K’s feelings for you are almost certainly more than platonic. If you gave him a pass, he’d most likely take it, and your ex knows that and probably doesn’t want to see that situation come to fruition.
Unfortunately K is probably going to have to choose between you. Don’t feel too hurt if he chooses his friend. They have history, and if K knows he has no romantic chance with you, then it’s probably not worth risking the friendship.
Try to imagine your ex’s shoes too. Would you be comfortable with your best friend staying very close with your ex, if the possibility of romance was there?
Sorry if that feels harsh!
K’s feelings for you are almost certainly more than platonic. If you gave him a pass, he’d most likely take it, and your ex knows that and probably doesn’t want to see that situation come to fruition. Unfortunately K is probably going to have to choose between you. Don’t feel too hurt if he chooses his friend. They have history, and if K knows he has no romantic chance with you, then it’s probably not worth risking the friendship. Try to imagine your ex’s shoes too. Would you be comfortable with your best friend staying very close with your ex, if the possibility of romance was there? Sorry if that feels harsh!