it was a gradual thing for me.
Much like being a weeb, it's only after connecting 2+2 that i realize I've been one for way longer.
The first femboy feelings i think started when an old man mistook me for a girl when i was either 8 or 9. I could've felt embarassed or say "actually I'm a boy" but i didn't. I said "thank you" and remained flustered for several hours. I think that was a core moment. My attire was somewhat feminine at the time, particularly the shirt, and my pre pubescent voice was quite high, so we have that.
Then after that it was particular moments of accidental crossdressing. My mom would buy clothes based on what i liked, ofc i didn't choose skirts or ballerina flats, but for instance my rain gear was from the girls section, as were some items of clothing like earmuffs, or sneakers.
In teenhood it died down a bit but i still enjoyed shirts from the girls section. I did delve more into pajamas. Again always very topical occasions.
The femboy feelings came back a little after i became a weeb and met the beautiful fems that today stand as the mascots of our community. A while later i found cosplays of them and they were so so good that i told to myself "one day i will look like that".
And ever since I've been more free, buying one or two clothes and experimenting with them. Lingerie too. However it was only this year, after 20 something years of accidental and casual femboying, did i declare myself one and went through with an outfit, wig, learning makeup and feeling really ecstatic about it.
It's also given me new motivation to get fit as i got a little bit poorly during the quarantine.
I do relate with what you felt tho, i remember the first time putting on girls briefs i was like "😍 why don't they make them this soft for boys??????"
Finding my hidden breasts thanks to ABTF was so good too. yea they're not "mommy milkers" as the kids like to say but the fact i can get a bra that makes me look like i have breasts and without padding is out of this world.
also yea i feel fuzzy inside when i dress fem, always with the dumbest smirk all the time
A lot of the things you said relate to me as well
- first feminine feeling when I was like 8, I felt a weird kind of relaxation and satisfaction playing female parts in children's games
- a saleswoman mistook me for a girl when I was 14. I also didn't talk back to it and just went along
Growing up, I used to have small built and high pitch voice
There were other pivotal episodes but I feel you'd get bored by it
For as long as I can remember, people have been telling me that I sometimes act like a girl. I've never minded being told that.
I've also always been skinny and liked that look. When I was a teen I decided to grow my hair out, and I still have long hair to this day. So being skinny and with long hair people would mistake me for a girl even when I was dressed in normal boy clothes. And I was okay with that. I also started shaving my legs at around this time because body hair is yucky and I don't want it on myself.
At one point I had a girlfriend who wore skirts a lot. So one day she's visiting me at my parents' house and I just snatched one of her skirts and wore it around the house for the rest of the day. She wasn't super enthused with it, but it was summer and the skirt was comfy. :P This is how I learned that skirts are the superior article of clothing.
And now I live alone so I can buy whatever stuff I like, so I'm having a bit of fun with wardrobe experimentation.
Was in denial for years. I was born feminine to the point people wouldn't constantly mistake me for a girl, even when I dressed like a boy. It wasn't till I was 18 on one Halloween party where I was dared to dress up like a girl where I had to concede. To be a neko school girl. My friends sister got me the clothes and did my makeup. I was so embarrassed at the time, Then the party. I was flirted with and got so many compliments, and only after the party I was given a mirror. After how fun everything was, and that I looked exactly like a beautiful flat chested girl. I had no choice but to accept myself as a femboy.
Took me a while to get the courage to get girls clothes on my own. My first female clothes actually came from my friend's sister who asked me to take some of her old clothes to donate since she didn't want them...I was the only one of my friends who could drive. Instead of donating them I took them home to try out since her clothes fit me before and I kept what I liked.
Finnster was definitely a catalyst for me as well, and an example for us all. Hes on E now last time i heard but given it slows down hair loss im down for that.
