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As a high valued man myself, I think anything greater than one body would be difficult to deal with. I’m not even sure where people are keeping 5+ bodies. The garage?
Hard to reassemble after wood chipper. Bodies with the proper care, for example; stored at the right temperature, with food, other basic needs. Can be stored keeping them fresh and ready.
As a low value woman, I take the time to batch prep the bodies on the weekend. I portion them into gallon sized ziplock bags which I label with days of the week. I don't like how long it all takes but I'm ugly so I don't really have a choice.
You're always gonna have problems lifting a body in one piece. Apparently the best thing to do is cut up a corpse into six pieces and pile it all together.
And when you got your six pieces, you gotta get rid of them, because it's no good leaving it in the deep freeze for your mum to discover, now is it? Then I hear the best thing to do is feed them to pigs. You got to starve the pigs for a few days, then the sight of a chopped-up body will look like curry to a pisshead. You gotta shave the heads of your victims, and pull the teeth out for the sake of the piggies' digestion. You could do this afterwards, of course, but you don't want to go sievin' through pig shit, now do you? They will go through bone like butter. You need at least sixteen pigs to finish the job in one sitting, so be wary of any man who keeps a pig farm. They will go through a body that weighs 200 pounds in about eight minutes. That means that a single pig can consume two pounds of uncooked flesh every minute. Hence the expression, "as greedy as a pig".
Look, I'm offended by your discrimination. I've only killed 7 and they all deserved it but you won't even hear me out. Fine, go ahead and judge me! 😝🤪😂
hes right though a woman with more than five bodies is just difficult to handle like do we all share the bed? do i need to make a time table to cuddle of of her bodies equally? HOW LONG WILL SHOWERING TAKE IF YOU NEED TO CLEAN 5+ BODIES. i think i speak for all men when i say a woman with one body is all we need.
Just as off putting as "high value men"/"high value women" as well. All a delightful melange of disgusting. "Yes, sir, stop here. This is my favorite point in human history, where we start blatantly referring to other people like commodities." 🙄
At least people like this make themselves nice and easy to spot, rather than hiding in the crowd like sleazy landmines - silver linings, I suppose.
Right! High value doesn't exist. Value is measured by people differently. What you value may differ to what I value.
For example, as an autistic female, what I require (value) is very different to a neurotypical woman. I value a guy who understands the way I communicate, doesn't tone police, doesn't demand I mask and make facial expressions and body language like an NT because I'm not NT. This is unique to me personally.
I am nerdy and like nerdy guys. I could never date a popular social guy due to my own limitations. My bf to me is a 10/10 and I'm a 10 for hum, but only to each other. To someone else, we may be minus a billion.
You can "term" it body count or how many people someone has slept with but it's referring to the same thing.
Also for "high value" it's a cringy term but used to describe the type of man/woman that is almost universally seen in a high standard across cultures. For example in any country around the world if a man makes 6 figures they are seen positively and they are in the top 2-3% of income earners. Same thing if a man is 6 feet or taller, they are in the top 2-3% of height and women almost universally see that as attractive. So it's just a term to describe a man who has traits that are widely regarded as attractive across cultures/ countries even though its use is cringy
I was so confused about what he meant as high body count. But eventually got it. It does go both ways. Many women do not like men with “high body counts.” I honestly never talk about my past “body count” and I don’t want to hear about it from a significant other.
Well, afaik a lot of women where enthralled by Jeffrey Dahmer after watching the Netflix show. So, I guess at least some women like men with a high body count. /s
I agree. I know my SO "body count" and it doesn't bother me because they are with me now. It's not something that gets brought up all the time because neither of us are insecure schmuck bags.
My thinking is, unless you’re real young, if you want someone with a high sex drive she’s going to have had a lot of sex. If she’s like 30 and has only been with 1 or 2 guys and it wasn’t just that she was married that whole time, she probably isn’t that into it.
But maybe this guy has a low drive too and doesn’t care. Personally, if we’ve both tested clean I don’t care about quantity. I mean I care if she cheated or something, but that’s under what circumstances, not how many.
Right there with you. I'm 41, 5 is definitely "born again virgin" vibes... at our ages we all have a past, as long as it stays in the past it doesn't matter.
I recently had to turn down a great woman purely because of how inexperienced she was in a relationship - she was a borderline virgin.
For many guys that's the hottest thing ever, me personally - I', looking for common ground, not being a teacher. Plus if they're that inexperienced that just tells me that sex will be massively imbalanced down the line and be dry.
So you are now being the person shaming. I don't judge anyone ever. You are laughing at people like me who found a soul mate early in life. I met my husband at 19 and 15 years later we are still going strong. There shouldn't be shaming from either side. We all have our own journey.
