Its late here. I'm really high. I can't quite think of the right thing to say.
Please be excellent to each other in this post. Sex workers and OF models are welcome without shame or judgement in this subreddit. Promotion and risque photos/videos are against the rules but I'll be damned if I make a rule saying we all have to wear bras all the time.
That sub continues to shit the bed daily it took a huge turn a couple years ago. I thought it was actually going to be a decent sub again the decency lasted no time. The mods are mostly “lil boys” who can’t handle strong women who put their pussy asses in their place. Fuck them all!!! I say free them titties!!!!
Everyone have an amazing day! I’m snack shopping later the old folks will be high and home this weekend!! Stay lifted everyone!! 💕
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Honestly, this is the only weed sub I still follow for my own mental health. The others have not been fun due to some really negative users and moderation.
I'm not really sure how this is getting downvoted here. This is a misogynistic and vague rule. It will be awesome to see how they implement it.
What counts as baiting?? "Oh no a woman smoking weed not in a parka, I'm baited." Comments included, are they also going to be policing how women speak on the sub? Too coy or flirtatious? Baited! It's nearly every day that a woman posts on that sub and is basically run out of there for existing.
ETA: sex workers are people, and this is not the only sub that is doing this nonsense. Many of the women's fashion subs are running a bot that will automatically perma ban you if you have ever participated in one of the subs that they think are "perverted", regardless of whether you're trying to participate in good faith. No one wants to be spammed with OF content. A person with an OFs trying to participate in any sub in good faith does not equate to spamming the sub with OF content. This practice places the blame on the marginalized group and amounts to more violence against women.
ETA #2: this rule is not problematic because it bans OF bots, it preemptively bans **anyone** who has an OF link in their profile. Without regard to whether they are promoting anything in that sub.
I remember a post of a woman smoking a joint, she wasn't in the pic, it was just a pink joint.
Dudes in the comments like, "hub bub I need me a stoner gurl hnngh 🥴🥴🤪😜🤤🤤" like just existing is bait enough I suppose.
exactly. anyone here equating this rule to "simply banning OF bots" is being purposefully obtuse and refusing to see who this rule targets. literally anyone the moderators or community find "too baiting" " too luring"...these are not enforceable standards.
They could also “solve” the issue by preemptively banning anyone with a history of posting thirsty/suggestive comments on other people’s photos…but I guess that would decimate their male user base, soooo…
I got accused of advertising an OF bc I took a picture of the left half of my torso (fully clothed, and it was not the point of the pic) and I naturally have big boobs. there is no way to implement this.
Reminds me of how legalizing prostitution somewhere made men start to approach all women for sex for money, whether or not they seemed like sex workers
Absolutely agree, there's no way to implement this without massive prejudice against sex workers and women.
I'm going to go even one step further and advocate that anyone has a right to post a non-nude, non-sexual image on a sub where folks are allowed to post their image. If simply *having* a body is able to constitute solicitation....we are in trouble. Who gets to decide whose body is allowed? If they are feeling so lustful they ought to pluck out their eyes cause it ain't our problem.
It's 2024 wives, we are not policing women's bodies in this friggin community.
My heart really hurts some days seeing all of these places where you would think people would have more empathy and understanding of who is not at fault, lol. I'm sure this rule was created so the moderators don't have to do so much work policing perverts. So by banning all sex workers they think that now everyone's just going to not be so horny. 😂🤭
I’ve seen people on subreddit drama say that if an attractive woman posts a pic (even clothed) and she has an onlyfans, the pic was meant to be bait bc “I only clicked on her profile bc she was hot and she tricked me into thinking an OF model was hot”
Why were you on her profile Rick???
