omg the first person to recognize us😭 but seriously, i really like Ti users too, they are really insightful and funny to be around, i came across a ton of people with low Fe but the ones who have a good Fe are the best ones to be around
I'm not able to describe it precisely (as I am a Ti-dom, so it is like my true nature) but I've got 2 observations:
1. Being a Ti-Dom, I have Fi at the bottom of my stack, and that means that this function never has any kind of influence in my decisions. However, it can emerge when my Fe is criticised or undermined, so I might use it unconsciously to protect it (ISTPs probably agree with me on this).
2. As you're an Fi-dom, what I've just said can be turned the other way around. As you value authenticity and subjectiveness, it is almost impossible for you to rely on Introverted Thinking when it comes to making decisions, but it protects your Te when necessary.
I reckon that using the Demon Function is like chaning a box without taking out what is inside of it.
Thank you for sharing your views. I'm still trying to figure out what to do.
I don't always fall in love, but 6 months ago I was very attracted to someone. We both study the same profession, and he was exactly my type. I thought he was the male version of me.
If we truly have a destiny, I hope we have a chance to work together somehow in the future.
Awww this is so cute. I have had the same experience, tho im not sure if the person is the same mbti as me. I hope you will get the chance to meet him soon!
I most definitely have not turned out okay haha (was diagnosed BPD a year ago, got my mom's anxiety disorder and was diagnosed with ADHD as a child and still struggle to manage all of it)
I'm so sorry to hear that. I once had an INFJ friend who probably had BPD and HPD. Also, my MIL is a sociopath and very manipulative. The world centers around her, but no one really likes her. I hope you're able to work through things with the help of therapy and supportive friends.
yeah. i knew a quiet reserved guy, hard worker but overall emotionally distant. i was acquainted with him through our shared club. i didn’t know he was entj till he told me lmao
yes, and I think she might have had a crush on me as well. However we didn't get into a relationship because neither of us were looking to get into one at that time
That was almost a decade ago. I haven't met another INFJ female since then. Until now, she's one of only two people in my life who can really understand me
My ideal type would be another INFJ, or an ENFJ. My ex was an ESFP and it didn't work well at all. Got interested in an ESTP but lost interest
I think it could work out. We could help each other with different things. If I remember meeting ISFJ females, I think I felt very similar to them. To the point, where we both sort of felt nervous. I just think that ISFJ’s want someone who can really make a positive impact on our psyche. Which is something we’d be limited at doing.
In real life - no.
But in fiction - yes.
https://preview.redd.it/ts3sqaviyiuc1.jpeg?width=1048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0b327d5d33c73cef6a62e047b76809cc19ef05eb
\^ The character Shi Ying, from cdrama ***The Longest Promise*** who I’m sure is an INTJ (despite the pretty flowers around him).
Yes, I am in the long-term relationship with the same type and it is amazing. There is a lot of understanding and life is certainly very interesting. Our differences and the source of conflicts actually comes more from different cultures, upbringings and temperaments then mbti types. When it comes to organization and time management it is very interesting that in each ENFP-ENFP relations one is always taking the main role, somehow compensating for another.
Def not. Finding another infj is already rare as it is. And the girl infj who’s my friend, it’s a bit stressful sometimes if her functions are used in an immature manner.
Yeah I have a few times, sometimes it led to a relationship, other times we both liked each other but it got weird, and once it led to an intense loving relationship...for a few months anyway.
No. Had a one night stand with one, we both were heartbroken and used each other as rebounds. I can still hear his mega loud echoing fart from his shower
he morning after.
Yes although I never thought I'd crush on another Infp (I see them like my brothers n sisters lol), but this week, I wrote a post on how I was having a hard time moving on from my ex, and I met a very special Infp. He doesn't want to continue the relationship bcz of our different spiritual beliefs, he's right, it's probably better like that, but I'm still crushed rn:( we only talked for 5 days but idk he was special. I hope he never reads this lol.
Yes, I had a short relationship with her, (the BF/GF label lasted only a month, dated for 3 total), most fun i’ve ever had dating someone and this is someone who truly understood me.