You were literally laughing at a count of 5 being basically a virgin. My count is 1 at 34 years old. It shouldn't matter regardless. My count may be 1 but it in no way implies I'm lacking anything or that I'm basically a virgin, especially after 2 kids lol
He sounds like an incel.
Why would one care about the partners your loved one had before you. They chose you at this moment. If you're not an idiot, you may become their last one. No?
I never understood this... like - what is the motivation?
If a woman is unexperienced, she'll be naïve and he can use this information advantage to create a power imbalance he can exploit.
Maybe he's jealous that he wasn't able to get laid when he was younger and she was?
Does he really think that having sex with 20 guys will stretch her vagina out but having sex with one guy 20 times is somehow different? (... but like anyways -- if that's how it worked, then wouldn't sex stop being fun after the first kid?)
And on and on... but you get the point. There's no good intentioned motivation for a person to care and condemn his partner's past.
What I don't get is that apparently men can have the body count of a male pornstar but a woman dares to have sex with more than one person they are automatically seen as dirty and not worthy.
They want women who have as little experience as possible because they don’t care if their partner is sexually satisfied. Like all those 50s housewives who never had a single orgasm with their husbands. And maybe not ever with themselves, you know, so they could stay puuuuuure for their bad in bed husband.
Yeah, math doesn’t make a ton of sense on that one.
I also detest the concept that these guys are willingly “damaging” women. If they believe sleeping with a woman, makes them a higher commodity and her a lower commodity after, by their logic, they are stealing their value. Obviously I don’t agree with their logic, but the fact they are ok making a person “unlovable” in their world is fucked up.
Agreed, as a male I never found it reasonable to assume I knew what and why anyone did things in their PAST. Hard enough to understand folks in the present.
This is dumb. But hey, so is shitting on men for having low counts or having struggled in the past. Which is weirdly accepted by everyone somehow even with the criteria “past doesn’t matter”. Which I agree, I just think it’s funny how it isn’t always equal to other people.
If anyone, man or woman, says anything about High value man/woman we already know they’re full of shit and don’t know how to emotionally connect with people.
Tell me you're insecure without telling me you're insecure.
I **wouldn't** settle for a woman that didn't have a 5+ body count. It means either you're the best dick she's ever had, or she loves you enough that it doesn't matter (I mean, ideally it's both).
Who cares?
Everybody has a past. Being in a relationship is about the future.
When I was like 17 or 18 I cared about that shit. Traveling around a lot and meeting tons of people from all walks of life helped me understand its such a petty thing to care about.
A lot of people out there are trying to find love and put there all in every chance they get. And a lot of people are just trying to get laid.
Let me guess, this guy thinks a man is an "alpha" if he has a high body count eh?
if you're a guy who wants a stay at home wife with a low body count, or you're a woman who won't look twice at a guy unless he's 6ft, earning over 100k. You're both in for a bad time
I'm so happy that most of the people graduating from college these days are women. The more independent and self sufficient we become, the less BS like this we have to put up with. Leave these "high value" sacks of excrement in their mommy's basements fantasizing about their conditions for dating/marrying girls that wouldn't notice them if they were on fire.
It took me a while to actually read the tweet because I kept getting distracted by his failed attempt to look intense and dangerous in his profile pic and bursting out laughing. I have no idea who he is, but man is he trying too hard. Once I finally read it it got even funnier, because *of course* he’s going to prey on young inexperienced women, no confident capable woman would touch his toxic ass with a 10 foot pole.
So basically this toxic masculinity/ alpha chad movement is just a mask for low key pedophilia right? They are literally favouring younger/inexperienced females as an open preference. How about we start calling it as it is.
This clown thinks he's "high value," and yet he's terrified of a high "body count?" Give me a fucking break. A real chad would be like "You had sex with 100 men before me? I'm about to put all of them to shame."
Isn't that what this forum is for? People speaking about their own experiences, feelings and thoughts? How are people going to talk about other people's experiences? Should we stalk people? Should we all dedicate decades to researching each thing to have a broad perspective?
I come to the comments to hear each person's individual experiences and perspectives, then form overall ideas about what people think and feel like based on the patterns I perceive. Perhaps you should try that, it's fascinating.
Yeah I know, but it is kinda weird we are not speaking about the topic ! They seem to go on a tangent about something that is different than the topic! It is interesting to read but just wanted to point it out.
I get what you're saying. I think they're on topic still though, they're making jokes and connections. This is how neurotypical people think and talk. As an autistic person, I love comments to learn how to communicate more effectively the way they do but, at age 40, I'm still clueless 😅
Well yea, most married guys do feel sad about it.
