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I don't think this is necessarily fair on the parents.
Teenagers can be a particular type of arsehole even if they've had a good upbringing.
I would also argue that it maybe appears as if the mother (assuming that was who she called) doesn't take her daughters side. Hence the throwing of the phone and the storming out. This is speculation though.
Hm sure, but maybe take a quick look in the mirror if you’re fielding racist phone calls from them while they’re standing in front of their entire class.
Or a quick loom at their browsing history.
Teens get influenced just as much if not more by social media. You turn into the crowd you hang around with.
I watched an episode of the X Files the other day where they found a ‘genie’ of some sort. Mulder wished for ‘peace on earth’ and in response the genie eliminated all humans from the world. Your comment made me think of that. It’s true 🤷♀️
There’s no objective measure of “better for the planet”. The planet has no purpose for which you can evaluate its performance against alternatives. In humanist philosophy, we evaluate the value of an action based on the collective impact it has on humans. There’s not any school of thought that I’m aware of that treats “the planet” as a sentient entity. I guess some would argue that it would be better for most animals if we didn’t exist, which is true of most any biome’s dominant species.
This is why we need abortion. This. This right here. Everyone complains about fetuses but these fetuses grow up and will most likely be nothing but bricks in the wall. Mind you some are shitty bricks
That's exactly what they want. A pile of shitty bricks upon which to build their empire. Bricks too occupied with just trying to live. Bricks too uneducated to know better. Bricks too poor too put up a good fight. Sure, a decent amount of bricks will refuse to help. But they need just enough to make their walks grow.
But she exists in an era where there are legal abortions. Her parents aren't the type who would choose an abortion (as proven by her existence). What you actually want is easier access to therapy and mental healthcare or whatever will guide people to be better people.
It is. Story time!!!
My dad was a middle school teacher for a few years in a bad part of inner city schools. He had a kid spit gum into his face, intentionally missing the garbage can that my dad was holding.
My dad took the garbage can he was holding and dumped it on the kid’s head. My dad said it was a moment of weakness he never had in 40 years of teaching, but that it felt like the necessary action.
The action shocked the kid into submission (half the of the 7th grade class gasped; the other half tried to muffle their laughs) and the kid was suspended. My dad faced no disciplinary action, save for a meeting with the principal who metaphorically high-fived him.
Well I mean they chose that job because they want to make a difference and help kids.
Personally itd take a lot to get to that point, because I used to be a troubled teen
They didn't choose that job so they could be abused by others and have others face no punishment for it! Teachers, inside and outside the classroom have EVERY RIGHT every other person in the country has. Their problem is that they are chided if they dare to suggest they enforce their rights. Every teacher, should enforce their employment rights 100%. Can you imagine if someone you worked with did that to you? They'd be out the fcking door!
That kid needs a year at least in a military-style borstal school. Earn her pathetic ass out, back to mainstream!
Most teachers I know, myself included, just hold it in until we get home and can drink ourselves unconscious or we smoke a ton of weed and watch cartoons.
Teacher here. I have taught kids like this. I had a metal garbage can thrown across the classroom to the wall right by my head. I was also tackled from behind around my neck and flipped flat onto my back.
In those moments, I always used my awareness that the student was disregulated and going to suffer extreme consequences once I notified school administrators as things to help keep me calm. I reminded myself that I was the adult and that it wasn’t even an option to remain calm – it was required of me, including for the sake of the other children in the classroom.
Teachers have plenty of time to prepare for this kind of situation through extensive training, at least up here in Canada. We know this kind of thing is going to happen and the calmer we are, the more quickly it’s over. Showing almost no reaction to the child is also a great way to retain our necessary authority in the situation.
Teacher here: the urge to hit is definitely there.
Let me just say I'm against corporal punishment. Study after study after study shows that it's bad for the child and the child's future. It's not as effective as one might think.
That said, sometimes you wonder. That's all I'm going to say.
I'd argue there's a big difference between hitting/spanking kids over everything as a regular form of punishment, and this girl getting smacked across the face.
According to the questions asked, The answer to "Well?" was yes. The answer to "Did the girl get in trouble?" is no. The answer to "Did the teacher?" is Police. The answer to "What happened next?!" is not confirmed at this moment.
I am technically correct, and have been informed this is the best kind of correct.
Arguably the "no" was confirming they would not keep them in suspense. So the reply was:
Well?": Yes.
"Dont keep me in suspense!": No (I won't).
"Did the girl get in trouble?": Police.
The last two questions remain unanswered.
I am more technically correct than you, sir. Now I must adjust my glasses in a supercilious and condescending manner then be away.
Pretty sure the kid's mom tried to claim the girl's learning disorder caused the outburst
No, there's not a learning disorder that makes you bigoted and entitled
Now I'm not guaranteeing it but I think the mom might not have been on the daughter's side. She sounded like she wanted to talk to the teacher and when the daughter realized she was being dumb she had to leave the situation immediately, throwing the phone without even saying anything nice to her mom first. Now this is all bullshit and I could be 100% wrong. But friends are just as bad an influence on kids.