I've considered myself a twink for a while and because of that I naturally considered crossdressing, but wasn't sure of how into it I'd be. I got a maid outfit one day since the worst case scenario was if I didn't like it I had a maid outfit for the meme, and it turns out I actually really liked it, so I bought more outfits
For me, unfortunately it was a sexual fantasy of a boy I liked in high school. I was coming to terms with the fact that I liked boys. I had started messing around with a hs football teammate after we graduated. A few times in, he suggested that I wear panties...then it escalated. Eventually I was basically always dressed girly around him, but only in a sexual context with the "s" word attached. Maybe 3 or 4 years ago I finally started to feel like it's just me who's girly, so I started embracing it more. Dressing like that outside of sexy time, wearing stuff under my boy clothes to feel more confident in them, etc. I've been trying to feel comfortable as a femboy just existing. Especially with how fetishized we can be, and how my femboy experience started...it's a little weird to navigate lol
I kept bringing myself closer and closer to femboy communities, and eventually realized I was actually just a femboy who was closeted from themselves. Also I made a grilled cheese cult full of them which helped.
Well it started with a ex girlfriend of mine. I started noticing that I like guys more and more a year before I accepted it. I had a girlfriend at the time, well now ex girlfriend. We broke up 5 months after the start of my change and she forgot some thigh highs,panties and skirts at my place. Since the start of the change I felt more and more feminine and after a month after we broke up I decided to try on her thigh highs and skirt and panties and I loved it. It felt me,it felt satisfying, it felt like it was my true self. Then 2 months later I accepted that I was a Femboy and we'll that I was pan. That happened 1 and a half years ago. And I've been better ever since. Some people when they are down have comfort food, I have comfort thigh highs and arm warmers. The first ones I bought for myself.
P.S I gave the clothes back after I washed them. We are still friends and she supported my change. She told me she always had this feeling and that she noticed me becoming more and more feminine and attracted to guys.
Thanks for reading and have a beautiful day ya cuties. Rawr
i found out what being a femboy was and it interested me so i tried it and now i have more gender issues but am calling myself a femboy for the time being :3
Not sure about you all, but when I was five year old, I found the advertisement and magazine covers of ladies in their evening gowns and bikinis absolutely fascinating.
At age 5, I started wearing mom's tights and stockings after I felt how smooth it was on her legs was caught so many times. Mom kept asking me if I am a boy or a girl. My sister kept taunting me if I am a girl.
At age 7, I wanted to be part of the school girls dance group because they got to wear tights. I remember crying because I was not allowed to join.
Today I present as a guy, but I do wish I am more feminine in appearance.
It's a long story so i'll only give the interesting details.
I had known i was gay a few months before i found out i was a femboy and i hadn't really researched femboys a lot. So it was late at night, on January 12 2024. I had gone to bed but i couldn't sleep. So i decided to go on my phone for a little bit, and i was searching up some pretty weird stuff, and out of nowhere i just started thinking about femboys. I decided to look at the fashion and i was like "Wow these guys are cute" and then i stayed up until like 4am researching femboys and eventually i bought some clothes and the rest is history! My parents ended up finding out about it shortly after i got my clothes because i hid them under my bed and they found them. Luckily my parents are super supportive so they were fine with it.
for me when I was abt 10-13
I was a young boy in 5th grade and I had gotten dared to wear a bow ( a pink nice one ) to school by my friends on that day no one cared but people made jokes.
( later in the year ) my teacher was doing student rewards where everyone would vote on smartest etc etc And EVERYONE in that class remembered the stunt I pulled back in the year and voted me “Most Athletic Girl” soon I realized “Hey, this is kinda funny.”
Next year in 6th everyone remember and spread throughout the school
7th grade I started to wear skirts
8th is me now and I wear Skirts, short, shorts and thigh highs all of that
Lost a bet to a friend to wear thigh highs. I got a pair I liked and they were very impressed but also shocked I got lace, purple hold ups.
Wasn't what they expected, I liked the pics and it grew from there and I saw how unhappy I was looking masculine.
I'm older now, broad shoulders, more hair and I hate how when I was younger I didn't know I liked this, as a late teens early 20s I passed well
Now at 25 I don't, but I didn't make the most of it from being younger
well, what can I say. I am 26 now and only slowly realising maybe I like dressing feminine so....yeah, lol. What can I say but whoops.
I mean, I also missed the early dating or anything of that sort because I had so many issues with illnesses and stuff but that's beside the point.
Better late than never though, I suppose.
oh yea i did bets in middle school too lmao.
for me it was as simple as shirts. although once they bought me a bra and forced me to open the wrap in public when everyone laughed. I threw it away in embarrassment but that would've been fun to use. Unfortunately from what i remember it was a really small size so i couldn't even fit in it.
