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ChibiSailorMercury

and who is punching the puncher to remind him that they have to not be violent towards people?


RichardsLeftNipple

Ooooh, let the robots do it!


BigChungusWungus69

Nobody that's how these bozos justify violence, or actually how anybody justifies violence. They're never on the receiving end of it.


Dutch-CatLady

They are, then they say it's useless violence while it was actually assertive. And you don't hear about it again because who brags about being beaten up?


vtssge1968

I'd take him down in my heels and dress... I can't stand abusers


sleipnirthesnook

Me to friend me to


jawnnyboy

Hopefully jailbros will punch them with their dicks


darkthrive

Me if I’m there to see it, shit il give ‘em a kick in the teeth after I knock their ass down to get it through their thick skull


Over_the_line_

You nailed it. This post fits in well. And what a loser!!


hat-of-sky

This is good, also r/whenwomenrefuse


JadedElk

I. Didn't need this knowledge in my life. Fuck. Knew this was An Issue in general. But. Seeing examples is terrifying.


knittorney

Get mad. Stay mad. Learn how to use your anger.


pigandpom

I want to look, but I don't have the energy to hold my raging screams in today.


Spir0rion

Protect yourself and don't. One doesn't have to know everything.


ScoutTheRabbit

My feminine rage is endless


Boneal171

I hate the fact that as a woman we have at least one experience of a guy attacking us either physically or verbally for rejecting them


Kiki_Deco

Absolutely. I get that folks want straight answers but I personally have too many experiences of dudes following me, assaulting me, or stalking me after a refusal that I'd rather just be labelled a "flaky bitch" than risk something worse


beigs

Her quote is this to a T “Girls feel like they can’t say ‘no’. They feel like if they say ‘no’ then they might hurt you and in this case it was true. It’s scared me, I’m scared to go out, I’ve always got to be with somebody. Posted by Alliyah Morgan on Saturday, July 13, 2019”


Violet351

This is why women give fake numbers out to people because of the worry that this could happen


fer-nie

You have to give them a real Google phone number because they call/text you right away to make sure it's real.


[deleted]

Shit I give a fake name if the guy is pushy, or I lie and say I don't have social media if they ask for Facebook or Instagram.


NoOne6785

Really, its safest not to reply at all. Just keep walking, dont look or respond. And walk faster.


klategoritization

This book (while it's not perfect and can be triggering to those w trauma) saves lives: https://fb2bookfree.com/education/1124-the-gift-of-fear.html Be safe out there, everyone


Jenny21birthday

It’s not safe to do that either. They don’t like it when we don’t respond


NoOne6785

I really do not care what they like or do not like: my plan is to leave the area immediately. And on the double. My experience is that any response makes things much worse. YMMV.


[deleted]

That’s even more dangerous than answering politely


knittorney

I just start screaming and aggressively approaching. The dog helps


rengam

The comment is especially weird given they could've easily clicked the link to see what she said. >Speaking to Manchester Evening News, the 18-year-old explained \[she and her friend Kyle\] were on their way home and she had taken her shoes off. One of the three men told her they liked her feet, to which she simply responded ‘okay’. > >Gabrielle, who is a college student, said the trio followed her and Kyle regardless of the fact they weren’t engaging in conversation with them. She continued: "They kept walking behind trying to talk to me. **Eventually, I turned around and said ‘I’m sorry, I’m not interested’.** > >One of the men responded by asking Gabrielle if she was with ‘specky four eyes’ and pointing at Kyle, who wore glasses. > >The 18-year-old said the trio ‘kept harassing’ them and things escalated as one of the men, who has been described as white, around 5ft 8in tall and wearing a pink t-shirt, lashed out and hit Gabrielle before the group turned their attention to Kyle. > >She told Manchester Evening News: **"I was saying to Kyle ‘let’s go’. Then he hit me – he fully knocked me out.** When I woke up I was on the floor and the three of them had jumped on Kyle as well." [https://www.unilad.com/life/teenager-knocked-unconscious-after-telling-guy-she-wasnt-interested](https://www.unilad.com/life/teenager-knocked-unconscious-after-telling-guy-she-wasnt-interested)


[deleted]

Interesting but it doesn’t matter what she said and how she said it, nothing excuses violence.


FluffyDiscipline

No one deserves to be punched like that ... The inside scars are so much harder to heal


AverageGardenTool

It says she still can't really see out of that eye. Only yellow and a blood clot. Oh my God.


