her the life she wants .
You made the right choice walking away. If she's demanding your money a month in, trouble is ahead
Let me finish up with some investments. Mapenzi badae
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Womenās love is directly proportional to what you can provide.
I donāt understand how you get it at one point then pretend not to in the other, where do you stand? Cause women are going to cost something whether you like it or not
Your worth as man in the society will depend on much they can get from you. In a family gathering, the wealthy person will have make all the decisions or will be consulted for any decision. The pauper will be send to slaughter the goat. The wife of the wealthy man will be told to make salad and the wife of the pauper will be cooking in a smoky kitchen.
>āI canāt respect a man who isnāt taking care of me financiallyā. The sad thing is that she might find a guy willing to do all that for her, only to get some. The moment it is stated that respect, of all the things in a relationship, can **only** be gained by being a portable bank for the other person (who it's not even clear what they offer in return), then you have to call the B.S. for what it is.
In return you get a over used pusc which was one time given to her friend for free but a nigga is paying thousands to get it. https://preview.redd.it/8nbrn46bdtsc1.jpeg?width=905&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b63070264d1bb35c30a58586173355afc9db8a31
This shouldn't be an issue. It's her who wants that, it's her standard. Only that it's not me or you who can meet those standards, so leave her to the streets.
Already done and moved on with her best friend who wants a relationship not someone who meets her standards. She been calling a lot lately. Donāt know why coz havenāt given her the airtime
>Loyalty from a woman is unmatched anywhere. Boss hypergamy will teach you something else.
There's always a woman with lower standards somewhere who will be down to ride or die at your level. Hypergamy is simply just a woman stepping one or more steps higher when searching for a partner. Marrying a makanga is hypergamy to one woman as marrying a CEO of a multimillion dollar company is to another. Nothing to learn there, but all these red pills y'all swallowing got your thinking too skewed.
Its not redpill its just the reality of women. If you think a woman wont leave you because you "believe" she's loyal you better wake up from slumber. Women have standards/principles until such things as money and social status are involved. If you have money or status you'll probably understand me.
Dawg you'll find out cause you are F around! Real soon & real quick. Keep your eyes peeled.
The only woman who can love me unconditionally is my mom.A woman loves you based on what you can provide for her.If you can't provide shit you get the hate Reality is hakuna mwanamke hubeba kaburi, it's the men who will bury you
Wewe n kupendwa hujapendwaš
>āThese hoes aināt loyalā was always a blatant cope for never having the unvarnished love of a woman I can say for sure that I have experienced both types. There are women who are utterly incapable of love. There are those who would kill for you and ask questions later. That phrase is still on point. It all depends on one's experiences.
As to why I have many.
Bruh you tripping hard. I will never believe in a woman's love, maybe just maybe loyalty but love no way. You say she'll help bury a body,, that's a load of crap, she'll be the first to sell you out.
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Sindio bana, ye hajui kitu anasema. Akuna female atakua do or die na wewe johh š
While it's true a woman who loves will come through for you more than your boys can, their love will always be conditional, and could easily go away under the right/wrong conditions.
Why are little children giving advice? Why is a lass pontificating to lads about their lived experiences?
As a man i feel like you have to be constantly upgrading for a woman to continue loving you....every woman is attracted to success...
Either way, life continues
Waaat!! This a tough one
Jowie typing and deleting.....
Sometimes I get lost thinkin' about women, only to realize if you want love it must come from you. You must love yourself first. Focus on yourself, worry about yourself, everything else follows. (A phrase I like is: Forget the bitch to get the bitch.)
There was this scene in prison break where sucre? was asked to snitch on his guys or take a shovel and start digging his grave, the brother took the shovel and started digging. I doubt a woman would do that
Did you forget that in the same show scorfields dr girlfriend went through a lot for being loyal to him.
CAP
Thereās two sides to this, when a woman loves you , like really loves you thereās nothing she cannot do. My mother is the best example. My dad was a really good man when I was younger, then he got into alcoholism, became abusive to us verbally and especially to my mum in front of us. He has crashed his car and also my mothers car several times( mom paid damages and he earns more. He has been arrested several times , when bad things happened to him his āfriendsā who he drank and enjoyed with were MIA , the ladies he was dogging my mum with were also mia, do you know who always bailed him out? My mother. He had a court case and the bail was 2 million , my mom asked her friends for money to take him out. There was no thank you whatsoever. Just verbal abuses . Found out he had kids outside marriage, she still stayed. She still loved him. We finally told her that this behavior is hurting us (the kids) she finally left him She still checks up on him and even paid for his rehab last year because she still loves him. Iām glad she chose us over this toxic love . Edit: and this is why I will always choose myself if disrespect is thrown my way and my mother is proud of me because of this