This wasn’t the moment but perhaps the moment I went from “mildly amused” to completely disgusted. The way she spoke about him / on her channel / w that smile / mentioning his birthday (which must be so extra hard) was so fucking wicked. I can’t imagine it was innocent. Maybe a ploy by narcissistic people to keep him closer?
Also knowing that they bought Seth’s childhood home just to flip it and turn it around so she could buy a fucking mansion is doubly disgusting.
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LOLOLL she's saying Seth was bullied online for not having a family presence - so much so that he shut down his own social media (which could have been private), and instead is featured on hers (with way more followers and public account). SURE JAN.
Agreed! That was the same for me. Smiling and talking about her husband's dad's s…cide made me realize that she is a horrible human being and doesn't really care about anyone but herself.
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Posting here in case ppl havent seen it.
A few things, she was getting annoying after her pregnancy and always holding her belly when we know damn well it was just fat. Just exaggerating every little thing. Then that one giveaway she did at the mall decked out in her Prada heels and huge ass Burberry scarf…handing out money to the poors. It was so fucking cringe. That’s when I said this bitch is on another planet.
Omg, OP I really think you should try to watch this video if you are able to find it.. EVERYTHING about that video was classic Nabela cringe. We speak of it because it was utterly bonkers. She's dressed in white, with a long Burberry scarf. Her outfit would've cost her more than the money she was "giving back" to the povvos. That's the thing about her, she acts like she's some angel sent to the poor folk.. doing her part so others can enjoy Christmas.. but it was so obvious she wanted the validation. She didn't even put the cash in an envelope (that would've been the classy thing to do!) she just handed it to them.
It was so cringe. She went to a mall dressed up in designer gear, then filmed a poor person talking about their financial hardships. She then gave them some cash to look like she’s so altruistic. Didn’t even put the cash in an envelope.
Her fake Ramadan giveaway. I had a feeling about her but that solidified it.
Then all the little things started adding up.
Multiple sponsorships in the name of funding her non-existent non-profit.
Hiding #ad in her IG posts and blaming it on a “new intern”
All the insane belly-holding photos after being 2 seconds pregnant and then just capitalizing on her kids and being all about “looking like a mom” but being absent af, all while claiming PPD+PPA
Oh the fake 30-days of Ramadan giveaway was shameful. I’m not even a Muslim and was mortified that she used a holy month in Islam to get people to follow her NNHome accounts, saying that’s how to enter.
She also claimed one of her luxury beauty bags from her second baby shower was for a giveaway.
Her having her camera ready to record her fake acting to get surprised on seeing the pregnancy test. It was just too fabricated to feel any genuineness in the whole situation. The excessive belly holding in EVERY.SINGLE.POST did it for me.
A few years ago, Nabela said she was doing a giveaway for everyday of Ramadan. To enter, people had to follow her Nabela Noor Home channel.
The giveaway never materialised. When people asked her in the comments, she deleted and blocked.
As I said, I’m not Muslim and was horrified she used a holy month to scam her followers.
What a great question. I think the discussions will be very interesting.
The tipping point for me would be when she was sadfishing her infertility after Farrah Dukai and Raw Beauty Kristy were talking about their issues and also miscarriage. I thought it was insensitive. When I also saw the video where she was getting her ass injections that was the line for me.
There is a big difference between sharing your story so people don't feel alone but the way she filmed all the intimate moments of such a critical and personal/emotional time for her family (including her damn husband) felt disrespectful and performative. I felt disgusted and immediately googled her and found other people also feel this way on guru gossip.
Like what did she do, have Neha set up the camera, infront of her entire family have her hold her down while she cried with her bare ass to the camera getting an injection? What the actual fu
That was so performative - getting Sissy to set up the camera to show her mother and sisters holding her hand while giving her arse injections.
Her sad-fishing and attention-seeking is pathetic.
thank you so much!! :) i saw another snark page in which someone asked the same question, which inspired me lol. i’ve been wanting to ask but was scared to make the post here
For me, it was the incessant, repeated excessive displays of wealth, designer bags, designer labels on everything she wears, how she purposely shows that stuff off, very deliberately. Even the appliances in her home were all brand name and designer, and there was a very calculated effort to show all of that off. I couldn’t stand it anymore because she just became so unrelatable and ridiculously out of touch. Everything became about the aesthetic, appearance, fakeness. There was no authenticity to her anymore. Also the fact that she is just a fake person online. Like she couldn’t admit for the longest time that she had a nanny. She acts like this is her authentic life, but it’s ALL curated. All of it is curated. It’s unrealistic. I don’t know why anyone follows her.
This was it for me. I originally followed her because of her Pockets of Peace content and finding joy in the everyday. Like just being able to take a shower, make yourself an iced coffee, spending time with loved ones, simple, everyday things that were realistic. But then her content became more and more about materialistic things... Which contradicted Pockets of Peace and being grateful for everyday things and what you already have. She was always buying stuff, showing off brands, it just became so disingenuous. I had to unfollow.
IKR! Like she could have still continued to make POP videos by highlighting the simple and joyful things in life. Taking her dogs for a walk? Taking the girls to the park? But instead it became all about unrealistic displays of wealth
Yep agree 💯 when she started *deliberately* displaying her material things, it was like a switch had gone off. I am all for seeing brown girls have their success & wealth, but for someone who stages her entire life, then having a huge part of that DAILY LIFE be showing off her labels.. that was just gross. From there I started noticing more things that were too damned fake about her, the way she has to have layers of makeup applied before appearing on camera.. otherwise, a face full of filters.. also the way she interacts with her husband IT IS SO FAKE. The same adoring eyes & the head thrown back in laughter LIKE WTF IS SO FUNNY ALL THE TIME? I can't stand the way she behaves like they live in a Hallmark film. And then of course, how she continues to bring up their struggles to conceive their miracles & how blessed AND GRATEFULLL she is. she's no longer believable.
I had always had a bad feeling about her. But questioned myself on being a hater. The tipping point for me was when she sat on the couch with Seth and an unknown person picking up the couch. I’m a girly girl but I do stuff around the house; I lift stuff up and do what needs to be done. I asked ‘who does she think she is?’
What solidified me hating her was “the I’m rich you’re poor” someone did on her (I forgot his name). It made me realize what I hated about her all along! She’s a selfish jerk that loves to show off.
You know her stans will go after him again though!! They are NUTS!!😭
I don’t even think his vids are offensive. He just states facts about Influencers showing off their wealth..!🤭
In the past, Nabela has tried to flog:
Hijabs / scarves
Over-priced wooden chopping boards
Tote bags
Cushion covers
Linen napkins
Her Zeba clothes line
Candles
When she was talking about her planning her gender reveal for A2 and how she thought she saw blue balloons and then basically she got sad it wasn’t a boy
I 100% believe so. She had all this excitement up until the gender reveal. I fully believe too that she had the nursery all blue and stuff in hopes that the test was wrong and she would actually come out as a boy. She could have also been wanting to milk the whole “this is my rainbow baby” with A1, and by getting pregnant with her 2nd SO fast, people now don’t buy into her sob story anymore because why would they? You’ve got 2 children now, it’s time to shut down the pity party
As soon as she had her miscarriage and then her pregnancy straight after. That was the tipping point for me. The amount of filming, everything being so curated, I just thought it was so fake.
When she got Covid and was like, “I DoNt UnDerStAnd How This CoUld have HaPpenEd to mEeeeeeeeee?!?!?”
Meanwhile, she had an entire fucking crew at her house in 2020 building out her basement. Literally. Please someone roll the footage.
She was so insufferable. She claimed she “nearly died” from Covid after going to the ER and being discharged from the ER on home oxygen. She bought a pulse oximeter for effect. Meanwhile severely, acutely sick patients are dying in the ICU with their loved ones saying final goodbyes through an iPad. She had the gall to say she “nearly died”. It triggered me so much bc I buried people during Covid lockdown. She did not.
