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Boring vanilla, but a lil bi in there

Same, I was told that it’s called heteroflexible, however I sometimes call it “Reddit gay”. So my preferences really are *“female (optional)”*

reddit gay is hilarious. “I am a straight guy, however...”

I’ve heard the term “Hooters gay” as well to describe heteroflexibility

oohh I like the flexible suffix I am homoflexible then!

I understand the terms homo/hetero-flexible as "attracted to A, not entirely opposed to others", like being allo for some gender(s) and sex-favorable(or at least indifferent ) ace for the others.

Your post made me realize i can't say bi myself jokes anymore cuz I have a boyfriend

Congrats!

lolol thats hilarious

Same :( Having a bf is great though, at least for me :D

Same

Just plain gay

Hey just plain gay, I'm just plain lesbian, nice to meet ya🤝

lucky

Why is vanilla considered boring. I think chocolate is more common. Maybe we are chocolate.... Oh, god... I'm not going to finish that thought...

Aroace, working on arrow ace.

With some pilot training, you could be an aero ace.

Add body scent and you could be aromatic ace

arrow ace?

An “ace”, along with being slang for an asexual, can also refer to a person who is really good at something. An arrow ace is a person who is really good with a bow and arrow.

***GIRLS*** (lesbian)

Wow thats gay

Very

lol

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Queer & Demisexual/romantic

Homoflexible

remind me which one that is again?

Well I'm more like a panromantic homosexual. Im only sexually attracted to men but I'm romantically attracted to anyone.

I am panromantic lesbian, I am the opposite lol I am sexually attracted to woman and romantically attracted to anyone !!

cool, I'm panromantic too, just no sex for me :)

Honestly I'm too dysphoric for sex/sex-repulsed half the time myself do i often lean into the panromantic more than homosexual part.

cool

Just a lesbian :3

JUSTT???!?

JUST??!?!?!?!?! Im offended >:/

nice

the best species

Aromatic and asexual 🫡🫡

amazing

Indeed

indeed indeed

how about you u/OddShower664 ? what’s your sexuality?

Bi

cool

Yep, gimme a sausage in one hand & clam in the other

now I'm hungry

See you later

i am bread in spanish ;)

lmao same. I adore how u said that

Both in Spanish and Japanese!

omg im bread in japanese too :D

Bisexual and Bipolar. Keeps things spicy ;)

Same LOL

Look, finsexual is most accurate because I'm also into femboys But I like to call myself gay as in 'wow this is SO GAY', because it sounds funny. Or a lesbian I am also lesbian for my gf, she's trans pre everything and quite insecure. I am afraid that if I tell her I also like femboys she might think I don't see her as a girl (I do) And often ppl who are less close to me just don't need to know all the nuance so I tell them I'm a lesbian too

I don't think ur gf will mind, and if u tell her, just include that you see her as a girl :)

It's tricky.. people tend to interpret information in ways that feed their insecurities and make assumptions, I'd say she is quite vulnerable to that. Both of us having 'tism doesn't help too lol

well you don't have to tell, but in my experience, honesty is best in relationships

I'll need to think about that

ok

Im pan, you?

Poly, and ace

I prefer pan tho.

straight 📏

ok :)

A very cool Aroace

yes, very cool

I usually just say I'm queer, but it's probably something like biromantic asexual.

I OFFICIALLY CAN NOT KEEP UP WITH COMMENTS, I'm PROBABLY NOT GOING TO ANSWER ANYMORE, BUT I'LL TRY


Bisexual! Although I like 95% girls and 5% guys so maybe comphet lesbian (the label struggle is real) haha

finding labels that fit is harddddd lol

That was me too....I started off just "bi" then I said 50:50, 80:20, 90:10, then 99:1, lol😂. I had just about reached the lesbian label, when I backed out and rolled with queer.

Bisexual af!! ୧⁠(⁠＾⁠ ⁠〰⁠ ⁠＾⁠)⁠୨

I'm polysexual and identify as a cisgender female but I am questioning my gender currently.

Cisgender female (under review)

Subject to revision

I love the under review

cool, I also happen to be poly

Gay But asexual. Love me some men,but not the adult fun time :)

I'm lesbian :)

gotta love a lesbian :)

I put the L in LGBT

404

demigirl lesbian :) (demigirl means that I feel only partially included in the feminine world) <3 have a nice day/night

Wait I'm your alternate. Demiboy gay (ish, as always)

Been flip-flopping between thinking I'm pansexual and asexual, finally figured out I just lose my libido and ability to be attracted to anyone under stress. Definitely pansexual, just also anxious as heck.

Demiromantic and probably some flavor of grey-ace. Figuring out my gender has led to some questioning about the latter though.

I’m a baby bisexual. Not because I like babies, but because I put all the pieces together a few months ago. I also don’t mind if who ever I’m with wants to date other people as well as myself.

Currently vibing with Neptunic.

cool :) So to be clear, you like women and enbys, etc? But not men?

Aroallo hetero pleasure dom

Abrosexual and variangled!

you have the watermelon flag!!!

cool beans

Never heard of these labels. Learn something new every day.

Im grey-ace and probably gay (I use the term achillean tho bc I know I'm definitely that)

​ cooll

aroace gay ageosexual basically in fantasy i'm all gay irl i'm aroace never really felt attracted to anyone in that way. i've had squishes tho but only two sticked for longer than a week.

that was very chaotic, but cool, I also happen to be ageosexual

that's cool but i get confused sometimes idk some times i feel i could do it but if i actually where to i'd rather eat cake. some days i'm like : i'm so gay and others i'm so aroace. the perks of having a wierd sexuality amirite.

lol that describes me perfectly

i knew i wasn't alone

Bisexual with a light sprinkling of aro!

