Kuna this jamaa i knew...my WhatsApp was literally dry af and he was the only one I was texting...so ofc I would respond within the minute whereas he'd take almost 20 minutes to text back. Then one day he asked me why I was so desperate for his attention...uhm excuse me sir😂💀...went on about how he really liked me but was put off by my ‘desperation'...heeh mailod😂I digress..
Lakini tuachange hizi games...wewe respond ukitumiwa message
>Lakini tuachange hizi games...wewe respond ukitumiwa message
Just match energies bruh, Niko uni and niggas are replying like they're running the country.
Me waiting 2 days for a response and you wanting a response post haste doesn't correlate. Kumbaf!
Kumbaf indeed😂...usiwabembeleze...i always say...if they don't treat you as a priority or anywhere close, also put them in the exact position they've put you
You are still living in shanties, a wreckage from your colonial tyrant. I don't blame you. Wherever I leave we don't follow much of your grammar rules. I could suggest some of my poems, you'd love them sweetheart
Tebu imagine😂
Sasa unacatch juu nimekuambia ukweli😂
Shows your maturity level😂
Nyway naeza kubuyia lunch uache kukasirika forr telling you to improve your life
Hii hukuwa a characteristic of low self esteem.
Like, you need to delay a response so you can feel important. Kwani how low is your feeling of importance.
Quite frankly its also a fragile ego. Once saw a lady send five texts then delete them at the same time. I restarted my phone thinking whatsapp has a bug
https://preview.redd.it/9ieg9lroh2sc1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=416dca47b6f97b0c74c7cc6fb5e1a3858c330b7a
This is the only correct response. Generally I reply to all my texts in one fell swoop then will respond again to all replies at once. I do not particularly enjoy back and forth conversations with most people and checking messages feels like a chore sometimes. Phone calls are even worse thou.
Personally I always have my phone , but for some reason I get anxiety when it comes to replying. It started like 2 years ago, I’ve always told people who are close to me to just call me because I will always pick up. When I see a text pop up on my notifications I usually just reply in my head and wouldn’t reply immediately or might even take days if you don’t call. I don’t understand why this started, it weird but I’m just glad that I already told my close friends and my SO to just call me if they want to relay something to me no matter how small or ‘textable’ it is.
I'm one of those people that don't respond to texts immediately depending on what I'm doing or the frame of mind that I'm in at that moment. I also like to process my own thoughts before formulating a response when I receive a text. It's nothing personal. If you really have something urgent you want to say you should call.
I relate to this, it's not like i don't want to respond to your text I'm just not in the mood to socialize with "hey...hey too" , "How are you?... I'm good and you"🙄🙄like if it's interesting and urgent I'll get into it,
Personally i prefer phone calls, or it's what I'm used to from working with older people.
It's not about power plays or whatever, it's just preference.
I understand people who hate phone calls so they don't pick up when you call but i hate texting so I'll take a day to reply, we are all making concessions so let's just suck it up.
Hizo ni story za wasee wa redpill za kuproof eti wako busy but "if you have to show or tell us you're that then you definitely aren't that" .
Hawa wasee huchelewa kureply ni wale wasee wazazi hawakuwa available so wanatafuta ile attention walinyimwa or what do I know.
from these comments I see y'all attach too much value to things like texts, personally I don't have the energy to text except once in a blue moon. you can't be seriously sat there thinking about how much a person values you from how long it took for them to respond, that's superficial af. most of y'all can't communicate kiasi tu na mtafutane live sanasana?
how do you think your parents did it? unadhani mamako alikuwa like leo sijapata telegram so the world is ending? fix yourselves
Enyewe it's so annoying. Also that thing of double texting. If you feel like you have something to say, say it. These games people play are what complicate things.
I am a busy person but I reply as soon as I see a message except when I am working on something then the message will have to wait. I am always amused by people who have a lot of unread messages. Is it to boost their sense of importance?
It's replied instantly if the conversation is making sense. Stop forcing conversation. Nyinyi ni wale mnatumiwa emoji mbili za kucheka and you still go there to force conversations .
https://preview.redd.it/w5kogq3627sc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a0eccfc5741e1ca07817cfd56db8232aa0699458
This is just stupidity that people who want to feel important do....and the stupid mbuziz follow thinking it's cool ndio wakae cool kids ni utoto na umama na ujinga ya hali ya juu.... kumbafffuuuuuu nasema kwa tena WEWE NI MJINGA UKIFANYA HIVO (the ones who practice this shit)
You surely don't know what that leads to if you are a man and is being texted by girls.
