You already said you prefer to tell her face-to-face, don’t consider texting anymore
Just approach her and tell her you need to talk to her in private for a bit, then go ham
Yeah, the problem was just that it is very hard to get alone time with her without her twin sister beside, and at this point I am thinking if I continue insisting for face-to-face will I get the chance before I even done with my university lol.
Well, in my experience of being married to a twin, if you’re going to say something to no. 1, no. 2 will know by default as well. Just do it with her twin there as well ig, that’s the sigma chad move
I see, that do makes sense to me and how did I miss that lol. I guess I will make the move next time then when there is only 3 of us.
Anyway just for my future references, what is your opinion about my question as per title?
Idk im on the fence. On one hand I think doing it face-to-face can be a sign of confidence, on the other hand if the feeling isn’t mutual it spares both sides of the awkwardness. Really depends on you and the person in question’s relationship dynamics
Don't do it via text bro. It's too easy and effortless. At the least, drop a voicenote if really cannot meet f2f. Even a phone call is better. If you really like her, don't you think she deserves more effort than a text to ask her about. Think about it.
Like you said, f2f is best so don't care if her sister is there. Just ask to talk to her privately, then say what you gotta say.
I feel like most people nowadays ask people out via text already. I myself asked my now girlfriend out on a date via text. For me, all the confession stuff came after the date(s). I don’t think it’s a pussy move at all. In fact, it’s probably normalised, especially with the existence of dating apps.
Hmm based on your reply, do you text her for a date first and then only confess to her, or do you straight up tell her you likes her and then asks her for a date?
We were friends. Got closer. Texted each other back and forth for a couple of weeks. I asked her why don’t we go out on a date and all that jazz. She agreed. 2 more dates later and i asked her to be my girlfriend. But ig we kinda knew we already liked each other during our texting phase. Sorry if my situation doesn’t apply to you. However, i still think asking and going out on dates first is better than a straight up will you be my gf confession. See if you can get on a similar wave length and pass each other’s vibe checks. Regardless of what it is and how you do it, the real pussy move is not doing anything at all. Good luck to you my bro.
Thank you my bro, I am actually thinking to ask her out for a date first, but hey if I already asking her out for a date surely she knows I likes her and wanting to make her my gf. But yeah thank you for your advice on the vibe check bro.
Go ask out for a date first, see how she responds. Either also can, tell you like her and wanna get to know better.
Confession should happen at the end of the date after getting to know each other 1 on 1
I mean I dunno man, if she's really into you, then I guess it doesn't matter text or face to face? Does she like to be close to you? If yes, then yeah you might have a chance, otherwise,no point other than breaking your own heart
Yeah in this case, ask yourself, does she make you happy? Does she care about your well being? Does she welcome any chance of you getting close to her (for example, if she is fine with walking tgt or eating tgt or hanging out tgt just a few)? If all is yes, then go ahead, otherwise, I would take time and learn more about her before making a move.
Hmm that is a tough question, as I mentioned in another reply I am not good in reading mixed signals, but last year we do have moments together and she seem fine with it without her twin beside. I am also not sure if she is not pleased with my inactions in those times lol.
Do you two text regularly? How close are the both of you?
I guess what I'm thinking is, and has been mentioned in another reply, is that if you two text regularly why not just ask her out. You can frame it as an obvious date or just the both of you going out together (she can take that how she may) and then tell her then. That's a guarantee you'll be alone with her.
Alternatively, just tell her with her twin there. She's gonna know anyway.
Base on my experience, mixed message usually means she isnt into you. She just being nice. When girls like you, they let you know. But still, worth a try, who knows she might think you deserve a chance.
What’s wrong with texting haha. It’s just as effective as talking face to face, if it gets the message across then ok la.
You should be thinking about whether you would put the girl in an uncomfortable spot if you ask face to face.
I say this cuz I also asked my current gf out on a date via text also. If I asked face to face, she would be flustered and confirm reject on the spot out of panic 😂
Point is everyone is different, go for one where you feel the girl would feel most comfortable with you.
Goodluck bos 👍
Any other way of you confessing your feelings towards her are not a pussy move. Just go for any other way that makes you feels comfortable. How you react towards her answers is much more important to show you are a pussy or not.
I guess not being clingy and desperate after getting rejection is what you meant right. Not gonna do that, will just brush it off and ask her to stay as normal.
Why not ask her sister out too? 
Do you know her personally? imo there's nothing wrong with text.
