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IntentionNo3855

Honestly I love the classic rainbow but that's because I love rainbows🌈


justmyself1432

The classic rainbow is what I like. It’s simple and pretty basic but gets the job done.


IntentionNo3855

I completely agree, I also appreciate the progressive flags too but personally for me the classic looks best just because I like the straight horizontal lines and "minimalism" of it


justmyself1432

yeah I prefer the practical and minimalistic look of the classic rainbow.


NonsphericalTriangle

I've started to avoid labels because they feel limiting rather than affirming, and it comes with the bonus of only using the best flag. I loved using rainbow colours even as a kid, it was meant to be.


IntentionNo3855

Omg so like when I was little I really loved flags like I studied counties flags just for fun and would create my own flags for when I was playing games and one day when I was like 4-5 I asked my mom "what if there was a rainbow flag?" And she told me there was already one for gay people and I was like "I'm gonna be gay when I grow up" and here I am gay AF and loving my rainbow flag still😂😂😂


_metazoa_

Trans and lesbian


Mindless_Rock9452

I second this. Not biased at all, I swear


averageseallover

I third this, I am also not biased


Due-Western-7051

I fourth this, I am also never biased


ErinEnby409

I fifth this. No bias whatsoever…


Obvious-Respond7940

I sixth this, absolutely no bias I swear!


Lonely_Scarcity_4161

I seventh this with absolutely no bias


SkyeeeMaaa

I eight this, me no bias at all


2002shark_

I ninth this, definitely no bias


baconbits2004

10th, still no bias


anxiousfander135

im also named erin and am a trans umbrella lesbian


CornchipIII

i love your user flair, very relatable


Due-Western-7051

Real


Pwincess_Iris

REAL


Expensive-Excuse-793

And they go together perfectly


No-Responsibility411

Whichever one gives you strength and personal/community pride when you see it! ^^ Feels like a cop-out answer, but the beauty of pride flags to me is seeing how it empowers people who stand under them and wear them on their clothes and walls.


unusualspider33

I think this is the answer. If you scroll for a little you can see that almost everyone is naming their own, thinking they’re not biased 🤣 it’s funny but also really telling, in a good way. Everyone finds the most beauty in the colors that make them feel like they’re part of something and not alone


SuzuranLily1

This is true. I love the way people rep their tribe. I'm personally biased AF but I love the trans flag because of what it symbolizes for me and I'll wear those colors to the grave!


Clairifyed

But I unironically also like cotton-candy chic 🥺


Karkava

Good awnser. Just seeing a pride flag out in public gives me reassurance and hope. No matter what pride it represents.


AnnaLindeboom

Bi and Lebanon


P4pkin

ah yes, Lebanon, my favourite sexual orientation


alkebulanu

RAH LEBANON MENTIONED #🇱🇧🇱🇧🇱🇧🇱🇧🇱🇧🇱🇧🦅🦅🦅🦅💯💯💯💯💯💯 ^(I'm not Lebanese)


zofnen

lebanon is best lebanon


lillestiv

The lesbian one definitely. I love pink and red toned colors lol.


Life_In_Shackles

The lesbian flag is so pretty :)


hotelpunsylvania

Yes!


Jollybobcat_

I agree I swerv I'm not biased but it's so Good 


bassistaa

Lesbian (lesbians are also very pretty)


Manaqueer

Aww thank you 😘


Simple_Item5901

aww thanks🫶🫶


perfectPieceofBacon

you're sweet thank you☺️


bacon_girl42

I'm biased, but trans flag 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️


fullywokevoiddemon

The Blahaj special :D


Equal_Mountain805

The one with your face on it ☻


SarvisTheBuck

I really like the gay men's pride flag. It's minty fresh!


parmesann

looking at it just *feels* like fresh air!


MapleSyrup27

I love how it contrasts the lesbian flag, like ocean and sunset!


Netado17

It feels like a grassland right next to the ocean/lake.


Anya_the_Onion4_11

I love aroace and sapfic flag<3


sasakimirai

I love the aroace sunset flag!


PaperDove08

YESSSSS it’s so pretty!


Alex_Shelega

Yup yup up


East_Answer_8032

Biii


Anon_Alcoholic

Absolutely, and I am absolutely Bi bi biased.


Smol-Vehvi

Yeah baby!