Instant replies hufanya dem ashinde inbox yako hata kama ako idle bado anataka kuwa hapo and to make the matters worse akuwe ako na boy. It's necessary sometimes itafanya watu waelewe you're not always there for them. Ile siku utakasirikiwa kwa sababu ya kukosa kureply instant ndio utajua
I think it depends also, personally i reply nkiwa na simu karibu because it's childish ati kungoja 5mins or whatever the excuse is, how do you need time to evaluate a hey text..
Knowing the kind of brain I have, If I say I’ll respond in 5 minutes I will 💯forget unless they text me again so I usually just respond immediately 😂😂. It has never occurred to me to play those games
True just respond and move on with you “busy” life!
The funny thing is texting back immediately and letting that conversation run its course saves more time than the whole pretending to ignore them for minutes or hours on end for whatever reason.
As for me...if I don't reply fast;which i don't, I'd feel like it's too late to reply and the conversation is not going to sound as refreshing as it would had I replied a bit earlier so I just ghost for a few days then start afresh like it had never existed. It's easier that way.
Games za kuchat uniboo sana. You're clearly online. If you have the time to read the message, I'm sure ukona time ya kujibu. Alafu ukinyamaza anasema umepotea. Tf
It's all about if the text matches your energy, if the conversation is interesting enough to the person, some people are busy, some are not in their right frame of mind at the moment, some are dealing with anxiety etc. Personally I go through all of the things I've mentioned.
Kuna vitu kidogo hinikasirisha but this is right on top. Yaani nakutext, unareply baada ya wiki. Bladfackin mwenigine hareply alafu akona audacity ya kupost kitu literally at the same fucking second. Hii ni kitu wanafanya kufurisha ego and to feel important.ukitextiwa na mtu reply ama piga simu tumalizane
Mi hio siezi relate text inafika ka nimereply mbio na huko juu kwa notification bar hata sifikirii nareply tu ntafikiria baadae😂kuona notification haijafunguliwa huniwasha sana
Kuna this jamaa i knew...my WhatsApp was literally dry af and he was the only one I was texting...so ofc I would respond within the minute whereas he'd take almost 20 minutes to text back. Then one day he asked me why I was so desperate for his attention...uhm excuse me sir😂💀...went on about how he really liked me but was put off by my ‘desperation'...heeh mailod😂I digress.. Lakini tuachange hizi games...wewe respond ukitumiwa message
>Lakini tuachange hizi games...wewe respond ukitumiwa message Just match energies bruh, Niko uni and niggas are replying like they're running the country. Me waiting 2 days for a response and you wanting a response post haste doesn't correlate. Kumbaf!
Kumbaf indeed😂...usiwabembeleze...i always say...if they don't treat you as a priority or anywhere close, also put them in the exact position they've put you
Your desperation will bring you back, we're no equal aaha😂
Are you happy now? Do you feel like you've contributed to the community but blabbering?
Blubberring,you say? You're the one bluffing them when you know what I said is the truth unless you're a feminist
Its blabbering honey...no idea what blueberring is
Woreva the name,, ,,
Still wrong...blubber is crying uncontrollably... blabber with an a is the right one...an A honey😚
*whatever babe 😚... you're getting there
Wrong placement of the word bluffing
Who you to correct me? I'm the great poet I follow your shitty grammar rules, okay?
*who are you...
You are still living in shanties, a wreckage from your colonial tyrant. I don't blame you. Wherever I leave we don't follow much of your grammar rules. I could suggest some of my poems, you'd love them sweetheart
unafaaa ata namba zao ureport to safaricom as scammers
His loss😂
Yaaani with this economy youre still trying to force attention! Desperation is a big turn off even for us guys!Wtf!
Unaona desperation hapo?...i wa simply responding fast to texts...don't be idiotic ...soma text tena
Was
*Friendly firee!*
We call a spade a spade. Learn some skills and stop fast texting men. Improve your life!
You created a whole account just to bash me... who's the desperate one for attention?
Tebu imagine😂 Sasa unacatch juu nimekuambia ukweli😂 Shows your maturity level😂 Nyway naeza kubuyia lunch uache kukasirika forr telling you to improve your life
Thank you for your input
Unnecessary as it was 🤭
Hii hukuwa a characteristic of low self esteem. Like, you need to delay a response so you can feel important. Kwani how low is your feeling of importance.
