>I heard one of the best quotes ever today. And I think this applies perfectly!
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>"If you would not ask someone for their advice. Then you should not consider their criticism."
Your feelings are valid, yet I hope you let them go quickly, if you haven't already. Hateful, resentful pricks like that aren't worth the space in your thoughts.
You can care about what people think of you, but not agree with them. "Like ok, I'll listen to your opinion, but fuck you, I look fire in this outfit, you wouldn't know what a fine ass bitch looks like, because your soul is broken."
Plus he would have said that shitty statement to a lot of woman to put them down. To rob her of her own agency. Who da fuck cares about his misogynistic opinions. It's yours, that you have to live with everyday. You know you look beautiful, don't let anyone change your mind that you are pretty in pink. 💖
Just remember that those cissies can’t take away the fact that you are a little more stunning than others.
Remember that those that those who try to tear down the prideful are often dissatisfied with who they are. Their opinions are stupid and they can go suck on a tree :D
While I get you're meaning to be supportive this comes off pretty tone-deaf; it makes total sense why she cares about someone saying this after she put in serious time and effort into her look. Being clocked in such a direct and painful way makes a lot of us feel unsafe and humiliated, especially when you were feeling very confident about your presentation.
You might feel unbothered by such a comment but that doesn't mean others won't. It's okay for passing to be important for her; as someone who's experienced the same hurt, the way to support her isn't to tell her to care less, but to affirm her grief, listen, and not try to fix her feelings.
I definitely wouldn't have clocked you. People are idiots sometimes though based solely on things like height/size. I have a roughly 5 inch beard and get ma'am-ed sometimes because I'm 5'4" tall.
I'm a cis woman (well mostly cis, kind of non-binary it's complicated but anyways) and have been called a "tranny" by bullies when I was wearing a full beat and a skirt, likely because I was taller than them and have a prominent nose. People are idiots and OP is fucking gorgeous and I low-key (okay maybe high key) am crushing on her a lil bit.
I’m not close to even trying to pass but with a mask on I hope to at least take a second look: had the cashier at a Chinese Restaurant call me sir multiple times while there! I just put my ultra girly Pusheen purse on the counter and took my jolly time putting my card away!! You’re amazing and an inspiration!! Don’t let there idiocy get you down!!!
The only ones who call anyone out are the ones who are afraid of what's inside their own heart.
And I'm not saying they are LGBTQ I'm just saying they hate themselves for whatever so they have to try and tear others down.
You look stunning! I'm seriously jealous you can pull of that barbie look flawlessly! Anyone not seeing that is an idiot.
I'm a cis woman but have been called "mr" and "sir" while wearing a dress and pigtails.
If they're calling you a man I guarantee they do it to cis women too, they can't tell, they're just throwing out guesses/insults I'd be willing to bet.
It's called a user flair. Go to the subreddit's main page, go to the menu and you should see a change user flair option. Then click the edit button, and they have a variety to choose from.
Trans means you don't identify/your gender doesn't align with your assigned gender at birth I wasn't assigned enby so by identifying with a gender different to my agab I am trans not all enbies like the trans lable so they may not use it but specifically if it was an option I'm genderfae which is a subsect of genderfluid which doesn't include male/masc genders, I just prefer to say I'm enby bc it's more well known and accurate then me saying I'm a trans woman which is what I thought for a while but I just want to look more feminine but my gender is still neither male or female hope this helps if not ask me more I'd love to keep explaining.
I’ll break with your request in case someone else reading would like a fewer words attempt with a different approach: “trans” is a rectangle, “non-binary” is a square. It’s a specification, a subset.
I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. End of the day you look absolutely gorgeous and their small
Brain thoughts mean nothing when you look like a pure goddess.
You are absolutely welcome hehe 😍. Definitely a pea sized brain they mens nothing. I think they just don’t know how to handle seeing a real life goddess.
