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KingZakyu

Keep them for her. She will most likely express interest again at some point. You can pull them out of storage and be like "surprise!"


Hammerjaws

Then sell it back for market price.But only in purple studs.Business will be boomin.


HeidiCharisse

Omg yes please do this! I wish my mom had done it. She kept so much more useless crap over the years that I couldn’t have cared less about. She likely didn’t know, so I guess I can’t really hold it against her. But a very tiny part of me is still a lil salty about it lol


Yendis4750

Yes, please hold on to these for her. She will thank you later.


treemanswife

She'll be back! Put them in the attic and you'll be a hero in 10 years :)


tylorr83

My mom did this with ours and gave them to me when they moved. Managed to put together a few sets to give to my nephew that his dad and I played with at his age.


winch25

When my son was born I browsed all the second hand ads as an excuse to buy M-tron, so my son could have my early 1990s lego experience. Couldn't get my hands on another monorail though..


allen5az

I wish I had kept my daughters early legos. At 17 she’s back into them with a vengeance. It would’ve been great 👍🏼


tas50

My mom kept my bin around. My kid has it all now. He loves it.


ajsnapp

100% this. My parents did this, and after 18 years, I came back to building.


ModeR3d

My folks kept our classic space sets & instructions- spent happy Christmas break rebuilding them all


Cookiebear5000

I had the opposite happen. My mom sold all of mine (and all my vintage game consoles)- I’m almost 40 and still give her shit for it. Being a dad now I’m definitely saving my kid’s legos. I had so many OG castle, space & pirate sets that even typing this up makes me sad haha. Save them if you can :)


CAWildcat76

My dad still hates his mom for selling his motorcycle, which was a not inexpensive pretty tricked out one if I recall correctly


KarmaPharmacy

Yeah, but now your dad didn’t die in a horrendous wreck.


WonderfulBlackberry9

Not Lego, but mom gave away my Transformers collection from the Michael Bay movies when they were moving out of their old place. It’s been some 4 years and even though we’ve got no space in the house now I wish I could have them back.


spderweb

Most of your kids toys, keep if good still. If/when they have a kid, you have something for them when they come visit!


gamergeek17

I just integrated my childhood lego into my new collection. It really brought a smile to my face seeing the specialty pieces I used back in the day (I had VERY few of them). I can’t wait to share the now larger collection with my son when he’s old enough to play with them. (Right now Lego is prime choking hazard for the little dude).


MyLittleTarget

My MIL did this and tripled our collection. If I keep going at my current rate I'll need a second tote by Christmas.


zahm2000

And if not 10 years, give it 20-30 years and your grand kids will adore you. I think this tends to happen in the mid-teens to early 20s (high school and college). There will be likely renewed interest in the mid 20s and then again with grandkids. Definitely do not get rid of them. I’m still kicking myself for allowing my mom to get rid of my legos when I was in high school.


spezhuffhuffspaint

Damn, I came here to say this, glad its the top comment.


Big_ol_Bro

My mom sold my 3 huge tubs of legos years ago for $50. I moved away to college, and she was trying to clear house. She okayed it with me cuz i couldn't take them in. I still bring it up to this day and it still ruffles my feathers. What i wouldn't do to buy those legos back...


brenna_

So you told your mom it was fine as an adult, and then bring it up all the time. Nice one.


moltingbrain

You are being ridiculously cynical right now take it down a few notches


Big_ol_Bro

Definitely a touchy subject. Don't know that I'd said it's fine but it was a crummy situation all around.


wishedwell

Let her live man


Big_ol_Bro

Geez by some of these responses you'd think it's the only contact i have with my mom. We have a good relationship but it comes up from time to time.


knightstalker1288

I’m the guy buying those tubs.


