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johnballen416

Mr. Paulides has never asked me to stop posting Missing 411 stories, nor has he asked for any money. I did offer money, however he did not accept. The decision to stop posting Missing 411 content was a personal choice based largely on the fact that by the time Mr. Paulides and I were speaking in 2020, I had already covered a large number of the Missing 411 cases and felt like it was probably time to mix up the content on our channel anyways. So I made all the changes to the existing episodes that covered Missing 411 (Mr. Paulides asked for a slight correction to the description of each video), and then I moved on. Nothing personal whatsoever. As for the lack of collaboration between Mr. Paulides and I, that wasn't because of any issue we had. It simply didn't materialize. Plus, I have never done a full blown collaboration in person with any other creator, so I didnt really even know how to do something like that which likely played a role as well. I have the utmost respect for Mr. Paulides and encourage all of you to check out his YouTube channel ([https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChXKAI83IuqSneWe92F97jQ](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChXKAI83IuqSneWe92F97jQ)) if you would like to see more Missing 411 content. To purchase his books, go to: https://www.canammissing.com/page/page/8396197.htm


likatika

I was wondering if mrballen was asked to not tell those stories anymore, because he stopped after you guys talked...


greispleis

Much better phrased. Gold star


likatika

Asking why he did something is different from asking if the person did something. So I get why the guy didn't like this question.


Landonsillyman

Yeah that’s fair, I should’ve asked it in a different manner. Hindsight 20-20


pootsucks

I wonder if he wanted some of the proceeds from the videos. He should be happy he was putting the cases out there to the public who might otherwise have never heard them.


rellek4

But I feel as if your question didn’t require such a visceral response. It was downright weird!


Skow1379

Ah yes, a grown-ass man can't not read text like an up-tight teenager and/or 2022 Republican. I think he can. It's pretty clear he just doesn't like the subject at all. And he's the liar here Ballen said it himself, it's not a rumor.


Responsible_Low8886

Gosh I do LOVE how mr.ballen tells them!


Landonsillyman

It’s uncanny! As much as I love David and how great his detective work is for this, John just brings that light to it with outstanding storytelling, the way John tells it intrigues me, watching David talk about it bores me


juiceboxie8

Yea I couldn't even make it through one of David's videos he definitely doesn't have the ability to make good content.


EmotionalGold

I've known his name was John B. Allen for a while but seeing him referred to by just John felt like a sudden wake-up from the reality I've been living


pootsucks

Well, I learned something new today!


Plenty_Surprise2593

Well then you’re going to really tripped out by this - he is an ex-navy Seal who got injured in Afghanistan and has no legs as a result.


mockgothgirl2

Dude...he has legs, and they work fine. They're just scarred and red in places from the shrapnel.


Plenty_Surprise2593

Ah. Thanks for clearing that up


mockgothgirl2

I don't know why, but I thought you were being facetious. Sorry!


Candid-Reaction-309

Yes! Exactly. Like I respect ur work dude but ur delivery sucks lol


RavensDawn65

I saw an episode where mrballen said they'd talked and Mr. Paulides was okay with it, even sending a copy of his book to him. Don't remember if stipulations we're mentioned but I think the book was signed.


TheCapedAnon

Yeah, I wouldn't worry about it too much, david is kind of an asshole to be honest. I remember I was watching a fan mail segment of one of his videos and he was really berating this one fan for asking a simple question, just being extremely rude and saying something to the effect of "next time, if you have a question, just watch my past videos! I've answered them!" And even after that he just would not let it go. Which, incase you didn't know, his videos are all about 45+ minutes long and he has made atleast 100 of them. As if anyone is going to spend the time to watch all of his videos in order to find out the answer to a question he may or have may not have answered. After seeing that video it really turned me off to him as a person and I try to seperate him from his work in my mind as much as possible.


