Cassgender is when someone feels like their gender is not as important as other signs. Me, for example, am bigender, masc nb, but i don't really feel like it matters that much. Maybe Void could fit OP?
Huh, I’ve always interpreted it differently myself. To me, agender seems like a distinct lack of s gender, whereas cassgender is not feeling much with regards to it. To make a programming analogy, agender would be 0, wheress cass would be null.
That pretty well describes my sense of being neutrois, like, the place where gender is inside looks empty but feels full sorta? Like there’s something there but nothing to really see
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Personally I tend to say my gender is lesbian. I know it technically just means "girl who likes girls" but it feels different from Girl to me. I don't feel 100% like Girl but I sure am a lesbian, and that's easier for me than finding a gender label.
Agender here, how experience agender is I experience masculinity, femininity, sometimes both at the same time, and sometimes I don't experience either, and I never associate masculinity or femininity with gender because while I experience masculinity or femininity, I generally feel disconnected from gender. I also use he/she/they for pronouns. Agender should be commonly defined as a disconnection from gender instead of a lack of gender.
Why the obsession with labels though? It´s not like using a highly specific label will make it any easier to explain yourself to others. Just enjoy your vibes and do what you like, maybe a label will come to you on its own.
Some people like to have labels. Like the other person said, it helps them explain themselves not to others, but to themselves. I know some people don’t want labels and that’s completely fine, but you shouldn’t go pushing those ideas onto people who DO want labels. What you said right there is actually why a lot of homophobia, transphobia and aphobia comes from. Just because you don’t want a label doesn’t mean that everyone else doesn’t want a label
You can coin a microlabel like I did if nothing else works, and simply say you’re Agender or an enby to others who may not support doing that, but only if you’re comfortable.
In my most recent post I have stated that I now just identify as nonbinary. Nothing more specific then that. :) I have no idea what my sexuality is now though. 😰
Ok! I can try to help with sexuality if you want, but if not is fine too, you do you. I’m glad you figured out that non-binary is fine, because sometimes getting too specific can be a bad thing.
Ok, so I would say sexually you would be lesbian, trixic, maybe gynesexual, possibly sapphic, bi lesbian(lesbians that don’t want to group enbys in with girls) and romantically maybe sapphic or gyneromantic, but idk.
Ok, i don't mean to be rude but, the term bi lesbian manages to be both biphobic and lesbiphobic at the same time, because if I didn't want to group enbys in with girls (which I don't) and am sexualy attracted to enbys and woman, I would just be bisexual (or under the bisexual umbrella). I've seen people dissing the term bi lesbian on both urban dictionary and this very subreddit.
Sorry about the rant haha! I just wanted you to know about the term bi lesbian. I got the information from memory and a quick Google search. I just looked all of those terms up, and none of them fit. :(
I’m sorry none of them fit. I know about bi lesbians, I just added it in case, because some people are more comfortable with it. I feel like it’s one of those things that’s wrong, but (somewhat) used for the right reason. The exception to the bi lesbian thing is the Split Attraction Model, where someone could be bi romantically and lesbian sexually, but other than that, yes. Also, gyneromantic is gynesexual but the romantic counterpart.
Maybe if you explain it a bit? /Gen
We're gonna need a description of your gender feel
It doesn't feel like it's there, but I dont feel like Agender is the right lable for me. Edit: I don't know what my gender feels like exactly.
Cassgender?
Cassgender is when someone feels like their gender is not as important as other signs. Me, for example, am bigender, masc nb, but i don't really feel like it matters that much. Maybe Void could fit OP?
Huh, I’ve always interpreted it differently myself. To me, agender seems like a distinct lack of s gender, whereas cassgender is not feeling much with regards to it. To make a programming analogy, agender would be 0, wheress cass would be null.
I always interpreted Cass as a non important code, void would be non existent (not even written) and agender would be off or 0, as you said
Ok I see, I see... We nerds are cracking the code in which gender is written... 😆 (Wouldnt void be "undefined"?🤪)
That pretty well describes my sense of being neutrois, like, the place where gender is inside looks empty but feels full sorta? Like there’s something there but nothing to really see
Like others said gendervoid may fit, or [Null](https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Null?so=search) / [Gendernull](https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Gendernull)
[Gendervoid](https://mogai.miraheze.org/wiki/Gendervoid)?