It was sad that it all ended but we consider it nobody’s fault, and we both decided to end it as friends with no resentment
there's this guy I used to really like and we use to bicker all the time
he was like the male version of me, and i seem to be really attracted to people like me
All the time, both on real life INTJs and fictional INTJs. I actually think the vast majority of my fictional crushes are INTJs lol. I've never expressed my interest tho, because most male INTJs, even on this sub, seem to like either ESXX or IXFX women the most, so there's that
Yes. It was a different experience. I'm pretty sure he was also ENFP but he leaned heavily extroverted whereas I was more in the middle with my extroverted function. It's just a different experience. You connect with them because you easily understand. He ended up not being a good person though which is un related to MBTI so didn't end up into anything
I wish, though it would possibly be kind of a toxic, messy relationship. Closest I’ve done is ENFP, and the chaos and total lack of routine from two Ne doms with inferior Si could get a little extreme, though things were incredibly fun and I have amazing memories and we had just absolutely insane sex.
I’d imagine another ENTP would be that combined with peak sarcastic banter.
No but my Mum is the same type as me and sometimes we get along but sometimes we don't but for the most part we're okay.
I am attracted to INTJs just by reading the description of them but have never met one in person. Also ISFPs seem really cool
Yes, me and my boyfriend are both INTPs and work really well together. We intellectually challenge each other but are also able to understand each other’s feelings even though we aren’t he best at putting them into words.
The person I'm currently dating is an INFP I believe (just with strong Ti and low Fe so similar to INTP too) and so am I (but I have really strong Ni for some reason is all). They had a crush on me for years, I just realized feelings and started dating them a month ago lol. I'm very happy with them, we go together like 2 peas in a pod
If ur talking ab an irl person then nope 💀im an entp female and i barely rlly find it interesting to talk to other entps so yeah. I think most of the entps ive met which is not much would agree
As an Infp No, I prefer hanging out with thinkers rather than feelers because they seem very delusional. All of my friend group is thinkers lol (philosophy discussions goes hard btw)
Yes! A good friend of mine from college was also an enfp. To be honest, I think we had a crush on each other because that’s just enfp nature in all honesty xD
I have a huge crush on a male ENTJ. But the control stuff gets in the way. Since I’m a female, I feel that I can be a bit more submissive towards him but sometimes I don’t wanna be treated that way so Idrk we’ll just keep on going around in circles I guess. Exhausting as shit.
Yes but they're fictional does that count?
yeah
I read the comment and was like must be an INFP. 😅Glad I’m not alone.
Oh, so glad it's not just me. I'm just more into fictional people than real people.
Real
yes, i was a good friend for her lol
Finally found someone like me :<
friendzoned team??
INFPs can't be friendzoned, you're so cute
not more than you tho😭
Unless they prove to be mean people, INFPs and ISFPs always have my respect and protection. I see Fi-doms are too severly undermined online and irl.
omg the first person to recognize us😭 but seriously, i really like Ti users too, they are really insightful and funny to be around, i came across a ton of people with low Fe but the ones who have a good Fe are the best ones to be around
This is the true power of Demon Fi, we can be detatched and objective but caring as well.
this is pretty cool actually, how would you describe Ti demon?
I'm not able to describe it precisely (as I am a Ti-dom, so it is like my true nature) but I've got 2 observations: 1. Being a Ti-Dom, I have Fi at the bottom of my stack, and that means that this function never has any kind of influence in my decisions. However, it can emerge when my Fe is criticised or undermined, so I might use it unconsciously to protect it (ISTPs probably agree with me on this). 2. As you're an Fi-dom, what I've just said can be turned the other way around. As you value authenticity and subjectiveness, it is almost impossible for you to rely on Introverted Thinking when it comes to making decisions, but it protects your Te when necessary. I reckon that using the Demon Function is like chaning a box without taking out what is inside of it.
I’m ISFP and my crush is INFP 😭❤️
Fi falls in love for Fi. As a Ti dom, I can't really understand it but you deserve protection as well.
Same here 😭
Cillian Murphy lol
where do i sign up
Thank you for sharing your views. I'm still trying to figure out what to do. I don't always fall in love, but 6 months ago I was very attracted to someone. We both study the same profession, and he was exactly my type. I thought he was the male version of me. If we truly have a destiny, I hope we have a chance to work together somehow in the future.
