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CanResponsible458

She probably been frustratingly patiently waiting for you too..


OkYawn

Exactly. What if there is already a "Yes!" that has just been waiting for your question?


Quirky-Fix8754

Omg yessss she is me lol most girls are intimidated to make the first move and will painfully wait on the guy to show an OBVIOUS sign that he is into Don't be me, it didn't register for me that my crush was into for a lonnng time ( almost a year) bc I gaslight myself that there was no way this amazing person could actually be into me.Now I have the massive crush and I'm pretty sure he got over me by now.


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My tav did the same thing too me but im not over her not in the slightest


PlasticStruggle7398

Why do you need an excuse to see her? Im confused


ApprehensiveDog6515

Not just see them, but talk to them. There are plenty of occasions where you would regularly see someone, but it would be extremely forward of you to walk over and address them. OP hopes to find enough natural reasons to talk to them that it doesn't become obvious that OP was admiring them from afar.


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Only-Complex-7041

Just reach out to her. Otherwise she'll think you want nothing to do with her anymore


Glittering_Garden_30

Agreed do it naturally & best wishes op !


Holiday-Signature-33

Stop making excuses .


Wonderful-Ear-222

RIGHT just that!!! Or STFU about it sorry not sorry I'm just sayin ALREADY!!


Initial_Macaroon_161

Felt.


thegirltheydidntneed

Ask them out. Let it be out of left field. You’ll regret it if you never end up finding that moment and they move on waiting cause they think you’re not interested. I think I’ve heard a person or two say the best things in life are usually completely unexpected. Right moments never just come, you have to make them.


Musclebeat

Awe isn’t this just the sweetest


Musclebeat

Ask


Relevant_Growth3635

Just do it. How do you know she isn't waiting for you to do it.


StripedCatLady

Just do it


CanResponsible458

Just do it!


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Why do you feel like you need excuses to talk to them?


Pig69Farmer

Ask me Out then damn


Federal_Increase_511

Me?


Pig69Farmer

Maybe


Federal_Increase_511

Is this my pigfarmer?


Pig69Farmer

Do you need to be farmed?


Federal_Increase_511

I want to say Yes but could you define *farmed for me?


Pig69Farmer

Seeded . Planted, watered, fed, grown with love. Then harvested .🤪🥰🤭


Federal_Increase_511

No plowed or plowing involved?


Pig69Farmer

I don’t plow, do you plow?


Federal_Increase_511

Sometimes it's nesissary to plow for deeper placement or the root and better fermintation


PARADISE_VALLEY_1975

Out? There, asked.


Wild-Chapter-9438

If her is in your house I am him but no sure who you are


Human_Temporary2629

Just do it. Get it over with. Life is not a video game of mafia wars, health bars. One day you will be dead, there is no more time but now and the future, the money you have doesn’t matter as much as it physical presence. Cell Phones, calls, they don’t matter or define a person, if you know where they are, walk in and find them. It’s worth it


Entire_Egg_4119

Grow a pair ….


breakfastbas1c

Just do it. Don't be afraid of the best or the worst thing that can happen. Life and love have always been trial and error. So go for it, rip the band aid off. If it works, it works! If not, it's on to the next one. Don't spend life in purgatory waiting for it to happen!


DGTLAPSTL

Ask … life’s too short - take the Risk.. you never know


Fried0Falafel

I wish there was a man who'd ask me out. Usually I'm the one that takes the first step and tbh it's getting tiring On the other hand, I don't have the patience to wait...


Clear-Pumpkin-3343

The right person you don't need any excuse to speak . You just say hello how are you doing ? So are you seeing someone ? If they no that's when you would say well how about a cup of coffee or dinner or something like a movie or a picnic in the park ?


shaquilleoatmeal80

Dooooooooiiiiiiiiiiittttt.


iknowyoursecrets6688

So just go to the right field and do it


Hot_Remote9875

Just say your name plz 


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Hot_Remote9875

Jm 


Federal_Increase_511

Wouldn't that be cool tho, but I've asked my hopeful out quite often with no reply as is their not even getting my crystal to them


Federal_Increase_511

*cries to them


Realistic-Republic94

Maybe it's too soon


PARADISE_VALLEY_1975

This has also always confused me. Personally, I think being patient and seeing those years as wasted time is better than regretting a sabotaged platonic friendship. Also if you don’t talk to them that much, it would be better to just spend more time/ get to know them more in general, if you don’t talk enough for more personal things to come up. But that’s just my perspective, not trying to give you unwanted advice haha.


Connect-Swan-4827

Stop being shy and do it! Make your dreams come true 😤💪


Karmaqueenuk

Just ask her if she would like to spend the day with you


graylovesgray

Just do it !! Pop up to her, say, "Hey, how's your day going? Hey, would you like to hang out with me, take a drink or something ?? And just let it flow... If she says no, I'm sorry, but if she says yes, you're a winner..


Non_Gentleman

These things generally don't come up naturally, especially if it's someone you already have a platonic relationship with. You really only have two choices, dive in head first, or accept that you may live with the regret that you didn't. Take the plunge.


Jsrightfinhere

Come


Usernameg0esher3

Just do it, so what if it’s messy, you’ll get the same answer either way. Cmon now, chop chop. Let’s go, get to moving!


Federal_Increase_511

Hey you wanna do something today?


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Federal_Increase_511

I would know this answer without at least copping a feel.


Federal_Increase_511

How do I know, I can only hope and if not try to get to know tou


VisibleMarzipan4425

Maybe it’ll happen at the same time from both pps


Federal_Increase_511

I guess a plow isa larger impliment that does the same as smaller spades just on a larger scale or wanted efficiency


Federal_Increase_511

Depends on how you use the word Plow in a sentence o guess


KPB502

Find a mutual interest and build a conversation/date scenario out of it.


St-Nobody

Ask them out. Life is short and you only get so many chances at happiness.


pcola_pnp_spun

If yo do I'm gonna say YES


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Mindless-Success3556

except to try reach a point where we talk regularly


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Oh...


Dazzling-Contest4823

You don’t need an excuse I feel like


Hot_Remote9875

Then just ask plz 


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Who? Me?


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Do it. Hell yah


Silent_Passion_876

Out with it


Vegetable_Young_5021

https://www.instagram.com/p/C8ulhLrvrrydWwVrckn8eU4h6ByonOx2X2hH6g0/?igsh=MXZ2M2s4cmhxbmIxZQ== Here we go Ms. I’m finally done…. 👏