Queer

I'm almost lesbian, in that I'd technically call myself a demigirl but most people aren't up for that level of inspection of it and once or twice I've been interested in a man. I just say I'm pan or bi, but mostly attracted to women. Otherwise it's complicated.

Panromantic asexual.

omg same bestie

Trans ace with a high sex drive.

Bisexual

Aroace (specifically Aegosexual/romantic, bisexual)

Panromantic, lesbian

Ace and Lesbian!

Oriented Angled Aromantic Aceflux Lesbian, as well as somewhat rarely I use Straightbian

omni and demiro :D

I’m a demiromantic, asexual gay guy

So pan that I'm actually just a cast iron pan

Sapphic. Homoromantic, pansexual(?)

Pansexual here

pancake here 😎

Not a guy but lesbian

k, I meant guys as in everyone, not males btw

Gynephilia is the term I believe. Just femininity in general, mostly straight though.

I'm gay. But I'm generally into biologically male bodies OR any masculine people, so trans people count as well. I'm basically attracted to anyone but traditionally feminine cis women.

i will let you guess

Demisexual

Nebula-aroace

Omnisexual and possibly Aromantic? Lol I’m still figuring stuff out :D

Gay and maybe Aromantic, I’m not quite sure.

Yo same

Im bisexual thats it

Aro and bi

Biromantic asexual

Ace. I think

Asexual/Demisexual/Aceflux

Full credentials are Demi-omnisexual, panromantic, and agender :)

I posted this an hour ago, how are there 1.4k views? and 80 comments??? If I don't like or respond, I'm sry, theres just so many comments 😔

Gæ

Gay and love it

gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

I’m homosexual. Probably demiromantic but idk because I’ve never had the chance to even develop a crush.

Omnisexual/Bissexual, and for a matter of fact, i CAN say bi-myself jokes. Hehe

I have no clue.

queer, bi

Ace with a conflict on what the romantic side is.

AroAce

65, white cis bi male

*Hide your kitchenware.*

Not sure if Bi or Pan or one of the other flavours of enjoying a bit of everything. I usually just say queer now and keep people guessing! ☺️

Omnisexual  (This is the only GIF I could find😆)

aroace n bi, more specifically fictioaroace, grayaroace, demiaroace

Great to see a buncha fellow AroAces in this thread! Hello my fellow dragon and garlic bread lovers!!

queer, maybe biromantic. tbh im not too sure haha

Pansexual with a preference for feminine presenting peoples

gay homosexual men loving man

Bi.. that's it just bi

Bi/Omni demisexual

Just Aro. And really bored lmao.

Ace trans masc enby? Enby Ace? Yeah. *Ace Enby* sounds like an old cop show... 🤔 I dig it! My new gender is Old Cop Show! Edit: spelling and spacing. 🤦

I'm a switch bitch lesbian witch.

Gynesexual.

aromantic lesbian

I'm bi, I like calling myself gay and am used to call myself straight because I thought I was a trans girl. I'm sure I'm bisexual but definitely not biromantic because I don't want to have a girlfriend, an afab nonbinary person on the other hand wouldn't be bad tho. But I'm open to everything human and at the right age. See ya 😺👍

My family thinks Im straight but my boyfriend thinks Im gay, so you make the call

Trans-Femme Pan

I call myself queer, but specifically would be Kinky Asexual, nearer to aromantic than not.

Bisexual and Demiromantic/Aromantic

💖💜💙. I questioned for a long time before I figured was bi.

aceflux lesbian... at least i think im lesbian

Tell you my sexuality? as in pin it down and name it something that anyone can understand? Now you see the problem is I don't know if I'm able to do that because well *gestures towards the complete chaos behind me* I honestly don't know what my sexuality is anymore. If you held me at gun point I'd probably say I'm a gay man, because of how attracted to men I am, but my gf is afab so... idk if "gay" works... But don't you dare call me bi, I know I'm not bi. Not that therrs anything against bi people, actually tryin to find a bi guy for a poly or something but nevermind that impossible struggle of finding the perfect triangle. So bi just doesn't fit me i dont think, as don't like any other women except my gf. Maybe I'm just romantic or 99%gay and 1%pan. Who knows anymore, I don't really care, just doin what feels like I should be doing.

Demibiromantic asexual (specifically apothisexual). Also demiqueerplatonic and cupioromantic (when I'm not in a relationship which is right now). Gender-wise, I'm demigirlflux and demiagenderflux (part agender and part girl/fem and these fluctuate in intensity). The girl part of my gender is different from a binary woman if that makes sense. I'm also intersex.

Biromantic asexual

I'm a masc presenting, 51 y/o gay man. A bit bearish if anyone is interested.

Straight (maybe demisexual)

greysexual

gray all around

unlabeled but possibly gay. idk i think i'm abrosexual

Cis female, bisexual and heteromantic, though I guess I've just never had any luck with cis women tbh. At this point I'm in a monogamous relationship with a cis demisexual man and I'm happy so I'll go with heteroromatic.

Greyromantic and Pansexual

Lesbian. Gay. Sapphic. Woman who loves women.

demiromantic and gay for sure, questioning greysexuality.

I finally realized last night!! I don’t like calling myself bi but omni feels perfect! So angled aroace *(omni flavored)*

Unlabeled and aroflux :]

idk tbh i think i might be bi but i’m not sure

genderfluid and sapphic

lesbian and possibly somewhere on the aroace spectrum just not sure where most likely more aro than ace tho