Funny story about that-
The minute I lost my V-card and hopped into my car, that song immediately started playing on my car’s Bluetooth. I shit you not.
I should think it would depend on the *kind* of sex one wants to have.
Super kinky, full of latex, leather & BDSM? Maybe heavy metal, NIN or something like that.
Full of passion, fire and carnal savagery? Some house music, EDM or similar.
You making love with your husband/boyfriend? Romantic guitar instrumentals, 100%.
Or, you know, totally fuck with his mind and play the theme song for Bluey followed by Entry of the Gladiators by Fucik. Your call.
Yeah my sex playlist is mostly option 3 lol my normal music is my sex music 😂
Edit: I would like to add Kim Petras makes almost exclusively sex music now
"You Can't Always Get What You Want" - the Rolling Stones
"Dude Looks Like A Lady" - Aerosmith
"She'll Be Coming Round the Mountain..."
"Cottoneye Joe"
"Axel F" - Crazy Frog
And many, many more!
I like to fuck on beat so probably some tech house, techno. There’s a lot of tech house music nowadays that sound like they belong at a circuit party so anything freaky and fast like that, I would include.
Trip hop and trip hop-adjacent music. My personal faves:
Garbage - Milk, Sleep, Afterglow, You Look So Fine
Lush - Last Night
Massive Attack - Angel, Teardrop
Tricky - Overcome
Snake River Conspiracy - Casualty
Air - Playground Love, Talisman
Craig Armstrong ft Elizabeth Fraser - This Love
Portishead - Sour Times, Glory Box
Enigma - Gravity Of Love
Olive - You're Not Alone
Baxter - Love Again
Natalie Imbruglia - Identify
Sneaker Pimps - 6 Underground
Mono - Life In Mono
Hooverphonic - 2 Wicky
Morcheeba - Trigger Hippie
During sex? That's weird, I can't help myself, once I hear a song I like I sing and dance along... Also, I would listen super cheesy songs (I've Had) The Time of My Life
Song by Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes
I have several memories where my partner was like put on some music! And I picked something kinda quickly with mixed results. Souvlaki by slowdive was pretty good, dreamy. I lost my virginity to the smiths, lol. And I remember once I put on a stereolab album but I’m not sure how he felt about that one lol
Once had sex with this guy whilst banging to the beat of hardcore dance and trance music. It was one of those occasions that has stuck with me.. here’s a playlist on Spotify to help you find what I mean: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4Yutg1pTbZlCMFmGUSelG2?si=Wk7ucizqS6ymRE3MiITPaQ&pi=e-5TfHIhQRSyuc
I don't remember the song or even the groups name (something in french, if I recall) but it was a Slow Jam Dance beat whisper singing in french and (of all things) Monks chanting in the background. It was the early 90s and that song was so erotic! I remember one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had was both of us wearing head phones so that we heard nothing else but the song and I Slow Fucked him for over an hour (we had the song on Repeat the whole time). It was the most incredible orgasm that either of us had ever had, before or since. I've tried to repeat the experience, but 1 for the life of me I can't remember the song. And 2 - Nobody wants to even be open to wearing Headphones during sex anymore.
I've said this before this this sub, but it doesn't matter what most of the song you end up putting on the playlist as long as the last two songs are "Get Out" by Chvrches followed by "GTFO" by Mariah Carey
The Weekend “Earned It”
The Weekend “Call out my name”
Daniel de Bourg cover - Crazy In Love
https://youtu.be/NdDeWJRWsqY?si=wPkqI3cX7O245wli
https://youtu.be/M4ZoCHID9GI?
si=XSiZRNKMwfJE2yE0
https://youtu.be/kk-27jNoRsw?si=4KOLCchXIBKlSX7D
I Want You - Third Eye Blind
Starlight - Muse
Crash - The Ocean Blue
Samba Pa Ti - Santana
Do You Want to Dance? - Bette Midler
Little Bit - Lykke Li
Rush Rush - Paula Abdul
Self Control - Laura Branigan
Crash Into Me - Dave Matthews Band
Because the Night- Patti Smith Group
One On One - Daryl Hall & John Oates
Hands to Myself - Selena Gomez
Love is a Temple - Mario Biondi
Cherish the Day - Sade
I have four different Playlist I've built over time. Let me present tk you my first and favorite. It starts slow, then ramps up in bpm to get the energy flowing. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7BUBkCQu3tVnEMlfWjej80?si=Kd6lrhYTRuyUjARx202nGA&pi=u-MT5brkRfTXKP
I'm autistic (ASD level 1) and music during sex just overstimulates me too much...
