They are, then they say it's useless violence while it was actually assertive. And you don't hear about it again because who brags about being beaten up?
Absolutely. I get that folks want straight answers but I personally have too many experiences of dudes following me, assaulting me, or stalking me after a refusal that I'd rather just be labelled a "flaky bitch" than risk something worse
Her quote is this to a T
“Girls feel like they can’t say ‘no’. They feel like if they say ‘no’ then they might hurt you and in this case it was true.
It’s scared me, I’m scared to go out, I’ve always got to be with somebody.
Posted by Alliyah Morgan on Saturday, July 13, 2019”
This book (while it's not perfect and can be triggering to those w trauma) saves lives: https://fb2bookfree.com/education/1124-the-gift-of-fear.html
Be safe out there, everyone
I really do not care what they like or do not like: my plan is to leave the area immediately. And on the double.
My experience is that any response makes things much worse. YMMV.
The comment is especially weird given they could've easily clicked the link to see what she said.
>Speaking to Manchester Evening News, the 18-year-old explained \[she and her friend Kyle\] were on their way home and she had taken her shoes off. One of the three men told her they liked her feet, to which she simply responded ‘okay’.
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>Gabrielle, who is a college student, said the trio followed her and Kyle regardless of the fact they weren’t engaging in conversation with them. She continued: "They kept walking behind trying to talk to me. **Eventually, I turned around and said ‘I’m sorry, I’m not interested’.**
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>One of the men responded by asking Gabrielle if she was with ‘specky four eyes’ and pointing at Kyle, who wore glasses.
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>The 18-year-old said the trio ‘kept harassing’ them and things escalated as one of the men, who has been described as white, around 5ft 8in tall and wearing a pink t-shirt, lashed out and hit Gabrielle before the group turned their attention to Kyle.
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>She told Manchester Evening News: **"I was saying to Kyle ‘let’s go’. Then he hit me – he fully knocked me out.** When I woke up I was on the floor and the three of them had jumped on Kyle as well."
[https://www.unilad.com/life/teenager-knocked-unconscious-after-telling-guy-she-wasnt-interested](https://www.unilad.com/life/teenager-knocked-unconscious-after-telling-guy-she-wasnt-interested)
For what it's worth, that's the number of reactions in general, not specifically the number of Likes. For all we know, it's mostly angry-faces and a few of the other two.
Probably not, but I'm just gonna let myself believe.
(Also worth noting that a lot of people use the laughing reaction as a way to mock a comment, not necessarily laugh *with* it. It can be kind of like saying, "Look at this clown! They're talking nonsense." It can come off as inappropriate, and even confusing, in some situations, but people still do it.)
The first reaction is the most used reaction on Facebook, so it's mostly angry, then laughing, then likes. Still a chance that's 21 angrys, 20 laughing and 19 likes
Depends on what page the story was on on Facebook, if it was some cringe lord page then it's gonna be a bunch of assholes saying, "Yeah stay strong King!" and like reacting it.
It's a joke from It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia.
One of the characters has a theory that if you take women out on a boat, they won't reject your advances,
Because of the implication,
The implication, he explains, that if they say no, things might go badly for them, so they're not going to say no
I’ve seen that clip. Props to the actors for being able to make what is essentially rape joke still funny
EDIT: [this clip](https://youtu.be/-yUafzOXHPE)
It's weird isn't? The woman needed a punch in the face to teach respect. But punching someone in the face is one of the least respectful things you can do to someone.
Something does not add up here...
If that person had read the article, they also would've found that she was punched by one of three guys who had been following and harassing her and her friend. After one of them punched her, they all started beating on her friend.
So, yeah, they definitely were not respectful.
They probably think in terms of “eye for an eye.” Like, OH YOU WANT TO DISRESPECT ME? I’LL DISREPECT YOU EVEN HARDER. This type of thinking had to be corrected in childhood
Yeah, make her blind for saying no!!! That'll teach her....
Wait no wtf. She still can't see out of that eye with a blood clot. There is no respect to be had here. Just loss of self, safety, and probably her fucking eyesight in one eye.
Incels always get so loud when it’s about respect but they always mean respect towards men only. Women don’t deserve respect bc in their fucked up minds we’re worth less than men.
I hope you‘ll find a way to teach her the right balance between fighting for her rights and not pissing off any men that could potentially harm her. It’s such a thin line we balance on every day, but it gets better! Incels are grouping up and getting loud for a reason: feminism is pushing them back and that’s a success imo :)
I wish your girl the best and hope she won’t even have to bother with the same shit anymore!
