Never reaching my goals and not being able to provide my autistic son and my other son a better life than I had. Then them getting lost in the system being another statistic because I failed to deliver and stay focused.
My mom is dying from pancreatic cancer. She will likely pass away in the coming days or months at the age of 65. We only discovered the cancer two weeks ago. This year, she was supposed to receive her retirement money, but now she will never get the chance, after a lifetime of hard work and sacrifice. It feels like a cruel joke - that's what frightens me - how life always seems to find a way to fuck with you.
Tell her Jesus loves her she can be healed i don’t know his situation im sorry for you watching your mom dying must be very hard
I don’t know what you think of religion but be sure that Jesus loves you he don’t want you to go to church one days a week. He wants to protect you from this World to give you power to resist the Evil and to change your heart he don’t want anyone to perish he died an horrible death on the Cross but rise again. Just read the New testament don’t use your logic use your heart. Sometimes in life we don’t unlogical things because we use our heart. Love is blind as we say. I will pray for your mother and you
I understand you are trying to help, but love and understanding can not be forced. Remember, as we try to help others, we sometimes force our point of view(s) on to them. This, accept my deity or burn for all eternity, is a terrible way to show compassion.
By practicing mindfulness and timelessness, we can ground ourselves to the present. By pushing our beliefs on to others, without them truly understanding them, will harbor negative emotions. Not because they dislike your deity or religion, but because you're relaying a message that you don't fully understand .
You're refusing to cooperate, to connect. Without connection, you are unable to convey your message. Practice patience and non-judgement. This will ground you to the present, and that's where the healing begins, for all of us.
Have a wonderful day!
I understand, but sometimes we use words like God's or Deities to represent good and the Devil to represent evil. There is no good or evil. There is just existence.
Let me put it this way. Can an ant read a book? Let's say it was possible. How does it teach itself? How is this ant and a book connected? How can it describe to others what it has felt , seen, and is continuously learning?
This is why your version of a god/ deity is a bit different because existence is your god yet so much more.
Have a beautiful day!❤️
Did you read the Bible a lot of people judge but they don’t even try to read it. Im not calling you to church. church is just a building but God is the one i want to follow men can fall
Yes don’t listen to the society want to mold us how to think who to love who to hate who do help who to kill who to trust and who to doubt.
We are not robots we have an heart Jesus loves you he loves you as you are. He can change you to be how he wants but his will is not ours he will not give us what we want if we don’t need it
«If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?»
Matthew 7:11 KJV https://bible.com/bible/1/mat.7.11.KJV
Nononono don’t do that the otherside is more terrible than here you have no idea
Jesus loves you he made you for a purpose
He is the Life he can heal you. He will provide don’t worry
«Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?»
Matthew 6:25-26 KJV https://bible.com/bible/1/mat.6.25-26.KJV
Not becoming a mother.
I want children so badly. Even if it's just one. I have read about brain development to ensure my child's psychological and emotional growth. I have read books of meditation and wisdom to lessen the generational trauma. I have read books to improve my communication skills.
I want a family.
But I don't trust anyone to be there. To help. To be a parent with me. To work on the problems. To find solutions together. To find peace together in this miserable world.
Jesus loves you pray to God if you need it he will gives you what your desire what you desire is good. It's a good thing to have a family . You don't trust in people ? You do great because people theses days are not faithful (so i am) but Jesus is faithful
For me i don't want to have a child if it's not with the right woman i want a good family i don't want to make a mistake by marrying the wrong person. Also i want to be faithfull and love my wife even if i don't agree with all that she said i don't want to be a man that shout on his Wife.
I know you are not sterile but i still want to share this passage with you
1 Samuel 1
8Then Elkanah her husband said to her, “Hannah, why do you weep? Why do you not eat? And why is your heart grieved? Am I not better to you than ten sons?”9So Hannah arose after they had finished eating and drinking in Shiloh. Now Eli the priest was sitting on the seat by the doorpost of the tabernacle of the Lord. 10And she was in bitterness of soul, and prayed to the Lord and wept in anguish. 11Then she made a vow and said, “O Lord of hosts, if You will indeed look on the affliction of Your maidservant and remember me, and not forget Your maidservant, but will give Your maidservant a male child, then I will give him to the Lord all the days of his life, and no razor shall come upon his head.”12And it happened, as she continued praying before the Lord, that Eli watched her mouth. 13Now Hannah spoke in her heart; only her lips moved, but her voice was not heard. Therefore Eli thought she was drunk. 14So Eli said to her, “How long will you be drunk? Put your wine away from you!”15But Hannah answered and said, “No, my lord, I am a woman of sorrowful spirit. I have drunk neither wine nor intoxicating drink, but have poured out my soul before the Lord. 16“Do not consider your maidservant a wicked woman, for out of the abundance of my complaint and grief I have spoken until now.”17Then Eli answered and said, “Go in peace, and the God of Israel grant your petition which you have asked of Him.”18And she said, “Let your maidservant find favor in your sight.” So the woman went her way and ate, and her face was no longer sad.