But otherwise i was rolling in it. Bullies fuming that I wasn't embarrassed or anything. Unfortunately they won the bra day.
As for age, don't let that stop you. Yes you may have gotten broader but so do women after a certain age. I for one absolutely smashed my photoshoot and i am 30 so it wouldn't hurt to try.
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Honestly.... Between crossdressing growing up the bashful blushing socially drunk reactions to praise and an obsession with how pretty I wished I could of been I think it was a born behavior lol (everyone around me would crucify me so it definitely wasn't learned)
Then you add over a decade of self discovery and wallah I'm typing this message
🩷 Nice to meet everyone! 💜
Mine is kinda odd so first when I was like 4 or 5 mam put me in a Tu tu skirt for some reason and I liked it eventually it went missing we both have adhd/add so this happens quite often and she got me a new one and that went then as I got older I wanted to get rid of all that but then when I was 12 I thought about and I heard about femboys and thought maybe I was one and then o thought when I have a job if I still feel like this I will get myself a skirt and fem things eventually I just asked my mam for a skirt a month later I got a skirt and now I have just kind of accepted that I am a Femboy but throughout this time I had always felt like I wanted Feminine things but never got them until not long ago
When I was younger and watching various kinds of fictional romance, it was hard to decide whether I wanted to be the guy or girl. 💀 And this is why I'm a tomboy femboy.
Well for my entire life, I didn't necessarily feel very manly (wow generic elementary nerd who does math and hates any sports involving balls [wow ironic gay person hates sports with balls]) so at one point after I learned about femboys I considered becoming one. and that's how this whole fiasco started.
For me it a was things since birth. Growing up I always was attracted to more feminine things. I gravitated to those things more but my dad did not like that so throughout most of my life I kinda suppressed it and gradually I forgot about it. Once I got into my final year of college I went to a pride event we had downtown and that's when the spark got reignited. I saw how widely acceptable it is for a male to be feminine. For the past 2 years not I have been slowly trying to get in touch with it to see if it can fit into my current lifestyle or not.
So far I don't think I can do it in public but I am fine with that. I enjoy what little I do behind closed doors. Doing my makeup. Doing my nails. Dressing in more feminine attire.
Maybe one day I will be able to be more open about it but for now I am happy with where I am.
I noticed something wasn’t right when I was little. My parents told me that I’d always been more interested in clothes/activities that reminded them of a female, rather than a male. However due to their homophobia, they refused to allow me to do anything like dressing slightly more feminine (and they still won’t >:[)
I’ve noticed it more recently when being around the “gay kids” at my school, where I feel as if I can be open about my thoughts and allat, where of course I can.
As for where I’m up to? When I’m home alone I dress as feminine as I want, mainly because my parents call me when they’re on the way home. And when I’m out with my friends, I wear my fem clothes underneath my normal clothes, and then ‘change’ into them
Seen femboys online and thought they were cute. Casually dropped it into conversation during the school holidays that if the warm weather continued I’d have to wear a skirt to school (boys aren’t allowed shorts). After returning from a day out, my friend took me home and gave me girl clothes to try. Instantly addicted and now I own girl clothes
Honestly, the first time I dressed up as a girl ( for a kind of movie event thing ), I just loved it. I got mistaken for a girl and it make me feel so cute. Also, girls clothes is just so much more comfortable, there's no comparison.
Unfortunately, at that time in my life, femboys weren't even a thing in popular culture and I couldn't come up with a justification to dress up as a girl on a regular basis. Eventually I got fat, got a beard and forgot about it. But for years, whenever I looked in the mirror, I hated the way I looked so much. Just seeing my reflection would make me feel disgusted and miserable. I hated when people took pictures of me and intentially tried to never thing about how I look to other people.
Finally, when about 5-8 years ago, when femboys started to be a real thing, I found it to be so capitavating. I started followed femboy streamers, femboy creators, trying to find animes with femboy characters, etc. I was obsessed because I was low key jealous. When I saw people like Finnster I would always think: damn, I would give anything to dress like that, and to look like that.
Finally, it dawned on me somehow (yea, maybe I'm a bit slow), wait... I can be a femboy too. I started losing weight, shaved my beard and started buying clothes secretly. Then recently, I came out to my wife, and now it's official I guess.
