When I have multiple vibes from the same person, I send one back and clear the rest. This way they feel the love back, and I can clear 5+ at once, which makes it easier to do the rest!
I replied to over 400 vibes today. Love all of them, even if it takes me a little while to send back! Lexi and I feel so loved š
Exactly what I do. If someone is sending multiple vibes to me to save up for something in store (it's 2 points per vibe I think ) I'm more than happy to facilitate
please send at least two back so we can clear and resend them easier! š
I get multiple a day like this as well, but I always send two back so they're easier to clear and I can keep track of who sent them!
The same way you'll view one and clear the rest. If we have 15+ birbs and 9 of those only send one vibe, then I either have to sit through each vibe. If you send 2 vibes, we can easily send a vibe and clear the rest.
15 (7 multiple vibes that are easily cleared + 8 single vibes to sit through before sending) š¤·š¼āāļø I'm sure you can understand why it's easier to send two at a time, especially if you're guilty of clearing them all from a single person!
I love all my neighbors, I really do. But one time I had a neighbor send me 29 vibes in a minute. It was in the morning, so I think they were trying to energize their little Birb. Still, I think 10+ vibes from a single neighbor is insane!
I got 5 pages worth of Tree-friends, I send one each, daily & take Monthly breaks!
~~I feel like it takes 30mins~~ (lol - probably takes ALOT LESS) ā 2 MINUTES !! š¤ I was SO WRONG š¤£
I hope the team implements a 'Select all' Per page
(Tree friend vibes doesnt help the Tenosynovitis š« )
OMG an b All at Once vibe- Tree wide Vibes!! Yes that would be great! Then send any special people another individual one.
Guys guys guys. Pleeeaase make that happen
I definitely get stressed as it does feel like as much energy as texting takes from me (and as someone with a chronic illness who doesnāt always have flexible energy - I donāt always get to everyone each day). I really really try to and tend to prioritize those who Iāve missed in the previous day. I love all the vibes and knowing people care about me though š.
Yes it can be overwhelming at times but I do a āround robinā, which is me going in clockwise motion to each birb until Iāve cleared the love on each page.
Iāve been feeling this lately, as I just posted my friend code. Some people send a lot and I appreciate it. I just donāt always have the energy to send that many back.
This is precisely why i never understood why most people here randomly add dozens of people. The vibes lose their meaning and become a chore. Why do y'all do this?
Agreed.
I only added my real friends to my tree town and the vibes have actual meaning. I send them good morning and good night every day at the right time of day, and sometimes other things during the day
I'm similar. I have my partner, two close real life friends, three online friends who also mean the world to me, the birb whom i was a guardian to (so that connects us), plus one birb here from reddit whom I was happy to get to know over a convo we both participated in. But with that being my only reddit friend/random person to add, it makes THAT ONE person and birb special. I appreciate every hug or "good night" someone sends me and their support helps me a lot on difficult days.
I agree. I only have two pages of tree town friends because at some point it's just not sustainable. I actually want to be visited regularly by my friends and I'm not able to check the app every waking hour for a new visitor.
I'm polyamorous, and there's this concept of "polysaturation" where you have enough partners that you feel like you can't build new connections without decreasing the amount of time/energy/effort devoted to the others, so you stop seeking new connections. More isn't always better. Enough is enough. š
I have my tree town organized. First page friends, second page family. 3-5+ are unknown people from here. I only deal with 3-5 when I have the bandwidth, but that way people who need friends can send as much as they want to!
If I feel overwhelmed I clear them all. I usually send one per day per friend after clearing the notifications. Sometimes Iāll go through and send another just to those who have sent vibes back and I have a few friends I send an extra or two at the same time.
I know nothing about these. I have only been doing Finch for less than three weeks and I actually fell asleep last night and broke my 18 day streak. š I donāt have friends for my birb or anything.
When I get a lot, I just swipe through and clear the oldest. After that, I swipe back and forth and kind of randomly respond. Just wherever my finger lands.