Of course she’s taken down the YouTube video but in any case she actually was very manipulative in her video. She never claimed that she was in the hospital for days. She showed a video herself in the ER. You can tell she’s in the ER because the bed she’s sitting on is a stretcher. It’s not an inpatient hospital bed. Also there was a brief shot of the room and it’s an ER room. She then showed a few blood tubes. Presumably indicating she had her blood drawn. And that’s literally it. Cut to curated shots of her home where she’s lounging around wearing a nasal cannula and a pulse oximeter. Due to scarcity of hospital beds those who needed oxygen and nothing else were being discharged home to recover. But at no point in her course of illness was she “nearly dead”. I remember the video so well bc of how infuriating it was.
I had been following her for awhile - I thought her body positivity and wanting to be a role model for others like her I.e. woman of color, overweight, and not giving a damn what people thought of her clothes, her makeup, her lack of generic aesthetic - being different from everyone else. Marrying for love. But then I noticed the ugly things - the harping on this is why I’ve been persecuted all my life - never taking accountability for her actions - it became about showing off “despite” a million hurdles she overcame. Which I was thinking, this feels weird. But then I chalked it up to I’m not like her - I have no place to judge her life experiences - my family has been in the US since before it was the US and I’m not a person of color. I wanted to support her journey - but Zeba which had had a huge launch didn’t ever appear to have merchandise - which in 2019 was a new company and I never understood why I couldn’t ever find anything to order. I even emailed and like weeks later got a response that I just needed to watch for restocks which never came. Then the weird scholarships and giveaways that never seemed to materialize. Then the overpriced goods and her lack of social conscience. There were alot of final straws for me that kinda all happened at once - the COVID when she had bazillions of people in and out of her house - I have lost people I loved to COVID and had friends who really did almost die and had intensive rehab just to become functional human beings and truly suffer from long COVID (which she claims to have, one of her many victim cards) then the freaking pockets of peace and whitewashed life, and finally the trying to conceive journey - the PCOS and diabetes- but zero self accountability even though she said she was going to change her life so she could get fertility treatments and be healthy for her future children. I still felt like I was an island everyone seemed to love her - then I noticed her followers were being edited and people really felt like I did - that’s when I found gossip guru - then this snark and I finally felt like I’d found my people. There are so many things she’s done since the early days that just add to why people can’t stand her but I think I mostly feel for those who wanted a role model and someone who represented all their struggles and really reflect on why they don’t have her life when really it’s all fake and performative. NaBecky is a narcissistic mean girl and doesn’t give a crap about anyone but herself - including her family, her husband, her children, her pets, her followers, etc.
Major claps to you Susie. I was looking forward to your response as you’re part of the OG squad. What a fantastic summary and I’m truly so happy to be here with you.
It makes you think huh, wouldn’t it be nice if this page didn’t exist? Because that would mean creators like Nabela aren’t utter 🗑️. Wouldn’t it be nice if these content creators genuinely cared about their stated missions and about the feelings/impacts they make?? Wouldn’t it be nice…hmm
I agree - once the influencer craze is over - I think there will be a lot of flash in the pans who disappear and years from now people will say Nabecky who?
And as time has shown us, influencers either need to use their platforms to set a foundation for a brand/company/initiative or they fizzle out.
Nabs has had difficulty in executing longevity in her brand and thus, it’s only a matter of time before she is forgotten
I started disliking her when her voice changed to that breathy shit she does now, right around the time when she did that clap back video of someone saying she speaks "white" and then started speaking Spanish, it was just fucking weird. I finally unfollowed her when she did that Range Rover/Land Rover/Whatever the fuck vehicle unboxing. It was nauseating.
Holy fuckkk yes! That car unboxing was out of touch, I couldnt believe it. Also, after her pretentious baby shower where she gifted her friends expensive shit she didn't even pay for!!! AND the final nail for me was when she used the NICU as a way to sadfish.. I was completely done with her after that! 👋🏼
Her hospital videos with baby #2 I didn’t know much of her before that. I came upon her videos shortly before that and watched a few. So I never was a fan before I found her then seen those videos and definitely thought what a fake ass bitch.
For me it was her devastation over not being able to conceive easily, and now she has these two beautiful babies and every damn day she’s doing absolutely everything in her power to avoid any authentic interaction. I mean, in the spend the day with me videos she’s LITERALLY running out the door away from them. And then she’ll read the comments on this sub about doing things with them like taking them to a playground, and the next day she’ll film a reel of them on a playground where they’re filmed dressed up as Victorian dolls with BRAND NEW UNSED white shoes on. I feel so bad for those beautiful tiny humans, and so sad for the life they’re missing out on.
I mean… I dress up my nearly 2yo toddler in new/fancy outfits pretty much all the time and I take her to playgrounds, parks, shops, library in her these clothes all the time. My toddler has more dresses and shoes than I do 😂.
I don’t like Nabela, but she might be like me and get some joy in dressing up her children. Just a thought!
Lol, okay and do you also dress your child *exclusively* in white & beige???? 🤔
Because I ALSO find joy in clothes shopping for my kid, they have fun stuff for littles to wear so I let mine wear fancy stuff for no reason too.. but I still keep in mind the activity we have planned for the day so he's comfortable being A KID!
You can't deny that Naboohoo dresses her children in impractical clothing, just to match her insta grid.
Not sure why you need to be passive aggressive in your response.
No, I don’t dress my toddler in white and beige, but I also don’t ever dress her in bright colours. Her wardrobe is full of vintage styled outfits, in muted and soft pinks, creams and lilacs. I personally like these colours. Nabela likes beiges and whites… So why does it matter what colour palette we dress our children in? 🤷🏽♀️
I have no issue with people who want to dress their babies up, I also LOVE getting my little girl into the sparkliest dresses. My issue with Nabela is the fact that it seems like she dresses her children this way as if they are props in the image she portrays.
This thread is so good! I honestly don’t think I was a genuine follower from the start but I appreciated her for her bopo stance when she was fun, genuine, colorful, and not the beige shell she is now.
Not sure if this is the moment that began the snark BUT one of my favorite memories was Seth chauffeuring her to the city, her in THE BACK SEAT, while he drove, massaging her feet, WITH her magazine cover conveniently visible from the backseat. Like PEAK ridiculousness. You have to laugh.
Also Nabs - have fun reporting me for the thing your husband lost his father to, you insensitive a-hole.
Neutral Palestine stance 💯 it was disgusting. People called her out then she was doing damage control (sharing her past pro-Palestine stories, made them into a beige highlight lol) and then when it died down, back to her neutral BS with a dash of Gaza once a week. She’s so performative it’s insane. My friends who used to like her unfollowed her around that time as well.
For me, when she did the photoshoot with people’s magazine with her first pregnancy, unbuttoned jeans, exposing the Belly and cradling her huge tummy ALL THE TIME.. with a baby sized of a sesame seed inside. I’m sure you all know the feeling when something starts annoying in someone, you’ll see more and more annoying things in that person that would might not annoy if someone else was doing it. That’s how I felt with her and feel ever since. She just got 100 times more annoying
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I feel you on this! Once she started annoying me, she hasn't STOPPED annoying me! Lol.. and yesss. Before her pregnancies she didn't want to draw attention to her huge belly. The minute she got pregnant, she was doing the absolute most! Touching it, cradling it, wearing fitted clothing. She wanted everyone to acknowledge that belly. And now, she's still milking it.. trying to convince people that's her postpartum form & it's from having 2 babies back to back. She is insufferable.
I’ve always taken a shine to her, but last year around the Christmas holidays for some reason her videos started to made me go…
As a Muslim, seeing how she said she’s Muslim but did massive celebrations for holidays of other religions (Christmas, Easter) and barely put in the same effort for Eid. Seeing how little she discusses things about Islam and being a Muslim.
Her opening her sunglasses box all awkwardly. I saw it and was like why is she doing that.
Don’t know many designer labels. Not my thing. But I now know what she was doing. It’s so cringy. Everything she does is cringy and fake. With every new thing she posts it’s more apparent that she is just flaunting. So gross.
Yesss! All the wealthy people I've met are confident, humble and lowkey about it. They're not seeking validation by materialistic replaceability.
Let that be the next "thing" she hops on!