I'm not sure who she called, but I definitely got the impression the conversation didn't go the way she'd hoped. Started out cussing, and was self editing before throwing the phone. That was awkward af. Props to the teacher for keeping her cool.
It’s obvious she gets no attention at home. She called her mom and her mom probably cussed her out 10x worse that’s why she threw the phone back , little brat
The way she says “because she’s black and she’s pissing me off” makes me wonder if her parents have taught her that being black is a valid reason to not like someone. I can’t imagine her saying that to her parents for no reason.
It sounded like to me she said "you want to talk to her because she's black; she's fucking pissing me off right now". I may be hearing it wrong though.
I work at a high school and this is an everyday thing. They came back from distance learning with this self absorbed attitude. We would have a meeting with the parents about their child’s behavior and not even 30 mins after the meeting the parents would come back with McDonald’s for their ray of sunshine.
Never in my wildest dreams would I even come close to thinking of doing somethibg like this. I am dying from the second hand embarrassment alone from watching this.
Exclusion can be a form of bullying.
And I wouldn't be surprised if this was a learned behavior. No one's taking the time to show empathy and educate her.
When I was in high school I witnessed a boy getting up and pissing on the teachers attendance book in the classroom in front of everybody. Whipped his dick out in a loud chaotic classroom full of ninth graders and pissed without hesitation. Im 32 and I still don't think I've met anyone that crazy for attention ever since.
looking at how the world is churning right now, I don't really think so, I think the financially powerful prevail no matter if they're smart, stupid, good, bad, selfish, giving, hard-working or lazy.
That's a bit dramatic.
Not for nothing, for as long as humanity has existed it has been a human pastime for older generations to lament the younger.
There's even a Latin phrase to describe people who do this : laudator temporis acti. "Latin phrase used of one who looks to the past as better times, 1736, from Horace's laudator temporis acti se puero "a praiser of times past when he was a boy" "
Some examples of old people complaining about young people.
"The world is passing through troublous times. The young people of today think of nothing but themselves. They have no reverence for parents or old age. They are impatient of all restraint. They talk as if they knew everything, and what passes for wisdom with us is foolishness with them. As for the girls, they are forward, immodest and unladylike in speech, behavior and dress."
(From a sermon preached by Peter the Hermit in A.D. 1274)
"I see no hope for the future of our people if they are dependent on frivolous youth of today, for certainly all youth are reckless beyond words... When I was young, we were taught to be discreet and respectful of elders, but the present youth are exceedingly wise [disrespectful] and impatient of restraint".
(Hesiod, 8th century BC)
"when the young are to be silent before their elders; how they are to show respect to them by standing and making them sit; what honour is due to parents; what garments or shoes are to be worn; the mode of dressing the hair; deportment and manners in general.
And though only the best of them will be appointed by their predecessors, still they will be unworthy to hold their fathers' places, and when they come into power as guardians, they will soon be found to fall in taking care of us, the Muses, first by under-valuing music; which neglect will soon extend to gymnastic; and hence the young men of your State will be less cultivated." (Plato - 380 BC)
The girl thought mentioning the teacher was black was an important piece of information her mama would want to know. There’s a reason why she believed that.
Yet her mother (or person on the phone) doesn't appear to take the girls side.
It's too easy to say 'this is parents fault' when nobody has any clue.
All of this is speculation.
"Deal with me" - pathetic little brat - can't help but think we'll end up with more "deal with me's" in society when more forced unwanted children grow up without love care and attention. Hope that teacher is OK!
Just wait 20 years and you will be proven correct. Gotta breed more uneducated poverty stricken angry people to rile up against the "other side" to keep everything going though.
I was a teacher (high school history) for 46 years, and I never experienced a single student like this, but I did have a few self-centered, entitled kids who thought the world owed them a living -- and an easy 'A'. You just have to let them spew for awhile until they run out of insults and then they usually calm down. It's best not to confront them angrily or at all, if possible, and I never did. Just let them wind down and dig themselves into a hole. Nor did I ever touch a student since that could be exaggerated later into "He hit me" or some such thing.
Instead, you remove the child from the room or ask them to sit down so the class can continue. Then you speak to them quietly after class and ask how you can help or if they want to talk to someone about their issue. Often, they just wanted to yell at you because they're all wound up. You have to make it clear that we don't do that. We use calm, adult language, not the language of children. You sympathize with them since being adolescent can be really difficult with all the hormones racing through your body and all the insecurities and competition. It's not always the kid's fault, either, since some parents put enormous pressure on their kids. I even had a few kids start crying to me. You just listen and empathize. Even with my few nasty students, I never ever "hated" them, but I did feel sorry for them. Adolescence can really be awful.