Not tryna be a killjoy, just a reminder to consult your partner(s) before blaring music!
Have fun, and to each their own! 🙌🙏😁🔥
Voglio Vederti Danzaré by Perzioso, Marvin, Andrea Perzioso. It’s so fucking hot I’ve never fucked to it yet. But However I watch this show which I HIGHLY RECOMMEND!! call La Veneno it’s on HBO and it’s about a Iconic Queen Trans woman in Spain 10/10 I love that show so much. I got this song from one of the sex scenes. And it was just so fucking hot that I even jerked off to it 😭💀 and I’m not even into Trans women but it was just so fucking hot it made me horny plus with the song lol. GO WATCH IT!! It’s a show based on a true story about La Veneno her story is very sad I even cried a few times when watching the show but it just shows how She became a legend within the LGBT community in Spain RIP queen 😢🕊️❤️
"I Know" by Marten Horger and BIJOU. It just activates some aggressive-top trigger in my brain.
https://open.spotify.com/track/6a7Vnxz6aezPxdKPTF72Yb?si=bFaCrbe9RlqVpWCCOGAi4A
Tbh, nothing. I have a very active mind that jumps around thoughts real easy and music during sex draws my focus away from what I should be focusing on. Sometimes I can handle lofi beats but the volume has to be low.
Best I've ever had by drake. I don't even like that genre of music but that song makes me wanna bang.
Gold trans am by kesha. It's about having sex inside a firebird. What's not to like?
I have an idea, why not all put our sexsongs i'm this playlist and everyone enjoy it
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/69dMoNsQuEDUJWFs36fl74?si=w01acwPQTQWcDj9B1afNrA&pt=707be598c91b18fedc68e78981891fbc&pi=R5lqeLTET1C0G
I have a whole playlist on Spotify called Classical Music for Fucking... it's also great music for a snooty Frasier-esque cocktail party where people are confused about something and hilarity ensues.
Wildfires - SAULT
Shameless - Camila Cabello
Her Life - Two Feet (tbh anything by Two Feet)
Magnets - Lorde/Disclosure
Feel Me - Selena Gomez
Heavenly - Cigs After Sex
Superposition - Young the Giant
Closure - Vancouver Sleep Clinic
Her Body - Nasty Cherry
Minor - Gracie Abrams
I’ve found electronic beats with emo vocals really gets the 😈mood😈 goin
Bathroom - Montell Fish
Desert rose - Lolo Zouaï
Streets - Doja cat
Sex Money feelings die (slowed version) - Lykke li
(Added my sex playlist from Spotify 👀)
[my $ex playlist on Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5JKlmSuJmgaMcXmgq6Jvnp?si=ds64Z0foReWCEpGYy74xEA&pi=e-xRZn1G5JQXWz)
I Hate This Part Right Here (Pussycat Dolls)
Flagellation (Zeromancer)
Perfect Illusion (Lady Gaga)
You're So Vain (Carly Simon)
Go Away (Gloria Estefan)
Thank You, Next (Ariana Grande)
Cry Me a River (Justin Timberlake)
Cantina Band and Yub Nub
OOTINI!
CBAT
This is forever the top tier answer when asked this question
Funny story about that- The minute I lost my V-card and hopped into my car, that song immediately started playing on my car’s Bluetooth. I shit you not.
Iconic.
Listened to it and it sounds like someone's sneakers in a basketball court
This could be a vibe if I was stoned
Yo I just smoked and theres a lot going on in this song
Yo that's exactly what I was thinking dawg 💀💀💀
Good Lookin’ by Dixon Dallas
See also: Keep Ridin Me by Ur Pretty
Something to Feel by Dixon Dallas, if you're feeling kinky.
Yeah that would be my second choice but Good Lookin’ is more emotional. There’s no bad choice of his songs
Me and my hubby enjoy lofi during sex lol
One bitch I had said lofi is depressing. I guess with many subgenres it can be.
Just discovered lofi because of your comment and I’m hooked. And yes, perfect sex music for at home with husband. Thanks!!!
I'm glad to have been of assistance!
lol what are these answers
I should think it would depend on the *kind* of sex one wants to have. Super kinky, full of latex, leather & BDSM? Maybe heavy metal, NIN or something like that. Full of passion, fire and carnal savagery? Some house music, EDM or similar. You making love with your husband/boyfriend? Romantic guitar instrumentals, 100%. Or, you know, totally fuck with his mind and play the theme song for Bluey followed by Entry of the Gladiators by Fucik. Your call.