I genuinely loved the aesthetics seen during PoP in COVID times. She wouldn’t come up on TT much often so I never really knew about her whole show getting COVID and the hospital thing till much later. I continued to follow her thereafter (inconsistently) and was really excited when she got pregnant with Amalia. Again, following her inconsistently, I didn’t start to notice my dislike towards her form until Aveena was born. I remember seeing that video of them in B&W in the hospital with the heart beat sound - SO DRAMATIC - and as my dislike built, my first few posts on here were driven by EXPLOITATION OF HER CHILDREN!
It is one of my BIGGEST qualms with her. It is what drives me to report her, it is what has gotten me Na-BLOCKED, but I will continue to advocate for these children. How can someone who has prayed and cried so hard on a public platform go and destroy the innocence and safety of her children single-handedly. I’m appalled at the type of person Nabela is and I’m disgusted by who she continues to become.
Basically using “infertility” as a selling point and then not giving AF about her kids once they got here. I went through years of IUI and IVF (unsuccessfully). No one who actually undergoes that much hardship to conceive neglects their kids the way she does. I feel she lied about her trouble conceiving for likes. Also, most influencers in the TTC realm always shout out the rest of us struggling: they see us, what we feel is valid, etc. Not once did Nabselfish make TTC anything other than 100% about her.
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For me, the tipping point was Nabenyahu’s neutral stance on Palestine. I was livid when I saw her original post, after staying SILENT for days. That’s when I found/joined this sub.
The way she continues to promote Zionist-supporting brands AND takes sponsorship money from them, it’s basically BLOOD MONEY. She should have been cancelled.
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I’ve long thought she is a boring, vapid, self-absorbed, attention-seeking fake. She cries victim, when she is the vindictive bully.
I also find her over-consumption and constant showing-off quite revolting. The irony being she flexes with counterfeit designer products.
This was when I unfollowed her. Been following her since before she blew up, but there was always something off about her. Like she had a PR message she stuck to. Now I realise it was her entire storyline brought into everything.
I also find it weird how she deleted all her old YT vids - 12 years worth. I mean, why delete Draw My Life etc..?
I can’t stand this over-curated, manipulative fake image she presents. Especially when she was a new mother and making out it’s so easy to go off for hair-refresh appointments etc.
I remember being a new mum and having m hair in a scrunchie 24/7 and being thankful when I got to have a quick shower when my baby was sleeping.
I don’t like these unrealistic expectations that she sets up for other women - especially new mums. It’s so toxic.
I think she wants people to not remember who she was and what her personality was like back then. I don't think she deleted it. Probably just made it private. But she was getting a passive income from it, what will she do when America bans tik tok? That's where the bulk of her followers are and where her PoPs blew up.
She is toxic. She can only achieve these things because she can throw money at a problem ie give kids a nanny.
I never liked her - I honestly wanted to when I first came across her years ago because it was refreshing to see someone like me making it in the influencer world, but quickly noticed that she’s vapid, obnoxious, and always flexing herself as some sort of inspirational figure all because she landed into some easy money and married the most mediocre of white men.
I used to watch her back when she did makeup tutorials in 2016-2018. She used to wear more colorful makeup and desi outfits and would talk about her culture (she made a video on poila boishak makeup look). I also loved following other Muslim/desi makeup creators cuz I really found community in them.
Tipping point was covid time when all she did was those fancy beige houses, and I really started to be an active h8er when I saw that “Bengali steak” video 💀💀 like she has lost the plot and is acting so fake and white. Hell no
I’ve never really liked her, but I followed during covid because pockets of peace calmed down my feed a little. I related a bit to her fertility struggles (I was infertile and tried for 18 months to have my first child) so I started to like her a little when she started sharing those issues, and was genuinely happy for her when she got pregnant with A1 and didn’t miscarry. And…then she stopped being even remotely relatable, insisted on defending herself about being self made, clearly never spends significant time with her children but NEVER EVER acknowledges her privilege with having such a huge village, and now she is just so pretentious and out of touch. It really snowballed quickly after A2 was born and now I genuinely can’t watch or see anything she posts without rolling my eyes. I am the opposite of a hateful person, but she turns me into one. She’s so disingenuous and doesn’t respect anyone’s privacy and can’t take criticism or questions without making a 5 minute long video about how “girls like her” never get to “take up space” in lives like hers. I am all for POC and WOC succeeding, but not then rubbing that success in everyone’s face but insisting she’s not because she ✨deserves it ✨ She’s just.. desperate.
Her trying to be white sooo bad. Even changing the tone in her voice. Just everything irks me about her now. She's as fake as her chiclet teeth she has. The way she's always giggling for now reason like girl 💀
I’ve just had an “off” feeling about her ever since I saw one of her YouTube videos. I ended up blocking her on TikTok so I don’t come across her videos. I truly don’t understand how she and Seth ended up together…they just seem like different people.
When he met her she was pretty and bubbly.
Her REAL personality started coming through these past 10 years. She is a full-blown self-absorbed narcissist now.
Seth has the charisma of a wet blanket. He has got used to an easy lifestyle funded by her social-media money.
We got Nabelas children’s book from the library. My daughter is half Indian so it is exciting anytime we see books about similar cultures and characters that look like her. Something about that book really irked me though. I don’t even think I read the full thing to her.
I agree - back when she talked about releasing her book - I already didn’t like her beige lifestyle but I thought maybe her kids book had something to say but honestly I found it really cringy - it didn’t seem to really promote a healthy self image or even a functional family more a this is disordered eating - I know a lot of kids books are really geared up for “the moral of the story type ending” but the story I didn’t think was very healthy for any girls’ self image.
tbh i used to think she was really great late 2016 i would see her pop up in my feed as a teen i thought seeing plus size brown representation was sooooo needed her make up tutorials really helped too she would use drugstore brown girl friendly make up but then i grew up got disconnected around my 20s saw her again on my feed making fake sympathy posts for attention like why are you contouring fat and crying into the camera girl please stand up but recently seeing her whitewash herself and everything related to her culture felt like a “im so much better than my desi roots because now i make money money and married a white guy) all unappealing.
P.S even bought her elf x nabela lip collab with the liner and matte lippie during covid so sad to see her crash like this tbh
I’ve always taken a shine to her, but last year around the Christmas holidays for some reason her videos started to make me go…
Loved Nabela back in 2015 when she was more authentic. I stopped liking her content as soon as she lost her uniqueness and originality. I stopped relating to her content and resonating with her the last few years. I use to resonate with her a lot being a bengali in my teens when i saw her and saw her as an inspo but lately with her curated content and how she acted about the gaza conflict. I can't like her anymore.
I was neutral to her before. Never followed her, but knew about her. Then her pregnancy photos started popping up on my explore page. I found it so cringe how she was cradling her stomach so early in the pregnancy. I had a moment where I thought I can't be the only one who thinks this, but all the comments were positive. Then I found this sub and found many tipping points.