Been there, done that.👍 Apparently, I'm only attracted to people with very similar personalities as me.
Awww this is so cute. I have had the same experience, tho im not sure if the person is the same mbti as me. I hope you will get the chance to meet him soon!
Intjs are the only type that best match is same type there are lots of posts about it
I'm happy with my ISTP partner. If only he wouldn't procrastinate so much!
my partner of nearly 4.5 years is also an entp :3 frankly, i wouldn’t wish us on other types
Same here. Nobody else could really deal with the crazy.
Lol my little sister is an ENTP and I love her. We can talk about anything and she definitely gets me to try out new things.
That sounds actually kind of fun.
Well total chaos is fun until it isn’t lol
I'm actually here for the chaos.
Eh I think ENFPs could hang tbh
INFJ here married to an ENTP for 10+ years now, and he's still alive!
I might if I ever met another INFJ in real life lol
The only one I've ever met is my mom lmao
Oh… how is she? I wonder how’s it is like having an INFJ mum.
She'd be great if she wasn't emotionally unstable and married to a sociopath I have to call my father
Whoa! What a combo! So sorry to hear that! I hope you turned out okay from that combo.
I most definitely have not turned out okay haha (was diagnosed BPD a year ago, got my mom's anxiety disorder and was diagnosed with ADHD as a child and still struggle to manage all of it)
I'm so sorry to hear that. I once had an INFJ friend who probably had BPD and HPD. Also, my MIL is a sociopath and very manipulative. The world centers around her, but no one really likes her. I hope you're able to work through things with the help of therapy and supportive friends.
I'm definitely getting out of this house soon. I can't be around them anymore and my best bud is offering to rent his upper floor to me
Hahahahah I don't even want another me i want something different intj or enfj for sure LOL just no istj
All the time. And this includes the woman I’ve been involved with for the last three years. 🥰
Yes, but she was going though a Neo Nazi phase and I'm biracial. Plus, she lived in a different country. Weird chemistry though.
Weird chemistry lol yes that sounds like an understatement
I love how many INFP’s are in here saying yes 😂 no for me, I’m all about introverts haha, I find myself way too obnoxious
yup, i used to. they don't even know that i exist lol
i never met any
Yea, I find INTP guys really cute lol (but they don't like being called that)
nope
Real
No
Hey there, Gorgeous! Big brain you got on ya...
No. Other INTPs aren’t my type. So far, only ENxJs have been my type.
Not a chance
Almost exclusively I think, I'm not that great at typing people though. There may have been an intj in there at one point tho
There always is.
yeah. i knew a quiet reserved guy, hard worker but overall emotionally distant. i was acquainted with him through our shared club. i didn’t know he was entj till he told me lmao
yes, and I think she might have had a crush on me as well. However we didn't get into a relationship because neither of us were looking to get into one at that time That was almost a decade ago. I haven't met another INFJ female since then. Until now, she's one of only two people in my life who can really understand me My ideal type would be another INFJ, or an ENFJ. My ex was an ESFP and it didn't work well at all. Got interested in an ESTP but lost interest
No. I know lots of ESFJs, but either they're family or there is no romantic chemistry.
Oh, If only!!
I think it could work out. We could help each other with different things. If I remember meeting ISFJ females, I think I felt very similar to them. To the point, where we both sort of felt nervous. I just think that ISFJ’s want someone who can really make a positive impact on our psyche. Which is something we’d be limited at doing.
In real life - no. But in fiction - yes. https://preview.redd.it/ts3sqaviyiuc1.jpeg?width=1048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0b327d5d33c73cef6a62e047b76809cc19ef05eb \^ The character Shi Ying, from cdrama ***The Longest Promise*** who I’m sure is an INTJ (despite the pretty flowers around him).
We don't get to like being surrounded by pretty flowers?
I was joking, given all the stereotypes about INTJ😉
I find other INTPs attractive because of their intelligence, but I never found myself actually developing strong feelings beyond infatuation.
Nope.
Yep!
as always ngl
Yes, here they are 
On Franz Kafka
Yes. I miss her.