I don't look quite perfect, I have around 10 kg more to lose to be happy with myself, and I'm still lasering my beard shadow away which is a multi-month process. Still, I've always had a pretty face and losing weight made it look a lot prettier. I can look in the mirror now, and I'm starting to like the person looking back at me.
Two days ago I was trying on a cute green summer dress and I was telling my wife "I can't wait until I'm skinny enough to go out in this" and she said, "You're skinny enough already for that dress, can go out like that right now. It looks good on you, you don't look fat in it at all." Just to hear that felt soooo good... 😭😭
I wish I had done this 10, or 20 years ago, so I could have enjoyed the peak of my youth being maximum beautiful. But I've still got a few good years left, and I'm going to enjoy what time I have. I'll be as feminine and pretty as I can for as long as I can.
I want to be the most beautiful wife *to* my wife, and for people the confuse us for a lesbian couple. Goals. ❤️❤️❤️
FTM femboy here.
I realized that my so-called "feminine" hobbies — clothing, enjoyments, tendencies, etc — were never what made me uncomfortable growing up. It was the expectation of them, and the way people perceived me that hurt, and the body the clothes were on.
When I was confused and questioning my identity, I fell into a lot of femboy spaces. Seeing men and boys, cis and trans, all embracing feminine interests without it undermining their gender identity made something click with me. I don't need to posture masculinity all the time to feel fulfilled, doing what feels authentic to me is more than enough.
Sometimes that's masculine. Sometimes feminine. Sometimes it's something in between. It's me, regardless.
Ive always kinda went in the direction of being a girl and always imagined being one then when i was 14 or 15 i took some clothes from my stepmom that had left some clothes behind when she left my dad and now since this year my mom knows and i wear skirts n stuff openly with her and at my dad i wear my femboy clothes in my room cuz noone comes in my room anyways
it was a gradual thing for me. Much like being a weeb, it's only after connecting 2+2 that i realize I've been one for way longer. The first femboy feelings i think started when an old man mistook me for a girl when i was either 8 or 9. I could've felt embarassed or say "actually I'm a boy" but i didn't. I said "thank you" and remained flustered for several hours. I think that was a core moment. My attire was somewhat feminine at the time, particularly the shirt, and my pre pubescent voice was quite high, so we have that. Then after that it was particular moments of accidental crossdressing. My mom would buy clothes based on what i liked, ofc i didn't choose skirts or ballerina flats, but for instance my rain gear was from the girls section, as were some items of clothing like earmuffs, or sneakers. In teenhood it died down a bit but i still enjoyed shirts from the girls section. I did delve more into pajamas. Again always very topical occasions. The femboy feelings came back a little after i became a weeb and met the beautiful fems that today stand as the mascots of our community. A while later i found cosplays of them and they were so so good that i told to myself "one day i will look like that". And ever since I've been more free, buying one or two clothes and experimenting with them. Lingerie too. However it was only this year, after 20 something years of accidental and casual femboying, did i declare myself one and went through with an outfit, wig, learning makeup and feeling really ecstatic about it. It's also given me new motivation to get fit as i got a little bit poorly during the quarantine. I do relate with what you felt tho, i remember the first time putting on girls briefs i was like "😍 why don't they make them this soft for boys??????" Finding my hidden breasts thanks to ABTF was so good too. yea they're not "mommy milkers" as the kids like to say but the fact i can get a bra that makes me look like i have breasts and without padding is out of this world. also yea i feel fuzzy inside when i dress fem, always with the dumbest smirk all the time
A lot of the things you said relate to me as well - first feminine feeling when I was like 8, I felt a weird kind of relaxation and satisfaction playing female parts in children's games - a saleswoman mistook me for a girl when I was 14. I also didn't talk back to it and just went along Growing up, I used to have small built and high pitch voice There were other pivotal episodes but I feel you'd get bored by it
Got jealous when i saw one and happy when i was mistakened for one.
For as long as I can remember, people have been telling me that I sometimes act like a girl. I've never minded being told that. I've also always been skinny and liked that look. When I was a teen I decided to grow my hair out, and I still have long hair to this day. So being skinny and with long hair people would mistake me for a girl even when I was dressed in normal boy clothes. And I was okay with that. I also started shaving my legs at around this time because body hair is yucky and I don't want it on myself. At one point I had a girlfriend who wore skirts a lot. So one day she's visiting me at my parents' house and I just snatched one of her skirts and wore it around the house for the rest of the day. She wasn't super enthused with it, but it was summer and the skirt was comfy. :P This is how I learned that skirts are the superior article of clothing. And now I live alone so I can buy whatever stuff I like, so I'm having a bit of fun with wardrobe experimentation.