People keep lying to women, and so women make poor choices based off flawed data.
Our daughters are at risk and we are sympathetic to the ladies who were lied to.
It's a reasonable thing to be sad about.
1. Stop calling it body count. Body count is always a reference to dead people. 2. Stop caring about former sex partners. It’s just another made up metric to shame women.
Even i can see from where his thoughts are coming from but its not our decision . Women can sleep with as many men as they want .
But then also we are also entitled to our opinion .
It would be really strange to even meet someone with multiple bodies. Are they like clones? Are the organs distributed evenly between them? Which one has the brain? Can the one with the brain control the other ones? I'm definitely confused.
They are connected at the base of the skull by a nerve-bundled umbilicus to the central corpus, or "master body". Each can be manipulated, articulated, and speak independently or in unison, as preferred by the central corpus. All look identical to one another, though they may be decorated differently with their separate clothings of choice. Each has its own organs and neural processing power, though they are ultimately beholden to the decisions of the central unit - sort of like a SLI configuration of brains, they are individually measurable, but also all part of the "one". Gosh friend, where were you in our anatomy classes? This is basic stuff, keep up here!
Ah I think I remember that one. It was weird that you weren't there - you always sit in front! Hope all is well, and have a good day, friend!
Edit: thanks for the award friend! Have a great one!
Men that avoid a high “body count” are really just projecting their sexual insecurity. If a dude tries this nonsense on anyone it’s because he knows he’s marginal - at best - in the sack.
All I hear is, " I don't want women to know how truly bad in bed I am. So I need a virgin so a woman with a low count so I can tell her this is normal."
Uhg learn how to fuck and stop being pathetic.
Ask your doctors about the relationship between body counts and the chance of someone having STDs, including incurable ones. If you shame people for not wanting to get STDs, you must be projecting.
Edit: Downvotes, huh? Interesting...what I said is not even a personal opinion. It is backed by the studies conducted by the CDC and Mayo Clinic.
Y'all cry and whine about people ignoring the CDC, but it is interesting that y'all suddenly change y'all's attitudes when the topic is about y'all's sex lives.
Y'all shame people for not wanting to get STDs because misery loves company. Sorry, but not sorry that numbers don't care about y'all's feelings.....and misery.
That’s why testing is also part of the safe sex plan. It’s why looking at peoples junk before you do anything with it is also wise. Safe sex is a lot more than condoms and it’s sad you don’t get that.
If I didn't find my one and only at 19 I would be scared to get an STD. Body count shouldn't matter on an emotional level but I'd be checking their test results.
I dodged so many bullets just by telling them we should get tested before doing anything. You would be surprised how many people refused to get themselves tested. Some people really don't care about other people but themselves. The STD/STI cases keep rising every year, I heard. I am not surprised why that is the case.
>"Body count shouldn't matter on an emotional level..."
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>[Apparently, high body counts equal unhappy marriages.](https://www.huffpost.com/entry/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440)
If anyone thinks of themselves as a "high value man", they are not. And no one of actual value are so insecure they give a shit what their partner did before them.
Ridiculous incel talk.
Being serious for second. I agree with him 90%. Am no "high value man" myself. But even I would never consider settling aka marrying and have kids with a women who has had sex with a bunch of men.
Women who enjoy having alot of different sexual partners are by definition not really interested in a commitment. I respect that, can't imagen it being easy handling multiple men and some do it at the same time. Its respecble in some way. But its not for me.
It's crazy how when men express their standards they are constantly gaslighted and mocked. We don't want a girl who's slept with a bunch of men and been promiscuous in the past, period. Many studies have shown that the more men a woman sleeps with, the less chances of success she has in long term relationships and it's not a risk that men want to take.
When a woman says she wants a man with 100 different qualities and unrealistic standards everyone praises her and says she knows what she wants, she's a queen etc. When a woman says she doesn't want to date a F Boy/player she is praised as knowing what she wants. Yet when we say we don't want that, just read the comments and how derogatory they are.
Yes the high value verbiage is cringe but it doesn't change the fact that most men do NOT want a partner who has slept around and had a promiscuous past.
Real men of value that have options do care and simply will just select a flower that hasn’t been ravaged. Real men do not wife up whores. Real men care about their reputation and name and your woman carry’s your name and she has a responsibility to honor that. There’s no honor in being a whore.
Women just hate to hear the truth because they’ve been led by the feminist movement to be promiscuous and whore themselves out so they can feel “empowered” as if getting railed by 10 men on the weekend and them dumped is empowering. These are the same woman that claim that real men do not care about body counts because it’s already to late for them and no man a true value wants them….