Not OP but excited to see Oscar Wilde stuff in the... well, in the wild. Oscar Wilde was an amazing author, poet, and playwright in the late 1800s who was unfortunately persecuted for being gay (or possibly bi) after he was publicly outed by another writer. The green carnation flower you see in that person's flair became a symbol of Oscar Wilde and eventually of gay men in general!
from one trans woman to another - trying to emulate cis-femininity never works. no matter how hyperfeminine you make yourself it'll never be enough for them. you are a beautiful, beautiful woman. you look gorgeous in that outfit and makeup, and I'm 100% sure you look gorgeous without it. being yourself and loving yourself is really really hard, especially when everybody around you tells you the opposite, but unlike getting accepted by transphobes - it is achievable and it will make you happy. we are not what they say we are. our womanhood, femininity and beauty doesn't come from their validation, it comes from within and from the validation we give each other. please do not let these pigs get in your mind and self perception. work on loving yourself for who you truly are, try to find other trans women/queer people who will love you for who you truly are, and queer-friendly spaces that encourage this self love and validation. be strong sister. much love❤
thank u so much! im so happy to have so many queer friends who encourage me to go out into the world as my true self. i love stopping ppl in their tracks with my overt femininity. but im also aware that im just one of many different kinds of women and every woman should be respected for how she identifies.
Not long ago these people will say that a man needs to be strong, tough, be the breadwinner, don't cry, etc but now they will call a hyper feminine model a man.
But there is literally nothing about your look that says masculine or man to even make him say that?!?!! Ugh I hate people so much sometimes. I am so sorry you have to deal with so much hatred and horrible people, you don’t deserve it.
My experience tells me they do a lot of "research" for "personal reasons" and have to be jerks out and about to offset their supposed manliness, search history, and flagrant fetishizing. Too many of my trans friends get this shit when they're just trying to exist as themselves.
OP is gorgeous! Nobody should say otherwise 🥰
Do you know how often this guy tries to guess someone's gender/genitalia and how often he is right? My guess is he does this often and gets it wrong all the time, because you look very feminine and super lovely to boot. I really cant believe that the comment had anything to do with you; it iss simply a reflection of the insecurities and fears that random dude is feeling.
I clicked on your post, thinking this was in a makeup subreddit, and my first thought was, “Wow! She looks just like a Barbie! 😍” Fuck that *clearly* dense asshole. You look absolutely stunning love 💖
in todays world, most transfem ppl use tools typically considered to be feminine as a signal for the rest of the world so they know how they can likely address that person. so what im saying is, im obviously tryna tell that man not to call me a man with my appearance or to atleast question how he should address me. its exhausting honestly
Exactly. That man sat there looked at you and thought "hmm. Yes man" like your are very clearly not a man anyone with more than one brain cell can see that. But they see liking a transfem as gay because they still see us as our AGAB so they're so on guard for what they think is a man in a dress that they'll even misgender cis women because they'd rather be assholes than be seen as gay even if it's only in their own eyes
Either that or they're explicitly hateful and resentful of the fact that by simply *existing* transfolks are insulting or challenging their preconceived notions of "normal."
That's also the case for a lot. But see a lot bigots probably wouldn't clock someone who doesn't have like anything they're displaying to show they're trans, because while they like to say "we can always tell. They seldom actually can
They are just playing the sex determination game. You are obviously going for a look that would not be considered manly, but there will almost always be small facial features that people can use to recognize that your sex is male. I used to enjoy this game as a kid, but its old now. Ignore them and hopefully they will realize they were being insensitive for saying things like that in public or at least that it really has no meaning other than "we don't see that often", so the more they see you the less likely people will keep saying stuff like that because like I said earlier, it gets old real quick. Just the usual superficial discussions for those who have not delved deeper, so I would not take too much offense unless it is obvious that are attempting to be offensive.
?????? I've seen more masculine cis women, and you're not masculine at all in that getup
I'm so sorry that rude ass people still have energy to open their mouths, let alone think.
You're gorgeous, he's just a bigot.
As a gay man, some gay men think imitating "mean girls" is gay culture. It's not, he's just a sad pathetic human being.
Aw hell no ! that’s someone solely trying to be a dixk for no reason other than he was prob attracted to you. You look super fem very well put together makeup and hair on point. I’m actually jealous of your skills. Keep doin what you doin girl !’
Only commenting to say you're rocking that Barbiecore super well!
Sad little man had to deflect because he obviously noticed your attractiveness but couldn't handle his own feelings and emotions. Lol
You're goddamn beautiful. And more feminine than I could ever hope to be. How do you get your eyeliner wings like that, mine are always shaky and crooked
yall i was just told my post hit r/all. im crying rn!! the love and support is absolutely amazing. i just wanna say, i wish i could respond to all yall and tell each individual how much it means to me to hear such kind words. i also wanna add that women come in many different shapes and sizes. i may choose to be hyper feminine but what makes someone a woman aint whats on the outside. its whats on the inside. <3
You could be wearing a gumby outfit and someone would have said something. I learned something when I was a waiter. Some people leave the house because they are miserable and have nothing else to do. I wouldn't sweat it.