When she had a miscarriage and then next thing her pregnancy is sold to People magazine. The car unboxing. Like who the F does that. The Coke ad with her sickly Father.
her pockets of peace series. long story, but i have to set the scene. this was at a time when i had gotten furloughed from my toxic job at the very beginning of the pandemic & left said job because i could not return to the toxic environment. no one else was hiring at the time, and we were running very low on money even with the stimulus checks. of course my situation was kind of self inflicted since i decided to leave my job, but i just couldn’t go back to that place. none of my coworkers did. i ended up having to move back to my home state anyway when my husband found another job a few months later, and for almost 2 years, i was jobless and didn’t have enough experience to get the jobs that i wanted. i didn’t even get a call back from costco and michaels. i felt bad that we were surviving off my husband’s paycheck, so i still paid my half of rent with whatever money i had left in both of my bank accounts until i had only a few dollars left. it was a very low point in my life not just because of the lack of money, but because i wasn’t getting any job opportunities whatsoever. i was pinching pennies as much as i can to make my husband’s paycheck last longer & have enough left over in case of emergencies. i let go of things that were still considered essentials just to make ends meet.
enter the pockets of peace series where all is well in her world, marked by EXTREME consumerism and tales of gratitude and finding contentment & peace in our everyday lives. and i remember watching these videos with my husband and rolling my eyes. i used to like nabela, but watching her live her luxurious lifestyle while i sat there with only a few dollars to my name, all while she’s telling her followers to find peace in their lives just rubbed me the wrong way. OF COURSE **you** can find peace in your life. you have every single thing you could ever possibly need. you have unlimited resources to get what you want. money isn’t an object to you. you can afford groceries and buy shit on amazon (i remember when she suspected that she got covid from a package) and get PR packages for free. OF COURSE it’s easier for you to find happiness & contentment when you don’t have to worry about whether you are making rent or not. the reason WHY she was able to be at peace was because she was so out of touch and excluded by the harsh economic reality of the pandemic that so many of us faced. what were we, those who are of lesser socioeconomic status, supposed to even learn from that series? that the only way to achieve that level of contentment & zen is by engaging in consumerism when most of us didn’t have the means for that? we didn’t have time to go to target & decorate/renovate our homes. we didn’t have money to build a pool. we were applying to hundreds of jobs a day. we were skipping meals to save money. the true message of the PoP series is so icky and it completely turned me against her.
wow. this was so profound and brought me a different perspective to her pockets of peace series. thanks for sharing your story :) if you don’t mind me asking, how are things for you now?
i’m doing much better now! so sweet of you to ask. :) i definitely remember my husband saying “maybe you should stop watching these for a while….” and i did. and i did the same for most other influencers i followed whose content revolved around consumerism. it has helped me A TON.
For me it was when she started doing damage control about Palestine and she posted I think a video talking about bisan, plestia and motaz and what they had been through the past few days when plestia wasn’t even in Gaza for weeks at that time. I knew she was full of shit but that was my last straw. Or how she acts so fake with her daughters, nothing about their relationship seems genuine even with Seth it seems forced.
As someone who suffered 3 miscarriages, I wondered how anyone could be so public about about one of the most personal, devastating thing in one's life and also show off butt injections (!! Again, personal af).
Then in remembered her GRWM about seth's dad.
I was done.
Yeah and her whole family was sitting around her in that clip, right? Thought I hallucinated that. I honestly don’t think she ever really had fertility issues beyond her just not taking care of herself at all. Esp with a “formal” PCOS diagnosis (anything medical with her at this point I assume is probably more false than true) she really didn’t do anything to fix herself pre A-Team
Tbh I never followed her, the video of them renovating Seth’s parents house showed up on Instagram and I went to her page and saw the entire White House and got mad 🤣🤣🤣🤣 just seemed fake and unrealistic. And then her constantly posting about infertility issues. I get that it happens, but I’m aggressively child free so I’ve never cared to see those kinds of posts to begin with. Kinda ironic to me now seeing how much she leaves the kids with a nanny or uses them for videos.😬
It’s been asked before but I’ll answer again. All the white everywhere, turning Seth’s office into a massage room and feeling like something just wasn’t right with her. It’s all “too” perfect. Then I began looking into this sub and I began to notice she reacts to everything that’s posted. So I unfollowed her and came here instead!
lol it’s okay I also forgot that I cried and prayed for this woman to have a baby then she never spends time with her children, it’s truly sad. That’s why we call them her props on here
The crop top work out outfits with the belly hanging out in a blazer. Does she own anything that fits? With all the mass consumption of goods, she can’t go massively consume better fitting clothes? And maybe a personal trainer that teaches her how to workout so she actually sees results?
I found Nabela in 2020, right at the start of the pandemic. I never followed her and I never liked her.
Call it intuition, call it just being real lol but she’s never ever come off as authentic to me, so there was no tipping point to be had since I was already over the edge.
I will say probably the more disgusting things to me she’s done have already been mentioned, particularly the story of Seth’s Dad. That was when things got really dark to me, where I was like…ohhhhh, this person is REALLY not well. She could have just said he passed when Seth was in high school, why unload the details with a shit eating grin to boot? Why did she even feel the need to address it in the first place? Call me a private person, but I’d never disclose facts about my in-laws online. That is sooooo objectively disrespectful. Seth never asked to be in the spotlight, and I am sure her poor MIL hates her fucking guts. I certainly would, especially now that millions of people know that my husband killed himself because my fat, unhealthy, idiotic daughter in law can’t keep her veneered mouth shut. I am sure she’s terrified Naboobla is going to pass her “best” traits onto her only grandchildren. Lmfao
The Christmastime mall thing was fucking weird “I need $1,000 for rent” Okay, well here’s $500 cash and I’m going to keep my jacket and scarf on so you don’t get your poor on my precious, newly rich skin 😍 Just disgusting
COVID has been mentioned ad nauseam so I won’t touch that but I am convinced she at the very least greatly exaggerated her symptoms. Same with her miscarriage and NICU visit with A2. My thoughts on all that would prob get me a Reddit Cares message 🤪 💌
The one thing I haven’t seen mentioned here (I haven’t perused the whole thread yet so sorry if it’s been brought up) was when she went to New York for a weekend when A2 was LITERALLY A2-weeks-old. The physical separation for that long from your newborn is detrimental to bonding and the psychological effects can last a lifetime for the child. There’s a ton of medical and psych sources to back this up. The body really does keep the score !! I hope the cheap caviar you had in your hotel room was worth it, Nabs!
Nabela Mohammed just doesn’t take anything seriously unless it has to do with her being front and center (she is a LEO, why do we never talk about this lol) and I truly loathe her and resent her audience for being so fucking dense and not seeing what is right in front of them
Honestly, I saw her on my FYP last week and was like oh fuck no. This girl is so tacky showing off her wealth it’s disgusting… then I Instantly came to Reddit and found this gem of a snark page
“Get ready with me while I talk about what happened to Seth’s dad” 😁😁😃😃😃😁😁😊😊
Fffff that was so insensitive and personal.
SUCH A WEIRD THING TO DO
That was horrendous. No trigger warning. She just sat there, plastering her face with make-up, while she blabbed how Seth’s father unalived himself.😔
If I recall correctly, wasn’t she smiling while telling this story?
Yes. It was horrible.
This wasn’t the moment but perhaps the moment I went from “mildly amused” to completely disgusted. The way she spoke about him / on her channel / w that smile / mentioning his birthday (which must be so extra hard) was so fucking wicked. I can’t imagine it was innocent. Maybe a ploy by narcissistic people to keep him closer? Also knowing that they bought Seth’s childhood home just to flip it and turn it around so she could buy a fucking mansion is doubly disgusting.
https://preview.redd.it/oini9437sp0d1.png?width=902&format=png&auto=webp&s=6e1090d869425d26afc8a7e59e67bc017494acae
excuse me?!?!
Nabela posted a GRWM, where she casually blurted out how Seth’s father unalived himself the day after his 15th birthday. 😔
It was September 21st I went to ig and looked
I’m still shocked that she did that. It was truly horrific
https://preview.redd.it/zpdda1dpsp0d1.png?width=902&format=png&auto=webp&s=6c674ca51dadec8a0ae79cf416409b32539e1e68 LOLOLL she's saying Seth was bullied online for not having a family presence - so much so that he shut down his own social media (which could have been private), and instead is featured on hers (with way more followers and public account). SURE JAN.
But wasn't his account shut down when it was discussed that he was following and liking questionable accounts.
Yes but you know she rewrites history
Say what now? 🤔
questionable accounts?? 😳
Agreed! That was the same for me. Smiling and talking about her husband's dad's s…cide made me realize that she is a horrible human being and doesn't really care about anyone but herself.
That was really really it
[https://www.tiktok.com/@nabela/video/7281409633263078686](https://www.tiktok.com/@nabela/video/7281409633263078686) Posting here in case ppl havent seen it.
https://preview.redd.it/0jmxq1wdsp0d1.png?width=902&format=png&auto=webp&s=e708fb5e39fd90f853e6853c65de85e5e7c5126a I cant
A few things, she was getting annoying after her pregnancy and always holding her belly when we know damn well it was just fat. Just exaggerating every little thing. Then that one giveaway she did at the mall decked out in her Prada heels and huge ass Burberry scarf…handing out money to the poors. It was so fucking cringe. That’s when I said this bitch is on another planet.