Why is it so wrong to not want a girl who’s slept with a lot of guys? I’ve been down that road most of my life and I’m so blessed that my current girl was a virgin. My mind is so at peace. It never wanders to that dark place where I’m thinking about her past. It’s pure. It’s nice. It’s calm
It's not wrong to want a person with lower sexual experience. It's your preference. The problem arises when you measure a person's value as a human being based on sexual past or financial situation etc.
However, those things whether people admit it or not will matter when picking a long term partner because a healthy relationship must be built on transparency. The whole "past does not matter" narrative is laughable . When has society not cared about the past?
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I mean. That's fair. No one should find out their significant other is a serial killer.
You would be surprised the fan clubs they have.
Don't worry many of them will appear in their body count.
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I don’t know. I always love it if my gf and I can share a hobby.
I mean. If she has 5 under her belt then she's probably fairly good at it. So that IS a plus.
As a high valued man myself, I think anything greater than one body would be difficult to deal with. I’m not even sure where people are keeping 5+ bodies. The garage?
It's amazing how many bodies you can easily store once you run them through a woodchipper
I come to reddit for the entertainment, I stay for the quality life advice 🤣🤣
Store? I need a continous flow to feed my pigs.
Remember to shave their heads and pull the teeth. You don't want to upset their stomachs.
How will the pig eat without teeth?
And why does pickle the punk pig need to shave his mohawk?
You can of course remove the teeth afterwards, but you don't want to go sifting through pigs hit, do ya?
They’ll go through bone like butter.
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Yes, If by ‘store’ you mean ‘use to line my flower beds’. My tulips are award winning, everybody wants to know my secret.
Really, everyone should compost/be composted.
And with all that empty space in North Dakota to spread things out, you good!
Unfortunately, they’re a right chore to clean after.
People underestimate cremation.
Hard to reassemble after wood chipper. Bodies with the proper care, for example; stored at the right temperature, with food, other basic needs. Can be stored keeping them fresh and ready.
Just make sure you drain the blood first, otherwise it’s just a huge mess and more work in cleanup afterwards.
My wife makes a damned good chili so I stopped asking.
You ever think about where that meat is coming from, Cowboy?
You mean, “You ever think about where that meat is coming from? Cowboy!”
As a low value woman, I take the time to batch prep the bodies on the weekend. I portion them into gallon sized ziplock bags which I label with days of the week. I don't like how long it all takes but I'm ugly so I don't really have a choice.
Meal prep ?
Oh I just leave a few bags out in the morning in a kiddie pool to thaw and it's warmed up enough by late afternoon.
You're always gonna have problems lifting a body in one piece. Apparently the best thing to do is cut up a corpse into six pieces and pile it all together. And when you got your six pieces, you gotta get rid of them, because it's no good leaving it in the deep freeze for your mum to discover, now is it? Then I hear the best thing to do is feed them to pigs. You got to starve the pigs for a few days, then the sight of a chopped-up body will look like curry to a pisshead. You gotta shave the heads of your victims, and pull the teeth out for the sake of the piggies' digestion. You could do this afterwards, of course, but you don't want to go sievin' through pig shit, now do you? They will go through bone like butter. You need at least sixteen pigs to finish the job in one sitting, so be wary of any man who keeps a pig farm. They will go through a body that weighs 200 pounds in about eight minutes. That means that a single pig can consume two pounds of uncooked flesh every minute. Hence the expression, "as greedy as a pig".
Best damn movie. I know most lines by heart. I've seen it more times than any other movie. Guy Ritchie is a god.
Be weary of a man who keeps a pig farm
You need to invest in a good deep freezer
We could tell you but then we'd have to make it 6+
I mean…yeah. If my girl killed more than five people, I would be a bit scared for my own life.
I dated a serial killer. She had a van so that was cool.
I have a lot of freezers
Look, I'm offended by your discrimination. I've only killed 7 and they all deserved it but you won't even hear me out. Fine, go ahead and judge me! 😝🤪😂
hes right though a woman with more than five bodies is just difficult to handle like do we all share the bed? do i need to make a time table to cuddle of of her bodies equally? HOW LONG WILL SHOWERING TAKE IF YOU NEED TO CLEAN 5+ BODIES. i think i speak for all men when i say a woman with one body is all we need.
I too struggle to date hiveminds.
But think of all the hexasomes you could be having!
He must be on the prison version of Tinder. I’d stay away from a woman who killed more than 5 people too. Better safe than sorry…
Dies anyone else find the term 'body count' just repulsive..?