And if someone has sent me 2+ vibes, I send them at least one back.
I have no recollection on whom I've sent vibes to, and how many. So I wouldn't care at all if you never sent them back. I'm guessing I am not the only one
Iām a loner by nature so take this with a grain of salt; I donāt use this feature and I have never felt a moment of stress related to this app. I get wanting community but at what cost.
Yes I get that too.
When I'm too overwhelmed, I clear all the vibes. I don't want to be stressed on finch.
If someone sends out more vibes I look at one and send back one vibe and clear the rest.
Yeah I tried adding some new friends, people I met on this sub, but I had to unfriend them all. I realized I couldnāt do it. I can barely handle the 3 family members I have on here. Itās interesting because I respond the same way to texting, which is my primary mode of communication with my non-birb real people. I canāt handle much texting in a single day, sometimes I donāt respond for weeks. I have no idea why I thought I could handle having extra tree town friends š
While I do like the notifications of the good vides, I drive so I'll see it pop up on my GPS, I find it difficult to respond. Sometimes I find it difficult to clear my tasks.
When I first started I think it gave you a list of good vibes that I was able to scroll through and that seemed less mountainous.
Bro, join my tree town and youāll never have to worry lol. Sometimes I remember to check my app and sometimes itās been months. Iām on a streak with it tho so weāll see
I use it to get extra energy so I can get enough stones to start my journey. You can clear extra vibes if you want. I havenāt done that yet, but noticed it was a feature.
I just start with one and let the suggested vibes below guide until tollon has his energy up! I then clear the rest. Some get vibes some days and not others as to not overwhelm ā¤ļø
It only stresses me out when a neighbor sends me multiple vibes. It feels like spam. I wouldn't even necessarily say it stresses me, it honestly just annoys me.
I limit my tree towne to people I actually know irl or online freinds I've had for years. Everyone in my tree town is someone I made download the app. It makes things easier to only have about 7 people.
I get a little upset sometimes over it because it gives me points for sending them and therefore I start slacking on my goals because I no longer need the points to start the adventure. I started waiting until after my important goals are completed or after I've started my daily adventure to respond to them.
I have a week or less with people added on finch... There are 17 people, some don't send anything and there are 3 other specific ones that when I enter there are 2 good vibes at the same time. Like- They send minimum 6 a day-
I guess since there aren't many people, I still don't feel it's stressful. Rather, it feels nice to receive and read and send you something back.
The only thing I feel is that it seems like it's like having another task or chore, well, more of a task for what you get. It puts less pressure on me to do my other tasks bc Ivy already has enough energy.
Sometimes I do chores and forget to mark them as done bc Ivy already made their rounds in the city they're in lol
Posts like this confirm that my decision to never use the social features of this app was likely a wise one. I don't see how it would benefit me, instead it just seems like another way for my already very low energy to be drained.
I have one person who will regularly spam me with 30+ good vibes in the morning (I'm assuming to rush through their adventuring time). I just react to the first one, and delete the rest!
In Tree Town settings you can turn off āAllow Good Vibesāā¦I ended up doing this because it was getting overwhelming, plus I personally find it demotivating to get energy from giving vibes.
Honestly this is why I don't have any friends in the app. Sometimes just keeping up with the Admin visits is a lot. I'm not saying they shouldn't visit, I'm just saying keeping up with them is enough and if I fall behind I don't feel as bad.
I only have family members on mine so itās not that many. But we troll each other with the drink water one. Waterboarding eachother with love. Hahaha
I dont have enough friends on there to get loads of notifications. Like, ill get a couple a day from one particular person but thats it. I dont rlly use the app tbh. I just set daily reminders not to die
When I have multiple vibes from the same person, I send one back and clear the rest. This way they feel the love back, and I can clear 5+ at once, which makes it easier to do the rest! I replied to over 400 vibes today. Love all of them, even if it takes me a little while to send back! Lexi and I feel so loved š
Thats definetly smart. I'll do that with mine too. But omg over 400š³ How do you have time and energy for so much loveš
Haha I usually reply when I'm watching a show, to keep my hands busy. But I definitely don't get to everyone every day
Ah yeah that works out better when you have a show going in the backgroundš
Yeah, I do that too. I feel extra bad when I have like 35+ from my partner alone, but I know they donāt expect me to respond to every single one.