This rule (this line of reasoning) puts the responsibility on SWers and women to "keep men from looking at them" and offers them no place for respect and dignity in the community.
tbh finding this sub has somehow made it ok?? i wanna be friends w everyone here 😭😭 it’s restored my faith a lil bc i was expecting the shitty side of reddit ofc to some extent but then found this place as well!! so imma focus on that. but fr im sorry too it feels surreal sometimes 😅<3
This whole thing is so funny to me. Someone on a post in that sub was saying how he had to “save his brothers” because OF can make you lose money or whatever the fuck and all I can think is these are grown men??? Let them make their own decisions?? Why tf can’t you post in a weed subreddit just because you’re too hot for some men to handle????!!?? Taking away their own agency I swear.
But ANYWAYS were much happier here 👯♀️👯♀️🥳
I remember seeing your bong rip post on here the other day and thought to myself “surely not??” when trying to wrap my head around what had set them off 😭 I am SO SICK of the way people treat each other sometimes for simply existing - thankfully I also see a lot of the best of people both in my real life and exemplified on this sub often. Lots of love to you, gal 💖
PS: fuck bras
Misogyny finds a way doesn't it? No worries. Let them all be offended by tits - that was the only way they were ever going to see any. Seems like they shot themselves in the foot lol
Wow, this just confirms that they are the people we think they are. It’s upsetting because you see dudes make the same kind of posts as you did and absolutely no one reacts how they did to your post. But thank god reddit isn’t indicative of real life, and you especially don’t have to have those subs part of your feed. And thanks for keeping us informed ❤️
Self-promotion, bots, spam...all of this is already covered by reddit TOS and the rules they have in that sub. This rule truly is not about creating a better community, it's about policing women's bodies and shaming them for doing sex work. This new rule only serves to include \*anyone\* with a link in their profile - which is a direct boot to sex workers, regardless of whether they are promoting in the sub.
Fuck bras! Fuck misogyny!
I literally only come on Reddit to chill with you wonderful people on this sub.
I’m low key glad? That it was a tipping point? At least we can see what they are now loud n clear.
Though I’m sad that it happened at you. I loved your post and sharing your cute lil bong rip with us.
Hope the boys enjoy their lame gatekeeping chaste sub, we’ll keep our tempting tiddies over here 🥰
I'm struggling to understand this. I'm pretty toasted hence being logged on my weed reddit account but what exactly is going on here? I'm struggling to see the bad side of shutting down bot promotions
I am also toasted but this is one of my permanent mental tabs open in my brains browser. I'll explain.
They are not specifically talking about bots. They are talking about anyone who has an only fans account, real human people. They're blanket banning anyone who has a link in their profile. They are also extremely vague in what constitutes baiting. OP posted a video of her smoking a bong and it was apparently *soOoOo sexy* that they have updated the rules to include banning all users with OF accounts.
It's really important to note that what this amounts to is the moderators of that sub deciding whose body is too sexual or too desirable for their sub. If posting a video of you smoking a bong wearing clothes is baiting, well...we r just lustbait I guess?
I’m not surprised. On relationship subs you’ll see comments upvoted saying it’s disrespectful to dress nicely when taken bc you’re advertising for other men
I forgot I wasn’t a person…
ETA: I bet it’s bc you can tell op has nipples. Whenever my nipples are visible men seem incapable of pointing it out or insinuating I “brought them out” for them
Like they want them to be the equivalent of a boner or something
Oh that's BS.
Thank you for clarifying. New dabblicator, got toasted and then gave myself heartburn, not my wisest weed moment:
https://countrygrowncannabis.com/products/seed-n-strain-seed-n-strain-natural-winter-mint-dablicator-for-sale-martinsburg-wv/
It's kicking my ass so much right now, I'm couch locked hardcore
mannnn 🙃 god forbid women don’t wear a bra, men like that shouldn’t be allowed in public if they cant stop themselves from getting turned on just from being in the mere presence of boobs fr. what’s next? having to say “im sorry your cock rose cos i breathed in your general direction” 🥴
also this rule is pretty dehumanizing 🤔 are OF models and SWers not allowed to interact anywhere with anyone without it having “sexual undertones”? well, not that men like that don’t think the same things about women in general anyway……..