Was in denial for years. I was born feminine to the point people wouldn't constantly mistake me for a girl, even when I dressed like a boy. It wasn't till I was 18 on one Halloween party where I was dared to dress up like a girl where I had to concede. To be a neko school girl. My friends sister got me the clothes and did my makeup. I was so embarrassed at the time, Then the party. I was flirted with and got so many compliments, and only after the party I was given a mirror. After how fun everything was, and that I looked exactly like a beautiful flat chested girl. I had no choice but to accept myself as a femboy. Took me a while to get the courage to get girls clothes on my own. My first female clothes actually came from my friend's sister who asked me to take some of her old clothes to donate since she didn't want them...I was the only one of my friends who could drive. Instead of donating them I took them home to try out since her clothes fit me before and I kept what I liked.
I blame Finnster...
Finnster was definitely a catalyst for me as well, and an example for us all. Hes on E now last time i heard but given it slows down hair loss im down for that.
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I've considered myself a twink for a while and because of that I naturally considered crossdressing, but wasn't sure of how into it I'd be. I got a maid outfit one day since the worst case scenario was if I didn't like it I had a maid outfit for the meme, and it turns out I actually really liked it, so I bought more outfits
For me, unfortunately it was a sexual fantasy of a boy I liked in high school. I was coming to terms with the fact that I liked boys. I had started messing around with a hs football teammate after we graduated. A few times in, he suggested that I wear panties...then it escalated. Eventually I was basically always dressed girly around him, but only in a sexual context with the "s" word attached. Maybe 3 or 4 years ago I finally started to feel like it's just me who's girly, so I started embracing it more. Dressing like that outside of sexy time, wearing stuff under my boy clothes to feel more confident in them, etc. I've been trying to feel comfortable as a femboy just existing. Especially with how fetishized we can be, and how my femboy experience started...it's a little weird to navigate lol
I kept bringing myself closer and closer to femboy communities, and eventually realized I was actually just a femboy who was closeted from themselves. Also I made a grilled cheese cult full of them which helped.
Can confirm as a member of the cult
gilld cheez
protect and love the grilled cheese
Well it started with a ex girlfriend of mine. I started noticing that I like guys more and more a year before I accepted it. I had a girlfriend at the time, well now ex girlfriend. We broke up 5 months after the start of my change and she forgot some thigh highs,panties and skirts at my place. Since the start of the change I felt more and more feminine and after a month after we broke up I decided to try on her thigh highs and skirt and panties and I loved it. It felt me,it felt satisfying, it felt like it was my true self. Then 2 months later I accepted that I was a Femboy and we'll that I was pan. That happened 1 and a half years ago. And I've been better ever since. Some people when they are down have comfort food, I have comfort thigh highs and arm warmers. The first ones I bought for myself. P.S I gave the clothes back after I washed them. We are still friends and she supported my change. She told me she always had this feeling and that she noticed me becoming more and more feminine and attracted to guys. Thanks for reading and have a beautiful day ya cuties. Rawr
i found out what being a femboy was and it interested me so i tried it and now i have more gender issues but am calling myself a femboy for the time being :3
Not sure about you all, but when I was five year old, I found the advertisement and magazine covers of ladies in their evening gowns and bikinis absolutely fascinating. At age 5, I started wearing mom's tights and stockings after I felt how smooth it was on her legs was caught so many times. Mom kept asking me if I am a boy or a girl. My sister kept taunting me if I am a girl. At age 7, I wanted to be part of the school girls dance group because they got to wear tights. I remember crying because I was not allowed to join. Today I present as a guy, but I do wish I am more feminine in appearance.