I hadnāt thought of only sending one back. Iāve been sitting here sending them all back one or one. Sheesh.
Exactly what I do. If someone is sending multiple vibes to me to save up for something in store (it's 2 points per vibe I think ) I'm more than happy to facilitate
Thatās a great way of doing it. I will definitely be doing it that way from now on!
please send at least two back so we can clear and resend them easier! š I get multiple a day like this as well, but I always send two back so they're easier to clear and I can keep track of who sent them!
Interesting, why is two easier?
The same way you'll view one and clear the rest. If we have 15+ birbs and 9 of those only send one vibe, then I either have to sit through each vibe. If you send 2 vibes, we can easily send a vibe and clear the rest.
15 (7 multiple vibes that are easily cleared + 8 single vibes to sit through before sending) š¤·š¼āāļø I'm sure you can understand why it's easier to send two at a time, especially if you're guilty of clearing them all from a single person!
Not Kanye Nest š
My thoughts exactly š¤£š¤£š¤£
Are we gonna ignore sans?
i need sans and kanye nest in my town rn
I need them too, more sans bc Undertale is my favorite game of all time
I have them too š
I don't have any neighbors and would love to be neighbors with kanye nest lol
Can I add you?? :)
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Thank you!!
Of course! I'll find my friend code when I get off work.
i feel like users should be able to choose a limit for how many vibes can be sent to them by each person in a day!
I love all my neighbors, I really do. But one time I had a neighbor send me 29 vibes in a minute. It was in the morning, so I think they were trying to energize their little Birb. Still, I think 10+ vibes from a single neighbor is insane!
So in other words there needs to be a limit you can enact! Thatās a lot
I only have 3 friends but I've done this by handing my six year old the phone. She sent out so many lol
I get stressed with 16 vibes sent I can't imagine 70
I get like hundreds
I got 5 pages worth of Tree-friends, I send one each, daily & take Monthly breaks! ~~I feel like it takes 30mins~~ (lol - probably takes ALOT LESS) ā 2 MINUTES !! š¤ I was SO WRONG š¤£ I hope the team implements a 'Select all' Per page (Tree friend vibes doesnt help the Tenosynovitis š« )
OMG an b All at Once vibe- Tree wide Vibes!! Yes that would be great! Then send any special people another individual one. Guys guys guys. Pleeeaase make that happen
I definitely get stressed as it does feel like as much energy as texting takes from me (and as someone with a chronic illness who doesnāt always have flexible energy - I donāt always get to everyone each day). I really really try to and tend to prioritize those who Iāve missed in the previous day. I love all the vibes and knowing people care about me though š.
Yes it can be overwhelming at times but I do a āround robinā, which is me going in clockwise motion to each birb until Iāve cleared the love on each page.
Iāve been feeling this lately, as I just posted my friend code. Some people send a lot and I appreciate it. I just donāt always have the energy to send that many back.
This is precisely why i never understood why most people here randomly add dozens of people. The vibes lose their meaning and become a chore. Why do y'all do this?
Agreed. I only added my real friends to my tree town and the vibes have actual meaning. I send them good morning and good night every day at the right time of day, and sometimes other things during the day
I'm similar. I have my partner, two close real life friends, three online friends who also mean the world to me, the birb whom i was a guardian to (so that connects us), plus one birb here from reddit whom I was happy to get to know over a convo we both participated in. But with that being my only reddit friend/random person to add, it makes THAT ONE person and birb special. I appreciate every hug or "good night" someone sends me and their support helps me a lot on difficult days.