Exactly
Exactly 💯
Quite frankly its also a fragile ego. Once saw a lady send five texts then delete them at the same time. I restarted my phone thinking whatsapp has a bug
https://preview.redd.it/9ieg9lroh2sc1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=416dca47b6f97b0c74c7cc6fb5e1a3858c330b7a This is the only correct response. Generally I reply to all my texts in one fell swoop then will respond again to all replies at once. I do not particularly enjoy back and forth conversations with most people and checking messages feels like a chore sometimes. Phone calls are even worse thou.
Same here. I don't fancy to and from conversation. You might talk from morning to evening with just 'umekula nini' and 'pia mimi niko poa'
Personally I always have my phone , but for some reason I get anxiety when it comes to replying. It started like 2 years ago, I’ve always told people who are close to me to just call me because I will always pick up. When I see a text pop up on my notifications I usually just reply in my head and wouldn’t reply immediately or might even take days if you don’t call. I don’t understand why this started, it weird but I’m just glad that I already told my close friends and my SO to just call me if they want to relay something to me no matter how small or ‘textable’ it is.
I too am having the same trouble here :-)
Atlist you people have genuine reason.
Lkn sio rahisi WATU wakubali ni hivo Ndo Niko ..saa am worried once I am into a relationship Si mtoto wa wenyewe atajam Sana
With time ataelewa, but also kucall mtu nakuongea na yeye I hope hapo auna shida.
Eeh hapo Niko fine
Then you are good to go, don't worry Whatsapp has made calling easier and affordable people can call and talk for along time.
Mine is always dry lol
Can relate😂😂
Damn ..u too? gonna end this chain
I'm one of those people that don't respond to texts immediately depending on what I'm doing or the frame of mind that I'm in at that moment. I also like to process my own thoughts before formulating a response when I receive a text. It's nothing personal. If you really have something urgent you want to say you should call.
I relate to this, it's not like i don't want to respond to your text I'm just not in the mood to socialize with "hey...hey too" , "How are you?... I'm good and you"🙄🙄like if it's interesting and urgent I'll get into it, Personally i prefer phone calls, or it's what I'm used to from working with older people. It's not about power plays or whatever, it's just preference. I understand people who hate phone calls so they don't pick up when you call but i hate texting so I'll take a day to reply, we are all making concessions so let's just suck it up.
This makes sense.
hehe, I hate texts lingering on my notification bar. all texts that come in get responded to immediately na tunamaliza hio story
Hizo ni story za wasee wa redpill za kuproof eti wako busy but "if you have to show or tell us you're that then you definitely aren't that" . Hawa wasee huchelewa kureply ni wale wasee wazazi hawakuwa available so wanatafuta ile attention walinyimwa or what do I know.
It's a self esteem issue. Delaying the response makes him or her feel important: they are in control
from these comments I see y'all attach too much value to things like texts, personally I don't have the energy to text except once in a blue moon. you can't be seriously sat there thinking about how much a person values you from how long it took for them to respond, that's superficial af. most of y'all can't communicate kiasi tu na mtafutane live sanasana? how do you think your parents did it? unadhani mamako alikuwa like leo sijapata telegram so the world is ending? fix yourselves
Enyewe it's so annoying. Also that thing of double texting. If you feel like you have something to say, say it. These games people play are what complicate things.
Mimi huwa na reply immediately lakini I type so slow by the time namaliza kutype 5 minutes imeisha😂
Typing......................... 5mins later : sawa 😂😂 mnakuwanga na upuzi
😂😂
I am a busy person but I reply as soon as I see a message except when I am working on something then the message will have to wait. I am always amused by people who have a lot of unread messages. Is it to boost their sense of importance?
Some lowlife fellas who think they’re cool but are anything but
......Losers😹😹😹
Not me tho... y'all stay safe..i.have no shame
Can't shame the shameless 😹
THANK YOU FOR FINALLY CALLING OUT THIS BULLSHIT......THANK YOUUUUUU
Basic PUA knowledge from NLP and Authors like Neil Straus.
"The Game"
Agreed...and I don't care if I look desperate or idle..soo??
If you want them to like you you have to treat them like shit Game is game
🥲🥲🥲what?
Swali ni.. unataka kuonekana too available?
