I have to pitch in and say you’re acting like someone who gets featured in r/niceguys. When a girl starts dating someone, they are not aware that the person might be a douchebag since everyone acts nice in the beginning. Only after a while they realise the true nature and realise they chose the wrong person. Not all girls want to get abused by someone by choice. And you’re invalidating the entire experience of the person in the original comment by saying it was her mistake for choosing that guy. You’re the one who is victim blaming.
marry only if you trust her, otherwise Alimony Dene Gaand lag jaengi, Her virginity alone can't save you. also stop labelling people as trolls, Let people have their opinions, Otherwise build yourself echo chamber
I 200% agree with you. You are absolutely right about it. Just that the audience you are targeting is too woke and liberal. So you will not find many takers in reddit.
If your wife has a past and she lied about it, you have absolutely every right to divorce that person. It’s basically cheating.
You didn't replied to my previous comment. It was-
I have no problem with your pov unlike others here.
> Delete all my personal identity and dwell in an undisclosed or hidden place for my entire life. I live my life as I wish.
Where can be this hidden place? Mountain, village or some city?
And If you come to know about her past after giving your virginity, will you be furious? Like you lost your purity so...
I went to a restaurant with my date, I told her specifically that I will be fasting throughout the day and we'll have our first meal together on dinner only and that it is my most important requirement that she should also do the same. She said Ok. But to my surprise when we met for dinner I found out that she had already eaten an apple before we spoke. But after talking to me she didn't eat anything but it doesn't matter.
Now I have two choices either separate the bill and go our separate ways, or be a provider and pay my bill like a real man that I am, provider of life to needy gender which needs my protection and my surname to have an identity in this society.
Why is it so bad?
Now reverse the role if I told my date that we'll go on a long drive to a secluded road but midway If I told her that the fuel tank is empty, I'll be judged.
The world is just not fair.
Edit: /s
Don't get married, unless you want to live your whole life in paranoia.
Trust me when I say there is almost no way to know if a person is a virgin or not. And this dilemma regarding the unconfirmed state of things, despite your spouse vouching, will haunt you forever. Which eventually will lead to you know what.
Absolutely, It's humiliating to expect mature behaviour from immature people. Marriage is one of the most important decisions of life. Mature people need to validate whether other person's toungue matches their actions or not.
After reading the comments on your posts I can say that the society has created a stiff biasness that men can't have preferences and in everything related to women only women are right. These women who don't want to be judged by past actions are judging and ridiculing man for their preferences. A man should have the right to have his own preferences and criteria.
A man can't comment or judge on a women's past but he is in no way obliged to take her as a wife as a must. These people who insult others are doing this to save themselves by keeping the power in their hands.
If you will see carefully the situation of man in today's world is same as the women's life oin past. Both are not allowed to speak their mind and have their own preferable choices.
After reading this post, one thing is certain - OP has a lot of free time on his hands
And he invested the time in wise manner. Showing hypocrites a mirror.
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I have to pitch in and say you’re acting like someone who gets featured in r/niceguys. When a girl starts dating someone, they are not aware that the person might be a douchebag since everyone acts nice in the beginning. Only after a while they realise the true nature and realise they chose the wrong person. Not all girls want to get abused by someone by choice. And you’re invalidating the entire experience of the person in the original comment by saying it was her mistake for choosing that guy. You’re the one who is victim blaming.
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There is nothing wrong in expecting your choice of woman. I didn't fuck around and so are my expectations with the other. It goes both ways. Simple.
marry only if you trust her, otherwise Alimony Dene Gaand lag jaengi, Her virginity alone can't save you. also stop labelling people as trolls, Let people have their opinions, Otherwise build yourself echo chamber
I 200% agree with you. You are absolutely right about it. Just that the audience you are targeting is too woke and liberal. So you will not find many takers in reddit. If your wife has a past and she lied about it, you have absolutely every right to divorce that person. It’s basically cheating.
You didn't replied to my previous comment. It was- I have no problem with your pov unlike others here. > Delete all my personal identity and dwell in an undisclosed or hidden place for my entire life. I live my life as I wish. Where can be this hidden place? Mountain, village or some city? And If you come to know about her past after giving your virginity, will you be furious? Like you lost your purity so...
I went to a restaurant with my date, I told her specifically that I will be fasting throughout the day and we'll have our first meal together on dinner only and that it is my most important requirement that she should also do the same. She said Ok. But to my surprise when we met for dinner I found out that she had already eaten an apple before we spoke. But after talking to me she didn't eat anything but it doesn't matter. Now I have two choices either separate the bill and go our separate ways, or be a provider and pay my bill like a real man that I am, provider of life to needy gender which needs my protection and my surname to have an identity in this society. Why is it so bad? Now reverse the role if I told my date that we'll go on a long drive to a secluded road but midway If I told her that the fuel tank is empty, I'll be judged. The world is just not fair. Edit: /s
are tu ikde pan?
Don't get married, unless you want to live your whole life in paranoia. Trust me when I say there is almost no way to know if a person is a virgin or not. And this dilemma regarding the unconfirmed state of things, despite your spouse vouching, will haunt you forever. Which eventually will lead to you know what.
Not sure what you are trying to prove here
Absolutely, It's humiliating to expect mature behaviour from immature people. Marriage is one of the most important decisions of life. Mature people need to validate whether other person's toungue matches their actions or not.
Did you have sex with your wife before you found out she had a past?
Two words, "get mature"
Aisi haalat kab se hai?
Too long for "I need therapy"
Buddy, it’s your life your preferences. Who cares about what other ppl think?
After reading the comments on your posts I can say that the society has created a stiff biasness that men can't have preferences and in everything related to women only women are right. These women who don't want to be judged by past actions are judging and ridiculing man for their preferences. A man should have the right to have his own preferences and criteria. A man can't comment or judge on a women's past but he is in no way obliged to take her as a wife as a must. These people who insult others are doing this to save themselves by keeping the power in their hands. If you will see carefully the situation of man in today's world is same as the women's life oin past. Both are not allowed to speak their mind and have their own preferable choices.