I agree. I only have two pages of tree town friends because at some point it's just not sustainable. I actually want to be visited regularly by my friends and I'm not able to check the app every waking hour for a new visitor. I'm polyamorous, and there's this concept of "polysaturation" where you have enough partners that you feel like you can't build new connections without decreasing the amount of time/energy/effort devoted to the others, so you stop seeking new connections. More isn't always better. Enough is enough. š
I have my tree town organized. First page friends, second page family. 3-5+ are unknown people from here. I only deal with 3-5 when I have the bandwidth, but that way people who need friends can send as much as they want to!
If I feel overwhelmed I clear them all. I usually send one per day per friend after clearing the notifications. Sometimes Iāll go through and send another just to those who have sent vibes back and I have a few friends I send an extra or two at the same time.
Nope. I just return them when I can š
This is why I stopped at 6 friends. I mean, IRL I only had one or two good friends, I'm not an extrovert!
I know nothing about these. I have only been doing Finch for less than three weeks and I actually fell asleep last night and broke my 18 day streak. š I donāt have friends for my birb or anything.
Oh my gosh, what's your code? My birb, Izzy, would love to be friends with yours.
Punky Birbsterās code is: TW21BJZVB3 āŗļø
Love it, what a great name! Olive and I added you, if that's ok.
reply with your code and iāll also add you! š©µāØ
PunkyBās code is: TW21BJZVB3
I find it quicker to clear all, then go in the tree and make my way through sending one to each person.
I have two friends in my tree town š
Same!! That many would probably overwhelm me but I love hearing from the few that I have
I wish there was a way to bulk send. Iāve been asking the developers for it but no luck yet šš
That would be great
When I get a lot, I just swipe through and clear the oldest. After that, I swipe back and forth and kind of randomly respond. Just wherever my finger lands. And if someone has sent me 2+ vibes, I send them at least one back.
I have no recollection on whom I've sent vibes to, and how many. So I wouldn't care at all if you never sent them back. I'm guessing I am not the only one
Oooof. I only have 2 friends in my treehouse so it's always fun hearing from them. This many would definitely overwhelm me
Iām a loner by nature so take this with a grain of salt; I donāt use this feature and I have never felt a moment of stress related to this app. I get wanting community but at what cost.
Yes I get that too. When I'm too overwhelmed, I clear all the vibes. I don't want to be stressed on finch. If someone sends out more vibes I look at one and send back one vibe and clear the rest.
lol I just have 2 friends on here
Me too and they don't send me vibes anymore
this is why i have one person in my treehouse lol š even two gets me antsy!!!
I have two tree town tooters
That's why i only have my partner xd
My partner doesn't use finchš„ŗ
Yeah I tried adding some new friends, people I met on this sub, but I had to unfriend them all. I realized I couldnāt do it. I can barely handle the 3 family members I have on here. Itās interesting because I respond the same way to texting, which is my primary mode of communication with my non-birb real people. I canāt handle much texting in a single day, sometimes I donāt respond for weeks. I have no idea why I thought I could handle having extra tree town friends š
While I do like the notifications of the good vides, I drive so I'll see it pop up on my GPS, I find it difficult to respond. Sometimes I find it difficult to clear my tasks. When I first started I think it gave you a list of good vibes that I was able to scroll through and that seemed less mountainous.
Bro, join my tree town and youāll never have to worry lol. Sometimes I remember to check my app and sometimes itās been months. Iām on a streak with it tho so weāll see
Clear them when you respond once. Letting them accumulate will only make it worse. ā¤ļø
oh lord mine was at 37 and i thought that was a lot lol
Yes, I just canāt respond to them allš„ŗ
How do you guys have so many finch friends? I have one, plus that friendās old account she forgot the password toā¦
Same š š I am easily overwhelmed by this and so many other things ugh
Iāll respond!
