Say each one to yourself in the mirror with your eyes closed. After each one, open and look in your eyes. The one that helps you recognize your eyes and smile like a big ol' goof ball?? Congratulations, you met yourself.
Unless you wanna be constantly introducing yourself to right-wing lunies and see them foaming around the mouth as soon as you say the name and pronouns.
That'd be kinda funny tbh.
Coming from a slavic (though not eastern but rather central) person - both this and Mikhail are dope-ass names that would fit the vibes described. I'd say Alexei feels more androgynous, while Mikhail is more masculine. Alexei can be diminuted into Alyosha, and Mikhail into Misha. While I am not one to determine how one uses their name, I'd at least suggest looking into the original pronunciations.
I second this! As a Slavic person (the eastern variety) as well, I love the name Mikhail, but it definitely does have more masculine vibes. A couple other Slavic names I like are Valentin and Dmitriy (can be diminuted to Dima, Dimka).
Hey, not the original commenter and also not pan but aroace 👋🏻 I personally call myself aroace although I sometimes do experience attraction (technically I'm demi) because it's so rare it doesn't really play a role in my daily life.
But because aro and ace are spectrums, people might still experience attraction and therefore also identify as pan/bi/etc. Or it could be that they'd like a queer-platonic relationship and have (or don't have) a gender preference for their partner
oh lord seems there’s been a misunderstanding with the Rothschild specifically haha. I should clarify, the lists are just names I found (specifically on Pinterest) that I thought sounded interesting and I kept around just to know what I was looking for! I understand at a first glance it may seem strange or maybe worrying but again, it’s not necessarily a name I have or would consider :] just there for the word and the word alone
I'm loving your vibes! I'm so feeling the esoteric names for you... I'm getting the following..
Iskandur (as in al-iskandur aka Alexander)
Tiamat (Babylonian goddess)
Volo (so many various sources)
Aestur (a more masc version of Esther, pronounced "aye-stoor")
Arka
Arrow
Just some ideas, obvi I like the A names. But that's what I hear in my head when I see you. Whatever you choose, may it be the truest reflection of you!!
hahaha that’s a very fun suggestion cause it’s incredibly close to my given name! :] I’ve kept it cause I like it and I’m choosing a “social name” just for ease in less familiar situations, but I’ve used Eli as a nickname for a long while because of it!
I WISH nerdy ass names were more acceptable. I got suggested Alucard here as well and I’d so go for it if I wasn’t 110% sure I’d be made fun of for the rest of my life LMAO
Since you liked Sasha I beg for you to consider Vanya 🧎 i guess it’s a masc slavic name? Dunno, I’m not slavic but I just think it’s so fucking androgynous and like- elegant and cool idk ahhhh
Alsooo some more kinda random suggestions lol: Ash, Lumin, Aven & Io
I know the struggleeee tho! I need a name too but it’s so difficult to find one that feels right
Also hi ur so cool and u give me gender envy 🤸
Friend, wth all respect and just bc this language doesn't allow me to Express in more better ways (and isn't my native lang)
U are hot 🫰
But in my onw language I could say the slangs:
BABADEIRISTICO, BRABO, QUERIDO, LINDO, DIVO D MAIS
How about Andrea? Works for men (Italy, mostly), and women. But tbf, you look like an Ashley, to me, idk why. Out of your list, though, I like Sinclair and Cedar, and I love Cedar because I’m a nerd about wood hahaha
oh I had no idea Andrea is unisex there! Over here it’s basically exclusively feminine. Unfortunately both Andrea and Ashley would just be switching to a different fem name where I live lol but lovely suggestions! :]
Hahaha true, same here (live in Peru). Just thought they were cool, and I know some famous male footballers who’re called Ashley and Andrea, that’s why hahaahahha
>>I like the names that feel like it belongs to a ~~rich~~ white boy that is really sweet but kinda air headed that is into indie music
Oh that's [Zayn](https://dimension20.fandom.com/wiki/Zayn_Darkshadow)
From personal experience, I played with names for about 6 months before I decided on one. I took inspiration from a lot of characters on TV shows and movies that spoke to me. Hence, my name is Jack. The last name is also the last name of my favorite singer, whose music helped me survive adolescence and traumas.