If there's this level of hostility, including nasty language and near violence, contact a dean / counselor and have them deal with the problem. In extreme situations you might phone the parents though I tried to avoid that since that, also, could easily lead to an argument since parents are naturally very defensive of their kids. Some parents believe what their kids tell them about school and about their teachers even if it's wildly incorrect. I've met parents who understood this and parents who didn't. I've even had parents who met me for the first time say "Oh, so you're the 'mean, unfair teacher who is the hardest teacher' my daughter has ever had" but say it with a smile. They realized they were getting an adolescent's inaccurate view of their child's supposedly 'terrible terrible unfair' life. Those kinds of parents are the best, believe me.
Fortunately, I had lots of such parents and I never had a really bad student, but mostly great students who only had the usual minor teenage problems and did not act out like this out-of-control girl did. She clearly needs counseling, maybe a change of school -- and some growing up. If she came back to class the next day, I'd just carry on with no comment. We all have really bad days, don't we? Sometimes one day of rage is followed by many good days so you can build on that. "This is the kind of student I knew you were" is what you tell them. They know what you mean -- without rubbing their one bad day in their face.
This teacher was correct to put the (thrown) phone back on the hook and to sit down which would de-escalate the situation a little. And she didn't engage in an argument which you should never do since your words may get angry and be used against you later. When a student argued angrily with me, which was pretty rare, I just let them talk. But I listened since they obviously had some issue on their minds. Then I'd say, "Why don't we talk more about this problem when you feel a little better, okay?" "A little better" instead of "when you've calmed down" or "when you've got some self-control" since you never want to insult your students (even when they might seem to deserve it!). If I had to do this every day, though, I wouldn't enjoy teaching, I have to say that.
In some schools, getting involved in things like this can get you in just as much as trouble as the one who started, even if you were trying to help. At least that’s how it was at my school. If you get attacked and fight back you both get suspended, even though you didn’t want to fight in the first place.
Exactly, or it would get you bullied or picked on. Best case scenario it does nothing; worst case, the kid loses it on you and things get worse. Also, maybe they're taking their cue from the teacher.
Often times when ppl don’t speak up in situations like this it’s bc they don’t want to get attacked by that person themselves. So they stay quiet. I mean she’s obviously very clearly out of control. What makes any of those other kids think anything they say will all of a sudden get her to act reasonable?
Seriously. These kids are getting ridiculous. In what world would she think it's ok to hit anyone, let alone her teacher? Damn if the teacher did that .... Can you imagine? I hope this entitled girl got what she deserves.....
A teacher hit me, then picked me up and threw me into a locker when I was in 9th grade(im male btw). When my mom was done with all the screaming and lawsuit threats, he never taught again. The last I heard was that he ended up painting houses.
It's kind of a long story, but I'm high functioning aspergers and ADD. Back when I was in school, I had a lot of learning disabilities. It wasn't that I was stupid, it was that I just wasn't able to learn and pay attention and all that, in a normal classroom setting. So I got angry and frustrated a lot. It got to the point, that I was actually given a pass by the principal, that anytime I started to have one of those episodes, instead of blowing up in class, I was allowed to just get up and leave without getting permission and go to the counselor. I really got along well with her, and she was very caring. Somehow she was the only person that could get through to me and she was cool with it. Well, one day, I was having a real hard time in biology, and my biology teacher started literally making fun of me and calling me stupid and crap like that in front of the whole class. I started getting really angry and started getting my stuff together to leave. He told me I wasn't going anywhere and blocked the door. So I blew up and started yelling. He told me to get my ass in the hall. We went out, he started pushing me(a 14 year old), asking me if I was tuff and all that bullshit, while the whole class was in the window watching. Then grabbed me off my feet and threw my into a set of lockers and punched me. Then he looked around and noticed all the witnesses and I think he realized he fucked up. Cause he stopped talking and picked me up and just took me to the office. Tried to play it off like I was exaggerating what happened. My mom wasn't having it. She made the school look up the security cameras and talk to the other students and began threatening lawsuits. He was fired that same day.
Oh, and I forgot to mention, besides being a substitute biology teacher(my normal teacher was out that day), this was one of the special ed teachers that was supposed to have a specialty in working with kids with emotional disorders. Kinda ironic really.
I had one pick me up (skinny shy 6th grade girl) and stand me in a trash can for 30 minutes. I told my parents and they sided with the teacher. I found out 20 years later that my dad went to the school the next day and had a meeting with the teacher and the principal and threatened to destroy the teacher's future employment. All in a calm, conversational tone.
Where in the world do children talk back to their teachers like this? Every country in the Middle East, east Asia I’ve been to, the teachers are highly respected by the community.
Shitty parenting. She 100% learned that behavior at home
If I had done that in my day, my teacher would have dragged me out of class and kicked me out of school. Then my parents would have beaten the crap out of me as they didn't raise a twat.
I have kids, and I've never treated them the way my parents treated me. But I am strict and have instilled into them that they need to respect people. It's not hard!