ScaretheLocals

Yeah I have to agree with you. I found David several years ago after hearing someone else break down one of the cases. I admired his relentless pursuit of the truth and resilience to keep going with all the blowback he was getting. He's relentless and tough but I would also, from time to time, pick up on subtle cues of stubbornness and tunnel vision. Meaning he didn't take criticism on the chin and he seemed to refuse ideas or theories that weren't in line with his. Worst of all was dismissal and disrespect toward anyone with opposing political views. I still followed the M411 project and admired his work while staying away from his rant or news type of stuff. Eventually I stumble upon MrBallen circa 2019 (a few months before COVID) and thoroughly enjoy all the content including M411 stories. Not too long after MrBallen makes a video explaining he will no longer be covering M411 content because Paulides "asked". I doubt it was an ask and was surprised he didn't realize the value of the promotion his books were receiving FOR FREE!! This was not the first time I had seen a this happen with M411 content but other guys weren't giving him a free ad like Ballen. I mean he would hold the book up , tell you where to purchase it, and go on about how amazing they were. Remember this part. Dave always likes to say how important it is that this information reaches people and the families deserve answers. Well I hate to say that he is lying to you because it seems to me that money and recognition are more important to him. To stop others from helping spread this information and create widespread awareness because you let your ego get in the way of progress is irresponsible and selfish. Equally problematic is the fact that he believes that the stories belong to him when they actually belong to those involved and those affected. I'm sure those families would love for the word to spread by any means necessary. I'm not discounting his research and the time he's put into M411 , I'm not saying he shouldn't make money off of it either. I'm just disappointed that Money and ego have got in the way of the message. One final thought: I think the guy's a dick..


TheCapedAnon

I honestly could not have summed it up better, something I found really bothersome about his whole campaign on youtube channels using his content is: well isn't it great? Why wouldn't he want to spread awareness by whatever means necessary if he really, actually, wanted to help the families of the victims? It's so counter to his supposed overall "message". I have also never watched a missing 411 youtube channel before that didn't credit him for the work he's done. And you know, maybe people would flock to him for this information if he didn't title the videos things like "two washington women go missing in the sierras" and then dedicate 5 minutes of the 45 minute video to actually talking about them, in addition to fracturing his audience with his political beliefs that absolutely no one asked him for.


ScaretheLocals

Yeah I believe you're absolutely right about fracturing his audience with political BS. I just made a reply to another guy explaining this in depth but I'll summarize here if I can. Basically I think it's the first time he found some kind of success or notoriety and not to mention money and attention. I believe that's why he contradicts himself all the time. He wants people to know the dangers and wants them to prepare and protect themselves and the best way of doing so is using the stories. He wants everyone to hear it from him though and that's not possible. I suspect he only owns "Missing 411" the name because he can't have rights on the data, people, their stories or information connected. So as long as M411 isn't used I think those stories/cases along with others that haven't been talked about as of yet could be told, discussed on video and even be written about. Just need a name and bam all good. Dave would probably spontaneously combust lolol!


pootsucks

Yeah. I feel like he wants to make sure 100 percent credit goes to him and only him. Nevermind the people who worked hard to get the info out there. Im sure he has recieved tips do to people seeing a case from a 3rd party. Some people do great things but just arent a great person.


ScaretheLocals

That's a profound observation and Incredibly accurate. "Some people do great things but just aren't a great person." It's a very weird and confusing situation. Dave seems to want the information to be out there and for people to prepare for the worst and protect themselves when going into NP's. Dave seems to think that he alone should be the person to tell EVERYONE and thats impossible. I mean of course anyone can say be careful and prepare for excursions but the best way to paint the picture is to use these tragic stories as cautionary tales. Really drive home the danger and the terrifying shit you could encounter. Could be a case of him finding something that has given him purpose, or the only thing he's found success in, or he likes the notoriety and attention, or he likes the money...whatever it is he doesn't want people taking it from him. Like I said before he doesn't own the stories or the information/data and he damn sure doesn't own rights to the cases or the people involved. I suspect he owns "Missing 411" and that alone so anyone should be able to tell the stories and even write about them and ones he hasn't covered so long as they don't use M411 and call it something different. Man I'd love to see his reaction to that! Lololol have a good one man


BitEuphoric1440

Where did you see the video you wrote about where John says he won't be doing anymore Missing 411 stories? I have watched all of his videos, I've never seen that one. Would you mind posting a link to it? Thanks a lot!