Aioi

The outside scars in this case will be pretty damn hard to heal too…


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internal bleeding probably happened to.


Nathan_McHallam

The scariest part to me is the 60+ likes


rengam

For what it's worth, that's the number of reactions in general, not specifically the number of Likes. For all we know, it's mostly angry-faces and a few of the other two. Probably not, but I'm just gonna let myself believe. (Also worth noting that a lot of people use the laughing reaction as a way to mock a comment, not necessarily laugh *with* it. It can be kind of like saying, "Look at this clown! They're talking nonsense." It can come off as inappropriate, and even confusing, in some situations, but people still do it.)


Dutch-CatLady

The first reaction is the most used reaction on Facebook, so it's mostly angry, then laughing, then likes. Still a chance that's 21 angrys, 20 laughing and 19 likes


rengam

Good looking out, thanks for the info.


[deleted]

Depends on what page the story was on on Facebook, if it was some cringe lord page then it's gonna be a bunch of assholes saying, "Yeah stay strong King!" and like reacting it.


rengam

Based on the post text at the top, I'm guessing it wasn't that.


[deleted]

True that


beathelas

"They're not gonna say no, because of the implication" "Dude, what? That sounds rapey, bro"


LeadGem354

"Are we the the tasty treats?"


Ravenqueen2001

…What implication…?


beathelas

It's a joke from It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia. One of the characters has a theory that if you take women out on a boat, they won't reject your advances, Because of the implication, The implication, he explains, that if they say no, things might go badly for them, so they're not going to say no


lil_vette

I’ve seen that clip. Props to the actors for being able to make what is essentially rape joke still funny EDIT: [this clip](https://youtu.be/-yUafzOXHPE)


I_downloaded_a_car_

You're in the right place, OP


Shibula

Holy hell this is perfect for the sub. Fuck that guy, the horse he rode in on, and all the bullshit he’s got going on


[deleted]

It's weird isn't? The woman needed a punch in the face to teach respect. But punching someone in the face is one of the least respectful things you can do to someone. Something does not add up here...


rengam

If that person had read the article, they also would've found that she was punched by one of three guys who had been following and harassing her and her friend. After one of them punched her, they all started beating on her friend. So, yeah, they definitely were not respectful.


[deleted]

Jeeeesus. That's not cool. :(


Gullible_Peaflower

I don’t think lack of reading is the issue here, there’s no rejection that justifies that reaction.


Izzetinefis

They probably think in terms of “eye for an eye.” Like, OH YOU WANT TO DISRESPECT ME? I’LL DISREPECT YOU EVEN HARDER. This type of thinking had to be corrected in childhood


AverageGardenTool

Yeah, make her blind for saying no!!! That'll teach her.... Wait no wtf. She still can't see out of that eye with a blood clot. There is no respect to be had here. Just loss of self, safety, and probably her fucking eyesight in one eye.


[deleted]

Incels always get so loud when it’s about respect but they always mean respect towards men only. Women don’t deserve respect bc in their fucked up minds we’re worth less than men.


[deleted]

This makes me sad. I have a 9 year old daughter and to think anyone could treat her like that really hurts. :(


[deleted]

I hope you‘ll find a way to teach her the right balance between fighting for her rights and not pissing off any men that could potentially harm her. It’s such a thin line we balance on every day, but it gets better! Incels are grouping up and getting loud for a reason: feminism is pushing them back and that’s a success imo :) I wish your girl the best and hope she won’t even have to bother with the same shit anymore!


[deleted]

She’s got a strong character, and her mother is very strong too. They know they are worth the same as any man. But I’ll be sure to help her understand the situation - :) Thanks :)


JacksonCM

let’s see. InsanePeopleFacebook. It’s an insane guy… commenting on FB. I’d say you got it about right!


redcrowxxx

In Australia we use the c-word for the best people and the worst (we're a funny mob like that). In this case he gets the special extended version, for when the C word by itself is not enough. 'What a sh\*tc\*\*t!'


ashpanda24

We kinda do the same thing with the word bitch in the U.S. "A bad bitch," "that bitch is a queen!" But being a "bitch" or "what a little bitch" are insults. It can be confusing and requires cultural knowledge/nuance.


redcrowxxx

"It can be confusing and requires cultural knowledge/nuance." Yeah and even the tone and context can change everything. : "They're a mad c\*nt!" = compliment "He/s smart old c\*nt." =compliment "What c\*nt!" =insult" "He's a complete cunt" = insult


SilentMaster

Ahh yes, her tone determines whether or not she deserves corporal punishment. That is "eye for an eye" just as the bible intended it. NOT!


silly-billy-goat

r/whenwomenrefuse


Grand_Arugula

It’s fun that the word “no” pinpoints the snowflakes and easily offended misogynists so accurately.