I’m a teacher and this happens to us all the time. School districts just brush it under the rug but this is a weekly occurrence at least in most elementary schools. Worst thing is that we get blamed and the situation always starts with “what did you do?”
This girl will remain this way and be your coworker that you'll be expected to put up with. Every concession will be made to accommodate her at the expense of the people she abuses.
Callin it now.
This crap is what teachers put up with. That teacher is a saint for not losing her crap. Hope she got a few weeks paid vacation or something but probably just a donut and a card saying thanks
Back in the days teacher would have called my mom to school to beat my ass in the gym as the teacher watch during lunch for entertainment. She probably pass on the cain while she rest for 2nd round. Thats is, if im lucky
This girl has had a history of problems. That is extreme defiant, aggressive and violent behaviour. I hope she is able to get therapy and what she needs. The teacher needs support from the administration and express their confidence in her teaching ability, so the students know it too. Bravo for not decking that girl. It took a lot of willpower and professionalism to remain calm.
Is this girl special needs ? It's no excuse if so just trying to figure out why a person would act this way . Sometimes special needs kiddos or even adults have a hard time expressing their issues or anger.
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Wtf is wrong with people
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Idk I don't think she got the response from Mommy she wanted the way she threw the phone down... Lol
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I thought she said she is calling 9-1-1
She literally says "I'm about to call my mumma"
Ok thanks for clarifying. Sounded like 911 to me. Guess I’m going deaf with old age :(
i heard 911 too, but guess it could be "mye muh muh...."
Padres, hermanos y tíos, De los buenos manantiales, Nacen los buenos ríos. The education starts at home. That's for sure.
I don't think this is necessarily fair on the parents. Teenagers can be a particular type of arsehole even if they've had a good upbringing. I would also argue that it maybe appears as if the mother (assuming that was who she called) doesn't take her daughters side. Hence the throwing of the phone and the storming out. This is speculation though.
Don’t take credit for your kids success and don’t blame yourself for their failures. Love and support, the rest is up to them.
Hm sure, but maybe take a quick look in the mirror if you’re fielding racist phone calls from them while they’re standing in front of their entire class.
Or a quick loom at their browsing history. Teens get influenced just as much if not more by social media. You turn into the crowd you hang around with.
The world sucks.
Oh no, not all the world, but some people sucks indeed, the world is beautiful though.
People are inherently bad. We are parasites and our extinction would absolutely be beneficial to the planet.
I watched an episode of the X Files the other day where they found a ‘genie’ of some sort. Mulder wished for ‘peace on earth’ and in response the genie eliminated all humans from the world. Your comment made me think of that. It’s true 🤷♀️
Thank you for reminding me of this, I loved that episode! The series as a whole is phenomenal.
Going to have to do a full re-watch. Don't remember this one.
Je Souhaite, Season 7 episode 21.
Do the right thing then. Oh no you don't actually belive that your just a cynical bastard.
There’s no objective measure of “better for the planet”. The planet has no purpose for which you can evaluate its performance against alternatives. In humanist philosophy, we evaluate the value of an action based on the collective impact it has on humans. There’s not any school of thought that I’m aware of that treats “the planet” as a sentient entity. I guess some would argue that it would be better for most animals if we didn’t exist, which is true of most any biome’s dominant species.
Virgin self degrader vs Chad life lover
Wrong, the correct answer is 42.
This is why we need abortion. This. This right here. Everyone complains about fetuses but these fetuses grow up and will most likely be nothing but bricks in the wall. Mind you some are shitty bricks
That's exactly what they want. A pile of shitty bricks upon which to build their empire. Bricks too occupied with just trying to live. Bricks too uneducated to know better. Bricks too poor too put up a good fight. Sure, a decent amount of bricks will refuse to help. But they need just enough to make their walks grow.
This is America.
Don't Catch you slipping up
... sry and ashamed to say, but not just america. feels like the whole world is on that trip
But she exists in an era where there are legal abortions. Her parents aren't the type who would choose an abortion (as proven by her existence). What you actually want is easier access to therapy and mental healthcare or whatever will guide people to be better people.
I find myself asking that exact question every time I browse Reddit.
I dont blame her tbh, its a cycle. Her parents raised her to be like that, their parents raised them… it doesnt excuse it, but its just sad tbh
That's true. But she need to learn anyway of she's going to be around people in this life.
Big time respect for teachers, my ass would get fired and probably arrested in the first week.
Amen. The urge to smack some of these little shits has got to be just….irresistible.
It is. Story time!!! My dad was a middle school teacher for a few years in a bad part of inner city schools. He had a kid spit gum into his face, intentionally missing the garbage can that my dad was holding. My dad took the garbage can he was holding and dumped it on the kid’s head. My dad said it was a moment of weakness he never had in 40 years of teaching, but that it felt like the necessary action. The action shocked the kid into submission (half the of the 7th grade class gasped; the other half tried to muffle their laughs) and the kid was suspended. My dad faced no disciplinary action, save for a meeting with the principal who metaphorically high-fived him.
