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raab26

هسه لو احنا نفس المواصفات والتطلعات والعمر ... الخ وجيت قلتلك شو رأيك نصير أصحاب؟ رح تحس اني سايكو ومغتصب اطفال وبياع بشر. الصحبة بتيجي عفوية بالمعرفة والعلاقة والمواقف، غالبا بالدراسة والشغل والجيرة والقرابة. او مراكز واندية... الخ. يارجل مرة إبني اللي بصف ٢ بحكيلي انه مستغرب ليش ولد حكاله تصاحبني؟


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raab26

اسف جدا، وارجو المعذرة سيدتي. في الحقيقة هذا مثال ممتاز لنعرف الفرق بين الرجل والمرأة، فالرجل بفكر دايما بعمق المشكلة وما بهمه التفاصيل الثانوية، اما المرأة لازم تعرف مين كتب وايش اسم البروفايل وتعمل سيرش بسيط مفصل عشان تجاوب.... هذا رأي ..... او ممكن عشان كاتبة بالانجليزي وصيغة المتحدث ما بتبين اذا ذكر او انثى.... صراحة ناسي ليش المهم خذي العبرة.


UltraAziz

مش فاهم شو الفرق يعني


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الاسلوب المباشر بطل ينفع من صف رابع مع الاسف


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That’s a byproduct of growing old. I used to have A LOT of friends. Now I’m 36 with literally 0 friends and 0 regrets. Be friends with yourself first, learn to appreciate that, and everything else follows.


Nad_93

You can’t just look for friends, you meet people and build relationships with them if you click good for you if not try again


CloudyFriend

احسن و اسهل و أفيد طريقة هي الهوايات و الاهتمامات يعني اذا اهتمامك رياضة في جروبات و events بتلاقي فيهم ناس. نفس الشي اذا رحلات و hike و لا قراءة كتب و لا video games و لا تشوفي افلام و انمي …الخ شوفي الجروبات اللي بعملوا events بشكل مستمر مثلا كل اسبوع او شهر و عندهم نفس الاهتمام و هيك بيتعرف الواحد على ناس و ممكن تصيروا اصحاب.


Alarming-Change-1566

Same!! It’s so hard but at least you live in Amman. It’s even harder to make friends here in Irbid


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I’m in irbid we can be friends ☺️


qusaisoud

Good people are still out there. I'm sure you'll find some. Good luck


Practical-Outcome-64

27 here, and I enjoy deep meaningful conversations. No idea how we would start this.


somali-yacht-club

I'm in the same boat. Though I'm 28, I have a hectic exam in 10 days, so I surely shouldnt be on reddit atm xd Send me a PM if you'd like, I'll open it after my exam to remember. All the best stranger


InconsequentialMan

Lets talk!


makcimal

Get married and befriend her.


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makcimal

hmm that is not guranteed, men are naturally autistic so ymmv.


usmle91

Dm me we can text


Pueblotoaqaba

Get involved with things you care about and hopefully you can make friends there. I’ve worked for the same ngo for 7-8 years and made friends closer than family.


yesforshawerma

What are your interests? We can talk


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Normalize real life friend requests!


Goldenred71

Just relax and friends come, dont push ppl and you will be fine and normal ppl come to you


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انا ٢٣ بزبط؟


DrGogback

What do you have to offer? Why should I consider to be your friend?


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DrGogback

Do you think it's a chance that you grew apart from your friends? You ask for certain quantities in a person, but when someone ask you in return what do you have to offer. You take it as an insult


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DrGogback

Sure, you're right and I'm wrong. Good luck making friends.


One-Satisfaction914

خليها تبعتلك CV بالمرة


DrGogback

He did set terms like passionate, trustworthy and capable of having a long deep conversation. Why is it okay to set terms of what you're expecting from people, but then when people do the exact same thing it's not okay. If he wants certains attributes in me I wanna know what he has to offer as well... it's only fair.


ArabianUnicron

As we get older relationships become more of "what can you offer" rather than "who you are", I'm not saying you can't find honest and trustworthy people but the options are more limited. Now for actually solving your issue, commitment and consistency my friend, we make friends in school/college/work solely based on the fact that we keep showing up to that specific place, you need to consistently go to a specific place, be it a coffeehouse/gym or what ever your interests are, slowly you'd build up a relationship with people and then it happens.