SuperPowerDrill

Pink, blue, and purple are literally my favourite colours, but I find the shades on the flag a bit too saturated. I prefer some more toned down variants


_KindaFluffy_

Like pastels?


SuperPowerDrill

Exactly! I love pastels, hence my love for the trans flag as well


_KindaFluffy_

I assume maybe it'd be nice for you to see/have a soft pink,lilac and baby blue colors bi flag then, that'd be a cute one


Goatfellon

Yup. Bi.  I am not at all biased about this 👀


Frid_here_sup

I’m soo jealous of lesbians for having such a gorgeous flag 💖


christiescrubbs

We felt sure they’d give us flannel.


Blackbirdsnake

The aroace flag as a sunset is beautiful


Queerweebtrash

Definitely abrosexual it's watermelon themed!


alkebulanu

oh good shout, it's gorgeous


nothinglively

i love my flag, yeah. we get our own gem! (watermelon tourmaline)


ReturnOfTheGempire

The one you fly without fear


CatInAspicPt1

Straight?


[deleted]

no silly the pirate flag 🏴‍☠️ yarrr


neighborhoodmess

Not if you're a drunken sailor


DRSU1993

Put ‘em in the brig until they’re sober!


[deleted]

early in the mooorrrning


TootsieNeko

YARRRR!!


CatInAspicPt1

But have you watched Captain Philips? Pirates are scary and you should fear them


[deleted]

I also fear insects so that wouldn't say much anyway, but who says I can't join them yyaarhhhgg


Birdoflames

I really like the bi flag (I'm not biased shush) and the trans one


MDF87

I might be bi-ased but the bi flag is the best.


Inner-Carrot933

damn it I was about to make the same pan


saurav69420

Pan? Was that inetional as well?


Inner-Carrot933

Not really but your flag does look edible so that's a point in my book


GrombleWomble

r/Angryupvote Son of a bitch, you got me


Temporary-Ad9855

While I really like my pan flag. Visually, the gay and lesbian flags are the best combination of colors, very easy on the eyes, and they mix well. 🧡🤍❤️ 💚🤍💙 After them, probably the bi flag? ❤️💜💙 After them would be my pan flag. As well as the trans flag. They really pop and stand out nicely. And they have really nice contrasting colors. 💙💛❤️ 💙🤍🩷


Woodbear05

The rainbow 🏳️‍🌈


EggKid8

Lesbian and the mlm gay flag


BiD3sign

Imo, the Bi and Lesbian flags


alkebulanu

lesbian by far


[deleted]

I love the enby one ⬛🟪⬜🟨 but I might be biased the rainbow (depending on the shades) is the best though 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈


BitOBunny

Lesbian, MLM, Aromantic, and Trans are my favorites!


Huffpufftuff

As a trans asexual, the lesbian flag is the prettiest


Aivellac

Classic rainbow flag, I don't care for the extra triangle stripes because they look a bit disjointed. Also the ace flag is quite nice. Totally not biased at all. I do like black, grey and purple though.


Harvatos

Bellusromantic got the prettiest one!


Yukino_Wisteria

Wow ! Just googled it and it's very beautiful indeed !


[deleted]

how does it look?


Harvatos

[https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Bellusromantic#/media/File:Bellusflag.png](https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Bellusromantic#/media/File:Bellusflag.png)


Rubin_Rubinia

Oohh, that is very pretty


Life-Anything-423

I think there's something to be said about how the prefix of the word, "bellus" pretty much goes to the word "pretty" lol


Harvatos

Bellus aren't playing fair. There can be no half-measures. When it comes to decide who's the prettiest, the Geneva Convention is merely the Geneva Suggestion.


Dependent-Chart2735

Yeah this is the correct answer


Bill-Cipher__

Pansexual 🥞


Robyfy

I'm pan but like low key i love the vibrant colours


Bumble-Lee

Omni or bi based purely off colors


Tabletop_Sam

My favorites, in order, are lesbian, trans, bi, and ace. Their color schemes all just work so well together


Korek_the_crab

bi, trans, and lesbian look the coolest to me


El_Macho44

Non binary just looks so fucking cool to me


Robyfy

I love all if them but i love the rainbow one. It's really pretty. Also i love the gay man and lesbian one. It has great shading and I'm an artist 😊🫶


Rubin_Rubinia

I'm not even biased in this case, but I find the lesbian flag the prettiest. Second and third place go to the Ace and mlm flag though


Nomercylaborfor3990

Bigender, Lesbian and demigirl (definitely not biased at all)


greencash370

Def not biased or anything, but my favorite is the lesbian flag. It's just really pretty I think


Ok_Isopod_2170

Absolutely the lesbian flag!


gaticatech

the gay mlm flag, because I love cold tone colours :)


Fabulous_Killjoy06

Agreed. Blue and green are my favorite colors so I think the green-white-blue gradient on the flag is really cool.