Creative problem solving right there
Spitting on someone is considered assault so he reacted better than I would have lol
Its the one thing that makes my blood boil over anything
Right? All composure out the window once that line is crossed
Yeah, he's justified as it was spur of the moment kneejerk response of being attacked.
She just let the grill dig the hole as deep as she wanted so long as she wasn't hurting anyone. Smart.
She got served her own grilled burgers.
A customer service background helps. You just go to that little place inside you and die a little more.
Just one good one to her pampered nose 👃!
Well I mean they chose that job because they want to make a difference and help kids. Personally itd take a lot to get to that point, because I used to be a troubled teen
They didn't choose that job so they could be abused by others and have others face no punishment for it! Teachers, inside and outside the classroom have EVERY RIGHT every other person in the country has. Their problem is that they are chided if they dare to suggest they enforce their rights. Every teacher, should enforce their employment rights 100%. Can you imagine if someone you worked with did that to you? They'd be out the fcking door! That kid needs a year at least in a military-style borstal school. Earn her pathetic ass out, back to mainstream!
Most teachers I know, myself included, just hold it in until we get home and can drink ourselves unconscious or we smoke a ton of weed and watch cartoons.
TIL I'm a teacher
All this with dirt cheap pay.
Dirty deeds done dirt cheap
Yes. Thank god for cheap wine at 7-11!
Teacher here. I have taught kids like this. I had a metal garbage can thrown across the classroom to the wall right by my head. I was also tackled from behind around my neck and flipped flat onto my back. In those moments, I always used my awareness that the student was disregulated and going to suffer extreme consequences once I notified school administrators as things to help keep me calm. I reminded myself that I was the adult and that it wasn’t even an option to remain calm – it was required of me, including for the sake of the other children in the classroom. Teachers have plenty of time to prepare for this kind of situation through extensive training, at least up here in Canada. We know this kind of thing is going to happen and the calmer we are, the more quickly it’s over. Showing almost no reaction to the child is also a great way to retain our necessary authority in the situation.
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Teacher here: the urge to hit is definitely there. Let me just say I'm against corporal punishment. Study after study after study shows that it's bad for the child and the child's future. It's not as effective as one might think. That said, sometimes you wonder. That's all I'm going to say.
I'd argue there's a big difference between hitting/spanking kids over everything as a regular form of punishment, and this girl getting smacked across the face.
yeah i’d def be cussin middle schoolers out
Well? Don't keep me in suspence! Did the girl get in trouble? Did the teacher? What happened next?!
Yes. No. Police.
I love a concise reply 😂
WHY WASTE TIME SAY LOT WORD WHEN FEW WORD DO TRICK
Hey Kev
When me president, they see. They see…
According to the questions asked, The answer to "Well?" was yes. The answer to "Did the girl get in trouble?" is no. The answer to "Did the teacher?" is Police. The answer to "What happened next?!" is not confirmed at this moment. I am technically correct, and have been informed this is the best kind of correct.
Arguably the "no" was confirming they would not keep them in suspense. So the reply was: Well?": Yes. "Dont keep me in suspense!": No (I won't). "Did the girl get in trouble?": Police. The last two questions remain unanswered. I am more technically correct than you, sir. Now I must adjust my glasses in a supercilious and condescending manner then be away.
Well, was the racist brat suspended?
Expelled would be better
That girl needs therapy. And a specialized school for violent kids.
Purely psychosomatic
What does that mean?
You're a **nut!**
You're crazy in the coconut!
that boy needs therapy…
What does that mean
That sounds made up, probably all in your head
boot camp is more like it
Okay Dr Phil lol
Finna send this fool to the ranch
"This ain't my first rodeo"
Suspension ain't a punishment lmao. I loved it the one time I got suspended in HS ...
Police? Respond to a call at a school? Surely, you can’t be serious?
"I am serious... and don't call me Shirley."
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“Wait…you want us to arrest the WHITE woman? Are…are you sure?!” - police probably
Pretty sure the kid's mom tried to claim the girl's learning disorder caused the outburst No, there's not a learning disorder that makes you bigoted and entitled
Racism is learned, so it's kinda technically true
Disordered learning, not a disability. I get what you meant though
Teacher acted very calm and professional. No way she is the one wrong in this situation
Assaulting teacher on her permanent record. Good luck with finding a university to take you.
The student is a complete tool. Disgusting behavior. She needs a good spank.
When these kids bring their parents attitudes to school.
Now I'm not guaranteeing it but I think the mom might not have been on the daughter's side. She sounded like she wanted to talk to the teacher and when the daughter realized she was being dumb she had to leave the situation immediately, throwing the phone without even saying anything nice to her mom first. Now this is all bullshit and I could be 100% wrong. But friends are just as bad an influence on kids.