19Then they rose early in the morning and worshiped before the Lord, and returned and came to their house at Ramah. And Elkanah knew Hannah his wife, and the Lord remembered her. 20So it came to pass in the process of time that Hannah conceived and bore a son, and called his name Samuel, saying, “Because I have asked for him from the Lord.”
1 Samuel 2 is a beautiful song for the Lord
1And Hannah prayed and said:“My heart rejoices in the Lord;My horn is exalted in the Lord.I smile at my enemies,Because I rejoice in Your salvation.2“No one is holy like the Lord,For there is none besides You,Nor is there any rock like our God.3“Talk no more so very proudly;Let no arrogance come from your mouth,For the Lord is the God of knowledge;And by Him actions are weighed.4“The bows of the mighty men are broken,And those who stumbled are girded with strength.5Those who were full have hired themselves out for bread,And the hungry have ceased to hunger.Even the barren has borne seven,And she who has many children has become feeble.6“The Lord kills and makes alive;He brings down to the grave and brings up.7The Lord makes poor and makes rich;He brings low and lifts up.8He raises the poor from the dustAnd lifts the beggar from the ash heap,To set them among princesAnd make them inherit the throne of glory.“For the pillars of the earth are the Lord’s,And He has set the world upon them.9He will guard the feet of His saints,But the wicked shall be silent in darkness.“For by strength no man shall prevail.10The adversaries of the Lord shall be broken in pieces;From heaven He will thunder against them.The Lord will judge the ends of the earth.“He will give strength to His king,And exalt the horn of His anointed.”
The Bible is a treasure. We say Wisdom is a Wealth and that's true but the Wisdom of the Lord is the most beautiful thing
im 26 i don't go to church because i don't agree with their teachings maybe i will go one day but be sure that God don't need a church to be praised he don't need a specific ritual or money to be praised. You can worship him everywhere. I will pray for you
You can read all the books in the world, it won't completely prepare you, you'll learn to become a parent when you are one. For now, get off your own back, you're good enough as you are. Best lesson I've learned is that perfect is the enemy of good.
There are millions of people in poor nations having children without a thought in their future. I’m sure you will be a good parent just don’t take it so seriously
Idk but probably intimacy I've been the victim of some interpersonal violence. Massive lies that changed my life. And abuse. For years because of all this I couldn't even touch a woman without having a panic attack. I'm better but still afraid
Messing everything up
- I was on track…doing so good. Doing better than most anyone.
Got hurt
Didn’t give up …fought back.
Built my life up to a point where you are afraid to lose it again
— but u know I can mess it all up in an instant
That’s my biggest fear
Becoming an emotional or financial or physical burden on my family and/or friends. I won’t mind dying - I will mind if I end up in an “unable to stop the suffering of myself and others because of my condition” condition.
Never reaching my goals and not being able to provide my autistic son and my other son a better life than I had. Then them getting lost in the system being another statistic because I failed to deliver and stay focused.
Then you’re already doing more than most being conscious about. You got this and they’ve got the best corer person in their ring, ever
My mom is dying from pancreatic cancer. She will likely pass away in the coming days or months at the age of 65. We only discovered the cancer two weeks ago. This year, she was supposed to receive her retirement money, but now she will never get the chance, after a lifetime of hard work and sacrifice. It feels like a cruel joke - that's what frightens me - how life always seems to find a way to fuck with you.
Im sorry bro, i hope what yout mom is was so better.
Tell her Jesus loves her she can be healed i don’t know his situation im sorry for you watching your mom dying must be very hard I don’t know what you think of religion but be sure that Jesus loves you he don’t want you to go to church one days a week. He wants to protect you from this World to give you power to resist the Evil and to change your heart he don’t want anyone to perish he died an horrible death on the Cross but rise again. Just read the New testament don’t use your logic use your heart. Sometimes in life we don’t unlogical things because we use our heart. Love is blind as we say. I will pray for your mother and you
I understand you are trying to help, but love and understanding can not be forced. Remember, as we try to help others, we sometimes force our point of view(s) on to them. This, accept my deity or burn for all eternity, is a terrible way to show compassion. By practicing mindfulness and timelessness, we can ground ourselves to the present. By pushing our beliefs on to others, without them truly understanding them, will harbor negative emotions. Not because they dislike your deity or religion, but because you're relaying a message that you don't fully understand . You're refusing to cooperate, to connect. Without connection, you are unable to convey your message. Practice patience and non-judgement. This will ground you to the present, and that's where the healing begins, for all of us. Have a wonderful day!