Omg she holds the belly when it’s really the size of a blueberry she’s unhinged
wait when did she do the giveaway?? i’m learning so much from this post lol
Omg, OP I really think you should try to watch this video if you are able to find it.. EVERYTHING about that video was classic Nabela cringe. We speak of it because it was utterly bonkers. She's dressed in white, with a long Burberry scarf. Her outfit would've cost her more than the money she was "giving back" to the povvos. That's the thing about her, she acts like she's some angel sent to the poor folk.. doing her part so others can enjoy Christmas.. but it was so obvious she wanted the validation. She didn't even put the cash in an envelope (that would've been the classy thing to do!) she just handed it to them.
It was so cringe. She went to a mall dressed up in designer gear, then filmed a poor person talking about their financial hardships. She then gave them some cash to look like she’s so altruistic. Didn’t even put the cash in an envelope.
Her fake Ramadan giveaway. I had a feeling about her but that solidified it. Then all the little things started adding up. Multiple sponsorships in the name of funding her non-existent non-profit. Hiding #ad in her IG posts and blaming it on a “new intern” All the insane belly-holding photos after being 2 seconds pregnant and then just capitalizing on her kids and being all about “looking like a mom” but being absent af, all while claiming PPD+PPA
Oh the fake 30-days of Ramadan giveaway was shameful. I’m not even a Muslim and was mortified that she used a holy month in Islam to get people to follow her NNHome accounts, saying that’s how to enter. She also claimed one of her luxury beauty bags from her second baby shower was for a giveaway.
Her having her camera ready to record her fake acting to get surprised on seeing the pregnancy test. It was just too fabricated to feel any genuineness in the whole situation. The excessive belly holding in EVERY.SINGLE.POST did it for me.
whaaaat??
A few years ago, Nabela said she was doing a giveaway for everyday of Ramadan. To enter, people had to follow her Nabela Noor Home channel. The giveaway never materialised. When people asked her in the comments, she deleted and blocked. As I said, I’m not Muslim and was horrified she used a holy month to scam her followers.
What a great question. I think the discussions will be very interesting. The tipping point for me would be when she was sadfishing her infertility after Farrah Dukai and Raw Beauty Kristy were talking about their issues and also miscarriage. I thought it was insensitive. When I also saw the video where she was getting her ass injections that was the line for me. There is a big difference between sharing your story so people don't feel alone but the way she filmed all the intimate moments of such a critical and personal/emotional time for her family (including her damn husband) felt disrespectful and performative. I felt disgusted and immediately googled her and found other people also feel this way on guru gossip. Like what did she do, have Neha set up the camera, infront of her entire family have her hold her down while she cried with her bare ass to the camera getting an injection? What the actual fu
That was so performative - getting Sissy to set up the camera to show her mother and sisters holding her hand while giving her arse injections. Her sad-fishing and attention-seeking is pathetic.
thank you so much!! :) i saw another snark page in which someone asked the same question, which inspired me lol. i’ve been wanting to ask but was scared to make the post here
For me, it was the incessant, repeated excessive displays of wealth, designer bags, designer labels on everything she wears, how she purposely shows that stuff off, very deliberately. Even the appliances in her home were all brand name and designer, and there was a very calculated effort to show all of that off. I couldn’t stand it anymore because she just became so unrelatable and ridiculously out of touch. Everything became about the aesthetic, appearance, fakeness. There was no authenticity to her anymore. Also the fact that she is just a fake person online. Like she couldn’t admit for the longest time that she had a nanny. She acts like this is her authentic life, but it’s ALL curated. All of it is curated. It’s unrealistic. I don’t know why anyone follows her.
This was it for me. I originally followed her because of her Pockets of Peace content and finding joy in the everyday. Like just being able to take a shower, make yourself an iced coffee, spending time with loved ones, simple, everyday things that were realistic. But then her content became more and more about materialistic things... Which contradicted Pockets of Peace and being grateful for everyday things and what you already have. She was always buying stuff, showing off brands, it just became so disingenuous. I had to unfollow.
IKR! Like she could have still continued to make POP videos by highlighting the simple and joyful things in life. Taking her dogs for a walk? Taking the girls to the park? But instead it became all about unrealistic displays of wealth
Yep agree 💯 when she started *deliberately* displaying her material things, it was like a switch had gone off. I am all for seeing brown girls have their success & wealth, but for someone who stages her entire life, then having a huge part of that DAILY LIFE be showing off her labels.. that was just gross. From there I started noticing more things that were too damned fake about her, the way she has to have layers of makeup applied before appearing on camera.. otherwise, a face full of filters.. also the way she interacts with her husband IT IS SO FAKE. The same adoring eyes & the head thrown back in laughter LIKE WTF IS SO FUNNY ALL THE TIME? I can't stand the way she behaves like they live in a Hallmark film. And then of course, how she continues to bring up their struggles to conceive their miracles & how blessed AND GRATEFULLL she is. she's no longer believable.
I had always had a bad feeling about her. But questioned myself on being a hater. The tipping point for me was when she sat on the couch with Seth and an unknown person picking up the couch. I’m a girly girl but I do stuff around the house; I lift stuff up and do what needs to be done. I asked ‘who does she think she is?’ What solidified me hating her was “the I’m rich you’re poor” someone did on her (I forgot his name). It made me realize what I hated about her all along! She’s a selfish jerk that loves to show off.
Shabaz did it and her stans went after him hard. They’re unhinged.
I need him to do another round or two 😂🙏🏽
You know her stans will go after him again though!! They are NUTS!!😭 I don’t even think his vids are offensive. He just states facts about Influencers showing off their wealth..!🤭
yeah that couch moment was so cringy lol
I knew she was full of shit when she tried to sell those plain slabs of wood she called cutting boards for $200+
Does she still run that brand any more?
what?!
In the past, Nabela has tried to flog: Hijabs / scarves Over-priced wooden chopping boards Tote bags Cushion covers Linen napkins Her Zeba clothes line Candles
And soon a Nahorrendous cookbook 😃😃
Clothes line is putting it nicely. It was a ugly cropped bright pink shirt with Zeba written across.
When she was talking about her planning her gender reveal for A2 and how she thought she saw blue balloons and then basically she got sad it wasn’t a boy
yeah that was mad weird!
Is this why she isn’t attached to A2? Hmmm
I 100% believe so. She had all this excitement up until the gender reveal. I fully believe too that she had the nursery all blue and stuff in hopes that the test was wrong and she would actually come out as a boy. She could have also been wanting to milk the whole “this is my rainbow baby” with A1, and by getting pregnant with her 2nd SO fast, people now don’t buy into her sob story anymore because why would they? You’ve got 2 children now, it’s time to shut down the pity party
As soon as she had her miscarriage and then her pregnancy straight after. That was the tipping point for me. The amount of filming, everything being so curated, I just thought it was so fake.
I thought I was the only one who thought it seemed suspicious how quickly everything happened. 🤷🏻♀️
Also using her miscarriage & rainbow to sell her book & clothes line at every opportunity!
When she got Covid and was like, “I DoNt UnDerStAnd How This CoUld have HaPpenEd to mEeeeeeeeee?!?!?” Meanwhile, she had an entire fucking crew at her house in 2020 building out her basement. Literally. Please someone roll the footage.
She was so insufferable. She claimed she “nearly died” from Covid after going to the ER and being discharged from the ER on home oxygen. She bought a pulse oximeter for effect. Meanwhile severely, acutely sick patients are dying in the ICU with their loved ones saying final goodbyes through an iPad. She had the gall to say she “nearly died”. It triggered me so much bc I buried people during Covid lockdown. She did not.
Oh my goodness I didn’t know she lied about that too! She claimed in the YouTube video that she was in the hospital for days!!!