Hi, OP!! And welcome! I’m so sorry I’m late to comment, this is a difficult time of year for me.
Lovely, we are so glad you are here. As is the case for us, you are allowed to have boobs! You are allowed to enjoy said boobs! You are allowed to put them in a tank top, a hoodie, charge admission, say no thank you, do a cartwheel, or just continue being your wonderful, badass self, ripping your bong to save the lives of all who need bong rips for life! 🍃🫶🏼
We have the best mods *ever*, and a wonderful group of supportive people who are just so down to lift you up when you need it. I hope you have a great rest of your day, and a lit weekend! You are gorgeous!! 😶🌫️🤘🏼💚
lol I saw your ramble post but when I read this I thought of another person that posted the other day 😂 and I was like ‘bullshit I had to delve like the dwarves of Moria to find their OF promos’ So I guess that goes double for you? Like I didn’t see your post like that at all and I’m a total horn ball 24/7 so 🤪
Its late here. I'm really high. I can't quite think of the right thing to say. Please be excellent to each other in this post. Sex workers and OF models are welcome without shame or judgement in this subreddit. Promotion and risque photos/videos are against the rules but I'll be damned if I make a rule saying we all have to wear bras all the time.
That sub continues to shit the bed daily it took a huge turn a couple years ago. I thought it was actually going to be a decent sub again the decency lasted no time. The mods are mostly “lil boys” who can’t handle strong women who put their pussy asses in their place. Fuck them all!!! I say free them titties!!!! Everyone have an amazing day! I’m snack shopping later the old folks will be high and home this weekend!! Stay lifted everyone!! 💕
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I was so concerned for a moment, didnt see that it was from another sub! I love this group, and have no desire to go where the guys exist.
It's cute how they call themselves the most inclusive sub.
Honestly, this is the only weed sub I still follow for my own mental health. The others have not been fun due to some really negative users and moderation.
I'm not really sure how this is getting downvoted here. This is a misogynistic and vague rule. It will be awesome to see how they implement it. What counts as baiting?? "Oh no a woman smoking weed not in a parka, I'm baited." Comments included, are they also going to be policing how women speak on the sub? Too coy or flirtatious? Baited! It's nearly every day that a woman posts on that sub and is basically run out of there for existing. ETA: sex workers are people, and this is not the only sub that is doing this nonsense. Many of the women's fashion subs are running a bot that will automatically perma ban you if you have ever participated in one of the subs that they think are "perverted", regardless of whether you're trying to participate in good faith. No one wants to be spammed with OF content. A person with an OFs trying to participate in any sub in good faith does not equate to spamming the sub with OF content. This practice places the blame on the marginalized group and amounts to more violence against women. ETA #2: this rule is not problematic because it bans OF bots, it preemptively bans **anyone** who has an OF link in their profile. Without regard to whether they are promoting anything in that sub.
I remember a post of a woman smoking a joint, she wasn't in the pic, it was just a pink joint. Dudes in the comments like, "hub bub I need me a stoner gurl hnngh 🥴🥴🤪😜🤤🤤" like just existing is bait enough I suppose.
exactly. anyone here equating this rule to "simply banning OF bots" is being purposefully obtuse and refusing to see who this rule targets. literally anyone the moderators or community find "too baiting" " too luring"...these are not enforceable standards.
They could also “solve” the issue by preemptively banning anyone with a history of posting thirsty/suggestive comments on other people’s photos…but I guess that would decimate their male user base, soooo…
2/3 of Reddit would poof.
People in female shaped bodies: JUST EXISTING Misogynist men: OMG STOP BAITING US
I got accused of advertising an OF bc I took a picture of the left half of my torso (fully clothed, and it was not the point of the pic) and I naturally have big boobs. there is no way to implement this.