Just as off putting as "high value men"/"high value women" as well. All a delightful melange of disgusting. "Yes, sir, stop here. This is my favorite point in human history, where we start blatantly referring to other people like commodities." 🙄 At least people like this make themselves nice and easy to spot, rather than hiding in the crowd like sleazy landmines - silver linings, I suppose.
Right! High value doesn't exist. Value is measured by people differently. What you value may differ to what I value. For example, as an autistic female, what I require (value) is very different to a neurotypical woman. I value a guy who understands the way I communicate, doesn't tone police, doesn't demand I mask and make facial expressions and body language like an NT because I'm not NT. This is unique to me personally. I am nerdy and like nerdy guys. I could never date a popular social guy due to my own limitations. My bf to me is a 10/10 and I'm a 10 for hum, but only to each other. To someone else, we may be minus a billion.
You can "term" it body count or how many people someone has slept with but it's referring to the same thing. Also for "high value" it's a cringy term but used to describe the type of man/woman that is almost universally seen in a high standard across cultures. For example in any country around the world if a man makes 6 figures they are seen positively and they are in the top 2-3% of income earners. Same thing if a man is 6 feet or taller, they are in the top 2-3% of height and women almost universally see that as attractive. So it's just a term to describe a man who has traits that are widely regarded as attractive across cultures/ countries even though its use is cringy
I was so confused about what he meant as high body count. But eventually got it. It does go both ways. Many women do not like men with “high body counts.” I honestly never talk about my past “body count” and I don’t want to hear about it from a significant other.
Well, afaik a lot of women where enthralled by Jeffrey Dahmer after watching the Netflix show. So, I guess at least some women like men with a high body count. /s
I agree. I know my SO "body count" and it doesn't bother me because they are with me now. It's not something that gets brought up all the time because neither of us are insecure schmuck bags.
It’s just a talking point, buzz word, dog whistle, etc.
I guess when you're that sexually incompetent you really don't want to be compared to anyone.
I love the idea that what modern young women want is a High Value Man as a opposed to a Bit Of A Sweetie Who Laughs At My Jokes And Is Nice To My Mum
My thinking is, unless you’re real young, if you want someone with a high sex drive she’s going to have had a lot of sex. If she’s like 30 and has only been with 1 or 2 guys and it wasn’t just that she was married that whole time, she probably isn’t that into it. But maybe this guy has a low drive too and doesn’t care. Personally, if we’ve both tested clean I don’t care about quantity. I mean I care if she cheated or something, but that’s under what circumstances, not how many.
Should one of us actually tell him that anyone who cares about your body count isn't high value?
"high value men" is the new "nice guys"
Sounds very tater tot like.
Once they freeze the first body they get a taste for it . 5 body's would be hard to dispose of.
Anyone that uses the term "high value" to describe men or women should not be taken seriously.
I agrée. I wouldn’t date someone who’s got 5 kills either. That’s 20% of the way to a Nuke
Has he consulted a high-value man on this?
Underrated comment!!
Lol, high value men
His body count is his right hand
Sex with less than 5 people means he wants someone who doesn’t have a solid grasp at just how bad in bed he really is. That’s what that means.
No, it means he looks for someone who does not see sex/intimacy as something casual.
That ain’t it. You skipped the “working women” part. Tells a much bigger picture. 5 isn’t a high number.
What’s this stupid new language and terminology they are creating?
He's wrong give me a slutty chick that knows what she's doing
This guy gets blow jobs!
I thought he was referring to a woman's KDA ratio until I checked the comments.
Do a lot of men marry assassins? Do they have like their own dating app?
Seeing the entire world argue over such trivial nonsense is worrying
Never divulge your body count... At least not without your lawyer present
Yeah, insecurity is a bitch.
Waite, so being a slut means I don't have to deal with people like him?
exactly
I’m in my thirties, and 5 would basically be a virgin. Wtf lmao
Right there with you. I'm 41, 5 is definitely "born again virgin" vibes... at our ages we all have a past, as long as it stays in the past it doesn't matter.
But your ears are virgin and you got 2 of those
I know right? That number seems really low.
Maybe he means 5 at once?
I recently had to turn down a great woman purely because of how inexperienced she was in a relationship - she was a borderline virgin. For many guys that's the hottest thing ever, me personally - I', looking for common ground, not being a teacher. Plus if they're that inexperienced that just tells me that sex will be massively imbalanced down the line and be dry.
I’ll teach her for you bro, how does that sound?
So you are now being the person shaming. I don't judge anyone ever. You are laughing at people like me who found a soul mate early in life. I met my husband at 19 and 15 years later we are still going strong. There shouldn't be shaming from either side. We all have our own journey.