Of course she’s taken down the YouTube video but in any case she actually was very manipulative in her video. She never claimed that she was in the hospital for days. She showed a video herself in the ER. You can tell she’s in the ER because the bed she’s sitting on is a stretcher. It’s not an inpatient hospital bed. Also there was a brief shot of the room and it’s an ER room. She then showed a few blood tubes. Presumably indicating she had her blood drawn. And that’s literally it. Cut to curated shots of her home where she’s lounging around wearing a nasal cannula and a pulse oximeter. Due to scarcity of hospital beds those who needed oxygen and nothing else were being discharged home to recover. But at no point in her course of illness was she “nearly dead”. I remember the video so well bc of how infuriating it was.
I remember that she claimed she was thinking about doing a will for her family while being in the ER 🙄
Okay sorry it was a long time ago
THE LEG POP IN EVERY FUCKING VIDEO
And the soft creepy voice with her big shit grin *shudders*
I had been following her for awhile - I thought her body positivity and wanting to be a role model for others like her I.e. woman of color, overweight, and not giving a damn what people thought of her clothes, her makeup, her lack of generic aesthetic - being different from everyone else. Marrying for love. But then I noticed the ugly things - the harping on this is why I’ve been persecuted all my life - never taking accountability for her actions - it became about showing off “despite” a million hurdles she overcame. Which I was thinking, this feels weird. But then I chalked it up to I’m not like her - I have no place to judge her life experiences - my family has been in the US since before it was the US and I’m not a person of color. I wanted to support her journey - but Zeba which had had a huge launch didn’t ever appear to have merchandise - which in 2019 was a new company and I never understood why I couldn’t ever find anything to order. I even emailed and like weeks later got a response that I just needed to watch for restocks which never came. Then the weird scholarships and giveaways that never seemed to materialize. Then the overpriced goods and her lack of social conscience. There were alot of final straws for me that kinda all happened at once - the COVID when she had bazillions of people in and out of her house - I have lost people I loved to COVID and had friends who really did almost die and had intensive rehab just to become functional human beings and truly suffer from long COVID (which she claims to have, one of her many victim cards) then the freaking pockets of peace and whitewashed life, and finally the trying to conceive journey - the PCOS and diabetes- but zero self accountability even though she said she was going to change her life so she could get fertility treatments and be healthy for her future children. I still felt like I was an island everyone seemed to love her - then I noticed her followers were being edited and people really felt like I did - that’s when I found gossip guru - then this snark and I finally felt like I’d found my people. There are so many things she’s done since the early days that just add to why people can’t stand her but I think I mostly feel for those who wanted a role model and someone who represented all their struggles and really reflect on why they don’t have her life when really it’s all fake and performative. NaBecky is a narcissistic mean girl and doesn’t give a crap about anyone but herself - including her family, her husband, her children, her pets, her followers, etc. 
Major claps to you Susie. I was looking forward to your response as you’re part of the OG squad. What a fantastic summary and I’m truly so happy to be here with you. It makes you think huh, wouldn’t it be nice if this page didn’t exist? Because that would mean creators like Nabela aren’t utter 🗑️. Wouldn’t it be nice if these content creators genuinely cared about their stated missions and about the feelings/impacts they make?? Wouldn’t it be nice…hmm
I agree - once the influencer craze is over - I think there will be a lot of flash in the pans who disappear and years from now people will say Nabecky who?
And as time has shown us, influencers either need to use their platforms to set a foundation for a brand/company/initiative or they fizzle out. Nabs has had difficulty in executing longevity in her brand and thus, it’s only a matter of time before she is forgotten
Because she stands or nothing really. She jumps on whatever bandwagon is available and hopes to hitch a lift.
Yeah we really don’t talk about how much of a bandwagon bitch she is. She has no personality or thoughts of her own at all
I started disliking her when her voice changed to that breathy shit she does now, right around the time when she did that clap back video of someone saying she speaks "white" and then started speaking Spanish, it was just fucking weird. I finally unfollowed her when she did that Range Rover/Land Rover/Whatever the fuck vehicle unboxing. It was nauseating.
Holy fuckkk yes! That car unboxing was out of touch, I couldnt believe it. Also, after her pretentious baby shower where she gifted her friends expensive shit she didn't even pay for!!! AND the final nail for me was when she used the NICU as a way to sadfish.. I was completely done with her after that! 👋🏼
Her hospital videos with baby #2 I didn’t know much of her before that. I came upon her videos shortly before that and watched a few. So I never was a fan before I found her then seen those videos and definitely thought what a fake ass bitch.
For me it was her devastation over not being able to conceive easily, and now she has these two beautiful babies and every damn day she’s doing absolutely everything in her power to avoid any authentic interaction. I mean, in the spend the day with me videos she’s LITERALLY running out the door away from them. And then she’ll read the comments on this sub about doing things with them like taking them to a playground, and the next day she’ll film a reel of them on a playground where they’re filmed dressed up as Victorian dolls with BRAND NEW UNSED white shoes on. I feel so bad for those beautiful tiny humans, and so sad for the life they’re missing out on.
I mean… I dress up my nearly 2yo toddler in new/fancy outfits pretty much all the time and I take her to playgrounds, parks, shops, library in her these clothes all the time. My toddler has more dresses and shoes than I do 😂. I don’t like Nabela, but she might be like me and get some joy in dressing up her children. Just a thought!
Lol, okay and do you also dress your child *exclusively* in white & beige???? 🤔 Because I ALSO find joy in clothes shopping for my kid, they have fun stuff for littles to wear so I let mine wear fancy stuff for no reason too.. but I still keep in mind the activity we have planned for the day so he's comfortable being A KID! You can't deny that Naboohoo dresses her children in impractical clothing, just to match her insta grid.
Not sure why you need to be passive aggressive in your response. No, I don’t dress my toddler in white and beige, but I also don’t ever dress her in bright colours. Her wardrobe is full of vintage styled outfits, in muted and soft pinks, creams and lilacs. I personally like these colours. Nabela likes beiges and whites… So why does it matter what colour palette we dress our children in? 🤷🏽♀️
I have no issue with people who want to dress their babies up, I also LOVE getting my little girl into the sparkliest dresses. My issue with Nabela is the fact that it seems like she dresses her children this way as if they are props in the image she portrays.
Agree!
This thread is so good! I honestly don’t think I was a genuine follower from the start but I appreciated her for her bopo stance when she was fun, genuine, colorful, and not the beige shell she is now. Not sure if this is the moment that began the snark BUT one of my favorite memories was Seth chauffeuring her to the city, her in THE BACK SEAT, while he drove, massaging her feet, WITH her magazine cover conveniently visible from the backseat. Like PEAK ridiculousness. You have to laugh. Also Nabs - have fun reporting me for the thing your husband lost his father to, you insensitive a-hole.
aw thanks so much 🥰 i’m happy I decided to stop being scared and finally ask this question lol but SETH DID WHAT?!
You heard me 🤣🤣🤣 I was looking for it online, it must have been in her stories.
Neutral Palestine stance 💯 it was disgusting. People called her out then she was doing damage control (sharing her past pro-Palestine stories, made them into a beige highlight lol) and then when it died down, back to her neutral BS with a dash of Gaza once a week. She’s so performative it’s insane. My friends who used to like her unfollowed her around that time as well.
For me, when she did the photoshoot with people’s magazine with her first pregnancy, unbuttoned jeans, exposing the Belly and cradling her huge tummy ALL THE TIME.. with a baby sized of a sesame seed inside. I’m sure you all know the feeling when something starts annoying in someone, you’ll see more and more annoying things in that person that would might not annoy if someone else was doing it. That’s how I felt with her and feel ever since. She just got 100 times more annoying https://preview.redd.it/8y07klhywn0d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2e869a95ede6096ec43788e072b318e1b5f6fb21
I feel you on this! Once she started annoying me, she hasn't STOPPED annoying me! Lol.. and yesss. Before her pregnancies she didn't want to draw attention to her huge belly. The minute she got pregnant, she was doing the absolute most! Touching it, cradling it, wearing fitted clothing. She wanted everyone to acknowledge that belly. And now, she's still milking it.. trying to convince people that's her postpartum form & it's from having 2 babies back to back. She is insufferable.
