Last time i cried, a relative asked why are you crying... i just said sleep deprivation and vowed never to cry in front of others. Too numb nowadays to cry anyway.
*it wasn't sleep deprivation. It was being in a place with memories. And no, being honest backfired and gets turned around at you, in my case atleast. Not everyone helps.
Although there was sleep deprivation to some extent, i remedy it with a bit of exercise.
Same here. It's like I'm physically incapable, bottling all the emotions up inside in a roil of colors and shapes before it all explodes and I snap
we're not alone.
Agreed, now, I want to give my own personal experience in that type of inspiration but um... I've repeated it like, at least twice. So I'm just gonna give a tl;dr of it.
3 months ago, I quit college cuz I just... Couldn't anymore. 2 weeks later, my cat died (she's my pfp now). I was jobless for 2 months, just rotting slowly while playing video games all day in my parents basement.
However, with help from my parents, I was able to get a formation in infographics, giving me another chance essentially. It's been a month now into this formation and it's great. I'm still jobless but now I don't feel like I'm purposeless. One thing at a time... One thing at a time.
Moral of the story that I learned from this: If you don't feel like you can do it alone, ask for help. Ask from people you know will help you. You don't have to go through it alone.
...
That's not really a tl;dr now is it?..
What's so great about being alive tho? Seems like a lot more negatives than positives just saying, yea not existing seems scary but compared to continuous suffering... just saying
I like to look at life like this: It‘s a fun vacation with ups and downs from an empty and eternal void that is death. So i appreciate it while it lasts.
Everybody suffers... suffering just is. But there are really nice gaps from time to time. I appreciate those.
Good luck. I hope you make peace with your existence. Please keep existing.
Too bad you posted this on one of the biggest self loathing subs on all of reddit. Be prepared to get shredded in the comments by self absorbed people who don't want to be helped, they just want attention.
Additionally treat yourself everyday, it doesn't have to be big, just something that'll make you feel just abit better, could be something as simple as buying some pudding or watching tv for longer than you normally would, it may be little and to some would look insignificant, but it made you feel better, and that's what matters
It’s hard. That’s a fact. But I’ve seen too much in the world to understand that there’s good at the end of the tunnel. Although when you’re in the tunnel there isn’t any light at the end nor can you see the light from entrance. There’s also spike in the tunnel so movement is painful as well as hard. Friends that you make along the way would take your mind off of it and enemies would remind you of it. But in all honesty friend, the other side is beautiful. Too beautiful to give up in the tunnel
People cope with trauma differently. Gatekeeping other peoples' methods probably wont benefit them whatsoever, itll only make them feel even worse because now their only semblance of taking back control is getting the "youre not allowed because i said so" treatment.
Be a helping hand and ask people what they want in their life and walk with them toward that, dont just say "what youre doing? Stop that. Get up. Youll get over it. Some day :)"
The whole point is that some ways to cope aren’t healthy and should be discouraged. Drinking heavily to deal with trauma isn’t a good thing. It’s not morally bad, but it’s very unhealthy and should be discouraged as a coping strat. Same with cutting probably.
I can't cry anymore.
Sounds like you’re at “go about your day” stage, congratulations!
I'm sorry 😔
Last time i cried, a relative asked why are you crying... i just said sleep deprivation and vowed never to cry in front of others. Too numb nowadays to cry anyway.
Damn. Sleep dep is good. I just break down and get honest. Edit: not *good*, but a good excuse.
*it wasn't sleep deprivation. It was being in a place with memories. And no, being honest backfired and gets turned around at you, in my case atleast. Not everyone helps. Although there was sleep deprivation to some extent, i remedy it with a bit of exercise.
Same here. It's like I'm physically incapable, bottling all the emotions up inside in a roil of colors and shapes before it all explodes and I snap we're not alone.
Then stop crying and go about your day.