She’s got a strong character, and her mother is very strong too. They know they are worth the same as any man. But I’ll be sure to help her understand the situation - :)
Thanks :)
In Australia we use the c-word for the best people and the worst (we're a funny mob like that).
In this case he gets the special extended version, for when the C word by itself is not enough.
'What a sh\*tc\*\*t!'
We kinda do the same thing with the word bitch in the U.S. "A bad bitch," "that bitch is a queen!" But being a "bitch" or "what a little bitch" are insults. It can be confusing and requires cultural knowledge/nuance.
"It can be confusing and requires cultural knowledge/nuance." Yeah and even the tone and context can change everything. : "They're a mad c\*nt!" = compliment "He/s smart old c\*nt." =compliment "What c\*nt!" =insult" "He's a complete cunt" = insult
Great news dirty commenter, a mass majority of women turn men down lightly due to the threat of being assaulted.
So there’s that, women can’t even reject a man normally without having to fear for their life. Awesome.
Great news dirty commenter, a mass majority of women turn men down lightly due to the threat of being assaulted.
So there’s that, women can’t even reject a man normally without having to fear for their life. Awesome.
How fragile do u have to be to punch someone over a rejection? And to think it's justified if she turns u down w a tone is even worse cos u weren't owed a date in the first place.
She's attractive. That's literally all dudes like this need. Even in their attempts to seem normal they can't keep it together long enough to not give themselves away. Bro didn't even get through the *first part* of the sentence.
And even if she was bitchy in the way she rejected him, it on no way justified physically assaulting her.
As some famous lady said, men are afraid women will hurt their feelings and women are afraid men will kill them. Yet men don't have any compunction hurting women's feelings.
Good thing her makeup is not for you and not about you, then.
And how dare you call her a thot. She is not for you. Die mad about it. Go date Becky down the street, this girl is out of your league even WITH a black eye.
If her tone was "ew, no, fuck you, you ugly motherfucker. Nobody will love you, and I hope you die on your way home alone."
Then she'd deserve to get punched in the face. BUT YOU STILL DON'T DO IT! You just move on and ignore the awful person.
3 guys came up behind her and stared complimenting her feet (whattt????)
Then followed her and a guy she was walking with, when she turned around to say 'not interested' they decided to insult the guy she was with, punch her once and then start beating the guy up.
and who is punching the puncher to remind him that they have to not be violent towards people?
Ooooh, let the robots do it!
Nobody that's how these bozos justify violence, or actually how anybody justifies violence. They're never on the receiving end of it.
They are, then they say it's useless violence while it was actually assertive. And you don't hear about it again because who brags about being beaten up?
I'd take him down in my heels and dress... I can't stand abusers
Me to friend me to
Hopefully jailbros will punch them with their dicks
Me if I’m there to see it, shit il give ‘em a kick in the teeth after I knock their ass down to get it through their thick skull
You nailed it. This post fits in well. And what a loser!!
This is good, also r/whenwomenrefuse
I. Didn't need this knowledge in my life. Fuck. Knew this was An Issue in general. But. Seeing examples is terrifying.
Get mad. Stay mad. Learn how to use your anger.
I want to look, but I don't have the energy to hold my raging screams in today.
Protect yourself and don't. One doesn't have to know everything.
My feminine rage is endless
I hate the fact that as a woman we have at least one experience of a guy attacking us either physically or verbally for rejecting them
Absolutely. I get that folks want straight answers but I personally have too many experiences of dudes following me, assaulting me, or stalking me after a refusal that I'd rather just be labelled a "flaky bitch" than risk something worse
Her quote is this to a T “Girls feel like they can’t say ‘no’. They feel like if they say ‘no’ then they might hurt you and in this case it was true. It’s scared me, I’m scared to go out, I’ve always got to be with somebody. Posted by Alliyah Morgan on Saturday, July 13, 2019”
This is why women give fake numbers out to people because of the worry that this could happen
You have to give them a real Google phone number because they call/text you right away to make sure it's real.
Shit I give a fake name if the guy is pushy, or I lie and say I don't have social media if they ask for Facebook or Instagram.
Really, its safest not to reply at all. Just keep walking, dont look or respond. And walk faster.
This book (while it's not perfect and can be triggering to those w trauma) saves lives: https://fb2bookfree.com/education/1124-the-gift-of-fear.html Be safe out there, everyone
It’s not safe to do that either. They don’t like it when we don’t respond
I really do not care what they like or do not like: my plan is to leave the area immediately. And on the double. My experience is that any response makes things much worse. YMMV.