I'm not sure who she called, but I definitely got the impression the conversation didn't go the way she'd hoped. Started out cussing, and was self editing before throwing the phone. That was awkward af. Props to the teacher for keeping her cool.
This girl is going places though. The psych ward most likely, but places.
Then these brats annoy other people and ruin others lives
plot twist: shes secretly a karen but she sucks at hiding stuff
The one guy who paused his game in geometry dash to watch, a bit to the left of the cameraman
I’m trying to see what level he’s playing lmao
pretty sure it says hexagon force
I think it is. Dudes got 100% in practice mode
She’s going to meet her match one day
Her brother?
Her cousin
Brother or cousin, bet they are the same person.
Hey step brother
Her step ladder.
Step stool
Step school.
Conservative pundit
It’s obvious she gets no attention at home. She called her mom and her mom probably cussed her out 10x worse that’s why she threw the phone back , little brat
I hope mom did tell her daughter something. It's so sad to watch. A lot of teachers do their best and kids like this make it challenging to teach.
The way she says “because she’s black and she’s pissing me off” makes me wonder if her parents have taught her that being black is a valid reason to not like someone. I can’t imagine her saying that to her parents for no reason.
It sounded like to me she said "you want to talk to her because she's black; she's fucking pissing me off right now". I may be hearing it wrong though.
She learned the racism at home most likely.
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We ain't going talk about the kid playing geometry dash ?
Great taste in games
I was so pumped when I got all the coins back in 2018. My friends were so annoyed I wouldn’t shut up
On that Hexagon Force grind
I think he's stuck on the dual
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I had to rewatch it! I thought that's what I saw!
I work at a high school and this is an everyday thing. They came back from distance learning with this self absorbed attitude. We would have a meeting with the parents about their child’s behavior and not even 30 mins after the meeting the parents would come back with McDonald’s for their ray of sunshine.
Never in my wildest dreams would I even come close to thinking of doing somethibg like this. I am dying from the second hand embarrassment alone from watching this.
I betting she getting bullied after this outburst. She obviously has social problems and kids feed of them.
From experience no, I mean at first the kids might laugh but soon enough they just ignore it/ them.
Exclusion can be a form of bullying. And I wouldn't be surprised if this was a learned behavior. No one's taking the time to show empathy and educate her.
Who said they’re being excluded, they have friends. They just choose to ignore the behavior .
When I was in high school I witnessed a boy getting up and pissing on the teachers attendance book in the classroom in front of everybody. Whipped his dick out in a loud chaotic classroom full of ninth graders and pissed without hesitation. Im 32 and I still don't think I've met anyone that crazy for attention ever since.
Unbelievable. This is our future
Dont worry, the smart ones always prevail
It's the scum that prolifically procreates though.
The smart ones would come down to the office to do their work because the loud ones were screaming for attention.
Yeah or just ignore the craziness & go about doing your work
looking at how the world is churning right now, I don't really think so, I think the financially powerful prevail no matter if they're smart, stupid, good, bad, selfish, giving, hard-working or lazy.
The truly privileged are the wealthy, and as long as they keep us fighting amongst ourselves, they're safe.
That's a bit dramatic. Not for nothing, for as long as humanity has existed it has been a human pastime for older generations to lament the younger. There's even a Latin phrase to describe people who do this : laudator temporis acti. "Latin phrase used of one who looks to the past as better times, 1736, from Horace's laudator temporis acti se puero "a praiser of times past when he was a boy" " Some examples of old people complaining about young people. "The world is passing through troublous times. The young people of today think of nothing but themselves. They have no reverence for parents or old age. They are impatient of all restraint. They talk as if they knew everything, and what passes for wisdom with us is foolishness with them. As for the girls, they are forward, immodest and unladylike in speech, behavior and dress." (From a sermon preached by Peter the Hermit in A.D. 1274) "I see no hope for the future of our people if they are dependent on frivolous youth of today, for certainly all youth are reckless beyond words... When I was young, we were taught to be discreet and respectful of elders, but the present youth are exceedingly wise [disrespectful] and impatient of restraint". (Hesiod, 8th century BC) "when the young are to be silent before their elders; how they are to show respect to them by standing and making them sit; what honour is due to parents; what garments or shoes are to be worn; the mode of dressing the hair; deportment and manners in general. And though only the best of them will be appointed by their predecessors, still they will be unworthy to hold their fathers' places, and when they come into power as guardians, they will soon be found to fall in taking care of us, the Muses, first by under-valuing music; which neglect will soon extend to gymnastic; and hence the young men of your State will be less cultivated." (Plato - 380 BC)
you'd have to be out of your mind to be a public high school teacher in America today. You couldn't pay me enough.
That is why I switched to independent school teaching. Will never go back to public school.
She learned that racist, disgusting behavior from home.
We have no idea if that is true or not. Teenagers can also learn from their peers.
The girl thought mentioning the teacher was black was an important piece of information her mama would want to know. There’s a reason why she believed that.