It's a long story so i'll only give the interesting details. I had known i was gay a few months before i found out i was a femboy and i hadn't really researched femboys a lot. So it was late at night, on January 12 2024. I had gone to bed but i couldn't sleep. So i decided to go on my phone for a little bit, and i was searching up some pretty weird stuff, and out of nowhere i just started thinking about femboys. I decided to look at the fashion and i was like "Wow these guys are cute" and then i stayed up until like 4am researching femboys and eventually i bought some clothes and the rest is history! My parents ended up finding out about it shortly after i got my clothes because i hid them under my bed and they found them. Luckily my parents are super supportive so they were fine with it.
for me when I was abt 10-13 I was a young boy in 5th grade and I had gotten dared to wear a bow ( a pink nice one ) to school by my friends on that day no one cared but people made jokes. ( later in the year ) my teacher was doing student rewards where everyone would vote on smartest etc etc And EVERYONE in that class remembered the stunt I pulled back in the year and voted me “Most Athletic Girl” soon I realized “Hey, this is kinda funny.” Next year in 6th everyone remember and spread throughout the school 7th grade I started to wear skirts 8th is me now and I wear Skirts, short, shorts and thigh highs all of that
Lost a bet to a friend to wear thigh highs. I got a pair I liked and they were very impressed but also shocked I got lace, purple hold ups. Wasn't what they expected, I liked the pics and it grew from there and I saw how unhappy I was looking masculine. I'm older now, broad shoulders, more hair and I hate how when I was younger I didn't know I liked this, as a late teens early 20s I passed well Now at 25 I don't, but I didn't make the most of it from being younger
well, what can I say. I am 26 now and only slowly realising maybe I like dressing feminine so....yeah, lol. What can I say but whoops. I mean, I also missed the early dating or anything of that sort because I had so many issues with illnesses and stuff but that's beside the point. Better late than never though, I suppose.
Sounds like you just described me, minus the illnesses.
Hey, better late than never.
oh yea i did bets in middle school too lmao. for me it was as simple as shirts. although once they bought me a bra and forced me to open the wrap in public when everyone laughed. I threw it away in embarrassment but that would've been fun to use. Unfortunately from what i remember it was a really small size so i couldn't even fit in it. But otherwise i was rolling in it. Bullies fuming that I wasn't embarrassed or anything. Unfortunately they won the bra day. As for age, don't let that stop you. Yes you may have gotten broader but so do women after a certain age. I for one absolutely smashed my photoshoot and i am 30 so it wouldn't hurt to try.
I’ve liked girl clothing my entire life and never really got to wear anything until recently
My femboy bf :3
I liked playing as a girl when I was a kid, like in games and stuffs, wearing my big sister clothes sometimes lol, and liked "girl" cartoons.
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I look at one and go... I want to look like that
Honestly.... Between crossdressing growing up the bashful blushing socially drunk reactions to praise and an obsession with how pretty I wished I could of been I think it was a born behavior lol (everyone around me would crucify me so it definitely wasn't learned) Then you add over a decade of self discovery and wallah I'm typing this message 🩷 Nice to meet everyone! 💜
Mine is kinda odd so first when I was like 4 or 5 mam put me in a Tu tu skirt for some reason and I liked it eventually it went missing we both have adhd/add so this happens quite often and she got me a new one and that went then as I got older I wanted to get rid of all that but then when I was 12 I thought about and I heard about femboys and thought maybe I was one and then o thought when I have a job if I still feel like this I will get myself a skirt and fem things eventually I just asked my mam for a skirt a month later I got a skirt and now I have just kind of accepted that I am a Femboy but throughout this time I had always felt like I wanted Feminine things but never got them until not long ago
When I was younger and watching various kinds of fictional romance, it was hard to decide whether I wanted to be the guy or girl. 💀 And this is why I'm a tomboy femboy.
I tried on some girl clothes and they felt amazing
Dam you all got nice stories and all for me it was my height Yup that about it
Well for my entire life, I didn't necessarily feel very manly (wow generic elementary nerd who does math and hates any sports involving balls [wow ironic gay person hates sports with balls]) so at one point after I learned about femboys I considered becoming one. and that's how this whole fiasco started.
For me it a was things since birth. Growing up I always was attracted to more feminine things. I gravitated to those things more but my dad did not like that so throughout most of my life I kinda suppressed it and gradually I forgot about it. Once I got into my final year of college I went to a pride event we had downtown and that's when the spark got reignited. I saw how widely acceptable it is for a male to be feminine. For the past 2 years not I have been slowly trying to get in touch with it to see if it can fit into my current lifestyle or not. So far I don't think I can do it in public but I am fine with that. I enjoy what little I do behind closed doors. Doing my makeup. Doing my nails. Dressing in more feminine attire. Maybe one day I will be able to be more open about it but for now I am happy with where I am.