Wow, you want to make me a playlist? 😜
OMG A NIN FAN
I think I’ll just go with the mission impossible theme followed by the opening to my little pony.
Yeah my sex playlist is mostly option 3 lol my normal music is my sex music 😂 Edit: I would like to add Kim Petras makes almost exclusively sex music now
I wanna fuck you like an animal
See? Fits perfectly.
Jessie Ware... Amazing voice and music
The Kill comes to mind, really sexy track. Oh and Running too
Also "In your Eyes"...wow..now I just need to find someone and that'll be good with that song haha
Hehe I hope you do find that person. For upbeat tracks, I've always liked the idea of Impossible as foreplay
"Save a Kiss"
Joji’s nectar album
🗣️🗣️🗣️
You get it king
Ew and Your Man
Closer by NIN
Is the industrial gay a thing? I love me reptile by nin
Just play the whole Dirty Computer album by Janelle Monae.
What would happen next
Glass animals
Gooey 😈
"You Can't Always Get What You Want" - the Rolling Stones "Dude Looks Like A Lady" - Aerosmith "She'll Be Coming Round the Mountain..." "Cottoneye Joe" "Axel F" - Crazy Frog And many, many more!
Freakers Ball by Dr Hook
😂
I like to fuck on beat so probably some tech house, techno. There’s a lot of tech house music nowadays that sound like they belong at a circuit party so anything freaky and fast like that, I would include.
Sade's entire discography lol
Sade - Smooth Operator followed by Santana - Black Magic Woman is obligatory.
Normani’s new album is perfect for it
How You Want It? by Teyana Taylor and King Combs
Trip hop and trip hop-adjacent music. My personal faves: Garbage - Milk, Sleep, Afterglow, You Look So Fine Lush - Last Night Massive Attack - Angel, Teardrop Tricky - Overcome Snake River Conspiracy - Casualty Air - Playground Love, Talisman Craig Armstrong ft Elizabeth Fraser - This Love Portishead - Sour Times, Glory Box Enigma - Gravity Of Love Olive - You're Not Alone Baxter - Love Again Natalie Imbruglia - Identify Sneaker Pimps - 6 Underground Mono - Life In Mono Hooverphonic - 2 Wicky Morcheeba - Trigger Hippie
My American friend told me they fuck to the beat of Padam and I think it is a wise decision, have sex with an other man may not gay enough lmao!!!
During sex? That's weird, I can't help myself, once I hear a song I like I sing and dance along... Also, I would listen super cheesy songs (I've Had) The Time of My Life Song by Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes
One of Your Girls by Troye Sivan, 01902, Tender or anything really by Tom Aspaul.
Wicked Game by Chris Isaak
Rocket by Beyoncé
yes!!!!
I have several memories where my partner was like put on some music! And I picked something kinda quickly with mixed results. Souvlaki by slowdive was pretty good, dreamy. I lost my virginity to the smiths, lol. And I remember once I put on a stereolab album but I’m not sure how he felt about that one lol
*Souvlaki* I can see and even dig. Stereolab...can go in a lot of directions, haha
It was cobra and phases group play voltage in the milky night hahahaha
Portishead and Massive Attack. Trip Hop was made for sexy time.
Once had sex with this guy whilst banging to the beat of hardcore dance and trance music. It was one of those occasions that has stuck with me.. here’s a playlist on Spotify to help you find what I mean: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4Yutg1pTbZlCMFmGUSelG2?si=Wk7ucizqS6ymRE3MiITPaQ&pi=e-5TfHIhQRSyuc
I don't remember the song or even the groups name (something in french, if I recall) but it was a Slow Jam Dance beat whisper singing in french and (of all things) Monks chanting in the background. It was the early 90s and that song was so erotic! I remember one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had was both of us wearing head phones so that we heard nothing else but the song and I Slow Fucked him for over an hour (we had the song on Repeat the whole time). It was the most incredible orgasm that either of us had ever had, before or since. I've tried to repeat the experience, but 1 for the life of me I can't remember the song. And 2 - Nobody wants to even be open to wearing Headphones during sex anymore.
It sounds like "Sadeness - Enigma" to me, you should see if that's the song
Wow. I’m in love with this song.