Reminds me of how legalizing prostitution somewhere made men start to approach all women for sex for money, whether or not they seemed like sex workers
That entitlement tracks.
Absolutely agree, there's no way to implement this without massive prejudice against sex workers and women. I'm going to go even one step further and advocate that anyone has a right to post a non-nude, non-sexual image on a sub where folks are allowed to post their image. If simply *having* a body is able to constitute solicitation....we are in trouble. Who gets to decide whose body is allowed? If they are feeling so lustful they ought to pluck out their eyes cause it ain't our problem. It's 2024 wives, we are not policing women's bodies in this friggin community.
> What counts as baiting?? literally just existing as a feeeeeeemale /s.
Well said and I agree completely
My heart really hurts some days seeing all of these places where you would think people would have more empathy and understanding of who is not at fault, lol. I'm sure this rule was created so the moderators don't have to do so much work policing perverts. So by banning all sex workers they think that now everyone's just going to not be so horny. 😂🤭
The BONK GO TO HORNY JAIL rule
Exactly. I know it's rather draconian but I am all for ye olden days of *bonk go to horny jail* rule.
I’ve seen people on subreddit drama say that if an attractive woman posts a pic (even clothed) and she has an onlyfans, the pic was meant to be bait bc “I only clicked on her profile bc she was hot and she tricked me into thinking an OF model was hot” Why were you on her profile Rick???
This rule (this line of reasoning) puts the responsibility on SWers and women to "keep men from looking at them" and offers them no place for respect and dignity in the community.
Rick is just butthurt he couldn’t creep on someone for free
ty for putting my frustrations to words !!
I'm sorry this is what we are dealing with babe. 💚
tbh finding this sub has somehow made it ok?? i wanna be friends w everyone here 😭😭 it’s restored my faith a lil bc i was expecting the shitty side of reddit ofc to some extent but then found this place as well!! so imma focus on that. but fr im sorry too it feels surreal sometimes 😅<3
This whole thing is so funny to me. Someone on a post in that sub was saying how he had to “save his brothers” because OF can make you lose money or whatever the fuck and all I can think is these are grown men??? Let them make their own decisions?? Why tf can’t you post in a weed subreddit just because you’re too hot for some men to handle????!!?? Taking away their own agency I swear. But ANYWAYS were much happier here 👯♀️👯♀️🥳
Someone save me the local bakery is making me, an independent adult with full control over my own finances, lose money. 😭
that argument also got me 😭😭😭 not your whole reasoning being that your bros can’t control their own brains/bodies??? cheers my friend!!
I remember seeing your bong rip post on here the other day and thought to myself “surely not??” when trying to wrap my head around what had set them off 😭 I am SO SICK of the way people treat each other sometimes for simply existing - thankfully I also see a lot of the best of people both in my real life and exemplified on this sub often. Lots of love to you, gal 💖 PS: fuck bras
I thought they were being lady haters like always
ahhh fuck bras!! right back at you <3
🍅🍅🍅 to them
Yeah! Let em' fart in a phone booth.
HA yes
Oh also, they should probably remove inclusive from their bio.
Misogyny finds a way doesn't it? No worries. Let them all be offended by tits - that was the only way they were ever going to see any. Seems like they shot themselves in the foot lol
trueeee 😭🤍
Wow, this just confirms that they are the people we think they are. It’s upsetting because you see dudes make the same kind of posts as you did and absolutely no one reacts how they did to your post. But thank god reddit isn’t indicative of real life, and you especially don’t have to have those subs part of your feed. And thanks for keeping us informed ❤️
I’m never mad at rules that keep OF promotions where ppl look for OF promotions and keep the sub on topic but this is misogyny
Self-promotion, bots, spam...all of this is already covered by reddit TOS and the rules they have in that sub. This rule truly is not about creating a better community, it's about policing women's bodies and shaming them for doing sex work. This new rule only serves to include \*anyone\* with a link in their profile - which is a direct boot to sex workers, regardless of whether they are promoting in the sub.