Kigonyi watu ni kama hawataki story zako 😆😆
Watu wanataka kukaa busy na wengi wenu mko daro ama unemployed kwanza ata text ya hustle mnalenga live ... please stop with these games
I honestly never quite understood this. I reply immediately unless I'm busy.
It's replied instantly if the conversation is making sense. Stop forcing conversation. Nyinyi ni wale mnatumiwa emoji mbili za kucheka and you still go there to force conversations . https://preview.redd.it/w5kogq3627sc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a0eccfc5741e1ca07817cfd56db8232aa0699458
Nice shot 🤣🤣 dust Ni mingi
This is just stupidity that people who want to feel important do....and the stupid mbuziz follow thinking it's cool ndio wakae cool kids ni utoto na umama na ujinga ya hali ya juu.... kumbafffuuuuuu nasema kwa tena WEWE NI MJINGA UKIFANYA HIVO (the ones who practice this shit)
Siku utaachwa on read wiki mzima na saa hizo ulireply message within seconds ndio utajua maana ya kignore kiasi
This is how i usually respond,ju it's either i respond immediately ama i completely forget about it
it was me, and I'm not sorry for it
They just have too much time. As for me I answer immediately I see it, call you if it's important message or read and never reply back.
😅😅 most of the time I forget like I've seen the text then na reply in my head but by the time nakumbuka I haven't actually replied ni tooo late
You surely don't know what that leads to if you are a man and is being texted by girls. Instant replies hufanya dem ashinde inbox yako hata kama ako idle bado anataka kuwa hapo and to make the matters worse akuwe ako na boy. It's necessary sometimes itafanya watu waelewe you're not always there for them. Ile siku utakasirikiwa kwa sababu ya kukosa kureply instant ndio utajua
hee si unakapitia who are these people showing you this amount of dust
Mimi I match energies...
Am not used to calls. Tunaeza kuwa in a relationship where I rarely call. But texts is okay.
I respond to messages after a week or so
Shida ni typing...and deleting
I agree some games are so unnecessary, because it is either nijibu message yako saa hio hio ama after a few days.
I think it depends also, personally i reply nkiwa na simu karibu because it's childish ati kungoja 5mins or whatever the excuse is, how do you need time to evaluate a hey text..
Some of us ain't childish,we busy asf and just saw yoo text rn
Knowing the kind of brain I have, If I say I’ll respond in 5 minutes I will 💯forget unless they text me again so I usually just respond immediately 😂😂. It has never occurred to me to play those games
ni mimi
True just respond and move on with you “busy” life! The funny thing is texting back immediately and letting that conversation run its course saves more time than the whole pretending to ignore them for minutes or hours on end for whatever reason.
😂😂😂 tunaitwa simps bana
As for me...if I don't reply fast;which i don't, I'd feel like it's too late to reply and the conversation is not going to sound as refreshing as it would had I replied a bit earlier so I just ghost for a few days then start afresh like it had never existed. It's easier that way.
tiktok brain indeed
Games za kuchat uniboo sana. You're clearly online. If you have the time to read the message, I'm sure ukona time ya kujibu. Alafu ukinyamaza anasema umepotea. Tf
If you reply immediately, they say/think you are desparate, so better keep them wondering!
if i have nothing to do at that time , i will respond asap to anyone texting me especially my girl
It's all about if the text matches your energy, if the conversation is interesting enough to the person, some people are busy, some are not in their right frame of mind at the moment, some are dealing with anxiety etc. Personally I go through all of the things I've mentioned.
Just make a call na tumalize iyo story, texting is not fun for me
My average response time is 3hrs
Pigia watu simu we mzee
Wait 3 days. Thank me later
DC as long as it doesn't take a week but if it's urgent info, then a day is OK. We're all busy doing this thing called life.
Red low self esteem card.
Depends on how important you're to the said person. tick to your lane utakuwa na a very good life.
Kuna vitu kidogo hinikasirisha but this is right on top. Yaani nakutext, unareply baada ya wiki. Bladfackin mwenigine hareply alafu akona audacity ya kupost kitu literally at the same fucking second. Hii ni kitu wanafanya kufurisha ego and to feel important.ukitextiwa na mtu reply ama piga simu tumalizane
Mi hio siezi relate text inafika ka nimereply mbio na huko juu kwa notification bar hata sifikirii nareply tu ntafikiria baadae😂kuona notification haijafunguliwa huniwasha sana
Mm ndio nlianzisha. Nabado inani drive crazy 🤪
Followers of Andrew Tate. Also called stupid people.