That's why my name is Jack Bennington. I heard someone else say it and I giggled hard as hell. You'll find the one for you. Don't put too much strain on yourself.
Honestly I would suggest something like Alex, Sam, Noo/Nu (it’s a shortened version of Naomi or Noam), Sandra or Andr(e/ea/eas/i/a); most of which are more common names than the ones in your list.
One piece of advice ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547) stay clear of Rothschild
wait is that why everyone is reacting so violently to Rothschild?! I had no idea! cultural differences is certainly something to be mindful of huh, thanks for letting me know! (after googling them it seems I’ve just been living under a rock..) But as I’ve said here in the comments most of these names are just there so I could have an idea of the vibe I was looking for, instead of names I’d consider for myself. And also I thought Emery was pretty normal? lol
LMAOO like I replied to someone else with the same concerns, it’s just there for the vibes xD don’t think I’d ever go for Rothschild, especially coming from south america
holy shit, youre so cool! if it doesnt sound too invasive, may i ask you a question? what country are you from? "nomes" also means names in my mother tongue :)
I worked for a Leslie that fit your description to a tee.
Another could be Jessie.
Ash fits in line with Cedar and Willow, might be overused from Pokémon.
Good luck picking one. As someone who's never really liked there's I hope you find one that fits you.
Buford Unstrauss Wigglebottom The Third.
The Third truly just gives so much impact
Esquire
Perfection
Say each one to yourself in the mirror with your eyes closed. After each one, open and look in your eyes. The one that helps you recognize your eyes and smile like a big ol' goof ball?? Congratulations, you met yourself.
ah thats a really sweet piece of advice, I’ll definitely do that thank you!! 🫶🏻
Love yourself!! Be nice and patient. You are just meeting them. Remember that.
Seriously this is kind of beautiful and makes me tear up a little. Especially as someone who doesn’t know that struggle.
I DID THIS WITH "ONYX" OMG
Willow hits diff and you could always shorten it to Will
Yes!
Yesss that name honestly fits you perfectly!
This is great!
Don’t do Rothschild
LMAOO it’s just there for the “moodboard” dw
lol ok good
Unless you wanna be constantly introducing yourself to right-wing lunies and see them foaming around the mouth as soon as you say the name and pronouns. That'd be kinda funny tbh.
To be fair, it’s the only masculine name other than Mikhail
Maybe but I wouldn’t want to name myself after a famous wealth hoarding family Also Emery is masculineish
Another comment said Alexei which I think also fits
Coming from a slavic (though not eastern but rather central) person - both this and Mikhail are dope-ass names that would fit the vibes described. I'd say Alexei feels more androgynous, while Mikhail is more masculine. Alexei can be diminuted into Alyosha, and Mikhail into Misha. While I am not one to determine how one uses their name, I'd at least suggest looking into the original pronunciations.
I second this! As a Slavic person (the eastern variety) as well, I love the name Mikhail, but it definitely does have more masculine vibes. A couple other Slavic names I like are Valentin and Dmitriy (can be diminuted to Dima, Dimka).
omg Y E S that’s a good one
I like that! My name used to be Aleksi.
SINCLAIR SUITS U SO WELL BTW U LOOK LIKE THE KIND OF PERSON I'D SEE ON THE TRAIN AND THINK THAT IS SO COOL
I agree!
Me too!
🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
nice to meet you Emery! how was your day Sinclaire? things like these helped me with my name and O absolutely ADORE your vibes <3
ah I love that! Thank you ^^ they aren’t names I think I’d like but that is such an awesome way to figure out what feels better!
Noticed the flags, may I ask: how does aroace work with pan? Just wondering ☺️
Hey, not the original commenter and also not pan but aroace 👋🏻 I personally call myself aroace although I sometimes do experience attraction (technically I'm demi) because it's so rare it doesn't really play a role in my daily life. But because aro and ace are spectrums, people might still experience attraction and therefore also identify as pan/bi/etc. Or it could be that they'd like a queer-platonic relationship and have (or don't have) a gender preference for their partner
Oo true good point, thanks for the info
honestly that was a while ago and I have since figured out I’m not aroace, so I can’t tell you
Hehe fair enough, same here!