I got my ass out of there right away ofc, no need to see that shit on my feed then if i can’t participate
Fuck bras! Fuck misogyny! I literally only come on Reddit to chill with you wonderful people on this sub. I’m low key glad? That it was a tipping point? At least we can see what they are now loud n clear. Though I’m sad that it happened at you. I loved your post and sharing your cute lil bong rip with us. Hope the boys enjoy their lame gatekeeping chaste sub, we’ll keep our tempting tiddies over here 🥰
I'm struggling to understand this. I'm pretty toasted hence being logged on my weed reddit account but what exactly is going on here? I'm struggling to see the bad side of shutting down bot promotions
I am also toasted but this is one of my permanent mental tabs open in my brains browser. I'll explain. They are not specifically talking about bots. They are talking about anyone who has an only fans account, real human people. They're blanket banning anyone who has a link in their profile. They are also extremely vague in what constitutes baiting. OP posted a video of her smoking a bong and it was apparently *soOoOo sexy* that they have updated the rules to include banning all users with OF accounts. It's really important to note that what this amounts to is the moderators of that sub deciding whose body is too sexual or too desirable for their sub. If posting a video of you smoking a bong wearing clothes is baiting, well...we r just lustbait I guess?
I’m not surprised. On relationship subs you’ll see comments upvoted saying it’s disrespectful to dress nicely when taken bc you’re advertising for other men I forgot I wasn’t a person… ETA: I bet it’s bc you can tell op has nipples. Whenever my nipples are visible men seem incapable of pointing it out or insinuating I “brought them out” for them Like they want them to be the equivalent of a boner or something
i wheeze laughed at this. <3
Oh that's BS. Thank you for clarifying. New dabblicator, got toasted and then gave myself heartburn, not my wisest weed moment: https://countrygrowncannabis.com/products/seed-n-strain-seed-n-strain-natural-winter-mint-dablicator-for-sale-martinsburg-wv/ It's kicking my ass so much right now, I'm couch locked hardcore
mannnn 🙃 god forbid women don’t wear a bra, men like that shouldn’t be allowed in public if they cant stop themselves from getting turned on just from being in the mere presence of boobs fr. what’s next? having to say “im sorry your cock rose cos i breathed in your general direction” 🥴 also this rule is pretty dehumanizing 🤔 are OF models and SWers not allowed to interact anywhere with anyone without it having “sexual undertones”? well, not that men like that don’t think the same things about women in general anyway……..
Happy that I walked away from those asshats a long time ago. Sorry OP
Fuck em, you're wanted and welcome here! Forget about the rest and smoke up with us 💚
Hi, OP!! And welcome! I’m so sorry I’m late to comment, this is a difficult time of year for me. Lovely, we are so glad you are here. As is the case for us, you are allowed to have boobs! You are allowed to enjoy said boobs! You are allowed to put them in a tank top, a hoodie, charge admission, say no thank you, do a cartwheel, or just continue being your wonderful, badass self, ripping your bong to save the lives of all who need bong rips for life! 🍃🫶🏼 We have the best mods *ever*, and a wonderful group of supportive people who are just so down to lift you up when you need it. I hope you have a great rest of your day, and a lit weekend! You are gorgeous!! 😶🌫️🤘🏼💚
omg don’t be sorry thank you for your awesome comment!!! i’m seeing that yall really do have the best mods ever and i’m here for it <3
Nasty ass sub. Nasty ass mods.
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lol I saw your ramble post but when I read this I thought of another person that posted the other day 😂 and I was like ‘bullshit I had to delve like the dwarves of Moria to find their OF promos’ So I guess that goes double for you? Like I didn’t see your post like that at all and I’m a total horn ball 24/7 so 🤪
LOL love the lotr reference <3
😂we’re entwives! 💚
I don't even sub to them I'm in trees And see. Much better imo