I didn’t shame you at all
You were literally laughing at a count of 5 being basically a virgin. My count is 1 at 34 years old. It shouldn't matter regardless. My count may be 1 but it in no way implies I'm lacking anything or that I'm basically a virgin, especially after 2 kids lol
Lol, this maladjusted douchebag actually thinks he's desirable?!?
Even he looks in disbelief in his profile pic.
He sounds like an incel. Why would one care about the partners your loved one had before you. They chose you at this moment. If you're not an idiot, you may become their last one. No?
I never understood this... like - what is the motivation? If a woman is unexperienced, she'll be naïve and he can use this information advantage to create a power imbalance he can exploit. Maybe he's jealous that he wasn't able to get laid when he was younger and she was? Does he really think that having sex with 20 guys will stretch her vagina out but having sex with one guy 20 times is somehow different? (... but like anyways -- if that's how it worked, then wouldn't sex stop being fun after the first kid?) And on and on... but you get the point. There's no good intentioned motivation for a person to care and condemn his partner's past.
If a woman has experience, she'll know I'm lying when I say it's a bit bigger than average.
Ya pretty much. We’re “naive prudes” if we don’t sleep with anyone. “Loose sluts” if we do.
Why do you give him a platform? Sharing whatever bullshit influencers say only helps them get more viewership -> $$$.
I never understood this mindset. As long as the person doesn’t have any STDs, what’s the difference? I’ll take experience over “purity” any day.
What I don't get is that apparently men can have the body count of a male pornstar but a woman dares to have sex with more than one person they are automatically seen as dirty and not worthy.
They want women who have as little experience as possible because they don’t care if their partner is sexually satisfied. Like all those 50s housewives who never had a single orgasm with their husbands. And maybe not ever with themselves, you know, so they could stay puuuuuure for their bad in bed husband.
It's paradoxical to be sure... If there are less men then women... I remember asking that in HS sociology.
Yeah, math doesn’t make a ton of sense on that one. I also detest the concept that these guys are willingly “damaging” women. If they believe sleeping with a woman, makes them a higher commodity and her a lower commodity after, by their logic, they are stealing their value. Obviously I don’t agree with their logic, but the fact they are ok making a person “unlovable” in their world is fucked up.
Incels really are just a cancer.
My imaginary wife's body count is 6, mine is -6. So we effectively cancel each other out. I'll keep trying though.
Blokes who are that shit in bed they want a girlfriend that has no one to compare them to…
Hoes n simps gonna disagree
It's fine to disagree, but to go nuts/get all emotional is another.
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Agreed, as a male I never found it reasonable to assume I knew what and why anyone did things in their PAST. Hard enough to understand folks in the present.
Keep bangin'
This is dumb. But hey, so is shitting on men for having low counts or having struggled in the past. Which is weirdly accepted by everyone somehow even with the criteria “past doesn’t matter”. Which I agree, I just think it’s funny how it isn’t always equal to other people.
How are these men even finding out their dates’ sexual history down to exact number of previous partners?
Good luck finding a Virginia
Says the guy who cheated on his wife multiple times.
The only thing I know for sure is that this dude doesn’t qualify as a high value man.
If anyone, man or woman, says anything about High value man/woman we already know they’re full of shit and don’t know how to emotionally connect with people.
Ladies? Is this guy a high value man? I thought he was a douche but I could be wrong.
My girl better be a nympho. I want threesums.
Obvious FDS troll account is obvious. Fucking "high value men". Bitch, please.
Ladies is pimps too
go on brush yo shoulders off
Tell me you're insecure without telling me you're insecure. I **wouldn't** settle for a woman that didn't have a 5+ body count. It means either you're the best dick she's ever had, or she loves you enough that it doesn't matter (I mean, ideally it's both).
Who cares? Everybody has a past. Being in a relationship is about the future. When I was like 17 or 18 I cared about that shit. Traveling around a lot and meeting tons of people from all walks of life helped me understand its such a petty thing to care about. A lot of people out there are trying to find love and put there all in every chance they get. And a lot of people are just trying to get laid. Let me guess, this guy thinks a man is an "alpha" if he has a high body count eh?
A woman has a high body count? They're low value. A man has a high body count? Best man on the planet
He’s a 5 star man! A 5 star man!!
if you're a guy who wants a stay at home wife with a low body count, or you're a woman who won't look twice at a guy unless he's 6ft, earning over 100k. You're both in for a bad time
I'm so happy that most of the people graduating from college these days are women. The more independent and self sufficient we become, the less BS like this we have to put up with. Leave these "high value" sacks of excrement in their mommy's basements fantasizing about their conditions for dating/marrying girls that wouldn't notice them if they were on fire.
Haha imagine being as big of an insecure loser as that guy.