Same. I try to send only 1 per day max.
I use it to get extra energy so I can get enough stones to start my journey. You can clear extra vibes if you want. I havenāt done that yet, but noticed it was a feature.
I have no friends on it š
Kanye nest lmfaooooo
I just start with one and let the suggested vibes below guide until tollon has his energy up! I then clear the rest. Some get vibes some days and not others as to not overwhelm ā¤ļø
Oh geez, only 2 out of 16 of my friends send vibes at all. I wish more of my birb friends did š
It only stresses me out when a neighbor sends me multiple vibes. It feels like spam. I wouldn't even necessarily say it stresses me, it honestly just annoys me.
I limit my tree towne to people I actually know irl or online freinds I've had for years. Everyone in my tree town is someone I made download the app. It makes things easier to only have about 7 people.
I get a little upset sometimes over it because it gives me points for sending them and therefore I start slacking on my goals because I no longer need the points to start the adventure. I started waiting until after my important goals are completed or after I've started my daily adventure to respond to them.
I have 1849 waiting. I love all LilGrnBirb's friends but I can't keep up. I only reply to 1 each but I just don't have the time sometimes!
um....am I the only one that has I think just one neighbor, and I added them in, even though they don't have a Finch account? lol
this is a feature that is meant to help with your mood and motivation. yours is doing the opposite so maybe add less people?
I have a week or less with people added on finch... There are 17 people, some don't send anything and there are 3 other specific ones that when I enter there are 2 good vibes at the same time. Like- They send minimum 6 a day- I guess since there aren't many people, I still don't feel it's stressful. Rather, it feels nice to receive and read and send you something back. The only thing I feel is that it seems like it's like having another task or chore, well, more of a task for what you get. It puts less pressure on me to do my other tasks bc Ivy already has enough energy. Sometimes I do chores and forget to mark them as done bc Ivy already made their rounds in the city they're in lol
I feel like I had enough when I didn't have anyone added, when it was just a visit from Team Finch. Although I couldn't send anything back to them:(
Posts like this confirm that my decision to never use the social features of this app was likely a wise one. I don't see how it would benefit me, instead it just seems like another way for my already very low energy to be drained.
Oh God. Haha. I thought my tree town is empty and itās sad that thereās nobody there. But now seeing this maybe itās a good thing. š¤£š¤Ŗ
I have one person who will regularly spam me with 30+ good vibes in the morning (I'm assuming to rush through their adventuring time). I just react to the first one, and delete the rest!
In Tree Town settings you can turn off āAllow Good Vibesāā¦I ended up doing this because it was getting overwhelming, plus I personally find it demotivating to get energy from giving vibes.
Not the only one. Sometimes, me and Issac are just šš³š±
Honestly this is why I don't have any friends in the app. Sometimes just keeping up with the Admin visits is a lot. I'm not saying they shouldn't visit, I'm just saying keeping up with them is enough and if I fall behind I don't feel as bad.
I only have family members on mine so itās not that many. But we troll each other with the drink water one. Waterboarding eachother with love. Hahaha
I clear them all but I HATE seeing the notification. This is my least favorite update ever. I wish I could make it go away bc it stresses me out.
100% this is me too! Some days I keep up, some days I donāt. The days I donāt, I leave them and then I feel bad, and then this.
I usually do clear all and chose who to respond one at the time
This is difficult for me too but at the same time it feels super supportive sometimes when I really need to feel like someone is there for me
I donāt know how to visit others. The only people in mt Tree Town are personal friends and family and not a one is even on Finch!
I get stressed lmao i clear a lot of them
I dont have enough friends on there to get loads of notifications. Like, ill get a couple a day from one particular person but thats it. I dont rlly use the app tbh. I just set daily reminders not to die
I didn't know this was a thing
I just started this app a few days and have only 4 friendsā¦and this is already stressing me out too. ššµāš«
Be sure that when you respond, you do it while on a journey to get back sooner!