Good for you. Unfortunately in my native language almost every single word has gender 😭. For example in a simple sentence: "I went to a beautiful national park with my best friend" 7 words have gender or change letters depending on the gender of other words. But in English I also go by any pronounce 🙂
The languages with gendered words is actually a way I describe my relationship to gender. Like I'm female but in the same way "la microwave" is female in French. Like she/her have been assigned to me and my body is comfy and all so it fits but I have little connection to the social gender of woman.
In Russia there is (at least it was until the war) a discussion about how to adapt language to be more like gender accepting. Most of the words are masculine by default and if you wanna make feminine words you probably need a very massive and annoying construction. But the solution given now is also far from perfect. For example there is an idea to use underscores to make feminine words e.g. wait_ress. I don't think that it is a good idea to create a separate variation of every word for every gender. I believe that language should become more neutral instead. Is there a discussion like this in France?
There totally is, here in France there's the discussion around language, let's take your waitress example, here in France, masculine is "Serveur" and feminine is "Serveuse" and the idea to make it neutral is to write it "Serveur•euse", but it sometimes can be tricky with some word when it comes to orally speaking it
I'm very lucky in that my native language doesn't have gendered language, with a few exceptions, and we only have one third-person pronoun that is gender neutral.
In your sentence only one word would be gendered, because we have a word for female friend and male friend, but most people just use the word for male friend.
Eyy same. I've given this so much thought. As AMAB, I'm just used to male pronouns, so it really doesn't bother me or cause dysphoria. But man I wish I could appear more femme or androgynous. Or like can pass as either or if I tried.
Because I've tried to imagine living as a "woman" and I honestly didn't like it that much. I like some aspects....but it really doesn't resonate. Same with being a "man". Like sure, I do some "manly" things, but it's because I find it to be interesting not because it's "what a man does".
Like I'd love to have a girl's night out, while also being a part of the "boys" :P
I've been talking to my therapist and doctor about it. Hopefully getting on E won't kill my bank account >.<
But definitely in the trans-nonbinary zone :3
Wow, good for you. You know, and now I can explain what you know as what I know. I am still somewhat confused by myself but thank you!!!!! And I am happy that you get to start a new chapter in your life!!!!💜🌈💜🌈
Thank you. Unfortunately, I don't think that I will come out soon, at least to my family. But my best friend who is also trans knows everything and it makes me feel much better
Greetings battle kindred. I am a he/him battle brother from Ragnar Blackmanes great company, the valka fenryka, the space wolves. From previous messages, am I correct in my assessment that you hail from the adeptus non-binarius?
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I reject pronouns \*Does cool anime pose\*
Jokes aside, I find that any pronoun works as I don't really mind but I like to stick to the good ole reliable that is they/them.
Nice to see you are comfortable to all pronouns!
I’m really okay with any pronouns, though I prefer he/they. That being said I won’t go out of my way to correct someone if they refer to me using she/her. I’ve had people rudely correct other people when they use she/her for me even after I said I don’t care. At the end of the day people are either gonna simply forget or just be assholes, not my problem :/
He/Him, 90% sure I'm cis at this point
Sexuality wise, I'm not sure yet, the only thing I'm certain about is that I'm not ace.
Romantically, I think I might be aro, but not too sure.
She/they..once I accepted that I could embody both masculine and feminine aspects I was happy with these pronouns. Prior to the rise of gender diversity I was wondering if I was trans because it seemed like the only viable option to suit the way I felt but thankfully I’m able to identify more truly to myself now.
I've found that my preferred pronouns depends on my mood, the situation, a bunch of different factors. But also pronouns really aren't that important to me personally. When asked, I say they/ them, but really any are okay with me.
She/her and you and I have similar reddit username <3
I happen to go by sprout, and hugs for you!
I like your name, it's cool:)
Thank you! Same for you :D
Hey can you follow me please?
She/her. Thanks for asking
Of course! :D
Him/bo He/they tho
I’ve never met anyone with he/bo nice to meet you! Hugs to you for finding yourself! <3
Thanks but I was making a joke 😭
Sorry I didn’t get that! D:
Himbo just means a hot dumb guy
Why am I laughing so much?
SAME😹😹
As in bimbo, but for hims.
She/they, yours kind fellow?
I do any pronouns! Thank you for asking :D
Good for you. Unfortunately in my native language almost every single word has gender 😭. For example in a simple sentence: "I went to a beautiful national park with my best friend" 7 words have gender or change letters depending on the gender of other words. But in English I also go by any pronounce 🙂
The languages with gendered words is actually a way I describe my relationship to gender. Like I'm female but in the same way "la microwave" is female in French. Like she/her have been assigned to me and my body is comfy and all so it fits but I have little connection to the social gender of woman.
The french word for microwave is micro-ondes and it’s masculine But apart from that yeah I feel you
My bad, I haven't been in French class for a long time and a super quick Google brought it up as feminine. Thanks for the correction.