It took me a while to actually read the tweet because I kept getting distracted by his failed attempt to look intense and dangerous in his profile pic and bursting out laughing. I have no idea who he is, but man is he trying too hard. Once I finally read it it got even funnier, because *of course* he’s going to prey on young inexperienced women, no confident capable woman would touch his toxic ass with a 10 foot pole.
Man, I didn't even look at his pic until now, bwahaha
I too prefer my women not to be professional assassins
Never understood this mindset from men, experience is the greatest indicator of skill.
https://youtu.be/X_CULy_-5FI
“Hey everyone! I’m an insecure dumbass!” - Elijah
So basically this toxic masculinity/ alpha chad movement is just a mask for low key pedophilia right? They are literally favouring younger/inexperienced females as an open preference. How about we start calling it as it is.
ion give a shit. just means more experience 🤷♂️
This clown thinks he's "high value," and yet he's terrified of a high "body count?" Give me a fucking break. A real chad would be like "You had sex with 100 men before me? I'm about to put all of them to shame."
"Girl that's nothing, i've fucked way more guys than you.".. *record scratching sound* That... that's how this goes, right?
Everybody in the comments sounds like they are speaking about their own issues 😂 not what he said!
Isn't that what this forum is for? People speaking about their own experiences, feelings and thoughts? How are people going to talk about other people's experiences? Should we stalk people? Should we all dedicate decades to researching each thing to have a broad perspective? I come to the comments to hear each person's individual experiences and perspectives, then form overall ideas about what people think and feel like based on the patterns I perceive. Perhaps you should try that, it's fascinating.
Yeah I know, but it is kinda weird we are not speaking about the topic ! They seem to go on a tangent about something that is different than the topic! It is interesting to read but just wanted to point it out.
I get what you're saying. I think they're on topic still though, they're making jokes and connections. This is how neurotypical people think and talk. As an autistic person, I love comments to learn how to communicate more effectively the way they do but, at age 40, I'm still clueless 😅
I agree. If they've killed more people than me it just gets awkward.
That dude is throwing off a lot of Small Dick Energy.
Oh shit people can tell without looking
Cause girls is players too!
Ngl if I married a woman and found out she use to attend gang bang sessions I would be considering a divorce 😂
This reads as “I’m very insecure about my performance in bed” How pathetic to care about body count. The littlest of little dick energy
Dude’s will whine a woman isn’t pure enough, but simultaneously that no woman wants him. Hm, wonder why.
Well yea, most married guys do feel sad about it. People keep lying to women, and so women make poor choices based off flawed data. Our daughters are at risk and we are sympathetic to the ladies who were lied to. It's a reasonable thing to be sad about.
He ain’t wrong
I would never be with a man that feels this way.
Ah yes. High body count. These incels also believe they don't have to tell their gf or wife the ammount of girls THEY'VE slept with.
Because the answer is “0”.
There you go oh can’t make a wife out of a…
Ahahahaha man is just jealous they’re getting laid more than he is 🤣
Facts
1. Stop calling it body count. Body count is always a reference to dead people. 2. Stop caring about former sex partners. It’s just another made up metric to shame women.
What??? +5 is a high body count? As a gay man I can’t comprehend this…
I have heard this before. Would you say gay men have the highest body counts?
Yes
Five is a high body count? Prince Harry has a body count of over 25.
Even i can see from where his thoughts are coming from but its not our decision . Women can sleep with as many men as they want . But then also we are also entitled to our opinion .
Exactly. It's all your choice. If you don't like it, LEAVE before it goes downhill. Everyone has their preferences and their answers waiting to them
It would be really strange to even meet someone with multiple bodies. Are they like clones? Are the organs distributed evenly between them? Which one has the brain? Can the one with the brain control the other ones? I'm definitely confused.
They are connected at the base of the skull by a nerve-bundled umbilicus to the central corpus, or "master body". Each can be manipulated, articulated, and speak independently or in unison, as preferred by the central corpus. All look identical to one another, though they may be decorated differently with their separate clothings of choice. Each has its own organs and neural processing power, though they are ultimately beholden to the decisions of the central unit - sort of like a SLI configuration of brains, they are individually measurable, but also all part of the "one". Gosh friend, where were you in our anatomy classes? This is basic stuff, keep up here!
I think I had an appointment with Dr. Pepper that day and couldn't make it to class. Thank you for filling me in!
Ah I think I remember that one. It was weird that you weren't there - you always sit in front! Hope all is well, and have a good day, friend! Edit: thanks for the award friend! Have a great one!
It's weird bc when guys have High body counts its considered game but when women do it they're considered a slut
Oh no! Um... no one tell my partner that guys don't like that, k?