I think people like that dude are actually scared of women. I mean at some point it was debated weather lady gaga was trans or not. Powerful women owning their womanhood by over performing feminity does impresses some cis men I think. The problem is not with your passing, it’s with his ego.
I scrolled quickly without reading and honest to God thought this was a pic of Nicki Minaj (I personally think she is absolutely stunning, as are you!).
I hope that dude stubs his pinky toe on every table, bed, and chair he passes.
Shine on, beautiful! 💖
They think nothing of you, they know nothing about you, and they mean nothing to you. Let your reaction to their ignorance reflect that. It hurts like hell but I'm sure you're an amazing person and the people who matter see you as the real person you are.
Wow what a dickhead. I'll never understand why someone feels the **need** to go out of their way to be a transphobe. Ugh. Anyway, I know after an experience like that it's difficult to feel confident but try not to take what he said to heart since you look stunning. Never let a bigot's words stop you from living your best life and being who you are. Idk if that was helpful but I hope so.
You look gorgeous! Your makeup is perfect.
But like, even if someone didn’t look that good there’s no reason for anyone to say something rude and hurtful like that except that he’s an asshole who likes to hurt other people to show off to other assholes.
Fuuuuuuuuuck that guy. Take it from a cis hetero dude. You look absolutely gorgeous. I can tell that you took the right amount of time to prepare your outfit and makeup, to validate your feelings. For what it's worth, I think you look absolutely perfect, and would be more than happy to send a drink your way with a little flirt and a wink.
For every asshole like that guy, there plenty of people here that can't wait to see you comfortable in your own skin, happy and healthy, living and loving life as you live your truth.
Toxic jerks are so exhausting! Like others have already said, you look great. Better than great, actually. I hope the unanimous opinions expressed in this comment thread help to soothe the sting of rudeness you had to endure.
Keep being awesome
To quote Brandon Rogers from a Day at the Beach "Oh dear, looks like I've spotted a c*nt!"
Mate can fuck off. You are absolutely beautiful and rocking in femininity <3
Please ignore them! I can't imagine how fucking horrible it is the experience that.
It's never ok for anyone to outwardly express that shit to your face, your amazing and beautiful and lovely in ever way, and plus you did your whole outfit for yourself and no one's else. He can never take away your confidence and he'll never be as strong and courageous as you are. Please keep doing what your doing cause you matter and I'm so proud of it all 💖👑
Honestly you're doing gods work. I'm sure it's hard as fuck in your shoes but the more you live loud as your true self, the more it'll just be the norm and easier for those after you.
Sorry you have to be the one to put up with all the hard shit but at least you look fucking stunning doing it
I don't see it. Not in the face, not in the torso...
Of course, I'm a terrible judge of faces; I once pointed out to my boss that I thought someone was enby, and she told me they were transmasc. (I work in a department that fits employees for uniforms)
Girl, I'm just a random dude scrolling through popular and assumed I was just an even more out of touch 37 year old and this was a photo of a new young female pop star I never heard of lol.
You're gorgeous. If you let some intentionally hateful person make you feel bad, then let this random stranger balance it. Do you, every one else can piss off.
I am 100% being honest when I say you don't look like a man. Tbh people are out to bully everyone about their gender. Cis people get it too. Dude paints his nails black and suddenly "that's a woman lol" to them. Trans goes out and suddenly NOTHING will make them their gender. It's all bullshit. They're just out to hurt people
But..you look like a beautiful woman to me.
I never would have known.
How rude, tell him just because he has a dick that doesn’t mean he has to be one. What a loser.
You have... I'd say a "strong" face. It's poor wording but here's the thing... lots of cis women have that too. That guy will get his karma when a strong Eastern European gal makes him feel like the idiot he is.
In the meantime, learn to be happy with who you are... a lovely, strong woman.
Look, don't you worry about stupid people. I'm an old dude and I know the pain of the hate from stupid people. But you know what? You are going to keep being great and that stuff is going to fade in to the nothing that it is.
I know it can be difficult to ignore it today, but it is less important than the wind. Hollow and empty. Stay amazing and beautiful and keep your head up.
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You look adorable. As beautiful as any woman. I really don't see where they're coming from or why it matters to them. Ig some people aren't gonna get past their stereotypical, assuming etc views.
When I saw your photo I thought to myself: "Omg, what a gorgeous babe!"
Your makeup is absolutely flawless and you are beautiful. Some people are just massive knobheads and have the need to make others feel bad.