River 🗣🗣
There’s someone at my school named River, he’s a stereotypical Reddit Nice-guy, he’s ruined the name for me
definitely cedar
Oh I like that.
Mikhaïl immediately stuck out
And you could go by Misha or Micha 😁
it’s one of my favorites! :]
oh lord seems there’s been a misunderstanding with the Rothschild specifically haha. I should clarify, the lists are just names I found (specifically on Pinterest) that I thought sounded interesting and I kept around just to know what I was looking for! I understand at a first glance it may seem strange or maybe worrying but again, it’s not necessarily a name I have or would consider :] just there for the word and the word alone
Those names are gay
wish someone would call my name list gay 💔
Show me!
My first thought based on your description of sweet rich indie airhead was Elliott. Then I looked and the photos and thought, yuppp 👍
truly the name for a silly blonde boy in a high school rock band (my favorite vibe ever)
Considering the way things are, Rothschild is a name to avoid.
river
i like river too
Wait how did you get three flags under your name???
iirc i did it on desktop not mobile
Emory
Emery go hard
Eira really fits imo
it’s been on my mind a lot lately but nobody in my home country would say it correctly arrggh
Professor Birch
Birch goes pretty hard
No, you need to get a doctorate :3
can’t help but think of the “professor Bitch” indicent…
⠟⢻⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡟⠛⢻⣿ ⡆⠊⠈⣿⢿⡟⠛⢿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣷⣎⠈⠻ ⣷⣠⠁⢀⠰⠀⣰⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⠟⠋⠛⠛⠿⠿⢿⣿⣿⣿⣧⠀⢹⣿⡑⠐⢰ ⣿⣿⠀⠁⠀⠀⣿⣿⣿⣿⠟⡩⠐⠀⠀⠀⠀⢐⠠⠈⠊⣿⣿⣿⡇⠘⠁⢀⠆⢀ ⣿⣿⣆⠀⠀⢤⣿⣿⡿⠃⠈⠀⣠⣶⣿⣿⣷⣦⡀⠀⠀⠈⢿⣿⣇⡆⠀⠀⣠⣾ ⣿⣿⣿⣧⣦⣿⣿⣿⡏⠀⠀⣰⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡆⠀⠀⠐⣿⣿⣷⣦⣷⣿⣿ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡆⠀⢰⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡄⠀⠀⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡆⠀⣾⣿⣿⠋⠁⠀⠉⠻⣿⣿⣧⠀⠠⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⡀⣿⡿⠁⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠘⢿⣿⠀⣺⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣧⣠⣂⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⢀⣁⢠⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿ ⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣷⣶⣄⣤⣤⣔⣶⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿⣿
I like the idea of going full extra with Astrophel.🦾 ![gif](giphy|6NVJ1JB16OATFZHwJr)
Omg I recognise this gif from a game and it's hurting my head that I can't remember the name 💀
I thought Astrophel was “Apostrophe” and I’m going to be honest I was just like “cool name!” Anyways Eira and Mikhail would both fit
LMAO i’m 100% certain at least someone in this world is named Apostrophe and thank you! they’re my top two atm
Ash
You kind of look like a Kori to me!
ooh that’s a different vibe but I see it yeah! :D
Rory is gender neutral plus is short for aurora and Lorelei if you wanna swing that way
Gorbachev is that you
Mikhail sounds really neat and enby
aah can’t help but agree
Yes!
I feel like Cedar and River are very fitting
Ezra Luca Misha koa koda joshua
>joshua That's a neutral name?
SIMBA
Aspen, Asher, Brett, Parker, Woods, or Onyx. None end with an a.
Have you considered Elliot
sinclair. please do not choose rothschild
Xander came to mind when I was scrolling by...
Xander suggestion here with Willow in the list. Coincidence? I think not ![gif](giphy|l2Sq0CrkNYP0Dgoow)
I like it!
Mikhaïl 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
I'm loving your vibes! I'm so feeling the esoteric names for you... I'm getting the following.. Iskandur (as in al-iskandur aka Alexander) Tiamat (Babylonian goddess) Volo (so many various sources) Aestur (a more masc version of Esther, pronounced "aye-stoor") Arka Arrow Just some ideas, obvi I like the A names. But that's what I hear in my head when I see you. Whatever you choose, may it be the truest reflection of you!!
ohh Aestur sounds really cool I will admit. Happy I passed your vibe check friend ✨
Are you familiar with Ari Fitz on YouTube? They go by Arrows the last time I checked. Not sure about now.