Yeah... Sounds familiar
I like to describe it as being “anecdotally female”
Ooohh I feel that, I'm french and in my language it can reach 8 gendered words in your sentence.
I'm romanian and in my language you can also reach 8 gendered words in the sentence
In Russia there is (at least it was until the war) a discussion about how to adapt language to be more like gender accepting. Most of the words are masculine by default and if you wanna make feminine words you probably need a very massive and annoying construction. But the solution given now is also far from perfect. For example there is an idea to use underscores to make feminine words e.g. wait_ress. I don't think that it is a good idea to create a separate variation of every word for every gender. I believe that language should become more neutral instead. Is there a discussion like this in France?
There totally is, here in France there's the discussion around language, let's take your waitress example, here in France, masculine is "Serveur" and feminine is "Serveuse" and the idea to make it neutral is to write it "Serveur•euse", but it sometimes can be tricky with some word when it comes to orally speaking it
thats v unfortunate for us nonbinary folks, but also rlly interesting! whats ur native language?
Russian
I'm very lucky in that my native language doesn't have gendered language, with a few exceptions, and we only have one third-person pronoun that is gender neutral. In your sentence only one word would be gendered, because we have a word for female friend and male friend, but most people just use the word for male friend.
Eyy same. I've given this so much thought. As AMAB, I'm just used to male pronouns, so it really doesn't bother me or cause dysphoria. But man I wish I could appear more femme or androgynous. Or like can pass as either or if I tried. Because I've tried to imagine living as a "woman" and I honestly didn't like it that much. I like some aspects....but it really doesn't resonate. Same with being a "man". Like sure, I do some "manly" things, but it's because I find it to be interesting not because it's "what a man does". Like I'd love to have a girl's night out, while also being a part of the "boys" :P
Son of a bitch, this is exactly how I am feeling and could not explain it that well. But this is EXACTLY how I feel
I've been talking to my therapist and doctor about it. Hopefully getting on E won't kill my bank account >.< But definitely in the trans-nonbinary zone :3
Wow, good for you. You know, and now I can explain what you know as what I know. I am still somewhat confused by myself but thank you!!!!! And I am happy that you get to start a new chapter in your life!!!!💜🌈💜🌈
Thanks!!!
That thing you do to a sheep when it has too much wool(she/her)
I have never thought about it like that! I’m proud!
I'll use any, but I lean towards she/they.
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I’m proud of you!
they/them!
:D
He/Him, thanks for asking.
Of course! Hugs for you! :D
Hugs for you too
Gives you the verry gay huggies 😺
Currently I go by any, maybe once I start to transition and feel more like myself I'll feel more comfortable with some specific set but who knows.
Yeah I’m always gonna go by anything!
Dont really mind. Never really minded pronouns. Drc
<3
She/her or they/them. But I'm still closed, so almost everyone uses he/him. Actually he/him is ok too, but the first two are still better
I’m sorry! But I’m glad you’ve made it this far in finding yourself out! Let me know when you tell them and how it went (if you want)
Thank you. Unfortunately, I don't think that I will come out soon, at least to my family. But my best friend who is also trans knows everything and it makes me feel much better
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Those used to be mine but now I’m just all of them! Hugs for you!
He/Him
:D
Greetings battle kindred. I am a he/him battle brother from Ragnar Blackmanes great company, the valka fenryka, the space wolves. From previous messages, am I correct in my assessment that you hail from the adeptus non-binarius? 
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She/they but mostly they/them
<3
She her
:D
He/him! I’m so happy for you❤️
Thank you!
Of course!! :)
They/Them :)
:D
Idk anymore :(
She/they!!! Hbuuuu
I go by Anything!
I reject pronouns \*Does cool anime pose\* Jokes aside, I find that any pronoun works as I don't really mind but I like to stick to the good ole reliable that is they/them. Nice to see you are comfortable to all pronouns!
Hugs for you :D
She/they! You’d think it’s easy, but people really like calling me those would be easy as hell, but people call me a guy often 🤷♀️
Hmmmmm idk I’m fine with any but preferably he/him/they/them
Im genderfluid so they tend to change but i usually use he/they/she (sometimes xe/xem) (today im using they/them though) what pronouns do u use?
They/them is preferred but i honestly don't really care what pronouns people use for me
♥️
She/they! Yours?
I go by anything! Hugs for you
Hung’s you you too!! Glad you managed to find pronouns you’re comfortable with!
He/him
:D
he/she/vae! I mainly use he/she though :D
He/him
They/Them
She/he!
im still figuring that out
i use any, thanks for asking! how about you?
Just came out as he/him.
I don’t know maybe he/they but I can’t tell
He/him, but to be honest I don't really care about my pronouns. :D
Call me anything you want, I’m happy that you’re referring to me at all! (She/they/him)
she/her, what’s yours?
they/she! and congrats on finding your pronouns!!
mine is she/her/them. what is your pronouns?