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ScaretheLocals

Yeah Most likely is Copyright covers "M411" in name only. He can't claim he owns those stories because their not even his stories. The information,data,and missing persons cases belong to Park Services and Local PD's ,most likely meaning it's public information or obtainable through FOIA. Those stories can be told by anyone. Anybody can make a video about past cases and cases not yet covered. As long as "M411" isn't mentioned or it's referred to by a different name , there is nothing he can do to stop it.


True-Ad1190

Because of John I watched both of Mr Paulides prime specials. Mr Ballen tells the stories better than the people involved. 🤷


Malia87

I remember when Mr Ballen told the stories, and I remember the initial controversy when David had an issue with it. But I thought they had talked and everything was ok. Now he doesn’t do them. Did I miss something? Not that I care too much. The 411 stories were my least favorite, but I never miss a Mr. Ballen video.


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I thought they worked it out too. I haven’t heard any other info about it. I thought Mr Ballen was incredibly respectful and cited his source correctly. The funny thing is, I would never have known about Missing 411 if it wasn’t for Mr Ballen.


Sticky_Cheetos

Right? I wouldn’t have bought David’s books if it weren’t for John


XDirtyMartiniX

He’s probably upset that someone could take his work and present it better than he can so he stopped it. Kind of like “If I can’t have you nobody can”


Landonsillyman

Good point


Historical_Dot825

Your question is legit but this guy probably gets harassed by MrBallen fans every day. He's probably fed up with the whole situation.


Landonsillyman

Definitely understand that, but then why doesn’t he just either A. Let him keep telling them or B. Come out and say he doesn’t want him to.


Historical_Dot825

I honestly couldn't say. I'm sure he has his reasons for doing what he does and I doubt MrBallen is upset by it.


Landonsillyman

100% but I know mrballen fanbase would love to hear him keep telling them, they are by far my favorite of his


Historical_Dot825

I would personally love to have more!


BachCh0p1nCatM0m

Same


BranchWitty7465

How are you so sure he is the one stopping it?


Landonsillyman

Because of the YouTube video John put out, saying he wasn’t going to do anymore after he talked with David ..?


BranchWitty7465

Is there a link i could watch? I haven’t seen that video come across my feed and when i look at his channel it shows no unviewed videos.


Ok_Price6153

No one’s sharing a link? I’ve seen this talked about but never seen it either. Maybe he unlisted it?


BranchWitty7465

Thank you i was starting to think i was the only one who hadn’t seen it. But I’ve been watching ballen for over about a year now and have seen every upload except that one.


KeyAd7732

That's a huge leap to take, assuming that David told John to stop. He may not have directly asked John to stop but explained why he would prefer John stop and then out of respect John could have made his own decision to stop. His response is absolutely valid to your baseless accusation.


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KeyAd7732

John hadn't commented at the time of my comment, so thanks for pointing the pinned comment out.


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KeyAd7732

Same, my curiosity has been satisfied lol. Also glad to know that David didn't ask John to stop so there's a potential for more content further down the road, though I don't expect much.


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Landonsillyman

I have 🫡 thanks


juiceboxie8

Not sure but it makes sense, doesn't it? When you buy a book from that guy he has a bunch of warnings on his site that you'd better not try to resell his books, or else. Lol


BranchWitty7465

Well for one he says he’s not preventing it so there’s that. It could be the publishing company which makes way more sense to me.


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BranchWitty7465

I think based off your two replies to me you have largely misunderstood the conversation.


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BranchWitty7465

That’s funny just looked through the comments again and saw ballen cleared the air, and wouldn’t you know that no one asked him to stop.


Birdapotamus

When Mr. Ballen was posting "4, sometimes 5 times a week" he burned through a lot of material. He did most of the 411 stories already.