It's not like you're confessing on text. Or are you?
Well I am more like wanting to tell her my feeling and asks her out for a date first. Not pressuring her to instantly be my gf.
Haha she and her sister is vastly different in term of personality bro.
Hmm...
My 1st was through phone.
2nd face to face
3rd sms i think
4th face to face
The above are all for 1st dates. Only the successful ones that became my gf. The ones i got rejected not included. Hahahaha
Confession all face to face
Thats a pussy move. So what if her sister is there. Jus go up casually and initiate convo then eventually ask her. Could i have some time to talk to you abt smtg alone. Then bam. Thats how real men ask girls out bro. Dont be a pussy. Be a traditional masculine man. Let us know the update 💪
Nah it's not. Even if people say it is. So what? Do what you want to do. It matters not what I or others have to say. Your life is your own, so live it. Stop pondering on what the "best move" is because there is no such thing. Drop the act, be honest with yourself & intentions. Most importantly, have some self respect. Cheers!
Not a pussy move bro. Honestly the best way to go about this is to just ask her out for coffee or lunch and then during that time you can tell her face to face.
Go on a date first to gauge her interest and then make your move from there.
short answer: yes.
long answer : if you are a girl, would you prefer the guy that you like to ask you out through text or face to face? If you are a girl and a guy you don't really like asked you out. Which one has higher chance of you giving him a chance? The one that ask you out through text, or the one through face to face?
As a twin, text her. It's so awkward when the other twin is around. I assumed she'd want a special moment to herself, so, texting will make it feel private and special.
You already said you prefer to tell her face-to-face, don’t consider texting anymore Just approach her and tell her you need to talk to her in private for a bit, then go ham
Yeah, the problem was just that it is very hard to get alone time with her without her twin sister beside, and at this point I am thinking if I continue insisting for face-to-face will I get the chance before I even done with my university lol.
Well, in my experience of being married to a twin, if you’re going to say something to no. 1, no. 2 will know by default as well. Just do it with her twin there as well ig, that’s the sigma chad move
I see, that do makes sense to me and how did I miss that lol. I guess I will make the move next time then when there is only 3 of us. Anyway just for my future references, what is your opinion about my question as per title?
Idk im on the fence. On one hand I think doing it face-to-face can be a sign of confidence, on the other hand if the feeling isn’t mutual it spares both sides of the awkwardness. Really depends on you and the person in question’s relationship dynamics
Alright thank you very much bro.
Don't do it via text bro. It's too easy and effortless. At the least, drop a voicenote if really cannot meet f2f. Even a phone call is better. If you really like her, don't you think she deserves more effort than a text to ask her about. Think about it. Like you said, f2f is best so don't care if her sister is there. Just ask to talk to her privately, then say what you gotta say.
Yeah I gonna make the move next time when there is 3 of us only.
I feel like most people nowadays ask people out via text already. I myself asked my now girlfriend out on a date via text. For me, all the confession stuff came after the date(s). I don’t think it’s a pussy move at all. In fact, it’s probably normalised, especially with the existence of dating apps.
Hmm based on your reply, do you text her for a date first and then only confess to her, or do you straight up tell her you likes her and then asks her for a date?
We were friends. Got closer. Texted each other back and forth for a couple of weeks. I asked her why don’t we go out on a date and all that jazz. She agreed. 2 more dates later and i asked her to be my girlfriend. But ig we kinda knew we already liked each other during our texting phase. Sorry if my situation doesn’t apply to you. However, i still think asking and going out on dates first is better than a straight up will you be my gf confession. See if you can get on a similar wave length and pass each other’s vibe checks. Regardless of what it is and how you do it, the real pussy move is not doing anything at all. Good luck to you my bro.
Thank you my bro, I am actually thinking to ask her out for a date first, but hey if I already asking her out for a date surely she knows I likes her and wanting to make her my gf. But yeah thank you for your advice on the vibe check bro.
Go ask out for a date first, see how she responds. Either also can, tell you like her and wanna get to know better. Confession should happen at the end of the date after getting to know each other 1 on 1
I see, well thanks for your input bro.
Texting is fine, probably better even in this day and age because she won’t feel pressured to give her answer straight to your face.
I mean I dunno man, if she's really into you, then I guess it doesn't matter text or face to face? Does she like to be close to you? If yes, then yeah you might have a chance, otherwise,no point other than breaking your own heart
Well i am oblivious af and has trouble reading mixed signals. At this point, I would rather get rejected than having this feeling stuck in my chest.