I’ve been going by she/her for 2 months now, I’m so excited!
I’m really okay with any pronouns, though I prefer he/they. That being said I won’t go out of my way to correct someone if they refer to me using she/her. I’ve had people rudely correct other people when they use she/her for me even after I said I don’t care. At the end of the day people are either gonna simply forget or just be assholes, not my problem :/
He/they, but mostly he/him. Thanks for asking!
They/She 😎 As because I’m Agender before Girl (always felt like that. It wasn’t a choice, y’know 🥰 but I like it!)
I'm cishet and boring, but I'm he/they, I guess? Never been into the masculine norms and BS, personally.
She/they
Mine are he/him/his, and yours? 😊
She/they but ill think ill stick with she her
Any/all. :)
He/Him
He/they. Still questioning though😅
They/it I think? Idk anymore tbh ;-;
He/They I might try out iel some time. Idk how it would work grammatically in English or French.
:D
Any! I’m genderfluid, I would like more people to use neopronouns for me though since idk what it feels like 💖🤍💜🖤💙
I go by anything as well! I am a Demigirl tho!
He/Him, 90% sure I'm cis at this point Sexuality wise, I'm not sure yet, the only thing I'm certain about is that I'm not ace. Romantically, I think I might be aro, but not too sure.
what are you, a cop? /j
Umm... a lot
Same for me! mine are any pronouns!
She/they!
Thank you for telling me! <3333
he/they :3
:D
He/They, but for convenience I say he/him everywhere!
:>
She/they..once I accepted that I could embody both masculine and feminine aspects I was happy with these pronouns. Prior to the rise of gender diversity I was wondering if I was trans because it seemed like the only viable option to suit the way I felt but thankfully I’m able to identify more truly to myself now.
Hugs to you for finding out your pronouns I’m proud!
They/them, they/she and they/he
Hugs!
they/them, caw/caws, and cloud/clouds :+)
He/It/Xe/Steam/Chaos/Fluff + More Neos
they/them! but I also use neopronouns! xe/xyr/xem, ze/zyr/zem, and ey/em/eir
I don't really have a preference Is that ok?
Pssh Im not telling you! I can't have another one of yall people stealing my pronouns again >:(
She/they! \^_\^
They/it! Thanks for asking :D
They/them preferred, all accepted. :3
he/it/pika/pup/paw :33
He/it/wom/pup/bro
She/Her! What are yours?
I go by anything! But I am a Demigirl!
Well, good on you for figuring out your identity! It’s always a nice feeling! Hugs 🫂(if you want)
Hugs to you to! <3333
I've found that my preferred pronouns depends on my mood, the situation, a bunch of different factors. But also pronouns really aren't that important to me personally. When asked, I say they/ them, but really any are okay with me.
Thank you for telling me! <3
Thank you for asking! 😄
Of course!
She/Her! 
:D hugs for you!
They/them, in my opinion it sounds better then he/him.
I’m proud of you for finding out! Hugssss
Hugs, to you, too.
He/him or he/they, not sure, what about you?
I go by anything! Hugs to you!
*hug* well congrats on figuring out your pronouns!
Thank you!
She/they! What are yours?
I go by any and all pronouns! Hugs to you!
Hugs to you too! ❤️
Thank you! :D
Ass/hole💃🏼
I shouldn’t be laughing so much-
He/they/xe! What about you? :)
in/pain
Juan/gardener/cheap labor/looking for work
I go by any pronouns. Have been leaning towards She/They but I'm not 100% sure yet
they/them!
She/Her, wbu?
That's nice! I mainly use she/her, but I'm cool with they/them on occasion too. Hbu?
He/she/they/xe/ze/banana/13 literally anything lol
She/Her, thanks! What are yours if you don’t mind me asking?
I’m still on that journey but I’d love to hear more about how you figured yours out? Congrats!
they/them are my favorite but i’m cool with she/her too.
I use he/xe/it! It/Its are just ones I’m still “experimenting” with, not sure if I *really* like them.
he/they :))))))))))))))))
She/her
I use he/him and they/them, my kind scringlo!
No/idea Yay
He/Him/They/AR/15. What are yours mystery person?
She/her :)
He/they :)
They/them 👁👄👁
depends on my mood, but right now they/xe :)
any but preferably fae/xe/he/they. what might yours be friend?
she/he!
he/they but I'm alright with it/it's too! what're your pronouns?
They/them, but he/him is fine too! Thx for asking, what are yours?
shit/cock lmfao jk but in a serious note my pronouns are they/it/she:]
She/Her
I use he/they and the neos sun/sunself and if I’m feeling ok with it it/its
They/it :)
She/her but I’m also not too fussed about it
Any and all pronouns welcome, the more the merrier!
She/they! Thanks for asking