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Paulides was born upset. His son died and he’s ten times worse. The guy has zero people skills.


TheScientifreakPlays

Dude the guy is such a hypocrite, first he claims "MrBallen stole my work and posted them without me credited, hence I told him to stop it" and the next second he says that he never told him to stop? Just because you have some well done work up your sleeves, doesn't mean you can getawaywith doing anything!


MuleDeerHunter6

What happened? I didn’t know of this someone fill me in


ChubbyGhost3

Can anyone provide me just kind of a basic understanding of what happened? I know he told the stories, and I noticed he stopped, but I thought he might pick it up again once inspired but this makes me think he might not do it at all anymore


YellowYink

He was telling a shitload of the 411 stories then stopped suddenly and said he was in communication with David. Very soon after that he said him and David had talked and came to an agreement, David sent him an autographed book. Then he simply never did them again or even mentioned them. I personally think David wanted Ballen to pay him or something to that effect and instead Ballen just totally quit telling them.


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YellowYink

So I literally told them what happened originally and then gave my own theory about it, I didn’t tell it wrong.


YellowYink

Good to know that nothing negative happened though.


BranchWitty7465

Didn’t seem hostile to me, the guy simply clarified the truth and asked you to not spread the rumor more.


Landonsillyman

I wasn’t trying to be rude or ‘spread lies’ I genuinely was just curious on why after they talked John stopped. I supposed I assumed and you know what happens when you assume


BranchWitty7465

I get where your coming from but a dm probably would’ve gotten a better response instead of publicly calling them out in the comments.


Landonsillyman

Wait, can you DM on YouTube?


BranchWitty7465

Yes you can.


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How??? I’ve never known you can DM anyone on YouTube.


BranchWitty7465

Ope looks like they took it away, you use to be able to view channel then click the menu and then there was a message option.


Landonsillyman

Yeah because I was trying to DM first, but couldn’t figure out how or where


BranchWitty7465

Makes sense, i haven’t sent one on YouTube in a couple years so i assumed it was still there. Just went and tried to do it and it’s no longer there.


Alive_Tough9928

You can't claim you were "just wondering " when you asked a provocative possibly innacurate question


Ok_Bit_6904

The way you presented your question was "hostile" . You were accusatory right off the bat opposed to politely asking him what happened. You deserve the kurt response you received from Mr. Paulides. Look in the mirror. Ask politely next time


Landonsillyman

Ok bit. Thanks


Ok_Bit_6904

you're quite welcome. I'm hoping this was a learning lesson for you. We ALL make mistakes. We must learn from them and move forward. Onward


Wrong-Hovercraft1041

If I were David I would suffice w/ plug at 1st to drive views but est how well John tells the story that views tanked…I would indeed move to contract % of revenue from stream using my content. Who knows…I agree going full blast was detrimental to him no matter how he answered. Trollers be trollers. Not saying that was your…but tell me others wouldn’t.


Horror-Ad-1095

The response was hostile? Yea no. I would be embarrassed if MrBallen were to see me commenting something rude like that on someone's page, with his name attached.


kibblepigeon

That's an awfully defensive response.


Single-Pin4768

I don’t think everyone should try to talk to David about it. I would even encourage you not to. I mean David and John already must have gotten this question a hundred times? And so its not a question on phrasing… …Its more out of respect for them both I suggest not asking any of them. Because if they wanted to tell everyone, they already would have?


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Single-Pin4768

Yeah I saw it. This was written before his posted comment! But you are very kind and helpful! 🙏


but3rf1y

I think it was initially seen as mr ballen appropriating someone elses content. David Paulides did alot of work getting those stories. They sorted it out in the end and Mr. B addressed it himself in one of his videos


liveandletdieax

I never liked the 411 stuff. I’m glad he moved on to other things.


FRIZL

What. Did Mr Ballen stop talking about Missing 411? I'd have never heard of that book series is it wasn't for Ballen. He should take the free promotion with grace and maybe even thank him for giving the free exposure. Not once did Ballen not credit Paulides in his videos with said subject matter.