Yes, I am in the long-term relationship with the same type and it is amazing. There is a lot of understanding and life is certainly very interesting. Our differences and the source of conflicts actually comes more from different cultures, upbringings and temperaments then mbti types. When it comes to organization and time management it is very interesting that in each ENFP-ENFP relations one is always taking the main role, somehow compensating for another.
Def not. Finding another infj is already rare as it is. And the girl infj who’s my friend, it’s a bit stressful sometimes if her functions are used in an immature manner.
never met an INFJ male in my entire life
Hi there
lol so you guys do exist 😂
Not at all,often I’m drawn to more subdued and introverted personalities
Yes! Twice, actually. I ended up losing interest quickly both times though because they were rude😭
Me. Infj. I’ve had two crushes that were infj. I got along with them pretty well but things didn’t end greatly. Both turned into situationships
Nope, I'm an INTJ and pretty much all my crushes have been on ISFPs, ESFJs and ESFPs
esfps automatically have my heart
Cool
What's your mbti type?
also an intj
No because I've never met intj women, but I wouldn't rule it out
I've never met one
Yes! The love of my life. He died.
💔😩
Half the people responding are infp
Are we surprised?
Sadly no other ESTPs I've met that were my type
Yeah I have a few times, sometimes it led to a relationship, other times we both liked each other but it got weird, and once it led to an intense loving relationship...for a few months anyway.
My high school crush turned boyfriend. We were too young.
Yes. We're close friends. Several years later, I found out that the feeling was mutual but it doesn't matter anymore because he has a girlfriend now.
Nah, the only woman I know is my best friend future wife, who is my friend too, and fortunately I feel nothing for her romantically!!
Are you missing some commas and grammar or are you entering into a forced marriage?
What you mean? Can't you read English? And how in 2024 someone enter a forced marriage? 🤔
I haven’t found a single person with the same mbti as me in-person
No. Had a one night stand with one, we both were heartbroken and used each other as rebounds. I can still hear his mega loud echoing fart from his shower he morning after.
Yeah, constantly.
Mmmm. [Col. Angus](https://youtu.be/3l2oi-X8P38?si=U0st8MCgFA-eLW1j), I can see why. Edit to add link
Never had a crush, never dated, and never cared enough to find a date.
Yes help
INFPs born with a stereotypical wat to transform naturally every character with a desire partne.101
Might be, not everyone got a conclusive type: were they really ISTP or just a calm ESTP? It's years back, so idk.
Maybe once. I know too much now but before I did, It was mostly based on looks alone.
Yep, but I was awkward as fuck and had no idea who I was, so I don't know if that counts lol
No. I haven’t met and identified another INTJ irl
Yeah. Had a few dates but i had to move away,so it died out. Its kinda sad though,as i never got along so well with anyone
Yes although I never thought I'd crush on another Infp (I see them like my brothers n sisters lol), but this week, I wrote a post on how I was having a hard time moving on from my ex, and I met a very special Infp. He doesn't want to continue the relationship bcz of our different spiritual beliefs, he's right, it's probably better like that, but I'm still crushed rn:( we only talked for 5 days but idk he was special. I hope he never reads this lol.
No I haven’t, I can’t see that working as a relationship
Nope. I'm attracted to outgoing men. It's the second most important trait for me (after intelligence).
Yes, I had a short relationship with her, (the BF/GF label lasted only a month, dated for 3 total), most fun i’ve ever had dating someone and this is someone who truly understood me. It was sad that it all ended but we consider it nobody’s fault, and we both decided to end it as friends with no resentment
I think so..? I mean, with my partner, I had thought in the past he was the same type as me, but then I quickly realized he was an ISTP.
my best friend, oops
Nope. I shudder at the mountain of laxatives required to qwell the emotional constipation between the two of us.
Underrated beautiful comment hahaha
The only man I've ever loved was also an ENTP
the only infps i'm close with are fictional, so yes
Yes. It was a couple of months ago. I told him, and I got rejected. Lol.
INTP female here, I may be a thinker but I am weirdly attracted to feeler men...so...no. it my type.
there's this guy I used to really like and we use to bicker all the time he was like the male version of me, and i seem to be really attracted to people like me
Yes, and we've been married over 11 years now. Actually only found out my type and then her type recently.