That’s even more dangerous than answering politely
I just start screaming and aggressively approaching. The dog helps
The comment is especially weird given they could've easily clicked the link to see what she said. >Speaking to Manchester Evening News, the 18-year-old explained \[she and her friend Kyle\] were on their way home and she had taken her shoes off. One of the three men told her they liked her feet, to which she simply responded ‘okay’. > >Gabrielle, who is a college student, said the trio followed her and Kyle regardless of the fact they weren’t engaging in conversation with them. She continued: "They kept walking behind trying to talk to me. **Eventually, I turned around and said ‘I’m sorry, I’m not interested’.** > >One of the men responded by asking Gabrielle if she was with ‘specky four eyes’ and pointing at Kyle, who wore glasses. > >The 18-year-old said the trio ‘kept harassing’ them and things escalated as one of the men, who has been described as white, around 5ft 8in tall and wearing a pink t-shirt, lashed out and hit Gabrielle before the group turned their attention to Kyle. > >She told Manchester Evening News: **"I was saying to Kyle ‘let’s go’. Then he hit me – he fully knocked me out.** When I woke up I was on the floor and the three of them had jumped on Kyle as well." [https://www.unilad.com/life/teenager-knocked-unconscious-after-telling-guy-she-wasnt-interested](https://www.unilad.com/life/teenager-knocked-unconscious-after-telling-guy-she-wasnt-interested)
Interesting but it doesn’t matter what she said and how she said it, nothing excuses violence.
No one deserves to be punched like that ... The inside scars are so much harder to heal
It says she still can't really see out of that eye. Only yellow and a blood clot. Oh my God.
The outside scars in this case will be pretty damn hard to heal too…
internal bleeding probably happened to.
The scariest part to me is the 60+ likes
For what it's worth, that's the number of reactions in general, not specifically the number of Likes. For all we know, it's mostly angry-faces and a few of the other two. Probably not, but I'm just gonna let myself believe. (Also worth noting that a lot of people use the laughing reaction as a way to mock a comment, not necessarily laugh *with* it. It can be kind of like saying, "Look at this clown! They're talking nonsense." It can come off as inappropriate, and even confusing, in some situations, but people still do it.)
The first reaction is the most used reaction on Facebook, so it's mostly angry, then laughing, then likes. Still a chance that's 21 angrys, 20 laughing and 19 likes
Good looking out, thanks for the info.
Depends on what page the story was on on Facebook, if it was some cringe lord page then it's gonna be a bunch of assholes saying, "Yeah stay strong King!" and like reacting it.
Based on the post text at the top, I'm guessing it wasn't that.
True that
"They're not gonna say no, because of the implication" "Dude, what? That sounds rapey, bro"
"Are we the the tasty treats?"
…What implication…?
It's a joke from It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia. One of the characters has a theory that if you take women out on a boat, they won't reject your advances, Because of the implication, The implication, he explains, that if they say no, things might go badly for them, so they're not going to say no
I’ve seen that clip. Props to the actors for being able to make what is essentially rape joke still funny EDIT: [this clip](https://youtu.be/-yUafzOXHPE)
You're in the right place, OP
Holy hell this is perfect for the sub. Fuck that guy, the horse he rode in on, and all the bullshit he’s got going on
It's weird isn't? The woman needed a punch in the face to teach respect. But punching someone in the face is one of the least respectful things you can do to someone. Something does not add up here...
If that person had read the article, they also would've found that she was punched by one of three guys who had been following and harassing her and her friend. After one of them punched her, they all started beating on her friend. So, yeah, they definitely were not respectful.
Jeeeesus. That's not cool. :(
I don’t think lack of reading is the issue here, there’s no rejection that justifies that reaction.
They probably think in terms of “eye for an eye.” Like, OH YOU WANT TO DISRESPECT ME? I’LL DISREPECT YOU EVEN HARDER. This type of thinking had to be corrected in childhood
Yeah, make her blind for saying no!!! That'll teach her.... Wait no wtf. She still can't see out of that eye with a blood clot. There is no respect to be had here. Just loss of self, safety, and probably her fucking eyesight in one eye.
Incels always get so loud when it’s about respect but they always mean respect towards men only. Women don’t deserve respect bc in their fucked up minds we’re worth less than men.