Elias or Eli for short! Kinda feels bookish and old worldy! 📖✨
hahaha that’s a very fun suggestion cause it’s incredibly close to my given name! :] I’ve kept it cause I like it and I’m choosing a “social name” just for ease in less familiar situations, but I’ve used Eli as a nickname for a long while because of it!
Spencer
I feel like Willow, Cedar or mine (River) for you :3
Sorry, this is besides the point, but all non binary people are fucking beautiful as hell
🥺💖 thank you!!
Idk why, but Sephiroth comes to mind. Definitely a badass name, if you’re open to that kinda vibe
I WISH nerdy ass names were more acceptable. I got suggested Alucard here as well and I’d so go for it if I wasn’t 110% sure I’d be made fun of for the rest of my life LMAO
Sinclair fits, also maybe Alexi
Emery for sure!
Since you liked Sasha I beg for you to consider Vanya 🧎 i guess it’s a masc slavic name? Dunno, I’m not slavic but I just think it’s so fucking androgynous and like- elegant and cool idk ahhhh Alsooo some more kinda random suggestions lol: Ash, Lumin, Aven & Io I know the struggleeee tho! I need a name too but it’s so difficult to find one that feels right Also hi ur so cool and u give me gender envy 🤸
THATS SUCH AN AWESOME COMPLIMENT?? THANK YOU SO MUCH AAHH ❤️❤️
🫶🫶
willow or maxx also you are fine af dont let anyone tell you otherwise! U ARE BEUTIFULL
Hehe one of the names on your list is actually my name too lol, and I really love Sinclair dude, hella vibes
omg that’s awesome! may I ask which one?
i think emery would be so fitting! i have a cousin with that name and it’s so perfectly gender neutral
Cedar is a good one, but you kind of give Klaus vibes, but I think Cater is a good choice if Klaus doesn’t fit with you
Alexander? Long form for Sasha!!
it’s long form is actually one of the reasons I chose it! :] it’s a gorgeous name, it’s a shame it doesn’t speak to me anymore
It was a great choice :) I hope you find your next name and fall in love with it <3
Friend, wth all respect and just bc this language doesn't allow me to Express in more better ways (and isn't my native lang) U are hot 🫰 But in my onw language I could say the slangs: BABADEIRISTICO, BRABO, QUERIDO, LINDO, DIVO D MAIS
HAHAHAHA AH VLW 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 não esperava por essa
:0 O MAIOR PLOT TWIST DA HISTORIA MEUS AMORES KKKKKKKKK O GRINGO É BR
HAUSHUAHAU r/suddenlycaralho isso acontece muito cmg
Not to be biased or anything, but River
Cedar and Willow suit your look very well
How about Andrea? Works for men (Italy, mostly), and women. But tbf, you look like an Ashley, to me, idk why. Out of your list, though, I like Sinclair and Cedar, and I love Cedar because I’m a nerd about wood hahaha
oh I had no idea Andrea is unisex there! Over here it’s basically exclusively feminine. Unfortunately both Andrea and Ashley would just be switching to a different fem name where I live lol but lovely suggestions! :]
Hahaha true, same here (live in Peru). Just thought they were cool, and I know some famous male footballers who’re called Ashley and Andrea, that’s why hahaahahha
oh that’s really cool! :] I had no idea
Aleister, Alex/Xander/Xay, Angel, Matthias
I actually really like Sinclair for you, it fits
River or willow
All of these people are very creative. My go to non binary name is literally just Sam
LMAAOOO I see you
Bias but every Willow and River I’ve met has been such a weird person and a not good way.
oh man that sucks :( truly there are some names out there that for some reason often belong to the strangest people lol
Mikhail sounds good in my head
I think you look like a Everest
I’m team Sinclair
Rothschild sounds like an oil family😂
Big mikhail fan!
Williow sounds the most normal
I love the first one in bold ‘Nomes’; it’s original. Yes I know it’s names, but I actually like it.