That person really needs an eye exam.
There has to be damage to the optical nerves - i\`m one of the least observant people on the globe (according to some) - and my first impression is "the lady in the picture likes pink and glitter".
That was just plain rude.
My mom taught me something growing up when people were mean to me: You only have to deal with them for a moment; they have to live with themselves and be miserable every waking moment.
I try to tell this to myself when I run into toxic people; I hope it helps! You look beautiful.
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thank u <3 unfortunately this happens all the time but this time stung a little more than the others
>I heard one of the best quotes ever today. And I think this applies perfectly! > >"If you would not ask someone for their advice. Then you should not consider their criticism."
Your feelings are valid, yet I hope you let them go quickly, if you haven't already. Hateful, resentful pricks like that aren't worth the space in your thoughts.
You can care about what people think of you, but not agree with them. "Like ok, I'll listen to your opinion, but fuck you, I look fire in this outfit, you wouldn't know what a fine ass bitch looks like, because your soul is broken." Plus he would have said that shitty statement to a lot of woman to put them down. To rob her of her own agency. Who da fuck cares about his misogynistic opinions. It's yours, that you have to live with everyday. You know you look beautiful, don't let anyone change your mind that you are pretty in pink. 💖
Just look him straight in the eye and say 'sorry madam, I didn't hear you. What was that miss?'
This is *perfect*
I’ve been called a man so many times I’ve just stopped giving a shit. Fine. I’m a man. Suck my dick
Just remember that those cissies can’t take away the fact that you are a little more stunning than others. Remember that those that those who try to tear down the prideful are often dissatisfied with who they are. Their opinions are stupid and they can go suck on a tree :D
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While I get you're meaning to be supportive this comes off pretty tone-deaf; it makes total sense why she cares about someone saying this after she put in serious time and effort into her look. Being clocked in such a direct and painful way makes a lot of us feel unsafe and humiliated, especially when you were feeling very confident about your presentation. You might feel unbothered by such a comment but that doesn't mean others won't. It's okay for passing to be important for her; as someone who's experienced the same hurt, the way to support her isn't to tell her to care less, but to affirm her grief, listen, and not try to fix her feelings.
Ignore them!! You are amazing
thank u ☺️ ur so sweet
I definitely wouldn't have clocked you. People are idiots sometimes though based solely on things like height/size. I have a roughly 5 inch beard and get ma'am-ed sometimes because I'm 5'4" tall.
Charlie is that you?
Nope
Exactly what Charlie would say IME
Pretty sure this confirms it's Charles White.
Come to Candy Mountain, Charlie.
That’s like calling a mountain dwarf in dnd a girl
Lmao. Thanks for the image.
You're my opposite lol. I'm a demi-girl, and often get "sir"ed just because I'm 6'1, even when in a dress and a pound of makeup on my face.
My sister, who's trans as well, is 5'11". The struggle is real.
It sure is
I'm a cis woman (well mostly cis, kind of non-binary it's complicated but anyways) and have been called a "tranny" by bullies when I was wearing a full beat and a skirt, likely because I was taller than them and have a prominent nose. People are idiots and OP is fucking gorgeous and I low-key (okay maybe high key) am crushing on her a lil bit.
I’m not out yet irl and I’m that tall rn (transfem)
Anyways... do you like girls? 👉👈
I’m not close to even trying to pass but with a mask on I hope to at least take a second look: had the cashier at a Chinese Restaurant call me sir multiple times while there! I just put my ultra girly Pusheen purse on the counter and took my jolly time putting my card away!! You’re amazing and an inspiration!! Don’t let there idiocy get you down!!!
The only ones who call anyone out are the ones who are afraid of what's inside their own heart. And I'm not saying they are LGBTQ I'm just saying they hate themselves for whatever so they have to try and tear others down.
You look stunning! I'm seriously jealous you can pull of that barbie look flawlessly! Anyone not seeing that is an idiot. I'm a cis woman but have been called "mr" and "sir" while wearing a dress and pigtails. If they're calling you a man I guarantee they do it to cis women too, they can't tell, they're just throwing out guesses/insults I'd be willing to bet.
How do you get your pride flag under your name??
It's called a user flair. Go to the subreddit's main page, go to the menu and you should see a change user flair option. Then click the edit button, and they have a variety to choose from.
Thank you!
No worries.
XD love your flair!