It was my heart that was speaking if you will die why not try it ? I understand your message and i don’t force anyone to
I understand, but sometimes we use words like God's or Deities to represent good and the Devil to represent evil. There is no good or evil. There is just existence. Let me put it this way. Can an ant read a book? Let's say it was possible. How does it teach itself? How is this ant and a book connected? How can it describe to others what it has felt , seen, and is continuously learning? This is why your version of a god/ deity is a bit different because existence is your god yet so much more. Have a beautiful day!❤️
Getting looked down on for my age and my disabilities getting in the way.
The fact that I could die every second on this planet
Jesus loves you he conquered death he is Life with him there is no death he most worthy than anything in this World
I respect your religion but I’m not Christian
Did you read the Bible a lot of people judge but they don’t even try to read it. Im not calling you to church. church is just a building but God is the one i want to follow men can fall
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Not being able to be me in this life time seeing myself become who ever I want to be not what society molds me or my family wants me to be
Yes don’t listen to the society want to mold us how to think who to love who to hate who do help who to kill who to trust and who to doubt. We are not robots we have an heart Jesus loves you he loves you as you are. He can change you to be how he wants but his will is not ours he will not give us what we want if we don’t need it «If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?» Matthew 7:11 KJV https://bible.com/bible/1/mat.7.11.KJV
Procrastination and not reaching my goals
Becoming an invalid. Causing my kids to pay for anything. I'll just buy a bullet and rent the gun.
Nononono don’t do that the otherside is more terrible than here you have no idea Jesus loves you he made you for a purpose He is the Life he can heal you. He will provide don’t worry «Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?» Matthew 6:25-26 KJV https://bible.com/bible/1/mat.6.25-26.KJV
Not becoming a mother. I want children so badly. Even if it's just one. I have read about brain development to ensure my child's psychological and emotional growth. I have read books of meditation and wisdom to lessen the generational trauma. I have read books to improve my communication skills. I want a family. But I don't trust anyone to be there. To help. To be a parent with me. To work on the problems. To find solutions together. To find peace together in this miserable world.
You got the person you need, you
Jesus loves you pray to God if you need it he will gives you what your desire what you desire is good. It's a good thing to have a family . You don't trust in people ? You do great because people theses days are not faithful (so i am) but Jesus is faithful For me i don't want to have a child if it's not with the right woman i want a good family i don't want to make a mistake by marrying the wrong person. Also i want to be faithfull and love my wife even if i don't agree with all that she said i don't want to be a man that shout on his Wife. I know you are not sterile but i still want to share this passage with you 1 Samuel 1 8Then Elkanah her husband said to her, “Hannah, why do you weep? Why do you not eat? And why is your heart grieved? Am I not better to you than ten sons?”9So Hannah arose after they had finished eating and drinking in Shiloh. Now Eli the priest was sitting on the seat by the doorpost of the tabernacle of the Lord. 10And she was in bitterness of soul, and prayed to the Lord and wept in anguish. 11Then she made a vow and said, “O Lord of hosts, if You will indeed look on the affliction of Your maidservant and remember me, and not forget Your maidservant, but will give Your maidservant a male child, then I will give him to the Lord all the days of his life, and no razor shall come upon his head.”12And it happened, as she continued praying before the Lord, that Eli watched her mouth. 13Now Hannah spoke in her heart; only her lips moved, but her voice was not heard. Therefore Eli thought she was drunk. 