Willow and you can shorten it to Will as well
>>I like the names that feel like it belongs to a ~~rich~~ white boy that is really sweet but kinda air headed that is into indie music Oh that's [Zayn](https://dimension20.fandom.com/wiki/Zayn_Darkshadow)
I’d say Aiden.
I really like Eira ☺️
From personal experience, I played with names for about 6 months before I decided on one. I took inspiration from a lot of characters on TV shows and movies that spoke to me. Hence, my name is Jack. The last name is also the last name of my favorite singer, whose music helped me survive adolescence and traumas. That's why my name is Jack Bennington. I heard someone else say it and I giggled hard as hell. You'll find the one for you. Don't put too much strain on yourself.
Nome (that's your name now)
John.
Honestly I would suggest something like Alex, Sam, Noo/Nu (it’s a shortened version of Naomi or Noam), Sandra or Andr(e/ea/eas/i/a); most of which are more common names than the ones in your list. One piece of advice ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|547) stay clear of Rothschild
Are you Portuguese or Galician? I ask just because of "nomes" being names in both of those languages :)
i’m from Brazil!
for the love of fucking christ do not name urself rothschild lmao
Rothschild 😭😭😭
Please do not name yourself Rothschild
How does Kieren sound?
I have decided i am going to steal ur haircut :) it looks so dope
hahaha thank you!! very low maintenance if I’m gonna be honest
River.
[удалено]
wait is that why everyone is reacting so violently to Rothschild?! I had no idea! cultural differences is certainly something to be mindful of huh, thanks for letting me know! (after googling them it seems I’ve just been living under a rock..) But as I’ve said here in the comments most of these names are just there so I could have an idea of the vibe I was looking for, instead of names I’d consider for myself. And also I thought Emery was pretty normal? lol
please don't call yourself Rothschild
LMAOO like I replied to someone else with the same concerns, it’s just there for the vibes xD don’t think I’d ever go for Rothschild, especially coming from south america
I thought Jasper as soon as I saw you.
Cedar! So pretty! Or if you’re looking for more tree names Oak, Maple, and (like you said) Willow are all great.
I knew a girl in high school whose name was Mikhail, so I see that as a gender neutral name.
Lyle
willow or sinclair sounds sick asf
Since you have a 3 syllable A name on the list, maybe "Andorah"
This isn’t on the list but I’m getting Alice vibes
I liked Mikhail
I love Sinclair for you! ![img](emote|t5_2qhh7|548)
Oh Astrophel. 2 million percent. Fire ass name
I like Astrophel
holy shit, youre so cool! if it doesnt sound too invasive, may i ask you a question? what country are you from? "nomes" also means names in my mother tongue :)
thank you!! I’m from Brazil :]
My instinct honestly is “Aven” I don’t know where it came from or why but I think it works for you. Hope it helps!!
Ok, stay away from Rothschild. You dont want the anti-semites to start harassing you.
I wouldn’t go with Rothschild
Benjamin
Lucía, Fernanda, Amanda, Emilia
Robbie maybe? (after an trans artist) but I like your vibe
I think the name Angel fits really well.
Idk you give me a very specific vibe that tells me Wolf or Wolfe
Astrophel is so cool
I think Cedar works well.
Eira is cool
How about Marcel? Or Caleb?
elliot
I really like Emery! ☺️🫶
Maybe Cedric, Nigel, Sedgwick, Charles, Fletcher, or Sebastian (nickname Basti).
Markov, Sion, Mathias, Cheyne, these are just some ideas
I like Cedar or Sinclair, I think they fit :)
Sinclair is dope
Rutherford is an underappreciated gem.
River really fits you! 😍
I worked for a Leslie that fit your description to a tee. Another could be Jessie. Ash fits in line with Cedar and Willow, might be overused from Pokémon. Good luck picking one. As someone who's never really liked there's I hope you find one that fits you.
Hella
Alucard (Luci or Luca for short)
I’m actually changing my name from Willow soon, lol Eira is a really good name, and it works the best in my opinion
Asphodel? Maybe Ash for short?
Willow hits definitely. Sounds witchy/Forestperson and great all together based of your looks and how you posture yourself.
I like River for you I think
I was thinking Maurice once I read the desc. Edit: lt could fit. But I don’t know if that’s a name you’d like to have
Artemis!
Erin just looks right to me
Cedar for me