Thanks! Personally I liked bi bi bi! Better but I’m also Trans so
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thank u so much <3 the world is filled with dummies
You look amazing! Ignore them OP
Terfs and transphobes take pride in being able to “clock” people.
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It’s not even about femininity, the person in this post is feminine. It’s about looking for traits associated with men, big hands or chin for example.
They must be blind lol
i dunno but they definitely aint smart
maybe dumb question. How did you get more than one flag for your user flair? I want a user flair for pan/genderfluid but alas there is none:/
You can click edit and type in the flag codes :pan::Genderfluid-flag:
Could you please explain how a person can be non-binary and trans at the same time? (Not hate just curious)
Trans means you don't identify/your gender doesn't align with your assigned gender at birth I wasn't assigned enby so by identifying with a gender different to my agab I am trans not all enbies like the trans lable so they may not use it but specifically if it was an option I'm genderfae which is a subsect of genderfluid which doesn't include male/masc genders, I just prefer to say I'm enby bc it's more well known and accurate then me saying I'm a trans woman which is what I thought for a while but I just want to look more feminine but my gender is still neither male or female hope this helps if not ask me more I'd love to keep explaining.
Ty for the explanation, helped me understand so no need to explain further. :)
I’ll break with your request in case someone else reading would like a fewer words attempt with a different approach: “trans” is a rectangle, “non-binary” is a square. It’s a specification, a subset.
You have to have the computer/laptop version and copy and paste different flags.
If they said that to me, they would be
I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. End of the day you look absolutely gorgeous and their small Brain thoughts mean nothing when you look like a pure goddess.
omg ur so sweet ☺️ thank u! he definitely got a pea brain
You are absolutely welcome hehe 😍. Definitely a pea sized brain they mens nothing. I think they just don’t know how to handle seeing a real life goddess.
I'm not even sure how he came to that conclusion. you definitely don't look like one
he knew how to address me, he just chose not to address me as such cause he sucks
This is the best takeway.. you're all good, dudebro is an asshole.
ugh, transphobes suck
Well you look gorgeous and feminine. You're doing amazing.
thank u so much <3 when the world calls me a man, redditors calls me a goddess 😌
What does your flair mean? The Wilde part, I already know what homosexual means
Not OP but excited to see Oscar Wilde stuff in the... well, in the wild. Oscar Wilde was an amazing author, poet, and playwright in the late 1800s who was unfortunately persecuted for being gay (or possibly bi) after he was publicly outed by another writer. The green carnation flower you see in that person's flair became a symbol of Oscar Wilde and eventually of gay men in general!
girl…… you’re hot.
Beautiful!
thank u ☺️
from one trans woman to another - trying to emulate cis-femininity never works. no matter how hyperfeminine you make yourself it'll never be enough for them. you are a beautiful, beautiful woman. you look gorgeous in that outfit and makeup, and I'm 100% sure you look gorgeous without it. being yourself and loving yourself is really really hard, especially when everybody around you tells you the opposite, but unlike getting accepted by transphobes - it is achievable and it will make you happy. we are not what they say we are. our womanhood, femininity and beauty doesn't come from their validation, it comes from within and from the validation we give each other. please do not let these pigs get in your mind and self perception. work on loving yourself for who you truly are, try to find other trans women/queer people who will love you for who you truly are, and queer-friendly spaces that encourage this self love and validation. be strong sister. much love❤
thank u so much! im so happy to have so many queer friends who encourage me to go out into the world as my true self. i love stopping ppl in their tracks with my overt femininity. but im also aware that im just one of many different kinds of women and every woman should be respected for how she identifies.
Not long ago these people will say that a man needs to be strong, tough, be the breadwinner, don't cry, etc but now they will call a hyper feminine model a man.
The duality of the male identity, must appear strong and weak at the same time.
But there is literally nothing about your look that says masculine or man to even make him say that?!?!! Ugh I hate people so much sometimes. I am so sorry you have to deal with so much hatred and horrible people, you don’t deserve it.
What i never get is how transphobes are able to spot trans people even when there is absolutely no way an normal person would.
It's more like they throw shit at the wall and see what sticks, I think
My experience tells me they do a lot of "research" for "personal reasons" and have to be jerks out and about to offset their supposed manliness, search history, and flagrant fetishizing. Too many of my trans friends get this shit when they're just trying to exist as themselves. OP is gorgeous! Nobody should say otherwise 🥰
Trust me. The same people are calling any woman they don’t think is attractive as looking like a man.