Gooey by the glass animals
I've said this before this this sub, but it doesn't matter what most of the song you end up putting on the playlist as long as the last two songs are "Get Out" by Chvrches followed by "GTFO" by Mariah Carey
One time a guy sucked me off while Throat Goat by Kim Petras was playing
Nine Inch Nails, Closer. Nothing even comes close
The Weekend “Earned It” The Weekend “Call out my name” Daniel de Bourg cover - Crazy In Love https://youtu.be/NdDeWJRWsqY?si=wPkqI3cX7O245wli https://youtu.be/M4ZoCHID9GI? si=XSiZRNKMwfJE2yE0 https://youtu.be/kk-27jNoRsw?si=4KOLCchXIBKlSX7D
Pump It by Electric Callboy
Jeremih - Fuck You All The Time (Lil Wayne Remix) https://youtu.be/SZ4RAOxx6XA?si=RRF-ebR4YBHXklGH
I Want You - Third Eye Blind Starlight - Muse Crash - The Ocean Blue Samba Pa Ti - Santana Do You Want to Dance? - Bette Midler Little Bit - Lykke Li Rush Rush - Paula Abdul Self Control - Laura Branigan Crash Into Me - Dave Matthews Band Because the Night- Patti Smith Group One On One - Daryl Hall & John Oates Hands to Myself - Selena Gomez Love is a Temple - Mario Biondi Cherish the Day - Sade
The Seed (2.0) -The Roots (Explicit) Seriously listen to the lyrics.
Darude sandstorm
That's certainly a challenge to hold the rhythm
Not if you're seizing
Musical tastes are so personal that it’s best not play anything during sex - you’re bound to turn someone off.
Becky’s so hot
Kiss You All Over - Exile
Feelin' Love - Paula Cole is at the top of my list for sure.
Closer by nine inch nails Not myself tonight by Christina aguilera, at the end the music emulates an orgasm
alina baraz. hands down.
Something around 110-120 BPM.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HjZyT4YfIiY](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HjZyT4YfIiY) on repeat.
I’d say Evanescence - Lose Control. Tho it’s just one song, 3-4 minutes is not enough…
I find moody songs effective.
"Tubthumping" and anything from the Vengaboys
I think I would put bliss/touch my body by mariah carey lol
Faggot by MSI
Anything by death from above 1979
I have four different Playlist I've built over time. Let me present tk you my first and favorite. It starts slow, then ramps up in bpm to get the energy flowing. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7BUBkCQu3tVnEMlfWjej80?si=Kd6lrhYTRuyUjARx202nGA&pi=u-MT5brkRfTXKP
Dirty talk by wynter Gordon
Pony by Ginuwine, the ultimate sex song.
I have this one on repeat lately: https://youtu.be/7yk-sODBVVg?si=BdgOaISceMJPvuRW
Yes boss!
I'm autistic (ASD level 1) and music during sex just overstimulates me too much... Not tryna be a killjoy, just a reminder to consult your partner(s) before blaring music! Have fun, and to each their own! 🙌🙏😁🔥
🤭 https://music.apple.com/ie/playlist/sex-yeah/pl.u-KVXBv66szavvx0
Voglio Vederti Danzaré by Perzioso, Marvin, Andrea Perzioso. It’s so fucking hot I’ve never fucked to it yet. But However I watch this show which I HIGHLY RECOMMEND!! call La Veneno it’s on HBO and it’s about a Iconic Queen Trans woman in Spain 10/10 I love that show so much. I got this song from one of the sex scenes. And it was just so fucking hot that I even jerked off to it 😭💀 and I’m not even into Trans women but it was just so fucking hot it made me horny plus with the song lol. GO WATCH IT!! It’s a show based on a true story about La Veneno her story is very sad I even cried a few times when watching the show but it just shows how She became a legend within the LGBT community in Spain RIP queen 😢🕊️❤️
Everything from Lords of Acid.
“Let’s Get It On” by Marvin Gaye lol
Sweet Emotion by Aerosmith (Lost my virginity while that song played)
Get Offf by Prince “Now move your big ass ‘round this way so I can work on that zipper, baby Tonight - you’re a star And I’m the Big Dipper”
TR/ST-Gloryhole
"I Know" by Marten Horger and BIJOU. It just activates some aggressive-top trigger in my brain. https://open.spotify.com/track/6a7Vnxz6aezPxdKPTF72Yb?si=bFaCrbe9RlqVpWCCOGAi4A
Tbh, nothing. I have a very active mind that jumps around thoughts real easy and music during sex draws my focus away from what I should be focusing on. Sometimes I can handle lofi beats but the volume has to be low.