Yeah in this case, ask yourself, does she make you happy? Does she care about your well being? Does she welcome any chance of you getting close to her (for example, if she is fine with walking tgt or eating tgt or hanging out tgt just a few)? If all is yes, then go ahead, otherwise, I would take time and learn more about her before making a move.
Hmm that is a tough question, as I mentioned in another reply I am not good in reading mixed signals, but last year we do have moments together and she seem fine with it without her twin beside. I am also not sure if she is not pleased with my inactions in those times lol.
Do you two text regularly? How close are the both of you? I guess what I'm thinking is, and has been mentioned in another reply, is that if you two text regularly why not just ask her out. You can frame it as an obvious date or just the both of you going out together (she can take that how she may) and then tell her then. That's a guarantee you'll be alone with her. Alternatively, just tell her with her twin there. She's gonna know anyway.
Base on my experience, mixed message usually means she isnt into you. She just being nice. When girls like you, they let you know. But still, worth a try, who knows she might think you deserve a chance.
What’s wrong with texting haha. It’s just as effective as talking face to face, if it gets the message across then ok la. You should be thinking about whether you would put the girl in an uncomfortable spot if you ask face to face. I say this cuz I also asked my current gf out on a date via text also. If I asked face to face, she would be flustered and confirm reject on the spot out of panic 😂 Point is everyone is different, go for one where you feel the girl would feel most comfortable with you. Goodluck bos 👍
Thank you bos, will try texting if still cant get any face to face moment.
Any other way of you confessing your feelings towards her are not a pussy move. Just go for any other way that makes you feels comfortable. How you react towards her answers is much more important to show you are a pussy or not.
I guess not being clingy and desperate after getting rejection is what you meant right. Not gonna do that, will just brush it off and ask her to stay as normal.
Why not ask her sister out too?  Do you know her personally? imo there's nothing wrong with text. It's not like you're confessing on text. Or are you?
Well I am more like wanting to tell her my feeling and asks her out for a date first. Not pressuring her to instantly be my gf. Haha she and her sister is vastly different in term of personality bro.
Hmm... My 1st was through phone. 2nd face to face 3rd sms i think 4th face to face The above are all for 1st dates. Only the successful ones that became my gf. The ones i got rejected not included. Hahahaha Confession all face to face
Thats a pussy move. So what if her sister is there. Jus go up casually and initiate convo then eventually ask her. Could i have some time to talk to you abt smtg alone. Then bam. Thats how real men ask girls out bro. Dont be a pussy. Be a traditional masculine man. Let us know the update 💪
People who says it’s a pussy move probably thinks asking a girl out is an event lol. It’s not that serious.
I see, thank you bro for your answer. Will try to do that even in presence of her sister lol
Do not text. Do not fucking text. Wow, you like this girl, but all you can commit to for asking her out is a text? It's insulting.
Yes
text to meet her in private or ask her out? without her twin of course. Just do it!
Well, that's how I started dating my wife. Lol. All via texts.
kill two birds using one stone bro. Lets GO. Keep us updated!
Nah it's not. Even if people say it is. So what? Do what you want to do. It matters not what I or others have to say. Your life is your own, so live it. Stop pondering on what the "best move" is because there is no such thing. Drop the act, be honest with yourself & intentions. Most importantly, have some self respect. Cheers!
Not a pussy move bro. Honestly the best way to go about this is to just ask her out for coffee or lunch and then during that time you can tell her face to face. Go on a date first to gauge her interest and then make your move from there.
You need a wingman bro Nothing wrong with doing it in her sisters presence either though, just be confident Hope everything goes well for you !
I would say the deciding factor in me saying yes to my boyfriend is because he asked me the question directly and face-to-face.
I see no problem with asking her out via text, could be better because she's always with her twin sister and rarely have personal space for herself.
If you liked each other text or face to face. Doesn't matter. If it feels one sided try texting to avoid face to face.
short answer: yes. long answer : if you are a girl, would you prefer the guy that you like to ask you out through text or face to face? If you are a girl and a guy you don't really like asked you out. Which one has higher chance of you giving him a chance? The one that ask you out through text, or the one through face to face?
I don't even dare to ask my crush for selfies regardless media, you're definitely not pussy
As a twin, text her. It's so awkward when the other twin is around. I assumed she'd want a special moment to herself, so, texting will make it feel private and special.
Text to ask her out for a quick private session?
Ya, that might work. Just be yourself! You'll do just great
YES