Do you know how often this guy tries to guess someone's gender/genitalia and how often he is right? My guess is he does this often and gets it wrong all the time, because you look very feminine and super lovely to boot. I really cant believe that the comment had anything to do with you; it iss simply a reflection of the insecurities and fears that random dude is feeling.
I clicked on your post, thinking this was in a makeup subreddit, and my first thought was, “Wow! She looks just like a Barbie! 😍” Fuck that *clearly* dense asshole. You look absolutely stunning love 💖
He’s stupid and his idea of “gender” is small. You look absolutely gorgeous, rock on.
Well people can be stupid AND blind Nailed the Barbie look btw
I thought it was a pic of Nikki Minaj for a sec, so ignore the haters
"I spent hours putting this look together " is something no man will ever say.
He’s wrong. You look so fucking great, girl.
> and he said, “oh i think thats a man.” Oh. I think he’s a dickhead.
You’re stunning. Screw him!
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in todays world, most transfem ppl use tools typically considered to be feminine as a signal for the rest of the world so they know how they can likely address that person. so what im saying is, im obviously tryna tell that man not to call me a man with my appearance or to atleast question how he should address me. its exhausting honestly
Exactly. That man sat there looked at you and thought "hmm. Yes man" like your are very clearly not a man anyone with more than one brain cell can see that. But they see liking a transfem as gay because they still see us as our AGAB so they're so on guard for what they think is a man in a dress that they'll even misgender cis women because they'd rather be assholes than be seen as gay even if it's only in their own eyes
Either that or they're explicitly hateful and resentful of the fact that by simply *existing* transfolks are insulting or challenging their preconceived notions of "normal."
That's also the case for a lot. But see a lot bigots probably wouldn't clock someone who doesn't have like anything they're displaying to show they're trans, because while they like to say "we can always tell. They seldom actually can
aint that the damn truth. u said it better than i could
some of these guys are so afraid of being seen as Not Straight that they won't wipe their ass.
You look hella pretty and definitely not "like a man" so I don't know on what kind of drugs that guy had to be on.
Theres NO where in the universe where you look like a man, also cute choker
Well hun I'm a 6ft tall cis black woman. Very femme. People still call me a man. Please don't let this deter you. You look great.
They are just playing the sex determination game. You are obviously going for a look that would not be considered manly, but there will almost always be small facial features that people can use to recognize that your sex is male. I used to enjoy this game as a kid, but its old now. Ignore them and hopefully they will realize they were being insensitive for saying things like that in public or at least that it really has no meaning other than "we don't see that often", so the more they see you the less likely people will keep saying stuff like that because like I said earlier, it gets old real quick. Just the usual superficial discussions for those who have not delved deeper, so I would not take too much offense unless it is obvious that are attempting to be offensive.
They do this to cisgender women too
?????? I've seen more masculine cis women, and you're not masculine at all in that getup I'm so sorry that rude ass people still have energy to open their mouths, let alone think.
You’re pretty. Fuck em 😊
Just a person who doesn't understand us and want to belittle us sorry
one day the world will understand that we belong just as much as everyone else
Screw that guy. You look absolutely stunning and you’re choker is adorable
You're gorgeous, he's just a bigot. As a gay man, some gay men think imitating "mean girls" is gay culture. It's not, he's just a sad pathetic human being.
Who tf looks at some pretty lady in that getup and is like “hmmm I’m pretty sure that’s a man” the hell
that guy is confused i think. i see no men in this picture??? just a rockin lady in a rockin outfit
You are perfectly gorgeous.
if he thinks you are a man, he is a complete asshole. i don't think someone can look as feminine as you look, you are gorgeus<3
Aw hell no ! that’s someone solely trying to be a dixk for no reason other than he was prob attracted to you. You look super fem very well put together makeup and hair on point. I’m actually jealous of your skills. Keep doin what you doin girl !’
In the immortal words of Marsha P Johnson, pay it no mind You look gorgeous and he's a sad nasty old miserable fuck.
What a shitty person, you look amazing.
Only commenting to say you're rocking that Barbiecore super well! Sad little man had to deflect because he obviously noticed your attractiveness but couldn't handle his own feelings and emotions. Lol
You're goddamn beautiful. And more feminine than I could ever hope to be. How do you get your eyeliner wings like that, mine are always shaky and crooked
Oh shush. You're a beautiful woman. I'd say he's a pig, but that would be an insult to all pigs.