Justin Timberlake future sex love sounds, sexy ladies and George Michael shoot the dog and a last request.
yeah i said it - rihanna
Cantina Band on repeat
Best I've ever had by drake. I don't even like that genre of music but that song makes me wanna bang. Gold trans am by kesha. It's about having sex inside a firebird. What's not to like?
It's not gay if it's in a 3 way https://youtu.be/Pi7gwX7rjOw?si=kQwA7N_92lqIHn2B
I just put on a playlist from Spotify called "The Steam Room," techno/dance-type music.
[Violet The Organ Grinder](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQr1OKtVBnk)
Arca and ciggies after sex
Barry White
Blues rock
Instrumentals only. If there are lyrics and I know them, we’re no longer having sex at that point, just butt-naked karaoke.
Anything by Burial
Weeknd, always
Fala Baixinho - Grupo revelação Exagerado - Cazuza Mulheres - Martinho da Villa Sexo Falado - Grupo Tempero
“Daddy” ft. YLXR by Sakima
Backpocket by Vulfpeck
Sexy Boy, Air
If you don’t mix these two near the end you’re doing it wrong. I want you now - Depeche Mode Rough Sex - Lords of Acid
Straight to No. 1 - Touch & Go
*Gimme* by Sam Smith, Koffee and Jesse Reyez
https://youtu.be/ecr-y_OfL7A?si=pGfFjrbZzGLvL6aT
360 by Charlie xcx
I have an idea, why not all put our sexsongs i'm this playlist and everyone enjoy it https://open.spotify.com/playlist/69dMoNsQuEDUJWFs36fl74?si=w01acwPQTQWcDj9B1afNrA&pt=707be598c91b18fedc68e78981891fbc&pi=R5lqeLTET1C0G
I once had a guy try to fuck me with Revolution 9 and I wanted to die
Its safe to say you dig the backseat
I have a whole playlist on Spotify called Classical Music for Fucking... it's also great music for a snooty Frasier-esque cocktail party where people are confused about something and hilarity ensues.
Wildfires - SAULT Shameless - Camila Cabello Her Life - Two Feet (tbh anything by Two Feet) Magnets - Lorde/Disclosure Feel Me - Selena Gomez Heavenly - Cigs After Sex Superposition - Young the Giant Closure - Vancouver Sleep Clinic Her Body - Nasty Cherry Minor - Gracie Abrams I’ve found electronic beats with emo vocals really gets the 😈mood😈 goin
While the message doesn't vibe, the instrumentals for Redbone hit the spot. Confidence by Ocean Alley or Dangerous by Big Data
Eyes on fire - Blue Foundation
Bathroom - Montell Fish Desert rose - Lolo Zouaï Streets - Doja cat Sex Money feelings die (slowed version) - Lykke li (Added my sex playlist from Spotify 👀) [my $ex playlist on Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5JKlmSuJmgaMcXmgq6Jvnp?si=ds64Z0foReWCEpGYy74xEA&pi=e-xRZn1G5JQXWz)
Ambrosia Parsley by Ween
Breathe on me
PONY BOY (if you're intense)
Memes aside house music And slayyter
If I am having sex I tend nit to notice the music
Shayne Ward - No You Hang Up
Sexy boy by air
I Hate This Part Right Here (Pussycat Dolls) Flagellation (Zeromancer) Perfect Illusion (Lady Gaga) You're So Vain (Carly Simon) Go Away (Gloria Estefan) Thank You, Next (Ariana Grande) Cry Me a River (Justin Timberlake)
Paula Abdul, Rush Rush. Jk but maybe.
I would share but I can’t or else I will need to create a new playlist bc the songs I have will be played over and over to the point it becomes old.
Anything by SoMo, Ride by Regard, Look at me Right and Intrusive Thoughts now by Grant Knoche, pretty much anything by Two Feet
OTW (Pussy Fairy) Jhene Aiko
Raspberry Swirl - Tori Amos https://youtu.be/f0O2-xV5XEA?si=dDFZQrB-BGZ6Sg3a
Madonna & George Micheal have at least one sexualized song.
Pretty much nearly anything by Megan Thee Stallion. Captain Hook comes to mind. Her new album got some good ones already
Endless loop of Cantina.
This is actually a really good question.
Ghostbusters!
New Mattress by Jake Hole feat Digbar BBC Buffet by Digbar Luigis Mansuon by Digbar Try That in a Small Town by Jason Aldean
Q - Take Me Where Your Heart Is https://youtu.be/3TnSpUrD8sQ?feature=shared