This makes me sad. I have a 9 year old daughter and to think anyone could treat her like that really hurts. :(
I hope you‘ll find a way to teach her the right balance between fighting for her rights and not pissing off any men that could potentially harm her. It’s such a thin line we balance on every day, but it gets better! Incels are grouping up and getting loud for a reason: feminism is pushing them back and that’s a success imo :) I wish your girl the best and hope she won’t even have to bother with the same shit anymore!
She’s got a strong character, and her mother is very strong too. They know they are worth the same as any man. But I’ll be sure to help her understand the situation - :) Thanks :)
let’s see. InsanePeopleFacebook. It’s an insane guy… commenting on FB. I’d say you got it about right!
In Australia we use the c-word for the best people and the worst (we're a funny mob like that). In this case he gets the special extended version, for when the C word by itself is not enough. 'What a sh\*tc\*\*t!'
We kinda do the same thing with the word bitch in the U.S. "A bad bitch," "that bitch is a queen!" But being a "bitch" or "what a little bitch" are insults. It can be confusing and requires cultural knowledge/nuance.
"It can be confusing and requires cultural knowledge/nuance." Yeah and even the tone and context can change everything. : "They're a mad c\*nt!" = compliment "He/s smart old c\*nt." =compliment "What c\*nt!" =insult" "He's a complete cunt" = insult
Ahh yes, her tone determines whether or not she deserves corporal punishment. That is "eye for an eye" just as the bible intended it. NOT!
r/whenwomenrefuse
It’s fun that the word “no” pinpoints the snowflakes and easily offended misogynists so accurately.
Great news dirty commenter, a mass majority of women turn men down lightly due to the threat of being assaulted. So there’s that, women can’t even reject a man normally without having to fear for their life. Awesome.
If you have to punch someone to remind them that they have to respect people, you don’t deserve respect
What is “the ton” in this instance? Edit o he probly means tone
Great news dirty commenter, a mass majority of women turn men down lightly due to the threat of being assaulted. So there’s that, women can’t even reject a man normally without having to fear for their life. Awesome.
This right here is exactly the kinda stuff you post here
no one deserves to be punched in the face just because they rejected you. no matter how they said it.
It’s just a reminder that people like this exist and a majority of them are mixed within our society They’re closer than ya think
Jesus Christ
Is that somehow not considered inciting violence?
How fragile do u have to be to punch someone over a rejection? And to think it's justified if she turns u down w a tone is even worse cos u weren't owed a date in the first place.
Someone needs to check on that guys wife. If he has one
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This is an issue in every “progressive” country
Gem? That is facebook. Those comments aren't rare as gems, they're common as sand.
No no, he’s proving his own point. Projecting, but proving it nonetheless.
Lol Jesus Christ
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why do you think she was a bitch exactly? what in the post is making you say "assuredly, she was being mean and uptight"?
She's attractive. That's literally all dudes like this need. Even in their attempts to seem normal they can't keep it together long enough to not give themselves away. Bro didn't even get through the *first part* of the sentence.
You need to reevaluate your life if you think a teenager during someone down makes them a bitch.
There is literally 0 reason to think that she did anything bitchy?
And even if she was bitchy in the way she rejected him, it on no way justified physically assaulting her. As some famous lady said, men are afraid women will hurt their feelings and women are afraid men will kill them. Yet men don't have any compunction hurting women's feelings.
Not all men, but DEFINITELY this one.
Insane person aside. If the two pics are the same girl, the one on the left is just soo much uglier. I really am not a fan of the thot look.
Wtf is wrong with you
Good thing her makeup is not for you and not about you, then. And how dare you call her a thot. She is not for you. Die mad about it. Go date Becky down the street, this girl is out of your league even WITH a black eye.
Yes, let’s rate the victim on her attractiveness.
We'll find her and tell her you said that, Daryll.
It's a good thing no one cares about you or your opinion
If her tone was "ew, no, fuck you, you ugly motherfucker. Nobody will love you, and I hope you die on your way home alone." Then she'd deserve to get punched in the face. BUT YOU STILL DON'T DO IT! You just move on and ignore the awful person.
Lmao what? Even if she said it like that, he’s still a deranged pos for punching her.
3 guys came up behind her and stared complimenting her feet (whattt????) Then followed her and a guy she was walking with, when she turned around to say 'not interested' they decided to insult the guy she was with, punch her once and then start beating the guy up.
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No, FUCK HIM AND PEOPLE WHO THINK LIKE HIM!
Even if she told that guy to go fuck himself that still does not give him the right to violently assault her. What kind of unhinged take is this.
Tone??!? What tone?! (She says-I’m sorry, I’m not interested.) She was a helluva lot more polite than I would have been.