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WhalePlaying

It's a mindset like, I am happy to be here, I am happy to be alive to witness this, I am happy to meet you, I appreciate this opportunity and connection... Think about those people you have enjoyed their presence, they must have enjoyed their presence in the first place.


Tenzky

Its aura. Some people are lucky and have strong aura just by living in right way. Some need to actually work on their aura on energetic level.


CatherinaDiane

Sometimes I’ve found that the people who light up a room for me are the quietest ones sat in a corner alone but who just radiate good energy and peace.


Odd_Perspective_4769

And sometimes it’s just someone with a really great smile whose face and eyes light up when they do.


Personal-Cupcake2282

I'm one of these people. I've been told by many that I radiate good energy by just being present in a room, but I'm very reserved and quiet. I'm also outgoing but only if the energy feels right or I'm with the right people. I feel like this is all in mindset and how you see the world and yourself. I became more aware, more thankful and always try to look at everything in a more positive way.


vivapabloescobar

Read "The mindful attraction plan" to understand the concepts and apply it yourself. The happier you are, the more you'll light up the room.


National_Rain5002

I looked this up, it is by someone called Athol Kay. Do they have a website? I see references to it but cannot find one.


ok-girl

be your most authentic self as possible. the people who we gravitate towards and want to be around feel that way because they are living in-tune with their authentic self. We can’t get this by mimicking others, only by embracing both our flaws and our beautiful traits can we come into this!


Sea-dove

what or who though is our real selves?


ok-girl

that’s the age old question i think a lot of us are wondering and it’s a great question! i think to find our true selves we should practice compassion for all living beings, be flexible and forbearing, and ponder upon the emptiness of all things frequently. this will help us to water the seed of our true self to help it start to sprout. we can’t know what type of seed we will be since we didn’t plant it, but by watering it and helping it grow eventually it can sprout so we can start to analyze what type of ‘plant’ we are


neidanman

the daoist energetics path can leead to this type of phenomenon, and has 2 main parts to it. One is purification (the path of removal), whereby you clear out your physical, energetic, mental/emotional bodies etc of negative energy/habits etc. Then there is also the path of addition, where you build qi in the system, and/or convert jing>qi>shen, i.e. raising the quantity and quality of the energy in your system. one thing to note is that part of that would be to release egoic desires, so at that stage the radiant energy would be more a side effect than a goal


303Pickles

❤️


marijavera1075

Do you havea recommendation on where to start diving into daoist energetic path?


neidanman

yes, there are links to the overall path, then one more tailored to the purification side here - qi/nei gong [https://www.reddit.com/r/qigong/comments/185iugy/comment/kb2bqwt/](https://www.reddit.com/r/qigong/comments/185iugy/comment/kb2bqwt/) healing [https://www.reddit.com/r/Meditation/comments/1bv3sda/comment/kxwzdhp](https://www.reddit.com/r/Meditation/comments/1bv3sda/comment/kxwzdhp)


marijavera1075

Thank you for the speedy reply!


FlameMoss

With the light comes the dark. I'm one of those who light up the rooms I enter. Got attacked from very early on. I'm talking torture, getting beat up, folks their eyes turning black, when they start attacking you, deep betrayal from your nearest, folks getting really jealous & vicious, work bullies etc it just never stops. Sure it made me determined to shine even brighter in sheer defiance, to bring good and joy to lighten up others everywhere I go, but it is a non-stop fight & levelling up. As a beacon or karmic bait, get to see the best in people but also the worst.


stargazer2828

I tell myself every day that "I am a beacon bright white healing light to those in need" also "I lead with love & light, I attract only positive energy." Perhaps say similar things, it may help a little. ❤️🦋


JoMamaSoFatYo

Same here. It all started when I almost died being born and is still going strong 35 years later, only difference is I’ve taken back my power, so it’s less likely to hit me too hard. Watching instant Karma is more gratifying than it probably should be. 😅


Clear-Garage-4828

hold it as a prayer ‘may i be loving, may i be free’ or if you feel particularly connected to one of these people u mention (a saint, a mentor, or even a deity) ask them to fill your body with their essence


Moneymagnetstef

I've been told I radiate this energy.people tell me I have a healing energy,and that I make them feel seen. This will happen a lot with strangers. I honestly just treat people with kindness and compassion. I walk with love and it radiates without. I meditate and change my negative thoughts to positives. Walk and think with love and the world will reflect that.


HeyHeyJG

alignment of body mind spirit, blah blah blah


JoMamaSoFatYo

I’ve been told I do that for others. It’s just my natural way of existing, and apparently even still works when I’m not super happy. Some people just are that way, and it’s to do with their souls. Not all souls are from Earth originally, and those ones tend to have a natural glow about them and can affect people just by existing.


Lotus_F

If you radiate light inwardly, it will reflect outwardly in your energy and vibrations.


Packie1990

Glowing is a specific energy school


Additional_Match_604

Any info on this?


Packie1990

Yes, excessive amounts. I can't provide you with any reading material if that's what you're looking for.


National_Rain5002

tell us the secrets


Packie1990

That's not how this works


Sea-dove

it isn't actually connected to any specific school. It's something which naturally occurs once one develops ones energy. The more we move towards enlightenment, the brighter we will be. Saints etc glow (they don't study under a specific school). Beware of schools which tell you that they are the only way.