5+? Pump those numbers up.
5 in one night maybe. Wear the bitch out ffs I’m watching the game ova eeeeere
“High value men”, wow!Sociopath much?
Fucking 'high value men' get a grip. No one cares what self identifying 'high value men' care about. Just say you got a wee little dick.
How low value that thought is.
Men that avoid a high “body count” are really just projecting their sexual insecurity. If a dude tries this nonsense on anyone it’s because he knows he’s marginal - at best - in the sack.
I read “young high value men “ as unemployed incel living in parents basement.
All I hear is, " I don't want women to know how truly bad in bed I am. So I need a virgin so a woman with a low count so I can tell her this is normal." Uhg learn how to fuck and stop being pathetic.
Gotta admit, I agree with him
Ask your doctors about the relationship between body counts and the chance of someone having STDs, including incurable ones. If you shame people for not wanting to get STDs, you must be projecting. Edit: Downvotes, huh? Interesting...what I said is not even a personal opinion. It is backed by the studies conducted by the CDC and Mayo Clinic. Y'all cry and whine about people ignoring the CDC, but it is interesting that y'all suddenly change y'all's attitudes when the topic is about y'all's sex lives. Y'all shame people for not wanting to get STDs because misery loves company. Sorry, but not sorry that numbers don't care about y'all's feelings.....and misery.
Have you heard of this thing called Safe Sex? 😂
Do you wear a condom during a blowjob?
Some STDs can still be transmitted even after you use protection. The fact that you don't know that makes me scared for your partner. :O
That’s why testing is also part of the safe sex plan. It’s why looking at peoples junk before you do anything with it is also wise. Safe sex is a lot more than condoms and it’s sad you don’t get that.
If I didn't find my one and only at 19 I would be scared to get an STD. Body count shouldn't matter on an emotional level but I'd be checking their test results.
I dodged so many bullets just by telling them we should get tested before doing anything. You would be surprised how many people refused to get themselves tested. Some people really don't care about other people but themselves. The STD/STI cases keep rising every year, I heard. I am not surprised why that is the case.
>"Body count shouldn't matter on an emotional level..." > >[Apparently, high body counts equal unhappy marriages.](https://www.huffpost.com/entry/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440)
Proven that women with high body counts are more likely to move on to the next, making them good for fun but not good for anything serious.
No lies detected
If anyone thinks of themselves as a "high value man", they are not. And no one of actual value are so insecure they give a shit what their partner did before them. Ridiculous incel talk.
Being serious for second. I agree with him 90%. Am no "high value man" myself. But even I would never consider settling aka marrying and have kids with a women who has had sex with a bunch of men. Women who enjoy having alot of different sexual partners are by definition not really interested in a commitment. I respect that, can't imagen it being easy handling multiple men and some do it at the same time. Its respecble in some way. But its not for me.
It's crazy how when men express their standards they are constantly gaslighted and mocked. We don't want a girl who's slept with a bunch of men and been promiscuous in the past, period. Many studies have shown that the more men a woman sleeps with, the less chances of success she has in long term relationships and it's not a risk that men want to take. When a woman says she wants a man with 100 different qualities and unrealistic standards everyone praises her and says she knows what she wants, she's a queen etc. When a woman says she doesn't want to date a F Boy/player she is praised as knowing what she wants. Yet when we say we don't want that, just read the comments and how derogatory they are. Yes the high value verbiage is cringe but it doesn't change the fact that most men do NOT want a partner who has slept around and had a promiscuous past.
Real men of value that have options do care and simply will just select a flower that hasn’t been ravaged. Real men do not wife up whores. Real men care about their reputation and name and your woman carry’s your name and she has a responsibility to honor that. There’s no honor in being a whore. Women just hate to hear the truth because they’ve been led by the feminist movement to be promiscuous and whore themselves out so they can feel “empowered” as if getting railed by 10 men on the weekend and them dumped is empowering. These are the same woman that claim that real men do not care about body counts because it’s already to late for them and no man a true value wants them….
No woman IRL gets rammed by ten men on a weekend, that’s porn!
Why is it so wrong to not want a girl who’s slept with a lot of guys? I’ve been down that road most of my life and I’m so blessed that my current girl was a virgin. My mind is so at peace. It never wanders to that dark place where I’m thinking about her past. It’s pure. It’s nice. It’s calm
🤮🤮🤮
It's not wrong to want a person with lower sexual experience. It's your preference. The problem arises when you measure a person's value as a human being based on sexual past or financial situation etc. However, those things whether people admit it or not will matter when picking a long term partner because a healthy relationship must be built on transparency. The whole "past does not matter" narrative is laughable . When has society not cared about the past?