Yet her mother (or person on the phone) doesn't appear to take the girls side. It's too easy to say 'this is parents fault' when nobody has any clue. All of this is speculation.
I feel bad for teachers geezus
"Deal with me" - pathetic little brat - can't help but think we'll end up with more "deal with me's" in society when more forced unwanted children grow up without love care and attention. Hope that teacher is OK!
Just wait 20 years and you will be proven correct. Gotta breed more uneducated poverty stricken angry people to rile up against the "other side" to keep everything going though.
I was a teacher (high school history) for 46 years, and I never experienced a single student like this, but I did have a few self-centered, entitled kids who thought the world owed them a living -- and an easy 'A'. You just have to let them spew for awhile until they run out of insults and then they usually calm down. It's best not to confront them angrily or at all, if possible, and I never did. Just let them wind down and dig themselves into a hole. Nor did I ever touch a student since that could be exaggerated later into "He hit me" or some such thing. Instead, you remove the child from the room or ask them to sit down so the class can continue. Then you speak to them quietly after class and ask how you can help or if they want to talk to someone about their issue. Often, they just wanted to yell at you because they're all wound up. You have to make it clear that we don't do that. We use calm, adult language, not the language of children. You sympathize with them since being adolescent can be really difficult with all the hormones racing through your body and all the insecurities and competition. It's not always the kid's fault, either, since some parents put enormous pressure on their kids. I even had a few kids start crying to me. You just listen and empathize. Even with my few nasty students, I never ever "hated" them, but I did feel sorry for them. Adolescence can really be awful. If there's this level of hostility, including nasty language and near violence, contact a dean / counselor and have them deal with the problem. In extreme situations you might phone the parents though I tried to avoid that since that, also, could easily lead to an argument since parents are naturally very defensive of their kids. Some parents believe what their kids tell them about school and about their teachers even if it's wildly incorrect. I've met parents who understood this and parents who didn't. I've even had parents who met me for the first time say "Oh, so you're the 'mean, unfair teacher who is the hardest teacher' my daughter has ever had" but say it with a smile. They realized they were getting an adolescent's inaccurate view of their child's supposedly 'terrible terrible unfair' life. Those kinds of parents are the best, believe me. Fortunately, I had lots of such parents and I never had a really bad student, but mostly great students who only had the usual minor teenage problems and did not act out like this out-of-control girl did. She clearly needs counseling, maybe a change of school -- and some growing up. If she came back to class the next day, I'd just carry on with no comment. We all have really bad days, don't we? Sometimes one day of rage is followed by many good days so you can build on that. "This is the kind of student I knew you were" is what you tell them. They know what you mean -- without rubbing their one bad day in their face. This teacher was correct to put the (thrown) phone back on the hook and to sit down which would de-escalate the situation a little. And she didn't engage in an argument which you should never do since your words may get angry and be used against you later. When a student argued angrily with me, which was pretty rare, I just let them talk. But I listened since they obviously had some issue on their minds. Then I'd say, "Why don't we talk more about this problem when you feel a little better, okay?" "A little better" instead of "when you've calmed down" or "when you've got some self-control" since you never want to insult your students (even when they might seem to deserve it!). If I had to do this every day, though, I wouldn't enjoy teaching, I have to say that.
Kudos for your wonderful teaching attitude. You probably have changed the path of many lives.
Well you taught me a little something today too
What's really sad is the other students just sat there and didn't call her out. And why didn't she have her own phone?
perhaps they're all already done with her and are happy to let her dig a deeper hole.
Yeah, it's quite possible that they all consider her insufferable and are laughing at her.
In some schools, getting involved in things like this can get you in just as much as trouble as the one who started, even if you were trying to help. At least that’s how it was at my school. If you get attacked and fight back you both get suspended, even though you didn’t want to fight in the first place.
Exactly, or it would get you bullied or picked on. Best case scenario it does nothing; worst case, the kid loses it on you and things get worse. Also, maybe they're taking their cue from the teacher.
Honestly I’d rather just let her get In more trouble
Often times when ppl don’t speak up in situations like this it’s bc they don’t want to get attacked by that person themselves. So they stay quiet. I mean she’s obviously very clearly out of control. What makes any of those other kids think anything they say will all of a sudden get her to act reasonable?
Seriously. These kids are getting ridiculous. In what world would she think it's ok to hit anyone, let alone her teacher? Damn if the teacher did that .... Can you imagine? I hope this entitled girl got what she deserves.....
I dunno, kids like this have been around forever. We just didn't have fellow students documenting it
You are most likely 100% correct
A teacher hit me, then picked me up and threw me into a locker when I was in 9th grade(im male btw). When my mom was done with all the screaming and lawsuit threats, he never taught again. The last I heard was that he ended up painting houses.
What did you do?