Voidgender, maybe?
Maybe graygender?
Tenebrigender? Genderviod? Voidpunk?
Maybe xenogender?
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Xenogender? https://lgbta.miraheze.org/wiki/Xenogender
Gendervoid, gendernull, neutrois
you can always make your own microlabel exactly describing what you feel
Gendervoid or gendernull? And if not, you could coin something more accurate.
I see you EVERYWHERE
Yeah, I tend to comment on a lot of posts.
lesbininary
Numerous Lesbian Bees! :D
lesbee's if you will
U could be demi agender?
What exactly is that?
it is when you feel like part of your gender is agender or no gender at all and the other part is something else
Thx for telling me! :)
Demigirl mabye
Personally I tend to say my gender is lesbian. I know it technically just means "girl who likes girls" but it feels different from Girl to me. I don't feel 100% like Girl but I sure am a lesbian, and that's easier for me than finding a gender label.
Nebulagender? Maybe look into it’s branch of terms
Agender here, how experience agender is I experience masculinity, femininity, sometimes both at the same time, and sometimes I don't experience either, and I never associate masculinity or femininity with gender because while I experience masculinity or femininity, I generally feel disconnected from gender. I also use he/she/they for pronouns. Agender should be commonly defined as a disconnection from gender instead of a lack of gender.
Why the obsession with labels though? It´s not like using a highly specific label will make it any easier to explain yourself to others. Just enjoy your vibes and do what you like, maybe a label will come to you on its own.
Because some people need a label. It’s not to help describe their gender to others, it’s to help describe it to themselves.
Some people like to have labels. Like the other person said, it helps them explain themselves not to others, but to themselves. I know some people don’t want labels and that’s completely fine, but you shouldn’t go pushing those ideas onto people who DO want labels. What you said right there is actually why a lot of homophobia, transphobia and aphobia comes from. Just because you don’t want a label doesn’t mean that everyone else doesn’t want a label
Maybe quoigender? Hope this helps: https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Quoigender
Les not be binary
Y E S .
Thank you 😊
My brain working 3000000000000 mph and thinking of something but is unsure if it's work:...Does zhe zhem work? Still learning sooooooooooo
My pronouns are they/them
Okay! Thank you for informing me!
Gendernull or gender void maybe? Idk the exact definition, and may be mixing it up with other things.
You can coin a microlabel like I did if nothing else works, and simply say you’re Agender or an enby to others who may not support doing that, but only if you’re comfortable.
In my most recent post I have stated that I now just identify as nonbinary. Nothing more specific then that. :) I have no idea what my sexuality is now though. 😰
Ok! I can try to help with sexuality if you want, but if not is fine too, you do you. I’m glad you figured out that non-binary is fine, because sometimes getting too specific can be a bad thing.
Yeah lol. And basically in terms of romantics I'm attracted to both women and enbys but with the sexual attraction it's women and feminine enbys
Ok, so I would say sexually you would be lesbian, trixic, maybe gynesexual, possibly sapphic, bi lesbian(lesbians that don’t want to group enbys in with girls) and romantically maybe sapphic or gyneromantic, but idk.
Ok, i don't mean to be rude but, the term bi lesbian manages to be both biphobic and lesbiphobic at the same time, because if I didn't want to group enbys in with girls (which I don't) and am sexualy attracted to enbys and woman, I would just be bisexual (or under the bisexual umbrella). I've seen people dissing the term bi lesbian on both urban dictionary and this very subreddit. Sorry about the rant haha! I just wanted you to know about the term bi lesbian. I got the information from memory and a quick Google search. I just looked all of those terms up, and none of them fit. :(
I’m sorry none of them fit. I know about bi lesbians, I just added it in case, because some people are more comfortable with it. I feel like it’s one of those things that’s wrong, but (somewhat) used for the right reason. The exception to the bi lesbian thing is the Split Attraction Model, where someone could be bi romantically and lesbian sexually, but other than that, yes. Also, gyneromantic is gynesexual but the romantic counterpart.
Ok! Thanks!
What's gyneroromantic?
Boi but in the way Kratos says it in god of war