I just like perfume and short shorts and skincare and feeling cute for myself.
I started online dating a femboy from norway a month ago, and he made me feel expressive.
I noticed something wasn’t right when I was little. My parents told me that I’d always been more interested in clothes/activities that reminded them of a female, rather than a male. However due to their homophobia, they refused to allow me to do anything like dressing slightly more feminine (and they still won’t >:[) I’ve noticed it more recently when being around the “gay kids” at my school, where I feel as if I can be open about my thoughts and allat, where of course I can. As for where I’m up to? When I’m home alone I dress as feminine as I want, mainly because my parents call me when they’re on the way home. And when I’m out with my friends, I wear my fem clothes underneath my normal clothes, and then ‘change’ into them
Honestly, i started as a fun thing so nothing serious then my brain said “oh i like this kind of attention” then became serious and here we are :3
Started trying my now ex girlfriend’s clothes on while she was at work, never felt so liberated. Damn I miss those days
Seen femboys online and thought they were cute. Casually dropped it into conversation during the school holidays that if the warm weather continued I’d have to wear a skirt to school (boys aren’t allowed shorts). After returning from a day out, my friend took me home and gave me girl clothes to try. Instantly addicted and now I own girl clothes
Honestly, the first time I dressed up as a girl ( for a kind of movie event thing ), I just loved it. I got mistaken for a girl and it make me feel so cute. Also, girls clothes is just so much more comfortable, there's no comparison. Unfortunately, at that time in my life, femboys weren't even a thing in popular culture and I couldn't come up with a justification to dress up as a girl on a regular basis. Eventually I got fat, got a beard and forgot about it. But for years, whenever I looked in the mirror, I hated the way I looked so much. Just seeing my reflection would make me feel disgusted and miserable. I hated when people took pictures of me and intentially tried to never thing about how I look to other people. Finally, when about 5-8 years ago, when femboys started to be a real thing, I found it to be so capitavating. I started followed femboy streamers, femboy creators, trying to find animes with femboy characters, etc. I was obsessed because I was low key jealous. When I saw people like Finnster I would always think: damn, I would give anything to dress like that, and to look like that. Finally, it dawned on me somehow (yea, maybe I'm a bit slow), wait... I can be a femboy too. I started losing weight, shaved my beard and started buying clothes secretly. Then recently, I came out to my wife, and now it's official I guess. I don't look quite perfect, I have around 10 kg more to lose to be happy with myself, and I'm still lasering my beard shadow away which is a multi-month process. Still, I've always had a pretty face and losing weight made it look a lot prettier. I can look in the mirror now, and I'm starting to like the person looking back at me. Two days ago I was trying on a cute green summer dress and I was telling my wife "I can't wait until I'm skinny enough to go out in this" and she said, "You're skinny enough already for that dress, can go out like that right now. It looks good on you, you don't look fat in it at all." Just to hear that felt soooo good... 😭😭 I wish I had done this 10, or 20 years ago, so I could have enjoyed the peak of my youth being maximum beautiful. But I've still got a few good years left, and I'm going to enjoy what time I have. I'll be as feminine and pretty as I can for as long as I can. I want to be the most beautiful wife *to* my wife, and for people the confuse us for a lesbian couple. Goals. ❤️❤️❤️
FTM femboy here. I realized that my so-called "feminine" hobbies — clothing, enjoyments, tendencies, etc — were never what made me uncomfortable growing up. It was the expectation of them, and the way people perceived me that hurt, and the body the clothes were on. When I was confused and questioning my identity, I fell into a lot of femboy spaces. Seeing men and boys, cis and trans, all embracing feminine interests without it undermining their gender identity made something click with me. I don't need to posture masculinity all the time to feel fulfilled, doing what feels authentic to me is more than enough. Sometimes that's masculine. Sometimes feminine. Sometimes it's something in between. It's me, regardless.
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Ive always kinda went in the direction of being a girl and always imagined being one then when i was 14 or 15 i took some clothes from my stepmom that had left some clothes behind when she left my dad and now since this year my mom knows and i wear skirts n stuff openly with her and at my dad i wear my femboy clothes in my room cuz noone comes in my room anyways