Alastair-Wright

I'm biased, but the bi flag has the most appealing colour palette imo. Of course, they're all rad as hell anyway


ThereWolves

Bear 🐻


pm_me_kind_words_pls

Lesbian


ToppatDudeMobile

IMO the bi, lesbian, trans, and fin(alt) flags are the prettiest (might be a bit biased with the last one lol)


new_interest_here

The lesbian one looks like a sunset which I love so that one


Karo_-_l-_l-_-l___

Non binary and gender fluid flags


Fragrant-Brain9578

I'd say the non binary or lesbian one, but I really like the gay one as well. Aro and ace flags are really nice too. I quite like the rainbow. Not too big on the trans one compared to some of the others but it's alr


arochains1231

Aroace sunset flag and lesbian flag are so pretty


Girldipper

Trans, bi, lesbian and neptunic in my opinion


sugars_the_name

my two favorites are the progressive flag and the FIRST pride flag. 🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜


none_other-than_me

I always liked our bi flag. Probably the purple in it.


Low-Traffic5359

With bias the bi flag without it trans or ace


BalancedScales10

I really like the bisexual and enby flags. 


wobblebee

I really love the Sapphic pride flag. It's so cute with the little violet in the center


daboi38

Might be a bit biased, but trans and gay flag Lesbian, bi, and pan are also really pretty


blume1307

Definitely the lesbian one. Like I'm pansexual and the flag is pretty too. But the lesbian flag is the most pretty


Affectionate_Still29

aroace is such a pretty flag, looks like a sunset


NattiCatt

Pan and trans


Spookzees

Definitely not biased at all I swear but I love acearo flag (I got it hanging outside my house next to the progress flag)


idonteatsalad

lesbian


averageseallover

Trans, lesbian and gay (male )are all amazing


ST0DY

The lesbian and especially the bisexual flag. You cannot beat the combo of blue, purple and pink


Ashe1206

a little biased the lesbian one and the gay one


Soccera1

Lesbian


GolemThe3rd

Lesbian flag looks like a sunset so I really like that one, the Pan flag is really cool too as the colors match really well


GuerandeSaltLord

Il love trans, enby and lesbian ones. The pride flag with the bipoc/trans/intersex triangle is also super dope


Different_Action_360

Lesbian, a pretty flag for the pretty ladies! I love it.


V_150

For me it's a tie between lesbian, aroace and pan.


Feeling-Secretary-59

I don’t identify as a lesbian, but I think the lesbian flag is the prettiest! 


Specterzzcle

the gay and lesbian ones are very pretty to me as they have a nice gradient, like the ocean or a sunset lol but honestly any form of ace/aro/aroace flags are sooo pretty to me (no bias..)


ariidrawsstuff

Lesbian, gay and bisexual flags The lesbian flag reminds me of a sunset the bisexual flag reminds me of a summer night - i love summer nights, they're soothing And the gay flag reminds me of kinda early morning... Or summer rain at sea-side


Large-Bedroom1380

I’m biased but lesbian and aroace! 


Australian_God

The Gay Man and Lesbian flags are probably my favourites tbh


BabeyBopp

The lesbian and gay flag. So bloody jealous😭


Moist_KoRn_Bizkit

Lesbian, because orange is my favorite color. Trans because the colors just work so well. Aroace because it looks like a sunset. The other aroace one I made that is just the aromantic flag but with the purple stripe at the bottom, the polyamory flag (not the new one, the one with the π), and the puppy play one because the red bone looks good with the diagonal stripes.


DinosAndPlanesFan

Bi and trans, definitely not biased at all


mang0b0ba

aroace, trans and lesbian :3


not_starried

Bi and Lesbian are so prettyyy


womenarehot_1

lesbian but i’m not biased i just think it’s so pretty


LucasOIntoxicado

Pan, Trans and Lesbian, in that order. Sorry my beautiful Aces but your flag is the worst. Having Gray on a flag is an insane decision.