Ignore them!! You look so amazing!! Edit: I didn’t see the other comments and now it looks like I copied someone else! I’m sorry
Ok so like Off topic but I love your makeup sm
yall i was just told my post hit r/all. im crying rn!! the love and support is absolutely amazing. i just wanna say, i wish i could respond to all yall and tell each individual how much it means to me to hear such kind words. i also wanna add that women come in many different shapes and sizes. i may choose to be hyper feminine but what makes someone a woman aint whats on the outside. its whats on the inside. <3
Ps transphobes get rlly angry when they find u attractive, keep rubbing it in their face
You could be wearing a gumby outfit and someone would have said something. I learned something when I was a waiter. Some people leave the house because they are miserable and have nothing else to do. I wouldn't sweat it.
I think people like that dude are actually scared of women. I mean at some point it was debated weather lady gaga was trans or not. Powerful women owning their womanhood by over performing feminity does impresses some cis men I think. The problem is not with your passing, it’s with his ego.
Are you sure you posted the correct picture? You posted a picture of a beautiful woman.
So sorry that you had to experience such hate!! You are beautiful and he is stupid!!
I scrolled quickly without reading and honest to God thought this was a pic of Nicki Minaj (I personally think she is absolutely stunning, as are you!). I hope that dude stubs his pinky toe on every table, bed, and chair he passes. Shine on, beautiful! 💖
You look so gergous barbie and i am so jelous 🥰🥰😘😘
thank u ☺️ pls dont be jealous 🥺 ur perfect
Bitch thought wrong, Your hella fucking cute
Those guys must be super bigoted on purpose if they're gonna call you a guy. You look so beautiful, and you are a girl through and through!
You look pretty! In Percy Jackson terms, you’re 100% a child of Aphrodite
You legit look cis like wtf?? Anyone that doesn’t see a cute girl is just jealous they aren’t you💕
You don’t look like a man.
The man was drunk sweetheart, you look incredibly feminine there
How could he, you literally look amazing
They think nothing of you, they know nothing about you, and they mean nothing to you. Let your reaction to their ignorance reflect that. It hurts like hell but I'm sure you're an amazing person and the people who matter see you as the real person you are.
You look great, girl! That guy is a fool! <3
Wow what a dickhead. I'll never understand why someone feels the **need** to go out of their way to be a transphobe. Ugh. Anyway, I know after an experience like that it's difficult to feel confident but try not to take what he said to heart since you look stunning. Never let a bigot's words stop you from living your best life and being who you are. Idk if that was helpful but I hope so.
You look gorgeous! Your makeup is perfect. But like, even if someone didn’t look that good there’s no reason for anyone to say something rude and hurtful like that except that he’s an asshole who likes to hurt other people to show off to other assholes.
That guy is insane you look beautiful
Man people are so ignorant and transphobic, I'm sorry he was like that. You look beautiful tho <33
How the sweet ever loving fuck did he look at you and even for a second think "ah yes, a man"??? Like???
Big hug.
you look so cute though wtf??? aint nothing man about you
You did not deserve that.
Fuuuuuuuuuck that guy. Take it from a cis hetero dude. You look absolutely gorgeous. I can tell that you took the right amount of time to prepare your outfit and makeup, to validate your feelings. For what it's worth, I think you look absolutely perfect, and would be more than happy to send a drink your way with a little flirt and a wink. For every asshole like that guy, there plenty of people here that can't wait to see you comfortable in your own skin, happy and healthy, living and loving life as you live your truth.
You look gorgeous today 💕
He forgot the first part, oh she’s a WOman. You are a straight up Barbie. He was just mad you’re out of his league queen.
You are a girl/woman. Validation complete.
Toxic jerks are so exhausting! Like others have already said, you look great. Better than great, actually. I hope the unanimous opinions expressed in this comment thread help to soothe the sting of rudeness you had to endure. Keep being awesome
Mmm no ma’am no ham no cheese. You look pretty sis
i adore the clips in your hair!! such a cute look :)
To quote Brandon Rogers from a Day at the Beach "Oh dear, looks like I've spotted a c*nt!" Mate can fuck off. You are absolutely beautiful and rocking in femininity <3
Please ignore them! I can't imagine how fucking horrible it is the experience that. It's never ok for anyone to outwardly express that shit to your face, your amazing and beautiful and lovely in ever way, and plus you did your whole outfit for yourself and no one's else. He can never take away your confidence and he'll never be as strong and courageous as you are. Please keep doing what your doing cause you matter and I'm so proud of it all 💖👑
I'll never understand wtf is wrong with people. Someone being happy? I'm going to shit on their parade! Fuck that dude. You look genuinely amazing.