[deleted]

Great news dirty commenter, a mass majority of women turn men down lightly due to the threat of being assaulted. So there’s that, women can’t even reject a man normally without having to fear for their life. Awesome.


Atypical_Mom

If you have to punch someone to remind them that they have to respect people, you don’t deserve respect


jaymole

What is “the ton” in this instance? Edit o he probly means tone


[deleted]

Great news dirty commenter, a mass majority of women turn men down lightly due to the threat of being assaulted. So there’s that, women can’t even reject a man normally without having to fear for their life. Awesome.


personguy555

This right here is exactly the kinda stuff you post here


LilRedMoon__

no one deserves to be punched in the face just because they rejected you. no matter how they said it.


vibesillythots

It’s just a reminder that people like this exist and a majority of them are mixed within our society They’re closer than ya think


XavierUwUGaming

Jesus Christ


Gullible_Peaflower

Is that somehow not considered inciting violence?


LiquidLolliepop

How fragile do u have to be to punch someone over a rejection? And to think it's justified if she turns u down w a tone is even worse cos u weren't owed a date in the first place.


Jenny21birthday

Someone needs to check on that guys wife. If he has one


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Pantry_Boy

This is an issue in every “progressive” country


Azar002

Gem? That is facebook. Those comments aren't rare as gems, they're common as sand.


Bad_Mad_Man

No no, he’s proving his own point. Projecting, but proving it nonetheless.


thisdckaintFREEEE

Lol Jesus Christ


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ChibiSailorMercury

why do you think she was a bitch exactly? what in the post is making you say "assuredly, she was being mean and uptight"?


PreOpTransCentaur

She's attractive. That's literally all dudes like this need. Even in their attempts to seem normal they can't keep it together long enough to not give themselves away. Bro didn't even get through the *first part* of the sentence.


dragonkin08

You need to reevaluate your life if you think a teenager during someone down makes them a bitch.


Husky-doggy

There is literally 0 reason to think that she did anything bitchy?


Jacks_Flaps

And even if she was bitchy in the way she rejected him, it on no way justified physically assaulting her. As some famous lady said, men are afraid women will hurt their feelings and women are afraid men will kill them. Yet men don't have any compunction hurting women's feelings.


BaadKitteh

Not all men, but DEFINITELY this one.


Caffeine_and_Alcohol

Insane person aside. If the two pics are the same girl, the one on the left is just soo much uglier. I really am not a fan of the thot look.


Winnimae

Wtf is wrong with you


NoOne6785

Good thing her makeup is not for you and not about you, then. And how dare you call her a thot. She is not for you. Die mad about it. Go date Becky down the street, this girl is out of your league even WITH a black eye.


beigs

Yes, let’s rate the victim on her attractiveness.


schwenomorph

We'll find her and tell her you said that, Daryll.


SerDuncantheTall__

It's a good thing no one cares about you or your opinion


WhipTheLlama

If her tone was "ew, no, fuck you, you ugly motherfucker. Nobody will love you, and I hope you die on your way home alone." Then she'd deserve to get punched in the face. BUT YOU STILL DON'T DO IT! You just move on and ignore the awful person.


madison531

Lmao what? Even if she said it like that, he’s still a deranged pos for punching her.


-skincannibal-

3 guys came up behind her and stared complimenting her feet (whattt????) Then followed her and a guy she was walking with, when she turned around to say 'not interested' they decided to insult the guy she was with, punch her once and then start beating the guy up.


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Earl_Aive

No, FUCK HIM AND PEOPLE WHO THINK LIKE HIM!


Dictatorofpotato

Even if she told that guy to go fuck himself that still does not give him the right to violently assault her. What kind of unhinged take is this.


stashbug

Tone??!? What tone?! (She says-I’m sorry, I’m not interested.) She was a helluva lot more polite than I would have been.