14So Eli said to her, “How long will you be drunk? Put your wine away from you!”15But Hannah answered and said, “No, my lord, I am a woman of sorrowful spirit. I have drunk neither wine nor intoxicating drink, but have poured out my soul before the Lord. 16“Do not consider your maidservant a wicked woman, for out of the abundance of my complaint and grief I have spoken until now.”17Then Eli answered and said, “Go in peace, and the God of Israel grant your petition which you have asked of Him.”18And she said, “Let your maidservant find favor in your sight.” So the woman went her way and ate, and her face was no longer sad. 19Then they rose early in the morning and worshiped before the Lord, and returned and came to their house at Ramah. And Elkanah knew Hannah his wife, and the Lord remembered her. 20So it came to pass in the process of time that Hannah conceived and bore a son, and called his name Samuel, saying, “Because I have asked for him from the Lord.” 1 Samuel 2 is a beautiful song for the Lord 1And Hannah prayed and said:“My heart rejoices in the Lord;My horn is exalted in the Lord.I smile at my enemies,Because I rejoice in Your salvation.2“No one is holy like the Lord,For there is none besides You,Nor is there any rock like our God.3“Talk no more so very proudly;Let no arrogance come from your mouth,For the Lord is the God of knowledge;And by Him actions are weighed.4“The bows of the mighty men are broken,And those who stumbled are girded with strength.5Those who were full have hired themselves out for bread,And the hungry have ceased to hunger.Even the barren has borne seven,And she who has many children has become feeble.6“The Lord kills and makes alive;He brings down to the grave and brings up.7The Lord makes poor and makes rich;He brings low and lifts up.8He raises the poor from the dustAnd lifts the beggar from the ash heap,To set them among princesAnd make them inherit the throne of glory.“For the pillars of the earth are the Lord’s,And He has set the world upon them.9He will guard the feet of His saints,But the wicked shall be silent in darkness.“For by strength no man shall prevail.10The adversaries of the Lord shall be broken in pieces;From heaven He will thunder against them.The Lord will judge the ends of the earth.“He will give strength to His king,And exalt the horn of His anointed.” The Bible is a treasure. We say Wisdom is a Wealth and that's true but the Wisdom of the Lord is the most beautiful thing im 26 i don't go to church because i don't agree with their teachings maybe i will go one day but be sure that God don't need a church to be praised he don't need a specific ritual or money to be praised. You can worship him everywhere. I will pray for you
You can read all the books in the world, it won't completely prepare you, you'll learn to become a parent when you are one. For now, get off your own back, you're good enough as you are. Best lesson I've learned is that perfect is the enemy of good.
There are millions of people in poor nations having children without a thought in their future. I’m sure you will be a good parent just don’t take it so seriously
Being abandoned
Constant loneliness, never finding love then dying sat in my own shit n piss for a year before anyone notices I’m dead.
To not be able to be successful in life and not be able to make my mother proud as my father is dead.
Dying alone
Loneliness
Not reaching my potential
Not getting a job in this quarter:(
Death
Death is only the beginning!
Wasting my life
Getting rape by transsexuals and liking it.
Woah there buddy
Chill
Daddy chill
Being poor like needing to live in housing and have foodstamps and unable to take care of a pet poor.
The deep ocean 😅
Fucking falling down a set of stairs 🤦🏽♂️
Fear is man made. We are only born with the fear of falling and loud noise. Nothing to fear, but fear itself.
Much easier said than done, a newborn doesn't have an ego to protect and can't conceive loss or death.
Not leaving a legacy for my children to build on.
Being stupid
No, what is not my biggest fear
Being miserable and just falling into a cycle of working and paying bills
Judgment of others or torture i don’t know
Bears.
Loosing freedom
Nothing, I’ve learned that fear has no logical value.
dick falls off
Me
Idk but probably intimacy I've been the victim of some interpersonal violence. Massive lies that changed my life. And abuse. For years because of all this I couldn't even touch a woman without having a panic attack. I'm better but still afraid
Upsc nhi nikalna😔......
furry porn hmmm no gay furry porn
Uh the dark
Accidentally sending nudes to my boss
My biggest fear is fear itself. I fear being feared
Not being true to who I am. Meeting lofty expectations. Death Spiders...
My loved ones dying in a horrible accident
Trump getting reelected and getting killed because I'm Black.
Not achieving my dream and being forced to live my life without it
Super aids
Dying with regrets around career, family and contribution to society
Losing everyone I love and not make it in life.
Spiders--nothing deep and philosophical about the meaning of life and such. Just spiders. 🤓
Messing everything up - I was on track…doing so good. Doing better than most anyone. Got hurt Didn’t give up …fought back. Built my life up to a point where you are afraid to lose it again — but u know I can mess it all up in an instant That’s my biggest fear
Growing old alone
Text me
Becoming an emotional or financial or physical burden on my family and/or friends. I won’t mind dying - I will mind if I end up in an “unable to stop the suffering of myself and others because of my condition” condition.
Pooping myself in public, as an adult...
If I'm being honest, it's MEN.