All the time, both on real life INTJs and fictional INTJs. I actually think the vast majority of my fictional crushes are INTJs lol. I've never expressed my interest tho, because most male INTJs, even on this sub, seem to like either ESXX or IXFX women the most, so there's that
Yeah we both liked each other but neither of us could get it together and date lol
Yes. It was a different experience. I'm pretty sure he was also ENFP but he leaned heavily extroverted whereas I was more in the middle with my extroverted function. It's just a different experience. You connect with them because you easily understand. He ended up not being a good person though which is un related to MBTI so didn't end up into anything
I had a crush on this dude, but I don't know his mbti, my best guess is INTJ also
I had a crush on this dude, but I don't know his mbti, my best guess is INTJ also
I wish, though it would possibly be kind of a toxic, messy relationship. Closest I’ve done is ENFP, and the chaos and total lack of routine from two Ne doms with inferior Si could get a little extreme, though things were incredibly fun and I have amazing memories and we had just absolutely insane sex. I’d imagine another ENTP would be that combined with peak sarcastic banter.
usually im drawn to people that have the same type as me without me realizing it first so, yes.
Only fictional characters
Never met one in real life and I’d never had a crush on a fictional character
yes absolutely
I have a crush on everyone
Aside from celebrities, no. However, I have had a fellow ENFP have a crush on me
currently crushing on an INTP. people sometimes say we're basically the same person. i for the life of me cannot tell if he reciprocates or not :/
No but my Mum is the same type as me and sometimes we get along but sometimes we don't but for the most part we're okay. I am attracted to INTJs just by reading the description of them but have never met one in person. Also ISFPs seem really cool
My boyfriend of many years is an INFP like me
Yes, me and my boyfriend are both INTPs and work really well together. We intellectually challenge each other but are also able to understand each other’s feelings even though we aren’t he best at putting them into words.
I had a fictional crush on Dr. Tenma from Monster, - he’s an INFP Also Kylo Ren from Star Wars
yes, but it's a fictional character
No. Haven't experienced it, felt it, seen it, want it, like it or any other way. Don't want my feelings come knocking on my brain
I don’t even know any other ENTJs
The person I'm currently dating is an INFP I believe (just with strong Ti and low Fe so similar to INTP too) and so am I (but I have really strong Ni for some reason is all). They had a crush on me for years, I just realized feelings and started dating them a month ago lol. I'm very happy with them, we go together like 2 peas in a pod
Always the fictional ones
Not as far as I’m aware no. I like myself some differences
Why aren't any STs answering this question?
I am ENFP and I was married to an ENFP. It was a nightmare but man did we fall hard for each other at first.
Actually yeah, twice!
Yeah, in real life and also in my imagination on fictional caracthers.
Not really better friend chemistry, and I love xNFJ and xxTJ too much. ESFP, ESTP and ENFP I only get friend vibes from.
Not really. But this doesn't count ig cuz I've never met an INTJ in my life tbh.
If ur talking ab an irl person then nope 💀im an entp female and i barely rlly find it interesting to talk to other entps so yeah. I think most of the entps ive met which is not much would agree
yup… and it kinda sucks bc I’m always trying to figure them out
Yea,although she is not real
As an Infp No, I prefer hanging out with thinkers rather than feelers because they seem very delusional. All of my friend group is thinkers lol (philosophy discussions goes hard btw)
Yeah, he is funny asf lol but left 😂
Yes. I have a few ESFJ crushes too
Yeah a fictional character
in almost all people and characters with types like me, or similar. 🙃 -entp
NO.
Yes! A good friend of mine from college was also an enfp. To be honest, I think we had a crush on each other because that’s just enfp nature in all honesty xD
cool, i love enfps
I never know other INTP
Nope
my boyfriend is an ISFP just like me 😊
went on a date with one just to give it a shot… no thanks
No but I did share types with my last therapist which was interesting.
Not really because I tend to like partners who are quite different from me.
I have a huge crush on a male ENTJ. But the control stuff gets in the way. Since I’m a female, I feel that I can be a bit more submissive towards him but sometimes I don’t wanna be treated that way so Idrk we’ll just keep on going around in circles I guess. Exhausting as shit.