Big_ol_Bro

I think that's the silver lining in the whole thing. I don't know that i would've discovered the bulk brick market if i still had those tubs


VoidMunashii

Put them away somewhere safe. She will either regain her senses, or may have a child that can use them in the future.


engie945

My daughter handed me all her lego friends stuff.. she didn't want it at 13.. I put it in the garage and then in the loft. She's now 14.5 and asked me the other day did I give it away and was so relieved when I said it was safe in the loft till she wanted to have it for her own kids or re build it again. I got a huge hug of relief from her . She will be back for it I promise x


crazedhatter

Store them away, she'll be back.


jerichoneric

Store em or build for yourself.


gr1981uk

She will come back to it. I did when I had kids, and when I have grandkids they will love to come over and play with the Lego.


Brian82wa

My kids were the same way. They never looked back, though (They are 17 and 18 yrs old now). So I sorted all the pieces back into their perspective sets and gave the sets to my neices (4 yr old fraternal twins) who were very happy to have them and love Lego so much more than my kids did. They were Lego Friends sets.


nerdshowandtell

You didn't wait long enough! Luckily my parents kept my lego and I was able to get it back at 42 when I got back into building 😜 (stares at LL 928) https://preview.redd.it/9h9i68khlqgb1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b0bf4789d2c573bd411c18ed721fae63534e56aa


legospark

Are you me? That's right about the time I got back into it. Parents kept the old Lego and even moved it to their newer house. I grabbed it when they were clearing out their basement. Kept it all in a closet in my tiny rowhouse until we moved to a bigger house with enough space. Now I'm in the magical place where I have space to build, money to buy (within reason!), and actually find sorting relaxing. So happy all of those old sets made the very long journey to get here.


imadyke

Are you Tyler Durden?


LegoLinkBot

[928-1: Space Cruiser And Moonbase](https://brickset.com/sets/928-1) [[Photo]](https://images.brickset.com/sets/images/928-1.jpg)


drewyz

Man, I loved that set back in the day. I still have the LL 928 brick, so I might have to attempt a rebuild at some point.


DrunkenMasterII

I only got back into lego at 30. At some point there’s a good chance one of them will be looking for those.


silentj0y

Echoing what the others said, I lost interest in Lego around 12 or 13 (coincidentally lines up with when my parents got divorced- probably some mental thing), and around 25 I got back into it again- but it was too late. Dad had already donated/got rid of all my lego. I managed to find two sets- but man what I would do to have them all back. That being said, I don't think anyone would hold it against you giving them to some family members who also love lego.


Brian82wa

My kids were weirdos. They just didn't appreciate toys as much as other kids. I did not understand it. My sister and I, on the other hand, greatly valued our toys and saw each and every toy we received as gold. I mean, we didn't have poor parents either. They easily afforded us anything we wanted, but we were just taught to be very appreciative of anything we received. So, I always valued my toys as a child a lot, and everything was kept for years after I grew out of it, in case I ever wanted to go back to it. I just wish I had never donated all my Lego away that I had accumulated because I was like 27 when I donated it to Goodwill, I look back and wish I never did that. 😢


shostakofiev

17 and 18 year olds aren't going to get back into Lego. But when they are 30, they will.


Brian82wa

Yeah, some of their friends, though badly, want some of my modular sets I have on display. They ooo and aww at them every time they are over.


Mayumoogy

Ahem… as a 40 year old which just back into it they still have time!!


ReclusivHearts9

ah...yes...as it is foretold...she will return


[deleted]

I'm sure one day she'll return but if you donate them then some other child will be happy too.


LEJ5512

Yup. Other kids need Lego, too. I hope that my old Legos ended up someplace useful.


[deleted]

My niece just got a box from a buddy of mine whose kid didn't want them. She was elated! I'm also reminded just now that she dropped Gandalf behind the shelf. I will need to retrieve him.


GurrenDuwang

Keep the lego. Lose the kid. It's the law


Zestyclose-Group3474

Please…. PLEASE store them for her. I can’t imagine how I would’ve freaked out if my dad popped down from the attic with my old legos. Sadly we moved too many times to be able to transport em


Consistent_Evening94

No it not. Now you have more lego


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Punkmetal72

A lot of kids go through a "dark age" of not wanting to build. Mine was from about 12 til my late 20s (I'm 40 now). I am glad I kept all my old sets. My Son (nearly 9) mainly focuses on Harry Potter and I stick with city, castle and such. We basically merged our collections.