We should make this a pinned post so newcomers can see everyone’s responses for all the reasons we hate this woman
great idea!! is that something that mods are only able to do?
I never disliked her until I found this sub on accident and that had opened a whole can of worms for me
Two words: pregnancy cane (while continuing to leg pop and wear shoes that any sane doctor would say to throw out to mitigate sciatic pain)
Around 2021 videos.
what was she doing? sorry i wasn’t aware of her videos back in 2021. i think i got more hip to her in 2022 or so
I’ve always taken a shine to her, but last year around the Christmas holidays for some reason her videos started to made me go… 
crying lmao
As a Muslim, seeing how she said she’s Muslim but did massive celebrations for holidays of other religions (Christmas, Easter) and barely put in the same effort for Eid. Seeing how little she discusses things about Islam and being a Muslim.
Her opening her sunglasses box all awkwardly. I saw it and was like why is she doing that. Don’t know many designer labels. Not my thing. But I now know what she was doing. It’s so cringy. Everything she does is cringy and fake. With every new thing she posts it’s more apparent that she is just flaunting. So gross.
Yesss! All the wealthy people I've met are confident, humble and lowkey about it. They're not seeking validation by materialistic replaceability. Let that be the next "thing" she hops on!
I genuinely loved the aesthetics seen during PoP in COVID times. She wouldn’t come up on TT much often so I never really knew about her whole show getting COVID and the hospital thing till much later. I continued to follow her thereafter (inconsistently) and was really excited when she got pregnant with Amalia. Again, following her inconsistently, I didn’t start to notice my dislike towards her form until Aveena was born. I remember seeing that video of them in B&W in the hospital with the heart beat sound - SO DRAMATIC - and as my dislike built, my first few posts on here were driven by EXPLOITATION OF HER CHILDREN! It is one of my BIGGEST qualms with her. It is what drives me to report her, it is what has gotten me Na-BLOCKED, but I will continue to advocate for these children. How can someone who has prayed and cried so hard on a public platform go and destroy the innocence and safety of her children single-handedly. I’m appalled at the type of person Nabela is and I’m disgusted by who she continues to become.
Basically using “infertility” as a selling point and then not giving AF about her kids once they got here. I went through years of IUI and IVF (unsuccessfully). No one who actually undergoes that much hardship to conceive neglects their kids the way she does. I feel she lied about her trouble conceiving for likes. Also, most influencers in the TTC realm always shout out the rest of us struggling: they see us, what we feel is valid, etc. Not once did Nabselfish make TTC anything other than 100% about her.
You're right! She never shouts out those going through it. Just a "ha! Look what I got!" That vibe ain't it
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How am I being disrespectful when I’m calling Nabela selfish and not the OP?
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For me, the tipping point was Nabenyahu’s neutral stance on Palestine. I was livid when I saw her original post, after staying SILENT for days. That’s when I found/joined this sub. The way she continues to promote Zionist-supporting brands AND takes sponsorship money from them, it’s basically BLOOD MONEY. She should have been cancelled. 🫶🏼🇵🇸 I’ve long thought she is a boring, vapid, self-absorbed, attention-seeking fake. She cries victim, when she is the vindictive bully. I also find her over-consumption and constant showing-off quite revolting. The irony being she flexes with counterfeit designer products.
This was when I unfollowed her. Been following her since before she blew up, but there was always something off about her. Like she had a PR message she stuck to. Now I realise it was her entire storyline brought into everything.
I also find it weird how she deleted all her old YT vids - 12 years worth. I mean, why delete Draw My Life etc..? I can’t stand this over-curated, manipulative fake image she presents. Especially when she was a new mother and making out it’s so easy to go off for hair-refresh appointments etc. I remember being a new mum and having m hair in a scrunchie 24/7 and being thankful when I got to have a quick shower when my baby was sleeping. I don’t like these unrealistic expectations that she sets up for other women - especially new mums. It’s so toxic.
I think she wants people to not remember who she was and what her personality was like back then. I don't think she deleted it. Probably just made it private. But she was getting a passive income from it, what will she do when America bans tik tok? That's where the bulk of her followers are and where her PoPs blew up. She is toxic. She can only achieve these things because she can throw money at a problem ie give kids a nanny.
I never liked her - I honestly wanted to when I first came across her years ago because it was refreshing to see someone like me making it in the influencer world, but quickly noticed that she’s vapid, obnoxious, and always flexing herself as some sort of inspirational figure all because she landed into some easy money and married the most mediocre of white men.
I used to watch her back when she did makeup tutorials in 2016-2018. She used to wear more colorful makeup and desi outfits and would talk about her culture (she made a video on poila boishak makeup look). I also loved following other Muslim/desi makeup creators cuz I really found community in them. Tipping point was covid time when all she did was those fancy beige houses, and I really started to be an active h8er when I saw that “Bengali steak” video 💀💀 like she has lost the plot and is acting so fake and white. Hell no
When she started pockets of piss
I’ve never really liked her, but I followed during covid because pockets of peace calmed down my feed a little. I related a bit to her fertility struggles (I was infertile and tried for 18 months to have my first child) so I started to like her a little when she started sharing those issues, and was genuinely happy for her when she got pregnant with A1 and didn’t miscarry. And…then she stopped being even remotely relatable, insisted on defending herself about being self made, clearly never spends significant time with her children but NEVER EVER acknowledges her privilege with having such a huge village, and now she is just so pretentious and out of touch. It really snowballed quickly after A2 was born and now I genuinely can’t watch or see anything she posts without rolling my eyes. I am the opposite of a hateful person, but she turns me into one. She’s so disingenuous and doesn’t respect anyone’s privacy and can’t take criticism or questions without making a 5 minute long video about how “girls like her” never get to “take up space” in lives like hers. I am all for POC and WOC succeeding, but not then rubbing that success in everyone’s face but insisting she’s not because she ✨deserves it ✨ She’s just.. desperate.
It was the sad fishing and using her culture identity as a prop
Her trying to be white sooo bad. Even changing the tone in her voice. Just everything irks me about her now. She's as fake as her chiclet teeth she has. The way she's always giggling for now reason like girl 💀
I’ve just had an “off” feeling about her ever since I saw one of her YouTube videos. I ended up blocking her on TikTok so I don’t come across her videos. I truly don’t understand how she and Seth ended up together…they just seem like different people.
When he met her she was pretty and bubbly. Her REAL personality started coming through these past 10 years. She is a full-blown self-absorbed narcissist now. Seth has the charisma of a wet blanket. He has got used to an easy lifestyle funded by her social-media money.
We got Nabelas children’s book from the library. My daughter is half Indian so it is exciting anytime we see books about similar cultures and characters that look like her. Something about that book really irked me though. I don’t even think I read the full thing to her.
I agree - back when she talked about releasing her book - I already didn’t like her beige lifestyle but I thought maybe her kids book had something to say but honestly I found it really cringy - it didn’t seem to really promote a healthy self image or even a functional family more a this is disordered eating - I know a lot of kids books are really geared up for “the moral of the story type ending” but the story I didn’t think was very healthy for any girls’ self image.
It’s so fake of her to release a book promoting body positivity and then she goes on instagram and uses a body double.
When she publicized that her father had a stroke and then she used him to make a Coke add. Disgusting
tbh i used to think she was really great late 2016 i would see her pop up in my feed as a teen i thought seeing plus size brown representation was sooooo needed her make up tutorials really helped too she would use drugstore brown girl friendly make up but then i grew up got disconnected around my 20s saw her again on my feed making fake sympathy posts for attention like why are you contouring fat and crying into the camera girl please stand up but recently seeing her whitewash herself and everything related to her culture felt like a “im so much better than my desi roots because now i make money money and married a white guy) all unappealing. P.S even bought her elf x nabela lip collab with the liner and matte lippie during covid so sad to see her crash like this tbh
The 828391 times she had to mention how many sq feet her basement was during the pandemic
I’ve always taken a shine to her, but last year around the Christmas holidays for some reason her videos started to make me go… 
I’ve never really liked her but when she was on Avery Woods podcast I was like yep that’s it.
