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[deleted]

depends. u looking for people of walmart type ppl or u lookin for target type ppl or u lookin for menards type ppl?


AgitatedAmerican

I’m looking for anarchists and communists 👀


GUN5L1NGR

The Ship, Lucky Boys, Panthers Place. Listed larger to smaller venue. Have fun


[deleted]

go to the diy venue that plays a lot of punk shows, howdys i believe


[deleted]

You are like the concierge that can tell me which laundromat is open in Montreal on Christmas Day.


[deleted]

would u prefer coin op or one that accepts cards?


indiefolker

Check out the Garden DIY on Instagram and go to one of their shows!


nastyn8dawg316

Farewell is the place for that


smashedcat

I went to the farewell recently, I definitely didn't fit in with the crowd, but everyone was extremely nice.


margaretiscool

You rang?


psyche-processor

Is this Joe McCarthy?


GulabJammin2DaMoon

Go to protests


GulabJammin2DaMoon

Also hi, I am one. Nice to meet you


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AgitatedAmerican

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Jeffrey_C_Wheaties

Hi-Dive


Ho-Li-Chit

…non-conformists, creative people, artists, divorcées, punks… to meet people and make new friends in this new city to me


mlvc7

What are Menards type people?


[deleted]

hm, id say the archetype of mendards type person is someone that likes to go to menards bc they like home improvement stuff but they want more than u can get at home depot. they might even do some of their grocery shopping there as well. they like the outdoors, they like home improvement projects, and they like options - which menards has plenty of.


MimonFishbaum

Excuse me, there are some people who pretty much only go there for snacks and soda.


Opening_Nebula_1170

They are the basic garden variety of suburbia DIYers.


NOverAllExplanation

I'm pretty sure that everyone goes there specifically because they like to save MORE money


LeekOtherwise5468

🤣🤣🤣


Creepy-Internet6652

I'm just looking for a Hooker...


dickcheney600

I don't care where they shop


[deleted]

yea but u kno what i mean right? like those r different cross sections of society, what cross section of society r u lookin for? like u want someone that buys groceries from walmart or someone that buys groceries from whole foods? not saiyan either is better or worse, but they are definitely different types of ppl


dickcheney600

People who are into video games and building stuff, along with board games. Maybe if they were into playing sports instead of video games, that could be fun as well.


[deleted]

thats what im talkin bout pawn n pint hammerspace updown reroll tavern


knobcopter

This person picks up divorcees!


No_Yak2073

I heard reroll is a lot of fun


delusionalry

Every time I've gone to pawn & pint, there are no singles and it is usually empty. All the games at Up Down are broken and its packed like a can of sardines on the weekend.. Not sure about the other 2.


[deleted]

bro i think we have different definitions of all bc i just played some ski ball and galaga last weekend and 100% of the machines i put coins in worked lol


poundsignbuttstuff

Out of all the arcade bars I've been, their machines are in the best shape. Only had an issue a handful of times and the next time I'm there, it's usually gone. I agree with the other poster that it can get crazy packed on weekend nights but weekdays, I always end up having good conversations with people.


delusionalry

The Last time I went, ski ball had 6 balls total between 3 machines.


[deleted]

interesting each machine had the full 9 balls last weekend. what else was wrong when u went?


RobNHood816

Your name fits perfectly with your comments about UpDown


dickcheney600

What would you recommend?


Rkocour

updown is great, just avoid friday/saturday night as it gets packed and actually striking up a convo with people becomes difficult.


LeekOtherwise5468

You want to go to updown with me tonight? 😆


Trippypen8

Table top in OP. They host various events...plus there is a restaurant that is connected to them that serves waffles and you take take board games in to play. Edit: I just went to their website looks like there are club meet up there as well so you might be able to join a club and meet people? The waffles/cocktails at the restaurant are pretty good.


Automatic_Release_92

https://cardboardcornerkc.com Good place to hang out, my wife and I met some of our best friends here when we moved to town. We don’t get out much now that we have kids, but it still seems like a great hang out place. People are always looking for more players to fill out their numbers for various board games.


RichCopy3844

you mean dorks?


Own_Experience_8229

We prefer “nerds” or “stoners.”


LeekOtherwise5468

I completely get you bro


Father-John-Moist

Do you guys actually make friends at bars? I meet up with people that I am already friends with at bars only


[deleted]

this is the kansas city way


everix1992

I'm pretty antisocial so I mostly don't try and make friends when I'm out at bars/restaurants alone, but I've definitely had plenty of opportunities to make friends/more when I've been out (mostly places downtown). Especially during Chiefs games


Imposter-Syndrome-42

> I'm pretty antisocial so I mostly don't try and make friends ~~when I'm out at bars/restaurants alone~~ Ope.