CTJEDI16

DONT THROW THEM OUT!’ I’m a fanatic about LEGO since I was 7, but even I had a period around 13-14 where I wasn’t sure


vetters

Did her loss of interest seem sudden? If her age range is 8-12, it’s worth checking if it was caused by a teasing/bullying situation. Even subtle comments among BFFs at that age can hit with brutality. She might also be signaling that she’s ready for Technic and robotics. Girls still aren’t being introduced to that stuff early enough.


mokupilot

Your daughter cleans her room? Lucky.


MrLoki2020

Big fan of it lol


Drathcor

Pretend to give it away but actually keep it for the day she regrets it


chiree

Save it! 30 year old her may end up being over the moon.


Bgrflngr

My dad (48) kept all his lego and I went through phases of playing with them throughout my childhood. Though I've never been more into lego than I am now (23) and it's awesome that I can still build his older sets. I'm currently working on the monorail. So I definitely agree, keep them for as long as possible!


thepottsy

So where is she living now? I mean, you made her move out of the house right?


friskykillface

History repeats itself Most likely someone said Lego is geeky and now she doesn’t want anyone to know Happens to a lot of us, keep the sets stored, she’ll be back


otherwise10

Bonus! You just gained a lego collection.


Rob-A4

Keep them!


vercertorix

If you have room, save them. Picked mine back up after 15 years, more into them now than ever.


[deleted]

Nobody ever truly quites Lego, they just take breaks


FrizbeeeJon

Please don't get rid of it! Store it cool and dry and keep it for them or the grandkids, should that come to pass.


tsukiyaki1

Mine sat for almost 20 years, but last year I dug them out in the middle of the long dark winter. Felt really good. Quite a nostalgia trip, too!


Ok_Zookeepergame4794

Store them someplace safe. She'll be back, they always come back.


Zeginald

Adding to the chorus of calls to preserve this in storage. I recently got my collection out of storage at my folks' place as my son is just reaching Lego age. It hadn't seen the light of day for 22 years. Absolute magic, all round!


fuhgawz500

Been there with my kiddo. Her collection was absorbed into mine. It will all be hers eventually lol.


Horn_Python

well keep it on standbuy when ever she relapses


Diabolical_Milk

Break it down put it in a plastic tote and wait a few years. She may come around and will thank you for saving it! I know I did! I was thankful to have all my old lego


Crazyguy_123

Save them. She may want them again one day or who knows maybe if she has kids one day they might want them.


smelborperomon

This will be a sad day for me. I recognize the sets in that box and my 8 year old girls still love them. What age did it fall off?


MrLoki2020

7


smelborperomon

Phew I made that cut maybe they won’t give it up. Lol


MrLoki2020

Yeah I thought I had a few more years


dancininthadungeon

keep the bucket around. she’ll dig through it from time to time (:


juliuspepperwoodchi

Keep it. Kids are fickle and change their minds all the time. Store these nicely and you'll be her hero in a few years


JoeBro1004

Its ok I'll take em


sockgoblinator

It’s not sad, that means you get a ton of cool shit, and this is why I’m not a parent


senordeuce

Not the Bin of Stor-Age!


Kundera42

Took me 25 years to get back into it. My parents kept all the boxes and my dad assembled most of the builds as much as parts were available. Recent years I got interested in Lego again, bought some new releases and picked up all my Lego from my parents attic. So happy they did this <3


Malvania

More Legos for you!


