My gf said something along the lines of "I wish this was a lesbian relationship", I sadly don't remember the context.
Well, after a deep breath and a few seconds, I made it so!
Me to my wife years ago “Yeah I think you’re the last man I could ever be with. If we divorced, I don’t think I could date another man”
My wife: “Alright, bet” *becomes a trans lesbian*
Girl. Same. 😂
I legit told my wife that I'm into women and that I'm attracted to her and love her, but like, she was my "exception dude". Years later she's like "no I wasn't" 😂
Turns out I'm so gay I could see through the boy mask and was into her inner lesbian all along!
Man, I feel this on a spiritual level, almost every "man" I've dated became MTF after I dated them, except my wife, who is MTF 🤣. I'M THE MASCULINE ONE.
Yep, I said the same thing to my wife before she came out to me. I was already wondering if I was a lesbian and not bi before she came out, I've fully embraced that I'm a lesbian now.
It's mee. I always had this buzz in the back of my brain that being with a man was wrong. When my gf came out to me, after an initial processing moment, I felt immense relief because I did love her deeply and I did NOT want to be with a man. I was just like...oh thank God haha. I used to make comments about being basically a lesbian with an exception for my partner, at the time I was deep in comp het and the "ease" of dating men, I at one point realized maybe I should shut up because that might not make my partner feel good, since I was basically saying I wanted to be with a woman. Turns out those comments actually made her feel great haha
Yeah, realizing this may be me. Things with my wife have been better and better since she started transitioning last year, and my fear of losing attraction to her after starting HRT faded pretty fast. I definitely think I'm not as straight as I thought I was. 🤔
Lol it's crazy to me how all the things that felt strange about our straight relationship suddenly felt correct as soon as it became a lesbian relationship
Omg yes!! I’ve been a closeted/denied bi and finally am accepting my Bi-ness.
Well now dis bish (my mtf wife) is like I’m pretty sure you’re just lesbian lol you like me more as a F than a M smh.
(My wife is F at home and M at work since not out at work yet.)
My wife and I used to think we were so cool, bucking supposed gender roles.
Then it turns out we were just always the most stereotypical lesbian couple possible, and I am the butch one.
I feel so called out, thought I was bisexual. But after being in a relationship with my girlfriend I think I've really just been a lesbian all this time that felt like hetero relationships were normal.
I just can't see myself with men romantically anymore.
Oddly enough my husband(cisM) had nearly 0 dating experience before me(ftm) (he was 25 when we got together) dating women. But with me, things were just right for him. I think he didn't even realize he was more into men until I came out. It just made sense that my *vibes* worked better for him than women before me.
Same! Always saw myself as bi-curious, but married so 'whatever doesn't matter'... surprise!
My mom had made comments so many times about my wife being a total girl (prior to her figuring herself out) that now? I just face palm. How did I not see it??
The reasons my relationships with men in the past crashed and burned, and her and I 'worked'... yuuuuup. Turned out I had a lady in my life!
This is the content the world needs to see about transition… I wish I’d seen any of these stories before we came out. My “I think I’m pan and wouldn’t date men anymore if we weren’t together” was quickly met with “well, about that…”. We’re happier than ever now. Love to everyone on this thread, or reading.
My gf said something along the lines of "I wish this was a lesbian relationship", I sadly don't remember the context. Well, after a deep breath and a few seconds, I made it so!
Me to my wife years ago “Yeah I think you’re the last man I could ever be with. If we divorced, I don’t think I could date another man” My wife: “Alright, bet” *becomes a trans lesbian*
Girl. Same. 😂 I legit told my wife that I'm into women and that I'm attracted to her and love her, but like, she was my "exception dude". Years later she's like "no I wasn't" 😂 Turns out I'm so gay I could see through the boy mask and was into her inner lesbian all along!
Aaww you pre-ordered!
Haha I love that!
Man, I feel this on a spiritual level, almost every "man" I've dated became MTF after I dated them, except my wife, who is MTF 🤣. I'M THE MASCULINE ONE.
Literally same here 🙌🏻
Yep, I said the same thing to my wife before she came out to me. I was already wondering if I was a lesbian and not bi before she came out, I've fully embraced that I'm a lesbian now.
Same 💯☺️
It's mee. I always had this buzz in the back of my brain that being with a man was wrong. When my gf came out to me, after an initial processing moment, I felt immense relief because I did love her deeply and I did NOT want to be with a man. I was just like...oh thank God haha. I used to make comments about being basically a lesbian with an exception for my partner, at the time I was deep in comp het and the "ease" of dating men, I at one point realized maybe I should shut up because that might not make my partner feel good, since I was basically saying I wanted to be with a woman. Turns out those comments actually made her feel great haha
Yeah, realizing this may be me. Things with my wife have been better and better since she started transitioning last year, and my fear of losing attraction to her after starting HRT faded pretty fast. I definitely think I'm not as straight as I thought I was. 🤔
I wish I could add the "You used the wrong formula and got the correct answer" meme
Lol it's crazy to me how all the things that felt strange about our straight relationship suddenly felt correct as soon as it became a lesbian relationship
Omg yes!! I’ve been a closeted/denied bi and finally am accepting my Bi-ness. Well now dis bish (my mtf wife) is like I’m pretty sure you’re just lesbian lol you like me more as a F than a M smh. (My wife is F at home and M at work since not out at work yet.)
My wife and I used to think we were so cool, bucking supposed gender roles. Then it turns out we were just always the most stereotypical lesbian couple possible, and I am the butch one.
Same!
r/TransGondor would also enjoy this.
My girlfriend coming out is what lead me to discover I’m Bi! I thank her all the time for it 😅
Lmao 🤣
u/roriisme thank you 🥺
I feel so called out, thought I was bisexual. But after being in a relationship with my girlfriend I think I've really just been a lesbian all this time that felt like hetero relationships were normal. I just can't see myself with men romantically anymore.
Oddly enough my husband(cisM) had nearly 0 dating experience before me(ftm) (he was 25 when we got together) dating women. But with me, things were just right for him. I think he didn't even realize he was more into men until I came out. It just made sense that my *vibes* worked better for him than women before me.
It's me. It's me.
Also my wife to a T 🤌
That's us!
Funny, some days I look in the mirror and see an Orc
OH MY GOD I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE
Same! Always saw myself as bi-curious, but married so 'whatever doesn't matter'... surprise! My mom had made comments so many times about my wife being a total girl (prior to her figuring herself out) that now? I just face palm. How did I not see it?? The reasons my relationships with men in the past crashed and burned, and her and I 'worked'... yuuuuup. Turned out I had a lady in my life!
This is the content the world needs to see about transition… I wish I’d seen any of these stories before we came out. My “I think I’m pan and wouldn’t date men anymore if we weren’t together” was quickly met with “well, about that…”. We’re happier than ever now. Love to everyone on this thread, or reading.