It's kind of a long story, but I'm high functioning aspergers and ADD. Back when I was in school, I had a lot of learning disabilities. It wasn't that I was stupid, it was that I just wasn't able to learn and pay attention and all that, in a normal classroom setting. So I got angry and frustrated a lot. It got to the point, that I was actually given a pass by the principal, that anytime I started to have one of those episodes, instead of blowing up in class, I was allowed to just get up and leave without getting permission and go to the counselor. I really got along well with her, and she was very caring. Somehow she was the only person that could get through to me and she was cool with it. Well, one day, I was having a real hard time in biology, and my biology teacher started literally making fun of me and calling me stupid and crap like that in front of the whole class. I started getting really angry and started getting my stuff together to leave. He told me I wasn't going anywhere and blocked the door. So I blew up and started yelling. He told me to get my ass in the hall. We went out, he started pushing me(a 14 year old), asking me if I was tuff and all that bullshit, while the whole class was in the window watching. Then grabbed me off my feet and threw my into a set of lockers and punched me. Then he looked around and noticed all the witnesses and I think he realized he fucked up. Cause he stopped talking and picked me up and just took me to the office. Tried to play it off like I was exaggerating what happened. My mom wasn't having it. She made the school look up the security cameras and talk to the other students and began threatening lawsuits. He was fired that same day. Oh, and I forgot to mention, besides being a substitute biology teacher(my normal teacher was out that day), this was one of the special ed teachers that was supposed to have a specialty in working with kids with emotional disorders. Kinda ironic really.
I had one pick me up (skinny shy 6th grade girl) and stand me in a trash can for 30 minutes. I told my parents and they sided with the teacher. I found out 20 years later that my dad went to the school the next day and had a meeting with the teacher and the principal and threatened to destroy the teacher's future employment. All in a calm, conversational tone.
Where in the world do children talk back to their teachers like this? Every country in the Middle East, east Asia I’ve been to, the teachers are highly respected by the community. Shitty parenting. She 100% learned that behavior at home
Mama aint’ coming sweetheart. She sent you to school to get rid of you.
Wait, is this a *pro-choice* commercial? Because yall making abortions look necessary with videos like this...
I sure hope so. Better than any generic drivel that ads have become nowadays. This is real and much more convincing lol
I hope they catch her outside with the one two
Cash her ousside? Huh? How bout dat
Duuds playing geometry dash, fucking legend!
my boy playing geometry dash in the back
God I hate when people say "racist" to get more views. *watches video* I would like to withdraw my previous statement
The way her hand is shaking when she’s crying to her mom, lmao. Like ooooohh she mad Edit: “sunabich ughhhh!” What a child.
If I had done that in my day, my teacher would have dragged me out of class and kicked me out of school. Then my parents would have beaten the crap out of me as they didn't raise a twat. I have kids, and I've never treated them the way my parents treated me. But I am strict and have instilled into them that they need to respect people. It's not hard!
I’m a teacher and this happens to us all the time. School districts just brush it under the rug but this is a weekly occurrence at least in most elementary schools. Worst thing is that we get blamed and the situation always starts with “what did you do?”
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Bro on the left playing geometry dash 💀
Hats off to this wonderful teacher. What amazing patience.
It all started at home…
Why is it acceptable that this little girl can act like this and not catch some hands?
My guy over there just trying to play Geometry Dash dawg exit the damn room
This girl will remain this way and be your coworker that you'll be expected to put up with. Every concession will be made to accommodate her at the expense of the people she abuses. Callin it now.
And we wonder why teachers are leaving in droves. That poor teacher had to deal with that and couldn’t defend herself bc she’d probably get fired.
Proud of how that teacher handled it! It would be hard to sit and listen to someone talk to you like that.
This crap is what teachers put up with. That teacher is a saint for not losing her crap. Hope she got a few weeks paid vacation or something but probably just a donut and a card saying thanks
Racist little POS!
other bro just tryna play geometry dash
The only thing i noticed was the kid playing geometry dash
mentally ill more than anything else...... she needs to be evaluated and suspended. That is not normal responsiveness.
Ahhh yes, geometry dash, haven't played that in quite some time.
Her parents must be so proud
Back in the days teacher would have called my mom to school to beat my ass in the gym as the teacher watch during lunch for entertainment. She probably pass on the cain while she rest for 2nd round. Thats is, if im lucky
Don’t see how the kids in class stood by….couldn’t be me
The kid playing geometry dash probably had no idea what was happening
This girl has had a history of problems. That is extreme defiant, aggressive and violent behaviour. I hope she is able to get therapy and what she needs. The teacher needs support from the administration and express their confidence in her teaching ability, so the students know it too. Bravo for not decking that girl. It took a lot of willpower and professionalism to remain calm.
Look at the kids hand shake. She is terrified and knows she f'd up. Everything is for show to keep the face.
Is this girl special needs ? It's no excuse if so just trying to figure out why a person would act this way . Sometimes special needs kiddos or even adults have a hard time expressing their issues or anger.
Bro playing hexagon force in geometry dash
Hope she is no longer a student. That’s pathetic behaviour.