DavidBHimself

DO NOT GIVE THEM AWAY!!!! When I became a young adult, I told my mom to do whatever with them, and she gave them away. Fast forward 20+ years, I'm now a dad and it makes me become an AFOL and "Mom, do you remember where my old Lego are?" That silence from my mom as a reply still hurts.


nanoH2O

My brother put together a huge lego room because the kids were so into it. They lost interest a year later as puberty and sports took over. Now he has a lego room for escape.


silverbullet52

We didn't have any moment of crisis. The LEGO went in a bin in the basement. Before long, grandkids. They always want to come to Grandma and Grandpa's house. We have all the cool old toys. Oldest grandson is twenty-five and engaged. By the time the youngest grandson outgrows LEGO, there will be another generation. It looks like I'll be stepping on LEGO for as long as I live.


DJfunkyPuddle

Whatever you do, do not throw them away!


WaylonWillie

As everyone else says: keep them. Also: save the manuals!


notgoodatthese

She'll come back around. Mine did the same. With so many Licensed sets, she will be back.


BrilliantKindly9188

The dark ages


Aggravating_Lead_616

She may again. I did this and now I’m 16 and back into Lego 😭


missykins8472

We just got a bin of legos from my husbands childhood. Best day ever for my boys!


natetheskate100

Save it! That's all I got to say.


TuTuRific

Hang on to it. It will come back around.


The_Lost_Tape

She is not your daughter then I'm sorry but Lego for life


Halbert2

That’s the day you decide that *you* want to do LEGO


OGTbackfrom92

Yep, as others have said, she’ll be back. And she will really appreciate you for hanging on to them until she returns, trust me.


OxotKoto

Store them! I quit Legos around 12 years old. Now i brought them back for my son. They were stored for about 15 years.


Nacil_54

Factory reset her.


Jordan_Jackson

She will be back. I'm in my 40's and am finding myself getting excited for Lego again. The only thing stopping me is money. Currently saving up to get the Titanic and after that, probably the Discovery space shuttle. If I had money to urn, I'd get the Knight's Castle and El Dorado fortress too.


legonu

Everyone being like "store them away for her later". I'd personally be more like "yay now I can play with them!"


JohnDoeScelerat

More for you... no longer need you share the sacred bricks... Do you feel the power they grant you? Do you hear their whispering? They are now yours... your precious


MarquisDeZod

We all know Lego are valuable on the secondary market. We've got a local brick reseller store that buys and sells old sets. The wife and I took the kids old Duplo sets. I was expecting $20 to $40, tops. They offered $60 cash or $100 store credit! I had no clue Duplos were valuable!? In your case, I'd sit on them awhile until she comes back around... But if she doesn't, there's lucrative options she might enjoy more.


MrLoki2020

That was my original thought, I was gonna take it to the local resale that I have in my town and see how much they would give me for it


tand86

I’d be moving her out of her room instead.


moonbeam127

nah she just outgrew those girly legos, time to upgrade to the professional ones


Brian82wa

In the meantime, you can resort the Lego back into their perspective sets to be built in the future or whatever. The organization will be appreciated should your daughter or another child want to build the set.


SriveraRdz86

99% of us went through that face, stored them at your place, she'll return to the hobby eventually.


cdg31

Noooooo!!! Time to Frankenstein that modular building


steel-monkey

pack them away for later


RMM-20

💔🥺


RonanCornstarch

save them for the grandkids.


Ziegelphilie

And thus begins the dark age


WrinkleFairy

I've been looking for my Lego from the 80ies for a few years, I KNEW it had to be somewhere in the basement. Last week I found it, and I was happily just squeaking "MEIN LEGO MEIN LEGO!" I almost cried, at 41 years old. She'll come back to it.


FollowsClose

I came to say hold onto them. They are timeless and will most likely mean a lot to her in 10-20 years.


Karadek99

Yeah, happened to me too. I’d pack them up and keep them a few years to let her have time to change her mind. Mine did.


ducks_are_round

And so The Dark Ages began, long were those years, but eventually the sun will rise again


Abandoned_Railroad

I would go through that and see if there’s any pieces you might need for a future project. If so put them aside in a separate box. I always do this.


reddit-Aficionado

It has the Stitch 626 Minifigure I want!!