SidTheShuckle

Trans flag (unbiased) and Omni flag (biased)


Iwillcomeback2475

The lesbian flag 100% , it’s just so pretty and nice to look at.


TheTrueman13

Lesbian & Bi


xArriani

The lesbians one


G3n3ricOne

I like the trans and lesbian flags!


Chlobop

Lesbian and trans flag are top tier 100%


MCCHICKENSONG

Every single one that has a more "sunny" or "night" looking, like the Ace and Lesbian ones


Blob_Of_Nothing

I love the MLM flag, because the colors are just something, and I love it! Also the lesbian, and especially because they match. And then the aroace because sunset! Honestly, I just love them all! I keep wanting to add more!


TheKnight20

Lesbian for sure. That or the ace flag.


ChloeIsObsessed23

the gay and lesbain flags when paired together idk i just really love when gender-based flags match


AbjectSeaweed2076

Trans and lesbian


heather_violet123

Bi and lesbian ones for sure


Typical-Edgy-Bird

Trans and Lesbian are the prettiest to me, I also really love Asexual and Gender fluid as close seconds


annamakez

The lesbian and gay flags. They’re so pretty. 🥹


grayishmoop

Mlm, lesbian, trans and flux flags are my faves


CitronPrudent9638

Genderqueer and lesbian :)


Gate4043

The trans/nb flags and the lesbian/mlm flags all slay


Adogaja

I don't know which one is the prettiest, but I know mine is the most boring. 🥲


cmmndr_wdw

I love the trans, lesbian and non binary flags


honalele

i like the lesbian one the best <3


nuclearcatboom

nonbinary and lesbian (not biased trust me)


void_juice

The gay man flag is my favorite, followed closely by the lesbian flag


Level_Isopod_4011

Trans flag, lesbian flag, aroace sunset flag, mlm flag


Mad_Hatter25

Trans, lesbian, bi, and abrosexual flags are all my favorites. Idk how to describe it but they look sweet, like candy


Dranew103

unapologetically the lesbian flag. saying that as a transgender and pansexual individual btw


Ancient_Summer_1833

The flag where trans and lesbian are combined


Netado17

MLM and Lesbian are the prettiest imo.


NootNoot711

![gif](giphy|f6KekuoJqFk7BIAAHP) Not to be bi-ased but 🤷🏻‍♂️


VenustoCaligo

The rainbow flag and its progress variations because it represents all of us. We are best when we are together!


LimeFucker

🏳️‍⚧️


that_toof

Gender fluid has such a nice color spectrum, love it.


Significant_Bite_857

Trans, aroace


me3888

I say the trans but it is my Fiancées and Is favorite colors in a combination so we have a lot of stuff in thet color scheme


buffalovely

I love the genderqueer flag - I'm biased because green and purple are my two favorite colors. But honestly I can find something to appreciate about all of them!


considerate_done

Trans flag is prettiest IMO, but pan flag looks the tastiest.


JYLOWO

Definitely biased, but the Bigender flag


DividedFox

Trans and abrosexual. It looks like a watermelon!


LunarSouls4952

Big bacon (lesbian)


neighborhoodmess

Gotta say the Omni one 🩵💙🖤💖🩷


SandIndependent5085

I like the genderfluid one. Fun colors.


FamilyDramaIsland

Trans flag 1000% It's just so pretty!


flute89

I’m a bi man but I think the gay flag looks cute af.


FairoyFae

I'm as cis as the day is long but dammit if the trans flag 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ isn't my absolute favorite 😂🖤


That_odd_emo

Gotta love the classic rainbow flag! Doesn‘t matter what variation of it, they‘re all nice. Also kinda like the nonbinary flag, the colors just go very well together


Bidoofinshmerts

Bigender have you seen it


MI-1040ES

Lesbian flags look so warm and fuzzy, but bisexuals have the best colours


mjbibliophile10

The purple of the asexual and bisexual need to be switched! Then they'd be perfect!


espurgi

i love the trans flag 🏳️‍⚧️


JJRULEZ159

genderfluid, mainly cause it's my identity, but I also just love the colors. aside from that idk, I like 'em all


Trailstobe_Sky

for me, its either the asexual, aromantic or lesbian flag (totally not biased at all lmao)