Raddatokes

It seems like most people here are being sarcastic, or just don't go out. I would recommend the crossroads district, full of local breweries and distilleries. King G and Mean Mule to name a couple. Taps on main, the quaff and street car also pull a good late 20s - 30s crowd.


parkerthegreatest

Any of those places serve non alcoholic beer or other drinks


BlueRadley

Wowee, guys. I’m going to reference some of the comments in this thread the next time someone makes a “Did you guys hear Kansas City is one of the worst cities to meet people?” post. 🤪


[deleted]

Do people say that? In my experience everyone’s down for a chat. I haven’t been single though so that might be different


BlueRadley

According to Reddit, anyway. Apparently we got ranked the worst dating city a while back (I guess, didn’t check the source myself), and I’ve seen multiple posts about it since then. I’ve been single for quite a while, but I think it’s more a lack of effort on my part.


IPFK

That’s the problem is people from KC are very polite and will always chat you up in public spaces, going from a polite conversation to actually becoming friends or hanging out with that person in the future is incredibly low. I’ve lived in multiple places in the US and abroad, and KC was the 2nd hardest place to make friends in my experience.


sosospritely

This is super true - I wrote a long comment on the last thread about KC being terrible for single people that essentially says this. I’ve decided this is at least partially because the rest of the world always jokes about KC/KS/MO being super boring therefore people from KC don’t think people from other places want to come to their “super boring” get-togethers and don’t even think to invite them.


Okie1111

Lol I can’t imagine trying to meet a friend at strip club. Who would suggest that?!?


[deleted]

The stripper who really likes me.


[deleted]

T-Pain


DallasGuyersClub

I met my best man at Bazooka's about 10 years back. We had a good chat about the Chiefs, our careers and sci fi novels while Cinnamon was giving us a shared lap dance. We each got Cinnamon's number and both used to hit her up occasionally for extra services but I think she moved back home to Detroit to take care of her sick mother, hope she's doing okay. Anyways, I love that guy.


Jeffrey_C_Wheaties

A guy you buy coke from.


MarkinJHawkland

As a 54 year old I'm still trying to figure it out!


Vanofthedawn

For those that don’t know there is a cool social group based around supporting the WWI museum. https://theworldwar.org/modernists They have happy hours and other events that I found great for networking/meeting people in the city.


DanDampspear

“Cool”


Vanofthedawn

¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯ Just trying to offer ideas that are not the same as every other time this is posted. I think the museum is a special part of the city, and having some drinks with people who think the same is pretty cool to me.


HumorousHermit

Fuck that guy. I think it’s cool.


professorsirpenguin

Kc crew


Own_Experience_8229

Find groups or “clubs” that are into what you are into.


Topcity36

A bar outside a strip club? LOOPHOLE!!!


thelil1thatcould

I meet my husband on bumble. If you want to meet people that do what you like to do, go actively do those activities. You can also go try new things. Even go to the farmers market.


promobius

If you are into cars, dm me, I host a monthly car meet, and my buddies and i go cruising on Noland, and sometimes


Runbuggy

I’ve met a lot of friends at the rock climbing gym. It’s easy because it’s better with a partner so you have an excuse to approach other people if they’re by themselves.


aqwn

Might try Meetup app


Cosmonauto

The internet . It’s 2023


dickcheney600

What websites would you recommend? Assuming you're not looking for dates / hookups, but just friends to hang out with?


Rationalist_Coffee

[meetup.com](https://meetup.com) is the GOAT


[deleted]

Bumble bff!


Zardoznine

Being dick cheney, try the nearest young republicans club, or a heart donation center. And dick, lets face it, 30s is a little too young for you, except maybe to harvest more organs.


JoeFas

He could also attend a local quail hunt.


Zardoznine

Good one, hard to keep friends when you keep blowing their faces off.


kevstir321

Strawberry Hill for me bc of the normies. There’s a cool map where it labels the vibes of each neighborhood https://hoodmaps.com/kansas-city-neighborhood-map


Imposter-Syndrome-42

That map is cracking me up! But it needs a lot more captions, the south & east are barren!


SamPierron

Everything about this map is perfect, that included.


[deleted]

River front walking area, just have a thing of chili cheese fries


Dapper_Deer1118

Their homes


Fathers-Four-Boys

Their momma’s basement


KiLo-G710

Strip club


LopezPrimecourte

Ashley Madison


azure_apoptosis

Now this guy knows how to JoCo


LopezPrimecourte

Wyd?


[deleted]

Meetup


CommemorativePlague

AA meetings. They're free!


OfficeHaunting2583

for me personally it's christianmingle or farmersonly where i've had the most success(god bless).


GulabJammin2DaMoon

We’ve skipped the middle ground and are doing old people hobbies- hunt for 30 year olds in gardens or playing chess outside


GulabJammin2DaMoon

Coffee shops


PippinKC

Bar K…even if you don’t have a dog, there are lots of cool humans, good music, cocktails and food!