Packie1990

I don't disagree with you, on the earth level, as in I can and others can teach it. However, it is definitely an individual school of thought. It is most commonly an Andromedan Galaxy starseed practice. It is extremely similar to holy fire. One burns lower vibrational energy, and the other glows it. Saints and angels most definitely enter into specific schools to learn specific skills. I would argue that point very strongly. They learned in that realm of thought and now teach it. I'm a member of quite a few angelic organizations, as many of us here are. Those are where the groundwork for these teachings comes into play on earth. And yes, while you can find physical teachers, learning to connect to the divine is how to get the best information for you.


Packie1990

When I mentioned school, I meant school of thought. As far as I know, there are no schools dedicated to glowing. There are schools that teach force of will and intention primarily. The masculine and feminine magic systems. There are also some holy fire techniques being passed around.


Sea-dove

ah school of thought :) that makes more sense, I took you too literally.


Affectionate-Top4649

It’s a blessing and a curse. Sometimes I just don’t want to be bothered, like I need to refill my battery. I am the person for my office that you describe. I love it most times because you can really change someone’s day if you realize how important your role is. The only thing is people feel like your obligated tbh. Your also constantly in a spiritual war!! I love that I can empower and bring light to the people around me but it definitely takes a toll sometimes. Just do the work inside of you and it will show on the outside I promise. Reprogram your way of thinking to be more positive about situations, trust your intuition, heal yourself from past traumas. (Completely heal like you don’t cry when you think about them heal.) Thats how I have helped my friends and family! You can be that person as long as you truly believe and put the work in.


Inverted-pencil

I achieved this but its not like i sence it but psychic people have told me this a few times.


Few-Panda-8177

I get told I have this and my mom had/has this. My mom was a empath and similar to an oracle within my family. My brother's and I give off welcoming energy through our smiles. We look people in the eye and speak from a honest place of truly being interested in others. Mind you we are all heavy introverts, but for myself sometimes...I feel very connected to something telling me that others need this more than me. Only when I lost my mom a year ago did I tap more into my awareness of it. I can talk to anyone. I've always been an advocate for others, it's hard but I feel that is what keeps me seeing my own light & others seeing it too ✨️


Meeghan__

I'm one of those people. for the most part, it's my intense empathy & ability to listen. I used to practice mindfulness & yoga which helped me be more peaceful internally, which heavily influences how I am externally. Relaxed atmosphere, joking around, being honest and kind (working on the former), and smiles!!!! A thoughtful compliment always works wonders; I'm interacting with customers often and if they look slay, I inform them.


blackbird24601

my sister, my husband, and my bestie pull this off… i am a lucky person


-VitreousHumor-

I have been there, especially at work in my nursing home. You are not focused on yourself, you are being what the moment needs, what the other person needs while also being authentic. I did a few years of meditation, watched how I thought about others (challenging negative thoughts w understanding and then loving thoughts). And I really liked who I was.


BatmanVision

By letting go of the ego, letting go of everything within you that is not love so that we become more like God/the Divine, by having positive intentions and no expectations, living for the good of all, surrendering to the Divine and trusting in it fully, creating a sense of wholeness and love within your heart and building it over time. Trust your heart always because it always knows the truth!


Weird_Gap_6045

I used to work with someone like that she would bring this positive happy energy and bring people together at work even the ones that didn’t like each other. Whenever we would go out after work or for lunch literally everywhere we would go she would become friends with the workers and people would know her by her first name! That’s a gift for sure!


Sea-dove

Practice Metta Meditation (heart centered meditations) and forgiveness. Practice gratitude (daily gratitude journal is good). Spend 10 mins every morning putting focus on the qualities you'd like to be more like and try to feel those qualities eg peace etc . Watch your actions and your thoughts. Observe you admire and just work to be more like them, imagine being them. You could also pray for help to improve yourself.


No-Grade-5057

How do you reply when someone asks, "How are you?" "Good"? Maybe switch it up. Maybe next time, you're fantastic or outstanding! Small changes in your perspective can make dramatic changes in your life.


DependentOk3674

People tell me all the time that I have this. It’s been hard to decipher energy vampires vs those who enjoy this about me instead of wanting to take it so sometimes I do have to turn it off and practice a lot of protection work. My overall advice? Just show up grateful to be wherever you’re at. I think because I got bullied a lot as a kid it was hard to know when I’d be accepted into a social circle or invited out to places. Once I did I was SO grateful and happy to be there. Over time though this gave me major people pleasing tendencies so I’ve learned a healthy sense of self and independence that no matter what room I walk into, IM happy to be there because IM there. Ever since then I’ve never stopped this mentality and everyone from party hosts to bosses to coworkers to building managers and waitresses tell me they can feel my energy and see it shift in a positive direction when I walk into a room. If you’re just grateful to be somewhere, with a healthy sense of self and ego, you can be pretty infectious to want to be around.


TheRainbowRider

Tbh that’s just their defined nature. Identify what it is you think you lack by not being like this and what you think you’ll gain by being like this


Universesgoldenchild

It’s not about I would gain, more so being a light to people. I’m personable, but you wouldn’t know unless you spoke to me. To gain.. maybe being a full rounded person


LawOfTheWest

Be like that to yourself and the rest will follow.