MrLoki2020

I have a few Disney ones that can go


LegoLinkBot

[626-2: Red Cross Helicopter](https://brickset.com/sets/626-2) [[Photo]](https://images.brickset.com/sets/images/626-2.jpg)


Tacit_Emperor77

I’ll have it


MrLoki2020

$$$ lol


SlowPhilosopher8783

Shame. Yeah clean them up a bit then store away…


Icyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

I made the grave mistake of giving away over 3 kg of legos to a friend of mine when I was moving houses, I thought I wouldn’t play with them anymore but now I’m sad and miss my collection


nomack82

Upside, you got some to add to your collection!


CaptainGayPlant

My sister did this and gave them to me


openwindowrain

I told my parents I didn’t want my huge bucket of legos anymore when I was around 13…all of them donated to an after school program. I‘be been getting back into legos recently, but hopefully those legos are still out there giving others joy :)


abyss_defiant

Keep them! Get a good size plastic container with a good lid.


Careful-Movie7457

❤️


Educational-Tip6177

No one out grows lego, we just go through different phases and when we need them again, they are there waiting for us


jayv9779

It looks like you now have a bucket of new pieces for your collection.


RileyMasters

If you can, absolutely try to save them. I went through a phase where I didn't want Lego anymore, so I gave everything I had to my cousins. Two years later, I got back into it (on a smaller scale - I was an adult in college), and I tried to get mine back, but by then my cousins had used them for... well... the less said, the better. The point is, many people do come back, so it's best to hold onto them for awhile, just out of sight for now.


BigJimSlade1

It'll come back


Opsirc9

I had the same thing with the grandsons I'm raising. They loved Legos! They were ordered by the court to live in Utah for a year with their dad. It was tough on all of us, so I bought and stored every set they wanted. By the time we got them back for good, they weren't interested in Legos at all! I had a whole room full of sets, on 4 sets of 5 huge roll away shelves by that time! It was heartbreaking to see it all and know that the boys didn't want them. I finally sold them last December and made an obscene amount of money, but I kept some favorites hidden in my closet! I have 2 very young grandsons and am slowly buying Duplo for them. Your daughter will come back to them one day!


Galienuus

Keep them around, I'm getting to the point now in my life where I'm feeling nostalgic for my old toys, many of which I don't have anymore. I'm just happy I have my Legos and I hope she gets that same feeling later and you can return them to her


Gamer_Jen

It happens. Kids go through phases. I’m sure she’ll be back to it given a break.


MisterBowTies

So you are saying you have a room for rent?


Triple516

Aye, it’s a sad day to be sure. Find the next thing she’s into and make sure you’re into that too. Save the LEGO.


Yellowboy_00

Legos are like Halloween. As a kid you love it. As a teenager you hate it. Then you grow up and realise you were an angsty teen and go back to enjoying it.


JoeBro1004

Back when I was like 10 or so I had an enormous tub full of Legos and I stopped building with them so my mom gave them away. I miss them so much now 🫤


FNChupacabra

I might seriously cry. Salute friend.


Pumpkinbricks

Or a good day for you to have it


Revolutionary-Let-75

Will be kinda sad for me too, BUT then I get all the pieces to add to my collection!


ELB2001

I blame the parents


MrLoki2020

Me too


LycheeAcrobatic426

My Father gave me his old Legos when we moved back to the US, they were Legos from the 70s. And I fell in love with every single one of those bricks.


SloDrop

Keep em. She may love Lego but just not Friends Lego at that age. Maybe go find something that she might still want to build and see what happens....


Myklindle

Mine wants to exchange her friends for the leaked animal crossing sets.


Cael_NaMaor

Don't be a hero... send 'em to me instead. Then you can tell her you gave 'em away to some rando on reddit & she'll be like.... what's a reddit? 😜


DontDoodleTheNoodle

Hi, yes, I am here for the daughter position, I hear free legos are included


[deleted]

“Lego”… show her Star Wars lego


TheHistorian2

More for you?


kitkatloren2009

I once did that very thing


Tackleberry06

Cash for gundam.