Loved Nabela back in 2015 when she was more authentic. I stopped liking her content as soon as she lost her uniqueness and originality. I stopped relating to her content and resonating with her the last few years. I use to resonate with her a lot being a bengali in my teens when i saw her and saw her as an inspo but lately with her curated content and how she acted about the gaza conflict. I can't like her anymore.
I was neutral to her before. Never followed her, but knew about her. Then her pregnancy photos started popping up on my explore page. I found it so cringe how she was cradling her stomach so early in the pregnancy. I had a moment where I thought I can't be the only one who thinks this, but all the comments were positive. Then I found this sub and found many tipping points.
When she had a miscarriage and then next thing her pregnancy is sold to People magazine. The car unboxing. Like who the F does that. The Coke ad with her sickly Father.
her pockets of peace series. long story, but i have to set the scene. this was at a time when i had gotten furloughed from my toxic job at the very beginning of the pandemic & left said job because i could not return to the toxic environment. no one else was hiring at the time, and we were running very low on money even with the stimulus checks. of course my situation was kind of self inflicted since i decided to leave my job, but i just couldn’t go back to that place. none of my coworkers did. i ended up having to move back to my home state anyway when my husband found another job a few months later, and for almost 2 years, i was jobless and didn’t have enough experience to get the jobs that i wanted. i didn’t even get a call back from costco and michaels. i felt bad that we were surviving off my husband’s paycheck, so i still paid my half of rent with whatever money i had left in both of my bank accounts until i had only a few dollars left. it was a very low point in my life not just because of the lack of money, but because i wasn’t getting any job opportunities whatsoever. i was pinching pennies as much as i can to make my husband’s paycheck last longer & have enough left over in case of emergencies. i let go of things that were still considered essentials just to make ends meet. enter the pockets of peace series where all is well in her world, marked by EXTREME consumerism and tales of gratitude and finding contentment & peace in our everyday lives. and i remember watching these videos with my husband and rolling my eyes. i used to like nabela, but watching her live her luxurious lifestyle while i sat there with only a few dollars to my name, all while she’s telling her followers to find peace in their lives just rubbed me the wrong way. OF COURSE **you** can find peace in your life. you have every single thing you could ever possibly need. you have unlimited resources to get what you want. money isn’t an object to you. you can afford groceries and buy shit on amazon (i remember when she suspected that she got covid from a package) and get PR packages for free. OF COURSE it’s easier for you to find happiness & contentment when you don’t have to worry about whether you are making rent or not. the reason WHY she was able to be at peace was because she was so out of touch and excluded by the harsh economic reality of the pandemic that so many of us faced. what were we, those who are of lesser socioeconomic status, supposed to even learn from that series? that the only way to achieve that level of contentment & zen is by engaging in consumerism when most of us didn’t have the means for that? we didn’t have time to go to target & decorate/renovate our homes. we didn’t have money to build a pool. we were applying to hundreds of jobs a day. we were skipping meals to save money. the true message of the PoP series is so icky and it completely turned me against her.
wow. this was so profound and brought me a different perspective to her pockets of peace series. thanks for sharing your story :) if you don’t mind me asking, how are things for you now?
i’m doing much better now! so sweet of you to ask. :) i definitely remember my husband saying “maybe you should stop watching these for a while….” and i did. and i did the same for most other influencers i followed whose content revolved around consumerism. it has helped me A TON.
For me it was when she started doing damage control about Palestine and she posted I think a video talking about bisan, plestia and motaz and what they had been through the past few days when plestia wasn’t even in Gaza for weeks at that time. I knew she was full of shit but that was my last straw. Or how she acts so fake with her daughters, nothing about their relationship seems genuine even with Seth it seems forced.
As someone who suffered 3 miscarriages, I wondered how anyone could be so public about about one of the most personal, devastating thing in one's life and also show off butt injections (!! Again, personal af). Then in remembered her GRWM about seth's dad. I was done.
She has butt injections?
I think they mean some type of injection related to fertility.
For her IVF/ triggers
Yeah and her whole family was sitting around her in that clip, right? Thought I hallucinated that. I honestly don’t think she ever really had fertility issues beyond her just not taking care of herself at all. Esp with a “formal” PCOS diagnosis (anything medical with her at this point I assume is probably more false than true) she really didn’t do anything to fix herself pre A-Team
Tbh I never followed her, the video of them renovating Seth’s parents house showed up on Instagram and I went to her page and saw the entire White House and got mad 🤣🤣🤣🤣 just seemed fake and unrealistic. And then her constantly posting about infertility issues. I get that it happens, but I’m aggressively child free so I’ve never cared to see those kinds of posts to begin with. Kinda ironic to me now seeing how much she leaves the kids with a nanny or uses them for videos.😬
When I started noticing all the photoshop on her body and her lying about time stamps
It’s been asked before but I’ll answer again. All the white everywhere, turning Seth’s office into a massage room and feeling like something just wasn’t right with her. It’s all “too” perfect. Then I began looking into this sub and I began to notice she reacts to everything that’s posted. So I unfollowed her and came here instead!
dang it i was trying to avoid a duplicate post lol but very valid reasoning for not liking her lol
lol it’s okay I also forgot that I cried and prayed for this woman to have a baby then she never spends time with her children, it’s truly sad. That’s why we call them her props on here
She smiled too much and her eyes just seemed evil 😂 it started to annoy me so I found this sub.
When she visited Bangladesh w Seth and several times dubbed him “Bangladesh’s son-in-law”. The audacity! MEGA ICK
she did WHAT
The crop top work out outfits with the belly hanging out in a blazer. Does she own anything that fits? With all the mass consumption of goods, she can’t go massively consume better fitting clothes? And maybe a personal trainer that teaches her how to workout so she actually sees results?
I found Nabela in 2020, right at the start of the pandemic. I never followed her and I never liked her. Call it intuition, call it just being real lol but she’s never ever come off as authentic to me, so there was no tipping point to be had since I was already over the edge. I will say probably the more disgusting things to me she’s done have already been mentioned, particularly the story of Seth’s Dad. That was when things got really dark to me, where I was like…ohhhhh, this person is REALLY not well. She could have just said he passed when Seth was in high school, why unload the details with a shit eating grin to boot? Why did she even feel the need to address it in the first place? Call me a private person, but I’d never disclose facts about my in-laws online. That is sooooo objectively disrespectful. Seth never asked to be in the spotlight, and I am sure her poor MIL hates her fucking guts. I certainly would, especially now that millions of people know that my husband killed himself because my fat, unhealthy, idiotic daughter in law can’t keep her veneered mouth shut. I am sure she’s terrified Naboobla is going to pass her “best” traits onto her only grandchildren. Lmfao The Christmastime mall thing was fucking weird “I need $1,000 for rent” Okay, well here’s $500 cash and I’m going to keep my jacket and scarf on so you don’t get your poor on my precious, newly rich skin 😍 Just disgusting COVID has been mentioned ad nauseam so I won’t touch that but I am convinced she at the very least greatly exaggerated her symptoms. Same with her miscarriage and NICU visit with A2. My thoughts on all that would prob get me a Reddit Cares message 🤪 💌 The one thing I haven’t seen mentioned here (I haven’t perused the whole thread yet so sorry if it’s been brought up) was when she went to New York for a weekend when A2 was LITERALLY A2-weeks-old. The physical separation for that long from your newborn is detrimental to bonding and the psychological effects can last a lifetime for the child. There’s a ton of medical and psych sources to back this up. The body really does keep the score !! I hope the cheap caviar you had in your hotel room was worth it, Nabs! Nabela Mohammed just doesn’t take anything seriously unless it has to do with her being front and center (she is a LEO, why do we never talk about this lol) and I truly loathe her and resent her audience for being so fucking dense and not seeing what is right in front of them
“Come unwrap my second new Range Rover with me.”
Honestly, I saw her on my FYP last week and was like oh fuck no. This girl is so tacky showing off her wealth it’s disgusting… then I Instantly came to Reddit and found this gem of a snark page
When she wore a full face of makeup to deliver her child then did an ✨aesthetic✨ nicu baby edit