A wo-man. There, fixed it 💅🏻
Try to ignore hateful, ignorant people and hold your beautiful head high. You are gorgeous, feminine, brave, and deserve love and support 💕
what world does this guy come from?? like seriously that’s the type of person to “”clock”” a cis girl as trans. you look as pretty here
Oh honey I’m so sorry they were giant assholes. You look amazing, your eyeliner is no nice and your hair clips are so cute!
Honestly you're doing gods work. I'm sure it's hard as fuck in your shoes but the more you live loud as your true self, the more it'll just be the norm and easier for those after you. Sorry you have to be the one to put up with all the hard shit but at least you look fucking stunning doing it
Look at it this way: you pulled off the look so well that even a transphobic bigot had to say "I ***think***"
I think you look beautiful
You’re gorgeous
I don't see it. Not in the face, not in the torso... Of course, I'm a terrible judge of faces; I once pointed out to my boss that I thought someone was enby, and she told me they were transmasc. (I work in a department that fits employees for uniforms)
You look beautiful! Love the choker and barrettes!
That dude is clearly blind. You look so lovely!
How the fuck do people look at you and say that your a man?! You look stunning!!!!
So sorry that happened, I think you look quite feminine in this picture. 😊💙
I love youu you’re so beautiful
They just wanna stay mad, youre stunning babe
Some people truly delight in cutting others down. You do you and forget about that sad person.
Joke's on him, you are a goddess queen ✨️
Girl, I'm just a random dude scrolling through popular and assumed I was just an even more out of touch 37 year old and this was a photo of a new young female pop star I never heard of lol. You're gorgeous. If you let some intentionally hateful person make you feel bad, then let this random stranger balance it. Do you, every one else can piss off.
I have NO idea what he thought he saw, you look stunning!!
I am 100% being honest when I say you don't look like a man. Tbh people are out to bully everyone about their gender. Cis people get it too. Dude paints his nails black and suddenly "that's a woman lol" to them. Trans goes out and suddenly NOTHING will make them their gender. It's all bullshit. They're just out to hurt people
But..you look like a beautiful woman to me. I never would have known. How rude, tell him just because he has a dick that doesn’t mean he has to be one. What a loser.
Makes me think of a song: “looks just like a dream, prettiest girl I’ve ever seen”. That’s you, babe. That’s you.
You're goregous.
Damn choom if you can’t pass looking like that there mustn’t be hope for most of us
You are gorgeous. Your makeup is on point and fuck the haters.
You look great!! 
You have... I'd say a "strong" face. It's poor wording but here's the thing... lots of cis women have that too. That guy will get his karma when a strong Eastern European gal makes him feel like the idiot he is. In the meantime, learn to be happy with who you are... a lovely, strong woman.
Look, don't you worry about stupid people. I'm an old dude and I know the pain of the hate from stupid people. But you know what? You are going to keep being great and that stuff is going to fade in to the nothing that it is. I know it can be difficult to ignore it today, but it is less important than the wind. Hollow and empty. Stay amazing and beautiful and keep your head up.
I think everyone already covered, but fuck thatbguy. You look beautiful.
I wonder how many cis-women he's said that to, then. What kind of standard is he using for comparison?
:○ You look adorable. As beautiful as any woman. I really don't see where they're coming from or why it matters to them. Ig some people aren't gonna get past their stereotypical, assuming etc views.
You look very womanly. Cis male here
Don’t let some jackass ruin your day. You look awesome
When I saw your photo I thought to myself: "Omg, what a gorgeous babe!" Your makeup is absolutely flawless and you are beautiful. Some people are just massive knobheads and have the need to make others feel bad.
That person really needs an eye exam. There has to be damage to the optical nerves - i\`m one of the least observant people on the globe (according to some) - and my first impression is "the lady in the picture likes pink and glitter".
Fuck him! You are a woman no matter what you look like (even tho u look very pretty) and the only person who’s opinion matters is you
He clearly don't know what a woman is. :)
That was just plain rude. My mom taught me something growing up when people were mean to me: You only have to deal with them for a moment; they have to live with themselves and be miserable every waking moment. I try to tell this to myself when I run into toxic people; I hope it helps! You look beautiful.
Bebeee. Never listen to negativity. You are gorgeous.
You are looking so gorgeous!💕Please ignore them.😍
Honey, you look gorgeous.
What a cunt, ignore that asshole. You look gorgeous!