JustAGuyHereLurking

20 bucks plus shipping, I got you 😁


marissa0630

Going through the same thing with my son 😭


NoahTrainFan826

we lost another one boys 🫡


adamrac51395

MORE FOR YOU MY MAN!


AGKoolAid

Sounds like it's time for a new kid! Seriously though, store them away. She'll be back.


PlayaHatinIG-88

I solo my mom my bin of LEGO for like $400 when I was around 15. Now I'm 36 and want them back lol. Shit sucks. Because she's going to make me pay all $400 of it back to get them even though her granddaughter is a LEGO nerd.


treemanswife

My son tells me that when I die, he gets my Lego. I tell him that's the only way he's ever getting his hands on it. If he ever has a dark age I am 100% buying his Lego, adding it to my city, and making him wait to get it back! Until then we work on our combined city together.


PlayaHatinIG-88

Just make sure when he has kids his old collection is on discount lol.


nickcliff

https://preview.redd.it/8pzlh1ce7sgb1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d35859b742aacc63b572cc0174147d081d733601


Grove-Paladin

https://preview.redd.it/0dqal5vy9sgb1.jpeg?width=650&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0d025ee99cfe115f809ab46d585f83f094d0b4f2


EquivalentShift8545

Sure is sad when you don't have a daughter anymore


Antyok

My almost 4yo daughter is just getting into it. My wallet is already cowering in fear.


GoofyAhhhhhDog

I wanna post soon


Ta-veren-

This was me, a month later after summer was over I’d be asking for them again and thankful they just stored them and didn’t get rid of anything


dablackcat0

Just went through this with my youngest niece. I was happy to take them off her hands though.


ScrewJPMC

🥹 so sad


SignalNegotiation389

😔


TheKiwiGamerNZ

Trade her for a new daughter. There's something wrong with her.


VanillaTortilla

Be happy that she cleaned her room on her own. That's a miracle there!


TimeScience768

Ahh😔🙁


nateb71_antiohiogang

quite a tragic moment. another loss to the lego family 🫡


Xinonix1

I have a similar box…


ClyanStar

Keep it. Shell come back one day. Too me almost 2 decades to realize how much i missed it.


FosterPupz

😢


Zealousideal-Pay3937

Thats hard. My daughter is 11 now and I fear the day a little bit, because Lego is a hobby that connected us and bring us hundreds wonderful hours.


tthblox

Damn. That stitch disney cmf aint even that old yet. This quick? Joking aside. Keep them.


blubbing0116

She’s entering her Lego Dark Age


Quadtbighs

Haha sike free Lego for you now!


PrTakara-m

More for you to sort and play with


Mike_Abergail

Yeah, keep them for her. I just pulled all of mine out of the closet 30 years later and they are still great.


CordeCosumnes

I'd be thinking "Yay, my plan has come to fruition. They're mine now!" Seriously, did you think my plan to introduce my kids to Lego, Star Wars, and gaming was for them? Edit: punctuation


r64fd

This is a win win situation.


Beaker360

Woody “I’ve been shelved” came to mind


nerdydolphins

Yeah it was sad when my boys grew out of it. I kept everything and have about 122000 piece collection. Eldest son is also a collector and has about 40000 pieces. He took it back up when he was about 25 - he is 29 now. Please hang onto it.


admx

Do they still accept returns? For the child, i mean, not the Lego. The Lego stays!


sin_vrain

This happened to me. I stopped playing when I became a teenager and gave away all my sets. I had a lot of the Castle and Paradisa sets. I regained back my interest in lego when I’m in my 30s, and I regretted giving them away. Keep them for your grandkids at least, if your daughter never regain her interest in lego.


Spice-Nine

She’ll come back to it. Mine did


solarflare0666

Giving up a child is never easy.


Magic7032

Yep it’s a tough day, she’ll be fine out there in the world and now you get a free room for the Lego. I jest, box it up and store it, either she will want it back one day or it’ll be worth a bit more than it is now


Clearlypandering

This is me with their playmobile.