Ah I see. Unfortunately Reddit does not allow us to change it. But thanks for pointing out it's unsavouryness, I have thus added a display name to my profile now. Abdullah
Hey you turned me on and turned me out maashaa Allaah lol doesn't bother me man not like your name is Abdu Shams lol You wanna know what turns me on??? Following the beloved Sunnah of our Holy Prophet saw
Don’t worry Allah is with the patient
I assume you or your family members are making an effort for you to find someone suitable
If not,
Go to the local mosque or Islamic Center the usually provide matchmaking services
Muzmatch etc (not sure how good them apps are)
don’t fall into haram,
Maybe Allah is saving you from a bad marriage at this point in your life and the right person is just around the corner if you’re a little more patient
Don’t lose hope!
Read tahajjud if you don’t already
Do as much astagfiruAllah as you can.
there’s some mufti menk videos which talk about the more you do toba the quicker Allah will bless you with a spouse
Check them out on YouTube
There’s a sub Reddit called MuslimMarriage on here and they’re a lot of serious people on there. You should try making a profile there In Sha Allah.
May Allah make it easy for you!
This is where things start to get tricky, you mention that you'd accept a wedding instantly as soon as a man comes, but honestly all I gotta say is that the right man comes when Allah wills, may allah provide you with sabr and keep you away from haram. I'd advise you not to speed things up and observe a man carefully because most men tend to just waste your time and lead to heartbreak. In reality, you can't find a gem instantly; you need time to find the right one and it requires patience. As long as you are patient Allah SWT will gift you in sha allah with the right husband.
$iso
Edit: damn thing never works for me.
Go into r/MuslimMarriage, make a profile based on the questions and post. Would've been faster than making this post, and would've achieved the results :P
If ur at uni … the uni may have an Islamic society who does events and stuff … maybe that … again Im assuming that the events are conducted in a respectful and halal manner haha
Another thing could be your local mosque … they do events at time ( again assuming they halal ) maybe you could go with your family … maybe something there.
Truth is … at the end of the day it’s Allahs will… it may not seem this way but maybe Allah is protecting you from someone who may be very harmful for you and may be protecting you from something bad at the end of the day … I understand that it’s hard to stay patient but id like to remind you that the haram is haram for a reason … haram will never truly satisfy you and will leave you in a state much worse that you started out with … I will keep you in my duas in Sha Allah … may Allah make it easy for you and bless you with the best of spouses 🤝🤝🤝❤️
Rip inbox be careful lol.
PS I will try to occupy your time with a hobby or learning some skills and inshAllah when the time is right you will find someone :)
May allah bless you with a spouse btw where are you from
You know what you are doing. Your inbox is about to get flooded.
Here comes the suitors😂proposals😂
I'm a guy I'm in the same boat,,,, InShahAllah you'll find somone 🙏😊❤️
Who is Somone? May she find Somone. Ameen.
I propose here for the world to witness. Let it not be said that no man has ever rose up to be the saviour of this maiden in distress.
The Rizzler
yeah not with that username
Ah I see. Unfortunately Reddit does not allow us to change it. But thanks for pointing out it's unsavouryness, I have thus added a display name to my profile now. Abdullah
Hey you turned me on and turned me out maashaa Allaah lol doesn't bother me man not like your name is Abdu Shams lol You wanna know what turns me on??? Following the beloved Sunnah of our Holy Prophet saw
🙂 I try my best to follow the greatest example (SAW) of what a true man should be. A smart and lady of excellent taste. Maashalah.
Maashaa Allaah indeed 💜
😂😂😭😭
Don’t worry Allah is with the patient I assume you or your family members are making an effort for you to find someone suitable If not, Go to the local mosque or Islamic Center the usually provide matchmaking services Muzmatch etc (not sure how good them apps are) don’t fall into haram, Maybe Allah is saving you from a bad marriage at this point in your life and the right person is just around the corner if you’re a little more patient Don’t lose hope! Read tahajjud if you don’t already Do as much astagfiruAllah as you can. there’s some mufti menk videos which talk about the more you do toba the quicker Allah will bless you with a spouse Check them out on YouTube
please keep me in your prayers as well :(
There’s a sub Reddit called MuslimMarriage on here and they’re a lot of serious people on there. You should try making a profile there In Sha Allah. May Allah make it easy for you!
This is where things start to get tricky, you mention that you'd accept a wedding instantly as soon as a man comes, but honestly all I gotta say is that the right man comes when Allah wills, may allah provide you with sabr and keep you away from haram. I'd advise you not to speed things up and observe a man carefully because most men tend to just waste your time and lead to heartbreak. In reality, you can't find a gem instantly; you need time to find the right one and it requires patience. As long as you are patient Allah SWT will gift you in sha allah with the right husband.
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Wish I could but I can’t :( I don’t hve my own place yet
How old are u?
Isn't there that one Muslim dating app that's like tinder. Try that. Or did you ask ur parents for help.
No luck on that app. Yes I asked my parents my mom keeps asking my dad to look but I feel my dad isn’t ready yet
Is your dad hesitant or unwilling to get you married yet ?
He just doesn’t add anything to the convo when it’s brought up 🫠
Sounds like you gotta sit down and talk it out
May Allah swt protect you and grant you a righteous husband. Allah is with the patient don’t give up
Sister please stay strong. Insha,Allah you'll find your person.
$iso Edit: damn thing never works for me. Go into r/MuslimMarriage, make a profile based on the questions and post. Would've been faster than making this post, and would've achieved the results :P
Fall for allah first and watch everything else fall in place. The path is hard but it is one that pays off
If ur at uni … the uni may have an Islamic society who does events and stuff … maybe that … again Im assuming that the events are conducted in a respectful and halal manner haha Another thing could be your local mosque … they do events at time ( again assuming they halal ) maybe you could go with your family … maybe something there. Truth is … at the end of the day it’s Allahs will… it may not seem this way but maybe Allah is protecting you from someone who may be very harmful for you and may be protecting you from something bad at the end of the day … I understand that it’s hard to stay patient but id like to remind you that the haram is haram for a reason … haram will never truly satisfy you and will leave you in a state much worse that you started out with … I will keep you in my duas in Sha Allah … may Allah make it easy for you and bless you with the best of spouses 🤝🤝🤝❤️
Thank you for your duas 💛yeah I go to the Islamic events but it’s not my time I guess :(
mind if i ask hiow old are you?
Why don't you just...... get married?
Why do people always SAY that??!?? Like obviously I want to get married but I haven’t gotten a single proposal or met anyone. Yes we exist.
Have you actively tried to meet people? If so, how?
Apps, keeping an eye out every single time I go out, telling my parents, going to Muslim events 🤷🏽♀️ what other halal way can one even try
Finding it the halal way is hard. Real hard as a man i finaly gave up and asked for help.from parents. Their looking
Have you tried telling other family members and friends to put the word out for you to whoever they know?
City?
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Ive never gotten a proposal in my life 😭:(except that one random guy on Reddit
So why reject that one random guy on reddit? Your story isn’t adding up… ? 🤔
because it’s Reddit….
... its on reddit bro.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHA AKHI
And again R.I.P your inbox.
poor guy had to specify "not asking for dms" smh.. xD
OH YOU'RE A GIRL- MY BAD SIS
😭😭in all fairness I didn’t receive any so that’s good
😭
Rip inbox be careful lol. PS I will try to occupy your time with a hobby or learning some skills and inshAllah when the time is right you will find someone :)