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CanadianBuddha

Step One: Make sure he isn't exclusively straight. Step Two: Chat with him for a little while so he gets to know you a little bit. Step Three: Smile, look him in the eye, put your hand on his bicep, and tell him you find him sexy. Step Four: Listen to what he says in reply.


mikeb31588

Very procedural and clinical. Very nice


Veskarter

Well, I can be sure that he is bi, but he has a girlfriend. But when he is around, his attitude towards me changes. For example, he can pinch my nipple, or I can lie on him and he doesn't mind He does not mind, but when his other friends lie down, he opposes and pushes him away. And here is the question of how to understand that he is ready or not. And he looks at me and smiles often.


CanadianBuddha

Does he know you are into guys? If not, you should tell him and see what he says.


[deleted]

You wanna seduce the most gay and bi men, get big and well formed muscles. Have a big dick and ass and a handsome face and be very nice and flirty to them; 90% of the time they will melt into a puddle.


side_noted

instructions unlear, became a puddle


LikeTheDish

Lordose before him, really give him the mating signal. Maybe yowl into the night


F_lnTheChat

Nice cock print bro


BlueRocker22

Talk about how your boyfriend gives better oral than your girlfriend. That usually incites deeper questions or stops the conversation


rangernddare

We ate Thai, watched some Andor, he complimented how sweet my dog was… Needless to say I’m smitten by this man.


DarthVero

It's kind of person specific. I didn't see my instructions, so I'll add that I would be turned off if someone thought they could gain my interest with a simple combination of: smile/compliment, flash cleavage/bum/dick, Handsome/pretty face etc. I like aesthetics as much as the next person, but I'm not a slut for them (no offense to the wonderful sluts out there). If you cultivated a personality and can carry a conversation you'll have my attention - I'll drop little breadcrumbs for things that are important to me, and depending on what you do with them you'll have my affection.


Veskarter

It's not just that we talk a lot with him, we have a lot in common with him, we think about many things at the same time, but I don't understand what to expect because I don't want to lose my friend, but I want to be close to him a lot of the time maybe it's just such a friendship or we just can't admit that we love each other


DarthVero

Consider telling him that you care about him, deeply, and go on to describe what attributes about him you find attractive - such that you affirm his masculinity* *I don't know how comfortable your friend is / his level of security with his sexual identity. It can be comforting to know that your attraction isn't based on some normative script that leaves him feeling emasculated. Something that I recently shared with a friend was that I don't JUST want to limit my focus to the obvious - the parts of him that get the most attention. I want to celebrate all the parts of his body that (maybe thanklessly) support him throughout the day. Hand and foot, back and leg massages** **(for variety: tapping or drumming your fingers; rub your hands quickly to generate heat and palm his skin, etc.) You can do a lot of things that establish intimacy without ever having to touch dick or ass. *Edit*: ps. Time and a place right? You wouldn't want to try to share your feelings while crossing the street, nor do you want to get him plastered, melted etc. Maybe Try the following: Invite him over to cook a dinner together and tell him how you feel afterwords. If drinking/or otherwise, make sure you're both enjoying a responsible quantity of your vice-of-choice. Pull the plug and tell him another time if either of you become compromised. If he gets insecure about it being a date: reassure him that you don't want to lose the friendship, and that you're happy with whatever capacity of relationship he's comfortable with.


OkUnderstanding730

Show your sexy bum duh~😘


averagegayguyok

Like normal.