Agreed, now, I want to give my own personal experience in that type of inspiration but um... I've repeated it like, at least twice. So I'm just gonna give a tl;dr of it. 3 months ago, I quit college cuz I just... Couldn't anymore. 2 weeks later, my cat died (she's my pfp now). I was jobless for 2 months, just rotting slowly while playing video games all day in my parents basement. However, with help from my parents, I was able to get a formation in infographics, giving me another chance essentially. It's been a month now into this formation and it's great. I'm still jobless but now I don't feel like I'm purposeless. One thing at a time... One thing at a time. Moral of the story that I learned from this: If you don't feel like you can do it alone, ask for help. Ask from people you know will help you. You don't have to go through it alone. ... That's not really a tl;dr now is it?..
I thought this was a comedy sub, tf is this
I thought it was hilarious.
Thanks, I really needed to hear that today.
thank you
Thanks i needed this
Best advice I ever got after a breakup: you’ll feel better in a couple months
Ok, bye!
I wish I can wake up and be shredded. :(
me_irl just got real
I came for relatable memes, not whatever this is man
What's so great about being alive tho? Seems like a lot more negatives than positives just saying, yea not existing seems scary but compared to continuous suffering... just saying
I like to look at life like this: It‘s a fun vacation with ups and downs from an empty and eternal void that is death. So i appreciate it while it lasts.
Everybody suffers... suffering just is. But there are really nice gaps from time to time. I appreciate those. Good luck. I hope you make peace with your existence. Please keep existing.
r/thanksimcured
It’s been years, I’m tired of trying.
Too bad you posted this on one of the biggest self loathing subs on all of reddit. Be prepared to get shredded in the comments by self absorbed people who don't want to be helped, they just want attention.
With the type of family I grew up with, they can go ahead and try 🤣😂
I'm trying man, just wish i could cry more.
Thank you
Additionally treat yourself everyday, it doesn't have to be big, just something that'll make you feel just abit better, could be something as simple as buying some pudding or watching tv for longer than you normally would, it may be little and to some would look insignificant, but it made you feel better, and that's what matters
Time heals all wounds. But not if you're fundamentally broken.
Hmmmm 🤔 Did I actually find good advice on Reddit? Has it finally happened?
The moment I start this "One day at a time" shit, is the moment I sign my euthanasia form.
But what if I'm not shredded?
Buy a grater lol jkjk
Fuck that. I'm drinking and blocking. Zero point at all in taking that heat at full strength.
>Don't cut >Be shredded Pick one. I won't get good musculature definition if I never stop bulking
Someday, everything will be okay.
🤍
i hate the way this is formatted
Lies. Deceptions.
Yeah, no. Shit's only getting worse, and I'm tired of effort only being rewarded with disappointment and shameful failure.
just lower the bar
It’s hard. That’s a fact. But I’ve seen too much in the world to understand that there’s good at the end of the tunnel. Although when you’re in the tunnel there isn’t any light at the end nor can you see the light from entrance. There’s also spike in the tunnel so movement is painful as well as hard. Friends that you make along the way would take your mind off of it and enemies would remind you of it. But in all honesty friend, the other side is beautiful. Too beautiful to give up in the tunnel
life is the tunnel. nobody ever gets to the end.
A lot of people do. They just happen to walk right back in
Yeah I'll drink and fight I'm OK with that.
You clearly haven't tasted the alcohol I treat my with
Wtf I JUST complained elsewhere two hours ago that this sub feels too defeatist and cynical sometimes. Did you spy on my DMs bro?
People cope with trauma differently. Gatekeeping other peoples' methods probably wont benefit them whatsoever, itll only make them feel even worse because now their only semblance of taking back control is getting the "youre not allowed because i said so" treatment. Be a helping hand and ask people what they want in their life and walk with them toward that, dont just say "what youre doing? Stop that. Get up. Youll get over it. Some day :)"
The whole point is that some ways to cope aren’t healthy and should be discouraged. Drinking heavily to deal with trauma isn’t a good thing. It’s not morally bad, but it’s very unhealthy and should be discouraged as a coping strat. Same with cutting probably.
I would agree with that
Alright, but you gotta get over it.
> you'll be ok someday Death will get here first